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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Only for nsa fun.

Is that a yes or no no?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only for nsa fun.

Is that a yes or no no?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only for nsa fun.

Is that a yes or no no?

What do their wives think?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Er, no.

Couldn't think of anything worse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Only for nsa fun.

Is that a yes or no no?

What do their wives think?"

They think that they go to the pub to have few drinks

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By *oneyjule65Couple over a year ago

Halifax

You & your mate are married??...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only for nsa fun.

Is that a yes or no no?

What do their wives think?

They think that they go to the pub to have few drinks "

Love the honesty.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only if wives are also having NSA fun with some other guys

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By *oneyjule65Couple over a year ago

Halifax

"You & your mate are married??..."

To each other?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You & your mate are married??...

To each other?"

Just a friends

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Only for nsa fun.

Is that a yes or no no?

Its a no from me too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You & your mate are married??...

To each other?

Just a friends"

Close friends? ?

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You & your mate are married??...

To each other?

Just a friends

Close friends? ?

No bi

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wow this sounds super tempting! I mean meeting up with two cheating strangers for sex is a great idea anyway, but something about being in lockdown just makes it sound that much more appealing. Your wives sure are lucky girls to be faced with the possibility of catching not only STIs but now covid too!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wow this sounds super tempting! I mean meeting up with two cheating strangers for sex is a great idea anyway, but something about being in lockdown just makes it sound that much more appealing. Your wives sure are lucky girls to be faced with the possibility of catching not only STIs but now covid too!

So well said.

What lucky wives!!

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By *irky_coupleCouple over a year ago

kirky

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considering he's already stated the wives think they go to the pub and all the pubs are shut,I doubt he means right at this moment

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

We are not catching anything my darling, sleep well and good night x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

considering he's already stated the wives think they go to the pub and all the pubs are shut,I doubt he means right at this moment

Don't worry I'm sure secret threesomes count as an essential trip

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are not catching anything my darling, sleep well and good night x"

You're right, you're sure as hell not gonna catch anything if this is how you cast your net

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only for nsa fun.

Is that a yes or no no?

1, 2, 10, 20... No ta

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

considering he's already stated the wives think they go to the pub and all the pubs are shut,I doubt he means right at this moment

Also his status clearly implies he is looking for a meet today.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We guess that didn't go as expected.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only for nsa fun.

Is that a yes or no no?

What do their wives think?

They think that they go to the pub to have few drinks "

Can me and a mate have a go on your wives while you are at the 'pub'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Double trouble

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

considering he's already stated the wives think they go to the pub and all the pubs are shut,I doubt he means right at this moment

Also his status clearly implies he is looking for a meet today.

Good night x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love it how he's sending her to sleep

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love it how he's sending her to sleep

I'll sleep even better knowing I'm actively avoiding the likes of him.

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By *mberWoman over a year ago

Preston

We are not catching anything my darling, sleep well and good night x"

OP could you be any more patronising?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love it how he's sending her to sleep

I'll sleep even better knowing I'm actively avoiding the likes of him. "

posting in public forum trying to shut someone up.. not a good move.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love it how he's sending her to sleep

I'll sleep even better knowing I'm actively avoiding the likes of him.

posting in public forum trying to shut someone up.. not a good move.

I'm not trying to shut anybody up. Like you said the forums are public. Anyone can have their say and I'm having mine

I meant him. Not you.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman over a year ago

Sheffield

Massive nope!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love it how he's sending her to sleep

I'll sleep even better knowing I'm actively avoiding the likes of him.

posting in public forum trying to shut someone up.. not a good move.

I'm not trying to shut anybody up. Like you said the forums are public. Anyone can have their say and I'm having mine

I meant him. Not you. "

Ohhh my bad, totally misunderstood that sorry x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is so entertaining.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"He can accommodate occasionally. How lovely... Gets better and better with this one.

And what is a problem with that?

Our wife's goes out, we go out too...

That's right. Have an orgy at your (and her) house. That will teach her for having the audacity to go out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love it how he's sending her to sleep

I'll sleep even better knowing I'm actively avoiding the likes of him.

posting in public forum trying to shut someone up.. not a good move.

I'm not trying to shut anybody up. Like you said the forums are public. Anyone can have their say and I'm having mine

I meant him. Not you.

Ohhh my bad, totally misunderstood that sorry x "

No probs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bookmarking again for later

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

* kicks feet up and grabs some popcorn *

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman over a year ago

Colchester

Why not cut out the middle man and have sex with your mate?

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By *nippermanMan over a year ago

keighley

BUT ....maybe the wives cum home ooops spelt that wrong its come home and join in because its prearranged as they are on here too.. they've squeezed the meet in ..i spelt that right.... and we are all going to love reading about it in the story section later when we are too tired to type just saying

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"BUT ....maybe the wives cum home ooops spelt that wrong its come home and join in because its prearranged as they are on here too.. they've squeezed the meet in ..i spelt that right.... and we are all going to love reading about it in the story section later when we are too tired to type just saying "

Sure. This is why he thinks hotel meets are the best

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I thought all the jokers had given up for a COVID19 Fab rest break, maybe not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why not cut out the middle man and have sex with your mate?"

Now there's a great idea!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why not cut out the middle man and have sex with your mate?

Now there's a great idea!!"
Perhaps your 'wives' would enjoy watching you and your mate. Perhaps give then an option.

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

Ah wonderful, another 'genuine' swinger that's cheating.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No thanks.. I actually prefer lockdown

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By *arbellsWoman over a year ago

Cambridge

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By *napppaMan over a year ago

London

"Only for nsa fun.

Is that a yes or no no?

Well, it would appear to be a unanimous NO NO then!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s a no from me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some right detectives on here

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By *appytrailmanMan over a year ago

Manchester

Even a single male I'd like to rule myself out, thanks though.

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

If this thread was ‘2 married women (friends) looking for a man’ the replies would be very different.

This is not me being interested in OPs suggestion btw.

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By *londie8399Couple over a year ago

blackpool

I'll pass I'm washing my hair

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If this thread was ‘2 married women (friends) looking for a man’ the replies would be very different.

This is not me being interested in OPs suggestion btw. "

Nope my reply would be same.. Lol

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By *andystick72Man over a year ago

kinky Street

This is brilliant

Entertaining While eating my peri chicken and thinking ,,,you've fucked up here kido ha ha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If this thread was ‘2 married women (friends) looking for a man’ the replies would be very different.

This is not me being interested in OPs suggestion btw. "

I'm sure it would totally depend on who's doing the replying. People who think cheating is ok would reply differently to those who think it's grim, disrespectful and potentially putting their partners at risk.

There are women that prefer married men and vice versa.

I'll pass on the meeting tho, and say that the OP and his mate deserve each other and if karma strikes they may find themselves living together and not needing a hotel

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By *londie8399Couple over a year ago

blackpool

"If this thread was ‘2 married women (friends) looking for a man’ the replies would be very different.

This is not me being interested in OPs suggestion btw.

There are women that prefer married men and vice versa.

I'll pass on the meeting tho, and say that the OP and his mate deserve each other and if karma strikes they may find themselves living together and not needing a hotel

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By *pertureTV/TS over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

Playing devils advocate here but Imagine all the positive and supportive answers if this was two married woman asking the same question

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By *urekamanfor2Man over a year ago

Shoreham

Good luck guys,

The double standards of some women is amazing , there are cheaters of both sexes on here all these guys are doing is being honest about being dishonest

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By *erdyWoman over a year ago

wiltshire

"Playing devils advocate here but Imagine all the positive and supportive answers if this was two married woman asking the same question

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So true! Guess it's what you call "positive discrimination "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only for nsa fun.

Is that a yes or no no?

Try swinging clubs when this gets over , you will get lucky . You won't get lecture on morality in clubs as everyone is naked and want fun whether you are married or a batchelor. If you are attractive and good looking then couples may invite you to join in the rooms .

Best luck

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By *abasaurus RexMan over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Playing devils advocate here but Imagine all the positive and supportive answers if this was two married woman asking the same question

Yeah it’s a joke. The sassy answers are unnecessary.

If people don’t like that they’re cheating.. Just answer the question and take the judgement elsewhere. At least they’re open and honest.

Plenty of both genders cheating on here for all manner of different reasons.

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By *erdyWoman over a year ago

wiltshire

"Only for nsa fun.

Is that a yes or no no?

Best luck "
Well said. Find it very frustrating that people on here think they have the moral high ground cause someone cheats.

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By *andy_tomMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

"If this thread was ‘2 married women (friends) looking for a man’ the replies would be very different.

This is not me being interested in OPs suggestion btw. "

your absolutely right , if it was 2 married women they would fxxk them without giving it a second thought , the forum police really do enjoy there job ,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only for nsa fun.

Is that a yes or no no?

No.

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By *erdyWoman over a year ago

wiltshire

"Playing devils advocate here but Imagine all the positive and supportive answers if this was two married woman asking the same question

Yeah it’s a joke. The sassy answers are unnecessary.

If people don’t like that they’re cheating.. Just answer the question and take the judgement elsewhere. At least they’re open and honest.

Plenty of both genders cheating on here for all manner of different reasons. "
agree the " sassy" comments unnecessary. Not clever or funny. The judgement from others here on people's choices is shocking. Guess it makes them feel superior - and that they must be right because they've been offended by someone else's choices. You'd think there would be less judgement on a site like this!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Playing devils advocate here but Imagine all the positive and supportive answers if this was two married woman asking the same question

Yeah it’s a joke. The sassy answers are unnecessary.

If people don’t like that they’re cheating.. Just answer the question and take the judgement elsewhere. At least they’re open and honest.

Plenty of both genders cheating on here for all manner of different reasons. agree the " sassy" comments unnecessary. Not clever or funny. The judgement from others here on people's choices is shocking. Guess it makes them feel superior - and that they must be right because they've been offended by someone else's choices. You'd think there would be less judgement on a site like this! "

It’s like being in addiction counseling and the alcoholics making fun of the drug users....

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By *erdyWoman over a year ago

wiltshire

"Playing devils advocate here but Imagine all the positive and supportive answers if this was two married woman asking the same question

Yeah it’s a joke. The sassy answers are unnecessary.

If people don’t like that they’re cheating.. Just answer the question and take the judgement elsewhere. At least they’re open and honest.

It’s like being in addiction counseling and the alcoholics making fun of the drug users...."

fabulous analogy

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

Also in swinging clubs unless you chat in depth with people, how does one know if the sexual partner of choice in that club at that time is married and playing away. So people from Fab who don’t generally meet cheaters could be doing just that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

His attitude towards women here is what I found most disgusting.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"His attitude towards women here is what I found most disgusting."

Disgusting? Where?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The fact that he'd invite a meet home when the wife is out and how he talked to women here who didn't like his idea. He asks for opinions and then sulks when it's not what he wants.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The fact that he'd invite a meet home when the wife is out and how he talked to women here who didn't like his idea. He asks for opinions and then sulks when it's not what he wants. "

He wasn't overly nasty

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By *ickDastardlyMan over a year ago

North East

plenty of male tag team partners on here pal, don't think thats where your problem is.

A large majority of people aren't going to be swinging to two married man both cheating on their wives.

You've fucked up, lad.

I'm sorry to say.

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By *ueandbillCouple over a year ago

Leyland

"The fact that he'd invite a meet home when the wife is out and how he talked to women here who didn't like his idea. He asks for opinions and then sulks when it's not what he wants. "

Correct

so little respect for their wives

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Exactly. Some people would find it exciting probably.

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By *ueandbillCouple over a year ago

Leyland

please correct me if im wrong, but this is a swinging site and not a cheating site

I personally would not meet a married guy who was cheating on his wife because I would be devastated to be in her position.

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By *andy_tomMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

"The fact that he'd invite a meet home when the wife is out and how he talked to women here who didn't like his idea. He asks for opinions and then sulks when it's not what he wants.

Correct

so little respect for their wives"

and the wives playing away have little respect for there husband's, swings and roundabouts, but its only the married men that get a hard time from the forum police, But they would happily bed your wife, without asking her if she was married m double standards

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By *r Average69Man over a year ago

Thanet

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By *toC Thats MeWoman over a year ago

Sheffield

"please correct me if im wrong, but this is a swinging site and not a cheating site

I personally would not meet a married guy who was cheating on his wife because I would be devastated to be in her position. "

Very nicely put

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The fact that he'd invite a meet home when the wife is out and how he talked to women here who didn't like his idea. He asks for opinions and then sulks when it's not what he wants.

Correct

so little respect for their wives

But that's the men's decision. A lot of men are very desperate on here and if they know the woman is cheating and he's happy with that, that's not a problem.

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By *erdyWoman over a year ago

wiltshire

"please correct me if im wrong, but this is a swinging site and not a cheating site

I personally would not meet a married guy who was cheating on his wife because I would be devastated to be in her position. "
oh please! It's a site for anyone to use in whatever way they wish. It's not exclusive to couples only - last time I checked

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By *andy_tomMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

If they are getting it at home on a regular basis they wouldnt be on here , in most cases there not looking for extra just a little loveing, that goes for both married men and women, and lets not forget the forum police takeing a brack to criticise otheres , its a case of do as i say not as i do ,

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By *erdyWoman over a year ago

wiltshire

"The fact that he'd invite a meet home when the wife is out and how he talked to women here who didn't like his idea. He asks for opinions and then sulks when it's not what he wants.

Correct

so little respect for their wives

But that's the men's decision. A lot of men are very desperate on here and if they know the woman is cheating and he's happy with that, that's not a problem. "
or maybe it's cause men are less judgemental. Just a thought

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By *r Average69Man over a year ago

Thanet

"please correct me if im wrong, but this is a swinging site and not a cheating site

I personally would not meet a married guy who was cheating on his wife because I would be devastated to be in her position. oh please! It's a site for anyone to use in whatever way they wish. It's not exclusive to couples only - last time I checked "

Perfect clarity, makes a refreshing change! Not all swingers are currently in a relationship!

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By *ueandbillCouple over a year ago

Leyland

"please correct me if im wrong, but this is a swinging site and not a cheating site

I never said it was exclusive to couples, I said it was a swinging site and not a cheating site, there is a difference

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This guy and his mate are not looking for loving I think. Just someone to shag and please don't blame the wife for him being on here. Who says he makes an effort?

I find it strange how some women on here are against people in relationships, even if the partner knows and is on here too. Also some men get very jealous here which again, I find surprising, especially when you haven't even met them yet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The fact that he'd invite a meet home when the wife is out and how he talked to women here who didn't like his idea. He asks for opinions and then sulks when it's not what he wants.

Correct

so little respect for their wives

So you think people are being hypocritical?

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By *ydrewMan over a year ago

Bakewell

I'd love to know how many people who go to clubs have been with a married man or men

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The fact that he'd invite a meet home when the wife is out and how he talked to women here who didn't like his idea. He asks for opinions and then sulks when it's not what he wants.

Correct

so little respect for their wives

But that's the men's decision. A lot of men are very desperate on here and if they know the woman is cheating and he's happy with that, that's not a problem. or maybe it's cause men are less judgemental. Just a thought

You mean less empathy for the cheated partner cos they're just relieved to get a hole?

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By *ydrewMan over a year ago

Bakewell

"please correct me if im wrong, but this is a swinging site and not a cheating site

I never said it was exclusive to couples, I said it was a swinging site and not a cheating site, there is a difference "

But you have happily played with a married man who states on his profile he is cheating. Verifications are funny sometimes

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By *oan of DArcCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

"Also in swinging clubs unless you chat in depth with people, how does one know if the sexual partner of choice in that club at that time is married and playing away. So people from Fab who don’t generally meet cheaters could be doing just that. "

..but they're not doing so knowingly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The fact that he'd invite a meet home when the wife is out and how he talked to women here who didn't like his idea. He asks for opinions and then sulks when it's not what he wants.

Correct

so little respect for their wives

It seems that the married men like to shout out in the forums what they are doing.

The married women do not seem to do the same.

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By *elshsunsWoman over a year ago

Flintshire

"If this thread was ‘2 married women (friends) looking for a man’ the replies would be very different.

This is not me being interested in OPs suggestion btw.

your absolutely right , if it was 2 married women they would fxxk them without giving it a second thought , the forum police really do enjoy there job ,

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By *elshsunsWoman over a year ago

Flintshire

Nice profile though

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By *oan of DArcCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

" You'd think there would be less judgement on a site like this! "

Why do you think that?

In my experience swingers are some of yhe most judgemental people I've ever encountered. In a community where people openly express their preferences-cliqueyness, misogyny, racism, homophobia and other unattractive human qualities are plain to see!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wow two angry wives come bashing at the door. What fun.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Double no

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

No. I don't meet cheats if either sex. Don't need the drama and I won't waste my time having to work around their partners and kids to try and meet them. If that sounds selfish of me, too bad. Plenty of genuine singles on here.

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By *ueandbillCouple over a year ago

Leyland

"please correct me if im wrong, but this is a swinging site and not a cheating site

I never said it was exclusive to couples, I said it was a swinging site and not a cheating site, there is a difference

But you have happily played with a married man who states on his profile he is cheating. Verifications are funny sometimes "

No I have not, that very was from a car meeting, not a meeting off here

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By *andy_tomMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

It seems that the Forum police would sooner shout at married men than married females for cheating as they themselves are cheating on there vows , what a wonderful world we live in , double standards,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We find the cheaters aren’t swingers. Just people looking for a shag. They aren’t into the lifestyle or have a vague clue how it actually works.

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By *ueandbillCouple over a year ago

Leyland

"please correct me if im wrong, but this is a swinging site and not a cheating site

I never said it was exclusive to couples, I said it was a swinging site and not a cheating site, there is a difference

But you have happily played with a married man who states on his profile he is cheating. Verifications are funny sometimes

No I have not, that very was from a car meeting, not a meeting off here"

ant at the meeting there was 2 guys there who were very respectful and just watched

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By *d4fun73Man over a year ago

Shipley

"He can accommodate occasionally. How lovely... Gets better and better with this one.

And what is a problem with that?

Our wife's goes out, we go out too...

They don't you're going out to cheat on them.. Still let's hope you're wives are doing the same, would you like that op?

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By *oan of DArcCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

"It seems that the Forum police would sooner shout at married men than married females for cheating as they themselves are cheating on there vows , what a wonderful world we live in , double standards,

..but you're married yourself, so also 'cheating on your vows'!

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By *erdyWoman over a year ago

wiltshire

"We find the cheaters aren’t swingers. Just people looking for a shag. They aren’t into the lifestyle or have a vague clue how it actually works. "
didn't realise there was a Bible on how to fuck?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What if those vows weren't taken?

What then??

Dishonesty between life partners is ugly, however you try to defend it.

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By *erdyWoman over a year ago

wiltshire

..but you're married yourself, so also 'cheating on your vows'!"
difference is - he is not the one preaching on how others choose to live their life

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By *d4fun73Man over a year ago

Shipley

Don't think this thread is going the way the op intended!! Lol

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By *andy_tomMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

..but you're married yourself, so also 'cheating on your vows'!"

and so are a lot of othere people, it does say married on my profile, and im not judging anyone for being here , its there choice there grown up adults and they don't need slating by the forum police that would happily scew there wife ,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone has heard a story of an angry wife finding the messages and turning up. No one wants that in their lives. So so much choice on her for men. Just skip a married one and find one that won’t bring an angry partner to the door. It’s not like men are a good commodity on here.

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By *erdyWoman over a year ago

wiltshire

"please correct me if im wrong, but this is a swinging site and not a cheating site

I never said it was exclusive to couples, I said it was a swinging site and not a cheating site, there is a difference

But you have happily played with a married man who states on his profile he is cheating. Verifications are funny sometimes

No I have not, that very was from a car meeting, not a meeting off here

ant at the meeting there was 2 guys there who were very respectful and just watched"
sure his wife would of loved that equally!! The whiff of horse Shite is suffocating

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

..but you're married yourself, so also 'cheating on your vows'!

The wives are also grown up adults.

As life partners, do they get a choice as to whether they find their partner's behaviour acceptable or does the person cheating decide that they cannot have that choice??

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By *andy_tomMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

..but you're married yourself, so also 'cheating on your vows'!difference is - he is not the one preaching on how others choose to live their life "

well said and thank you for your comments ,, i like you have said are not preaching to otheres they well do what they want to do , its only the forum police that like to preach , and the next sermon will begin very soon , god help us ,

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By *d4fun73Man over a year ago

Shipley

"Everyone has heard a story of an angry wife finding the messages and turning up. No one wants that in their lives. So so much choice on her for men. Just skip a married one and find one that won’t bring an angry partner to the door. It’s not like men are a good commodity on here. "

I didn't know I was a commodity at all!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Same old moral forum police giving their two pence I see

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By *oan of DArcCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

..but you're married yourself, so also 'cheating on your vows'!

I was just referring to your reference to double standards and people cheating on their vows, so you're judging people for something you do yourself!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We don't see that many sermons.

Just lots of questions.

We agree totally that cheats are simply using their freedom of choice.

Shame the partners aren't given the facts to make their's.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Same old moral forum police giving their two pence I see"
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True.

And the same old cheats (mainly men of course, the women just go quietly along their way) shouting up because they say they hate seeing this all.

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By *oan of DArcCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

..but you're married yourself, so also 'cheating on your vows'!difference is - he is not the one preaching on how others choose to live their life "

He introduced marital vows to the conversation and the apparent double standard of being a swinger whilst being married.

That 'double standard' applies to all married swingers, not just the ones who call out cheating, that was my point.

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By *andy_tomMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

"We don't see that many sermons.

Just lots of questions.

We agree totally that cheats are simply using their freedom of choice.

Shame the partners aren't given the facts to make their's."

and who says there not both at it , now theres the question, and like you say cheating is cheating, cheating on your partner or cheating on your vows, same thing different out look , , you dont walk in there shoes so don't judge them , walk on by ,

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman over a year ago
Forum Mod

My Own Little World

"Playing devils advocate here but Imagine all the positive and supportive answers if this was two married woman asking the same question

Unfortunately this is how these threads always go, cheating men - bad, cheating women - empowering.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman over a year ago
Forum Mod

My Own Little World

Please rem_mber the OP didn't ask for a profile critique

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By *andy_tomMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

..but you're married yourself, so also 'cheating on your vows'!difference is - he is not the one preaching on how others choose to live their life

He introduced marital vows to the conversation and the apparent double standard of being a swinger whilst being married.

That 'double standard' applies to all married swingers, not just the ones who call out cheating, that was my point."

thank you once again for your comments, im not judging what they do and im not going to be judged by them , each to there own , dont judge least you be judged, love the life live the life ,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We don't see that many sermons.

Just lots of questions.

We agree totally that cheats are simply using their freedom of choice.

Shame the partners aren't given the facts to make their's.

We said nothing about cheating on your vows.

But if the partner knows, then it isn't cheating is it? So no one needs to get upset.

We have to ask this question.

Does your partner know? Or is she also cheating?

We are curious.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Playing devils advocate here but Imagine all the positive and supportive answers if this was two married woman asking the same question

Unfortunately this is how these threads always go, cheating men - bad, cheating women - empowering.

We agree to an extent.

Neither should be empowered.

Certainly makes interesting reading though!

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By *edandLouCouple over a year ago

Liverpool

Each to their own. Funny that some if the most vocal anti OP posters have verifications from men who openly say on their profile they are playing on here without their partners knowledge. You play this swinging lark the way you see fit and if it works for you then great.

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By *andy_tomMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

Cheating is cheating on your partner or on your vows, slate the man screw the woman, forum police only ever seam to criticise the man , wile cheating on there own vows, if everyone minded there own affairs the world would be a much better place ,

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By *ydrewMan over a year ago

Bakewell

"Each to their own. Funny that some if the most vocal anti OP posters have verifications from men who openly say on their profile they are playing on here without their partners knowledge. You play this swinging lark the way you see fit and if it works for you then great. "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Cheating is cheating on your partner or on your vows, slate the man screw the woman, forum police only ever seam to criticise the man , wile cheating on there own vows, if everyone minded there own affairs the world would be a much better place ,

Shall we say that to the angry wife when she’s keying our cars for shagging their husbands.

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By *oan of DArcCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

..but you're married yourself, so also 'cheating on your vows'!difference is - he is not the one preaching on how others choose to live their life

He introduced marital vows to the conversation and the apparent double standard of being a swinger whilst being married.

That 'double standard' applies to all married swingers, not just the ones who call out cheating, that was my point.

thank you once again for your comments, im not judging what they do and im not going to be judged by them , each to there own , dont judge least you be judged, love the life live the life ,

Well I'm not judging anyone, I've no preference regarding someone's status, it's a matter for them to be at peace with, not me.

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By *andy_tomMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

Shall we say that to the angry wife when she’s keying our cars for shagging their husbands. "

you haven't got to shag there husband's, you can say no ,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Shall we say that to the angry wife when she’s keying our cars for shagging their husbands. "

OP isn’t the real issue then as he’s being honest so it’s your choice if you approve of that or not. The issue would be the secretive ones, which you’ll get a lot more of if people constantly vilify it like on this thread...

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By *arkb73Man over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs

If it was two married women, not only would some of the forum be supportive, they’d laugh at the men being cheated on for not being up to the job.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If it was two married women, not only would some of the forum be supportive, they’d laugh at the men being cheated on for not being up to the job. "

If it were two women instead, it would be unlikely that they would post on a public Forum.

Women tend to be a lot more discreet.

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By *arkb73Man over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs

"If it was two married women, not only would some of the forum be supportive, they’d laugh at the men being cheated on for not being up to the job.

If it were two women instead, it would be unlikely that they would post on a public Forum.

Women tend to be a lot more discreet."

That’s because it’s much easier for two women in this situation - no debate required on that.

Being discreet doesn’t make it any better than two men doing it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If it was two married women, not only would some of the forum be supportive, they’d laugh at the men being cheated on for not being up to the job.

If it were two women instead, it would be unlikely that they would post on a public Forum.

Women tend to be a lot more discreet.

That’s because it’s much easier for two women in this situation - no debate required on that.

Being discreet doesn’t make it any better than two men doing it. "

Agree totally.

Dishonesty between two life partners is wrong, whatever the gender.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's not just the fact that OP and his mate are cheating, it's the way in which they're doing it. It's one thing to be with someone and develop feelings for someone else, I can understand how that happens. Or even to join a swinger's site behind your partner's back looking for intimacy because you get none at home - not something I personally approve of (either gender) but again, I can see how and why this could happen. If you're going to go down this route though, why not just go about your business quietly? Whatever the reason OP is here for - why start a thread boasting about the fact he and his mate lie to their wives about going to the pub while they're actually out fucking randoms off the Internet? It's disrespectful enough to be doing this in the first place, but to act so proud of it? From what I've seen most cheaters are on here as a last resort, because they've tried every solution they can think of with their partners - and they certainly don't take pride in being willingly dishonest.

Also why is nobody focusing on the fact he is trying to get a meet during covid?? This is a reportable offence!

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By *oan of DArcCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

Also why is nobody focusing on the fact he is trying to get a meet during covid?? This is a reportable offence! "

Don't think he's specifically said they're looking for an encounter now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Also why is nobody focusing on the fact he is trying to get a meet during covid?? This is a reportable offence!

Don't think he's specifically said they're looking for an encounter now."

He had a status on yesterday which implied he was.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If he was asking to meet, did anyone report him? And if he was reported admin haven't done anything as he is still on here!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Please rem_mber the OP didn't ask for a profile critique

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exactly x

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

Haha people giving him props because he's being open and honest, except for lying and cheating on his wife.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Being respectful somehow doesn't represent you if you're cheating on your wife and are proud of it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Haha people giving him props because he's being open and honest, except for lying and cheating on his wife."

So they aren't honest, are they??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But people would moan if these men or women were secretive and you ended up unwittingly being a part of the deceit...at least he’s giving you the choice to make that judgement call!

No one is patting him on the back, but what he does in his relationship is his own choice, the same as any other consenting adult on this site! If you don’t like it, don’t fuck him!

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By *andy_tomMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

"But people would moan if these men or women were secretive and you ended up unwittingly being a part of the deceit...at least he’s giving you the choice to make that judgement call!

No one is patting him on the back, but what he does in his relationship is his own choice, the same as any other consenting adult on this site! If you don’t like it, don’t fuck him!

well said , they haven't got to fuck him , there are some on here that would , thats there choice,

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank to everyone for their honest opinions. It's been really interesting to see what people think.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Haha people giving him props because he's being open and honest, except for lying and cheating on his wife.

So they aren't honest, are they??"

No.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"But people would moan if these men or women were secretive and you ended up unwittingly being a part of the deceit...at least he’s giving you the choice to make that judgement call!

No one is patting him on the back, but what he does in his relationship is his own choice, the same as any other consenting adult on this site! If you don’t like it, don’t fuck him!

well said , they haven't got to fuck him , there are some on here that would , thats there choice,

It would be nice to be given the choice, unfortunately some of the cheats lie to the people they are meeting about their marital status. Fortunately I've been lucky enough to find out in time to cancel, some people don't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But people would moan if these men or women were secretive and you ended up unwittingly being a part of the deceit...at least he’s giving you the choice to make that judgement call!

No one is patting him on the back, but what he does in his relationship is his own choice, the same as any other consenting adult on this site! If you don’t like it, don’t fuck him!

You are missing something..... they are not interested in having sex with him.... But they can’t miss this opportunity to give their opinions about his morals.....

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By *ovestrapMan over a year ago

London

So that's mate's that are married to other people..

Know your audience guys.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But people would moan if these men or women were secretive and you ended up unwittingly being a part of the deceit...at least he’s giving you the choice to make that judgement call!

No one is patting him on the back, but what he does in his relationship is his own choice, the same as any other consenting adult on this site! If you don’t like it, don’t fuck him!

well said , they haven't got to fuck him , there are some on here that would , thats there choice,

In your opinion..... how many of the good men on here , do you believe are truly single?

I’m curious because all the guys , I know online at least have one or two fwb’s....

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

"Why not cut out the middle man and have sex with your mate?"

Love this answer

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"But people would moan if these men or women were secretive and you ended up unwittingly being a part of the deceit...at least he’s giving you the choice to make that judgement call!

No one is patting him on the back, but what he does in his relationship is his own choice, the same as any other consenting adult on this site! If you don’t like it, don’t fuck him!

well said , they haven't got to fuck him , there are some on here that would , thats there choice,

In your opinion..... how many of the good men on here , do you believe are truly single?

I’m curious because all the guys , I know online at least have one or two fwb’s...."

I have no idea. I can only say what I know personally. I don't trust people that easily on here tbh. I have my own ways of finding out their marital status though, it generally works for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"But people would moan if these men or women were secretive and you ended up unwittingly being a part of the deceit...at least he’s giving you the choice to make that judgement call!

No one is patting him on the back, but what he does in his relationship is his own choice, the same as any other consenting adult on this site! If you don’t like it, don’t fuck him!

well said , they haven't got to fuck him , there are some on here that would , thats there choice,

In your opinion..... how many of the good men on here , do you believe are truly single?

I’m curious because all the guys , I know online at least have one or two fwb’s...."

It's a swinging site my darling! X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Swinging and shagging are different things.

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By *andy_tomMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Swinging and shagging are different things. "

True one uses the park and the other you use the bed ,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That tells me you don’t know the difference and not a swinger.

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By *andy_tomMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

"That tells me you don’t know the difference and not a swinger. "

i beg to differ i have been to the park on the swings , and shagged in bed , what i call the best of both ,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But people would moan if these men or women were secretive and you ended up unwittingly being a part of the deceit...at least he’s giving you the choice to make that judgement call!

No one is patting him on the back, but what he does in his relationship is his own choice, the same as any other consenting adult on this site! If you don’t like it, don’t fuck him!

well said , they haven't got to fuck him , there are some on here that would , thats there choice,

In your opinion..... how many of the good men on here , do you believe are truly single?

I’m curious because all the guys , I know online at least have one or two fwb’s....

It's a swinging site my darling! X"

True.

Not a cheating site though.

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By *ungBlackTopMan over a year ago

salford

OP 3 quarters of the women on here will have sex with you and your mate regardless if you're married or not, you know it's all white wash. I know plenty of guys that are married and have shagged loads of women off here behind their wives back but rookie mistake with the honesty mate hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP 3 quarters of the women on here will have sex with you and your mate regardless if you're married or not, you know it's all white wash. I know plenty of guys that are married and have shagged loads of women off here behind their wives back but rookie mistake with the honesty mate hahahaha "

Lol married guys are the very good that what I've heard

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By *andy_tomMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

Lol married guys are the very good that what I've heard "

theres no shortage of them that's for shure , all the wanting females can have 2 each , if they want that is , the rest can stick to there morals , problem solved,

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By *oan of DArcCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

Lol married guys are the very good that what I've heard "

That isn't what your wife told me when I came across her profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Lol married guys are the very good that what I've heard

That isn't what your wife told me when I came across her profile

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By *959femxCouple over a year ago

Weston super mare

I’ve heard lots of guys over the years bragging about going to football “away “ matches every other weekend golf tournaments and so forth and actually off fucking other women one guy in particular in his mid 50s then one day we learned his wife had buggered off with a 30 old bloke he was devastated.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lol married guys are the very good that what I've heard "

Why not be honest with your other halves and get them involved?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"But people would moan if these men or women were secretive and you ended up unwittingly being a part of the deceit...at least he’s giving you the choice to make that judgement call!

No one is patting him on the back, but what he does in his relationship is his own choice, the same as any other consenting adult on this site! If you don’t like it, don’t fuck him!

well said , they haven't got to fuck him , there are some on here that would , thats there choice,

In your opinion..... how many of the good men on here , do you believe are truly single?

I’m curious because all the guys , I know online at least have one or two fwb’s....

It's a swinging site my darling! X"

Exactly. Swinging is with both partner's knowledge and consent. Anything else is cheating.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Lol married guys are the very good that what I've heard

theres no shortage of them that's for shure , all the wanting females can have 2 each , if they want that is , the rest can stick to there morals , problem solved,

How can we stick to our morals if we aren't told by the people cheating that they are attached? That removes the choice by them lying to us surely?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Lol married guys are the very good that what I've heard

Why not be honest with your other halves and get them involved? "

Why people think that we are cheating?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If and when all the drama is over, get yourselves an MM profile and develop it. There’s quite a nice little niche for such a set up if you are practiced and work well together.

We are associated with a good successful MM profile ( Wednesday Club ) that works very well for all involved.

Looks like you’ve been slated to some tune on this post, but I wouldn’t let that bother you. If you’re genuine players, the meets will come if you can hold a conversation etc.

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By *hrobberMan over a year ago

North West

Interesting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lol married guys are the very good that what I've heard

Why not be honest with your other halves and get them involved?

Why people think that we are cheating? "

So you'd be happy to supply contact details to your other halves? The fact that you say they think you are down the pub when you are meeting is a giveaway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lol married guys are the very good that what I've heard

Why not be honest with your other halves and get them involved?

Why people think that we are cheating? "

Because you are dishonest people who don't care enough about your wives to be honest to them?

That's what it certainly looks like.

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