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How should a Bull Male Profile stand out
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"Having been on Fab for many years I often wonder why my profile hasn’t attracted more attention
What are the things cuckold couples look for?"
Take a read of your profile and ask yourself whether it actually tells anyone a great deal about you or really shows your interest in the cuckold lifestyle? If you answer anything but no, then you might want to think again.
There's one line that mentions cuckolding and even then in passing.
The rest is almost like you are trying to justify yourself to the reader - saying things like "been here before but got hacked" will be taken by many as a "line" to make it *sound* like you're experienced - not saying you weren't here before and weren't successful but that is how a lot of people will read it, especially coupled with the lack of interest you mentioned.
The "in the Navy" line similarly doesn't count for a great deal other than to say you were "in the Navy" - just because you were doesn't prove a thing about your appeal in itself.
Apologies if that all sounds harsh but I'd rather give an honest opinion and try to help than mislead you |
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Ours is more a hot wife thing, would prefer more guys actually coming up to me to say they are interested in playing with wife instead of trying it on behind my back, the ones who have approached me were given tips on things she likes and dislikes, which is far better way of getting fun going without any awkward moments  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Standing outings not easy to do I'm a polite kind hearted soul and like to be friendly. Could I be a dom bull for a cuck couple people would think no as I'm to.soft and kind hearted but I can and have before I think its just what people see couples women will make a.judgement call on a profile with out even chatting and I donr blame them there are so many guys claiming to be gods gift on this site that will blow their minds when in fact 80 to 90% of these guys havnt got a clue just be yourself op if it happens it happens. Dont over think things and sont let rejection bother you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my experience honesty and some basic respect is good start.
Rather than opening gambit of "right I'm gonna destroy your wife you worthless cuck" ha ha
It's about talking to both and respecting boundaries but also all 3 of you feeling comfortable enough to push the boundaries when it's the right time
That's my opinion anyway |
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By *..Nemo OP Man
over a year ago
Durham |
It’s amazing how most of the replies to this question are from the southern part of the UK and I’m from the north east.
Anyway thanks for your comments, even the negative ones. If I take on board what you’ve all said, if I don’t put a decent profile together I’m going to jack all this in
THANKS ???? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"It’s amazing how most of the replies to this question are from the southern part of the UK and I’m from the north east.
Anyway thanks for your comments, even the negative ones. If I take on board what you’ve all said, if I don’t put a decent profile together I’m going to jack all this in
THANKS ????"
Not sure what location of those replying has to do with anything?
But your profile is the key for sure - it won't guarantee anything but it will certainly help - whether you jack it in or not is your decision entirely but taking on board, and acting on, some of the very good advice you've been given would be a good place to start if you decide not to.
Your profile is your shop window and you can either decide to dress it attractively and pique peoples interest enough to want to go inside for a look, or make it uninspiring and watch while people pass by for the better dressed one up the road.
Think of it as one of those Raleigh kit musters where you get everything ironed to book size and get the pass out or you get scrubbed and have to spend the weekend doing it again while your mates go ashore  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Didn’t ask how to be a Bull, read the statement. I asked about profile"
same thing... the person in the world who knows you best is you!!!!
so tell people why they should pick you over "a.n.other".....
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In my experience honesty and some basic respect is good start.
Rather than opening gambit of "right I'm gonna destroy your wife you worthless cuck" ha ha
It's about talking to both and respecting boundaries but also all 3 of you feeling comfortable enough to push the boundaries when it's the right time
That's my opinion anyway "
Great answer.Totally agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s amazing how most of the replies to this question are from the southern part of the UK and I’m from the north east.
Anyway thanks for your comments, even the negative ones. If I take on board what you’ve all said, if I don’t put a decent profile together I’m going to jack all this in
THANKS ????"
Now you just sound like a sulky teenager. What has the location of the posted comments got to do with anything ? You asked for oppinions.  |
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