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Anyone after a BF/GF off here after lockdown
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I do well on tinder but not so well on here.
I have had a few amazing meets but would love to find a GF or FB on here to enjoy this swing thing with. Im not looking for marriage or anything massively serious but would be nice to have fun together and with others as well as cosy time doing things together. At least unlike tinder i know i have something major in common that we all on this site enjoy. Is anyone else looking for the same? |
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"Looking for the same. Fun with each other, drinks, nights out, as well as swing together too x"
this is what I'm going to look for x never thought I would but losing my unexpected vanilla relationship has thrown me x
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"Looking for the same. Fun with each other, drinks, nights out, as well as swing together too x this is what I'm going to look for x never thought I would but losing my unexpected vanilla relationship has thrown me x"
Been single for 2 1/2 years now. It's been fun. But I do miss company now and again x |
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"Looking for the same. Fun with each other, drinks, nights out, as well as swing together too x this is what I'm going to look for x never thought I would but losing my unexpected vanilla relationship has thrown me x
Been single for 2 1/2 years now. It's been fun. But I do miss company now and again x"
I'd not had someone stay at my house for 13 years till just before lockdown. Kinda fell into something..realised I wanted it to carry on.. asked him and he had met someone else...  ( had still been at mine and in lockdown with me so no idea how but there we go)
And now I'm finding I miss the company... perhaps its just because I've not got the clubs to fill that gap.. but x |
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"Looking for the same. Fun with each other, drinks, nights out, as well as swing together too x this is what I'm going to look for x never thought I would but losing my unexpected vanilla relationship has thrown me x
Been single for 2 1/2 years now. It's been fun. But I do miss company now and again xI'd not had someone stay at my house for 13 years till just before lockdown. Kinda fell into something..realised I wanted it to carry on.. asked him and he had met someone else... ( had still been at mine and in lockdown with me so no idea how but there we go)
And now I'm finding I miss the company... perhaps its just because I've not got the clubs to fill that gap.. but x"
I think it's me missing the clubs too that's making me want more company. Staying in all the time is driving me crazy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To find something like this would be great, having a connection and being able to share the fab side of life with them, being able to be open about each others needs and exploring them together. Something that isn't possible if meeting on apps such as pof or Tinder. |
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By *rIntMan
over a year ago
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"I do well on tinder but not so well on here.
I have had a few amazing meets but would love to find a GF or FB on here to enjoy this swing thing with. Im not looking for marriage or anything massively serious but would be nice to have fun together and with others as well as cosy time doing things together. At least unlike tinder i know i have something major in common that we all on this site enjoy. Is anyone else looking for the same?"
You’re gonna find it hard, especially in these times. A lot of people are not looking for anything serious or any exclusivity, but it does happen from time to time.
I guess you just need to make it abundantly clear in your bio if that is what you want.
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think Fab is the perfect place to find a significant other, if we get on, we get on and it would avoid the awkward conversation about my lifestyle choices. |
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Hey I’m too on the look out for a partner who enjoys a cracking night out, fun and would like a bi partner! Must be able to string a sentence together, my brain also needs stimulating!!!
Not interested in bad tempered vanilla people who do not want to experience new experiences..more the merrier I say.. life is here to enjoy.. you only have one.. soon is the time to let go and get on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looking for the same. Fun with each other, drinks, nights out, as well as swing together too x this is what I'm going to look for x never thought I would but losing my unexpected vanilla relationship has thrown me x
Been single for 2 1/2 years now. It's been fun. But I do miss company now and again xI'd not had someone stay at my house for 13 years till just before lockdown. Kinda fell into something..realised I wanted it to carry on.. asked him and he had met someone else... ( had still been at mine and in lockdown with me so no idea how but there we go)
And now I'm finding I miss the company... perhaps its just because I've not got the clubs to fill that gap.. but x
I think it's me missing the clubs too that's making me want more company. Staying in all the time is driving me crazy x"
Describes me to a tea. I wasn't bothered about being single when I could go to parties and clubs. Now that isn't an option I'm genuinely looking.
Liverpool isn't that far neither  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"open casual fwb be great for me who enjoys finer things in life, bit like an activity fwb... not just about sex"
This kinda relationship is fantastic. You get to have a regular lover/playmate & develop a deep connection while still retaining your independence.
I like how you described "an activity fwb" as that is more than just sexy fun, it means you have someone who you get on with & can enjoy other life enhancing stuff with like days out & eating out together etc.
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I would love this too, real relationships are too much but someone that we can have a wee laugh with and do things as well as bedroom fun would be amazing...plus I am keen to try a club post lockdown so it would be nice to go with a partner in crime  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lately been reconsidering the way i lead my life. Maybe i do need a partner in it as long as he does not stand in the way of my swinging world. Think lockdown is playing havoc with the mind."
Exactly what I said: I think Fab is the perfect place to find a significant other, if we get on, we get on and it would avoid the awkward conversation about my lifestyle choices. |
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You are so right, I tried to be vanilla for the main part of my life.. with a partner, however I found that they were not interested in sharing experiences. I suppose in some cases I don’t conform and would like a hang out with another who too wants different experiences in life.. you cannot be in a swinging group or a swinger and be monogamous can you.. |
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"You are so right, I tried to be vanilla for the main part of my life.. with a partner, however I found that they were not interested in sharing experiences. I suppose in some cases I don’t conform and would like a hang out with another who too wants different experiences in life.. you cannot be in a swinging group or a swinger and be monogamous can you.. "
Wouldn’t be the first time a vanilla has been brought to this world.. Easier to bring a vanilla here, than take a swinger to vanillavile. Take care brother |
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"Lately been reconsidering the way i lead my life. Maybe i do need a partner in it as long as he does not stand in the way of my swinging world. Think lockdown is playing havoc with the mind.
Exactly what I said: I think Fab is the perfect place to find a significant other, if we get on, we get on and it would avoid the awkward conversation about my lifestyle choices."
Cool. Let's get married lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do well on tinder but not so well on here.
I have had a few amazing meets but would love to find a GF or FB on here to enjoy this swing thing with. Im not looking for marriage or anything massively serious but would be nice to have fun together and with others as well as cosy time doing things together. At least unlike tinder i know i have something major in common that we all on this site enjoy. Is anyone else looking for the same?"
Nah,I much prefer the single life,got a couple of like minded casual FWB that like to join me for playtimes occasionally so got the best of both worlds really.Swinging as a single is great fun anyways,don't need a partner for it to be enjoyable.Obviously everyone is different,but for me it's a solid no thanks |
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"Lately been reconsidering the way i lead my life. Maybe i do need a partner in it as long as he does not stand in the way of my swinging world. Think lockdown is playing havoc with the mind.
Exactly what I said: I think Fab is the perfect place to find a significant other, if we get on, we get on and it would avoid the awkward conversation about my lifestyle choices.
Cool. Let's get married lol"
Perfect meet you at Gretna Green two weeks sat? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would love that to be the outcome of my Fab journey Sadly though, I dont think that's what will happen so I will just enjoy things the way they are for as long as I can. |
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