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Bareback after lockdown
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"A lot of people talk about what they will do differently after lockdown ends. Just curious will anyone play rules change regarding bareback? We have been a bb couple since we started, just curious to see if people will have changed views. We will carry on as before" I know it’s personal preference, but I don’t know why you’d play such a lottery with your own health with so many STI’s being incurable? I’ll stay safe and play safe with new people and would only go bareback with someone I’ve been seeing a while after testing. Bareback requests are like a filter for me as to whether I want to meet them. If they ask for it, no chance.  | |||
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"Only thing bareback threads are good for is the block button. You want to play Russian roulette with your health, then we'll avoid "Survive corona. Get an STD seems perfect logical to me #sarcasm | |||
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"Bareback always for me, block me if you wish and yes I’m aware of the risks. " And aware or the risks passing something undetected on to the next folk? Even if they’re not a bareback lover? | |||
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"Only thing bareback threads are good for is the block button. You want to play Russian roulette with your health, then we'll avoid "I totally agree with you safe is the only way | |||
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"You know can catch some stds by skin to skin contact right, so condoms dont stop you getting an STD, not advocating bareback but Things like herpes can be caught and passed from kissing etc x" You’d sincerely hope that people wouldn’t be playing at all if they’ve a herpes flare up. Condom or no condom. Using condoms is just eliminating a lot more risk. Like not going out as much now. Yes, chlamydia, for example, can be passed through oral sex, but it’s far less likely than through unprotected penetration. As I said, if you’re happy to take your chances, especially with the incurable ones, such as herpes, HIV, HPV (genital warts and leading to cervical cancer), and hepatitis B, crack on. It just won’t be with me. Perhaps if all the bareback players had their own little ‘lockdown’ and put a jonny on we’d not be seeing a 600% rise in gonorrhoea in 10 years and it’s mutation into super-gonorrhoea, which is getting resistant to treatment. As I say, it’s just a useful filter to me although I do find it mildly selfish. | |||
" As I say, it’s just a useful filter to me although I do find it mildly selfish. " Nothing selfish about looking after your own well being  | |||
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"You know can catch some stds by skin to skin contact right, so condoms dont stop you getting an STD, not advocating bareback but Things like herpes can be caught and passed from kissing etc x You’d sincerely hope that people wouldn’t be playing at all if they’ve a herpes flare up. Condom or no condom. Using condoms is just eliminating a lot more risk. Like not going out as much now. Yes, chlamydia, for example, can be passed through oral sex, but it’s far less likely than through unprotected penetration. As I said, if you’re happy to take your chances, especially with the incurable ones, such as herpes, HIV, HPV (genital warts and leading to cervical cancer), and hepatitis B, crack on. It just won’t be with me. Perhaps if all the bareback players had their own little ‘lockdown’ and put a jonny on we’d not be seeing a 600% rise in gonorrhoea in 10 years and it’s mutation into super-gonorrhoea, which is getting resistant to treatment. As I say, it’s just a useful filter to me although I do find it mildly selfish. " | |||
" As I say, it’s just a useful filter to me although I do find it mildly selfish. Nothing selfish about looking after your own well being "No, selfish for not giving a shit about others | |||
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"Nothing different for me. Still love bareback. " | |||
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"Still be bareback for us xxx" | |||
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If you live in an area where you can get one, this is an ideal time to do a postal test. | |||
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"I imagine the divide will get larger. It will become even more polarising. Those against will be extreme in their views. And it’s only fair " It still will not be right for them to be horrible to other, freedom of speech is good but not being nasty to people | |||
"I imagine the divide will get larger. It will become even more polarising. Those against will be extreme in their views. And it’s only fair It still will not be right for them to be horrible to other, freedom of speech is good but not being nasty to people" Agree with this. | |||
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"I imagine the divide will get larger. It will become even more polarising. Those against will be extreme in their views. And it’s only fair It still will not be right for them to be horrible to other, freedom of speech is good but not being nasty to people" No one has been nasty on here. Just giving their own, educated opinions. You can’t really argue with facts when your only argument is personal preference, but hey ho. Vice la différence | |||
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"I don’t think it’s being nasty. It’s trying to save people’s lives. Maybe not the best words. But sometimes you’ve got to be cruel to be kind. " I know a number of people who have had bile hurtful messages just because they play bare, that's the sort of thing I mean that is nasty | |||
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"Bareback for me. I can't use condoms, I get a serious reaction to them." You’re using the wrong ones then. | |||
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"Best thing about these threads is we get to use our block button." Yay.  | |||
"Bareback for me. I can't use condoms, I get a serious reaction to them." Use Skyns for example. No latex. My ex has heard every excuse under the sun for not wanting to wear them, so has a vast selection of sizes and types. If it’s still a ‘no’ then they’re shown the door. We chat regularly about it and it’s amazing how many people have a reason to not wear them. | |||
"Best thing about these threads is we get to use our block button." Makes me laugh, that people you are never likely to meet block you for having a personal preference. | |||
"Best thing about these threads is we get to use our block button. Makes me laugh, that people you are never likely to meet block you for having a personal preference. " We'd rather make notes on profile  | |||
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"Exactly! Cocks and CoVid, the same rules apply. Wash it and put on the PPE! "Nicely put | |||
"You know can catch some stds by skin to skin contact right, so condoms dont stop you getting an STD, not advocating bareback but Things like herpes can be caught and passed from kissing etc x You’d sincerely hope that people wouldn’t be playing at all if they’ve a herpes flare up. Condom or no condom. Using condoms is just eliminating a lot more risk. Like not going out as much now. Yes, chlamydia, for example, can be passed through oral sex, but it’s far less likely than through unprotected penetration. As I said, if you’re happy to take your chances, especially with the incurable ones, such as herpes, HIV, HPV (genital warts and leading to cervical cancer), and hepatitis B, crack on. It just won’t be with me. Perhaps if all the bareback players had their own little ‘lockdown’ and put a jonny on we’d not be seeing a 600% rise in gonorrhoea in 10 years and it’s mutation into super-gonorrhoea, which is getting resistant to treatment. As I say, it’s just a useful filter to me although I do find it mildly selfish. " For someone who lists, anal, oral, rimming, watersports, I'm surprised you commented on this forum. | |||
"Best thing about these threads is we get to use our block button. Makes me laugh, that people you are never likely to meet block you for having a personal preference. We'd rather make notes on profile " | |||
"You know can catch some stds by skin to skin contact right, so condoms dont stop you getting an STD, not advocating bareback but Things like herpes can be caught and passed from kissing etc x You’d sincerely hope that people wouldn’t be playing at all if they’ve a herpes flare up. Condom or no condom. Using condoms is just eliminating a lot more risk. Like not going out as much now. Yes, chlamydia, for example, can be passed through oral sex, but it’s far less likely than through unprotected penetration. As I said, if you’re happy to take your chances, especially with the incurable ones, such as herpes, HIV, HPV (genital warts and leading to cervical cancer), and hepatitis B, crack on. It just won’t be with me. Perhaps if all the bareback players had their own little ‘lockdown’ and put a jonny on we’d not be seeing a 600% rise in gonorrhoea in 10 years and it’s mutation into super-gonorrhoea, which is getting resistant to treatment. As I say, it’s just a useful filter to me although I do find it mildly selfish. For someone who lists, anal, oral, rimming, watersports, I'm surprised you commented on this forum." I don’t get your point, if there is one? Can you not use condoms for anal? I always have, perhaps I’m doing it wrong?
As for the others, its a far reduced risk and largely more prone for male to female transmission.
As for watersports. Read up on it. There’s a possibility of transmission, but it’s the least of all.
As I say, I don’t really get your point. | |||
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"Bareback is definitely on the menu after lockdown
If you live in an area where you can get one, this is an ideal time to do a postal test."Ordered one today, go to a walk in clinic every three months but local hospital one is shut at the moment. This did cross my mind a while ago actually, with everyone stopping play for longer than it takes everything to show up on these tests, wouldn't it be great if we could get as many on the scene as possible tested, treated and guaranteed clear now? Wouldn't that be a bonus for the scene in the long term? | |||
"Bareback is definitely on the menu after lockdown
If you live in an area where you can get one, this is an ideal time to do a postal test.
Ordered one today, go to a walk in clinic every three months but local hospital one is shut at the moment.
This did cross my mind a while ago actually, with everyone stopping play for longer than it takes everything to show up on these tests, wouldn't it be great if we could get as many on the scene as possible tested, treated and guaranteed clear now?
Wouldn't that be a bonus for the scene in the long term?"I was only tested (all clear) last month and it’s well over 6 months since I had any. | |||
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"Deffo be bareback and as much as possible x" You guys have some very hot pics on your profile | |||
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"All parties we do are condom optional. We never use. Our fun our decision. " Do you demand clean beds, clean sheets, disposable gloves , syringes and needles in hospitals ? Do you believe in Social distancing in current situation? | |||
"Have to laugh at those who play bare back and yet have safe sex on their profile . If you wish to play unprotected then at least be honest and give others the choice to play or avoid . " There is no “bareback” option, you can be someone that can play either way depending on circumstances. I enjoy bareback (tested, on prep) in some circumstances but have a “safe sex” by default and find it offensive when someone try bareback without discussing it. So I would put both on my profile if the option was available. | |||
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"A lot of people talk about what they will do differently after lockdown ends. Just curious will anyone play rules change regarding bareback? We have been a bb couple since we started, just curious to see if people will have changed views. We will carry on as before" No change for us bb | |||
"If you had a very close clique of couples, then bareback may be safe. However if you are playing the field, surely you have a responsibility to prevent to the best of your ability the transfer of stds. Ive mentioned before on another thread that my brother went to a bareback gang bang. Caught syphilis and hiv. It nearly killed him.. Yet he still fucks and goes dogging. As he passed on both stds to his wife, i haven't spoken to him in years out of disgust. " HIV and syphilis is a nasty combination and the treatment for syphilis If you have HIV is not pleasant. Thankfully people can now protect themselves against HIV by taking one pill a day, which I’d recommend to anyone regularly engaging in bareback sex. | |||
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"Have to laugh at those who play bare back and yet have safe sex on their profile . If you wish to play unprotected then at least be honest and give others the choice to play or avoid . There is no “bareback” option, you can be someone that can play either way depending on circumstances. I enjoy bareback (tested, on prep) in some circumstances but have a “safe sex” by default and find it offensive when someone try bareback without discussing it. So I would put both on my profile if the option was available." Both on profile would be good, honesty as its upfront. But so many tick safe when they bb | |||
"You know can catch some stds by skin to skin contact right, so condoms dont stop you getting an STD, not advocating bareback but Things like herpes can be caught and passed from kissing etc x You’d sincerely hope that people wouldn’t be playing at all if they’ve a herpes flare up. Condom or no condom. Using condoms is just eliminating a lot more risk. Like not going out as much now. Yes, chlamydia, for example, can be passed through oral sex, but it’s far less likely than through unprotected penetration. As I said, if you’re happy to take your chances, especially with the incurable ones, such as herpes, HIV, HPV (genital warts and leading to cervical cancer), and hepatitis B, crack on. It just won’t be with me. Perhaps if all the bareback players had their own little ‘lockdown’ and put a jonny on we’d not be seeing a 600% rise in gonorrhoea in 10 years and it’s mutation into super-gonorrhoea, which is getting resistant to treatment. As I say, it’s just a useful filter to me although I do find it mildly selfish. For someone who lists, anal, oral, rimming, watersports, I'm surprised you commented on this forum. I don’t get your point, if there is one? Can you not use condoms for anal? I always have, perhaps I’m doing it wrong?
As for the others, its a far reduced risk and largely more prone for male to female transmission.
As for watersports. Read up on it. There’s a possibility of transmission, but it’s the least of all.
As I say, I don’t really get your point. "Water sports is the least risky of any sexual encounter. People may not like the thought of is, but that is another matter entirely. Personally I love it. | |||
"Best thing about these threads is we get to use our block button. Makes me laugh, that people you are never likely to meet block you for having a personal preference. " Lol I’m using this thread to invite friends. | |||
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"You know can catch some stds by skin to skin contact right, so condoms dont stop you getting an STD, not advocating bareback but Things like herpes can be caught and passed from kissing etc x" This. | |||
"You know can catch some stds by skin to skin contact right, so condoms dont stop you getting an STD, not advocating bareback but Things like herpes can be caught and passed from kissing etc x This." As mentioned before, the risk is far, far reduced. It’s also more likely to be passed from male to female or male to male. And you’d dearly hope someone with a herpes flare up, when it’s infectious, would have the common decency not to be playing. | |||
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"As I see it, if we're all in favour of observing the current (and let's face it, harsh) restrictions in order to 'save lives and protect the NHS', why wouldn't we do the same with our sex lives? Worth remembering that contracting an STI will (for those of us who use it) add a further burden to the NHS, taking up time and resources, etc. And let's not even get on to antibiotic resistance. Surely, we all have a responsibility to take care of our health, whether it be staying home at the moment, or wearing a condom when having sex with multiple partners. " | |||
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"If you care about Corona virus and maintain social distance to break the chain then I am sure you would have similar thoughts about HIV too. Gloves and condoms do the same, prevention and minimise risk." | |||
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"More like bearback for many I suspect!??" Bearback. Now there’s a challenge and probably only marginally more dangerous. Grrrrr | |||
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"More like bearback for many I suspect!??" This topic will always polarise opinion  | |||
"Surely this only applies to the swingers on this site. " Do stds not apply to single people  . Have at it my fellow singles who knew sexual protection did not apply to us | |||
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And break on me a lot . | |||
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"We are definitely back to BB after vivid." Mmmmm glad to hear it | |||
"We are definitely back to BB after vivid." Happy to hear it. | |||
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"Im confused by the connection? COVID isnt sexually transmitted so why would a lockdown change your thoughts on bareback? Someone further up said it shows how quickly a virus cant be spread ... yes but every virus is different and you cant base one on another so again no connection I cant see the pandemic changing peoples sexual behaviour unless it had given them some sort of anxiety about being around other people again full stop which would really br a mental health issue to be worked through with a therapist This isn’t me advocating bb , i always get tested before reaching that stage with a monogamous partner just saying I cant see any connection between lockdown and bb "This | |||
