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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm seeing an increase in statuses like "I feel sorry for the first girl I have sex with after lockdown" and "the first girl I fuck after lockdown better have an 999 on hold" etc. Is it just me or are these kinds of statuses absolutely disgusting?! I wasn't sure whether to report as I don't know if it's just me being highly sensitive... I get that people are sexually frustrated and I like rough sex as much as the next person but boasting about hurting someone is never okay in my book!!

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By *hickennchipsWoman over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

I don’t think it’s meant in a hurtful way, we are all pent up with frustration

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By *orkspoonMan over a year ago

nearby

I know what you mean - they sound misogynistic at the very least

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And 99% of these profiles are un verified too, lockdown losers who think theyre gonna get sex on tap once lockdown is lifted.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm seeing an increase in statuses like "I feel sorry for the first girl I have sex with after lockdown" and "the first girl I fuck after lockdown better have an 999 on hold" etc. Is it just me or are these kinds of statuses absolutely disgusting?! I wasn't sure whether to report as I don't know if it's just me being highly sensitive... I get that people are sexually frustrated and I like rough sex as much as the next person but boasting about hurting someone is never okay in my book!!"

Half the idiots putting things like this can't even find a meet when there is no pandemic. All piss and wind

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By *ightowlingWoman over a year ago

Near Taunton

You're not being sensitive, gross.

I know the guys probably mean it tounge-in-cheek, but even so.

Do guys really think that statuses like that are going to help them pull on here?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Half the idiots putting things like this can't even find a meet when there is no pandemic. All piss and wind

I did wonder this. I've seen so many statuses about being so sexually frustrated because we can't meet during lockdown but realistically how many of these people were meeting beforehand anyway?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don’t think it’s meant in a hurtful way, we are all pent up with frustration

Me too, trust me! But implying someone is gonna have to call an ambulance after you fuck them is past sexual frustration and into scary territory imo

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve updated my status with something like this. It’s not meaning I’m going to assault someone I’m just going to unload my pent up sexual frustration out on them x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don’t think it’s meant in a hurtful way, we are all pent up with frustration

Me too, trust me! But implying someone is gonna have to call an ambulance after you fuck them is past sexual frustration and into scary territory imo"

It's probably just a poorly worded attempt at boasting how great they are at the sex.

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By *ightowlingWoman over a year ago

Near Taunton

"I don’t think it’s meant in a hurtful way, we are all pent up with frustration

Me too, trust me! But implying someone is gonna have to call an ambulance after you fuck them is past sexual frustration and into scary territory imo

It's probably just a poorly worded attempt at boasting how great they are at the sex."

Actually I read it and assume that they are going to be completely selfish!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’ve updated my status with something like this. It’s not meaning I’m going to assault someone I’m just going to unload my pent up sexual frustration out on them x"

Yeah I get that but I just feel like there's less creepy ways of saying it. I don't know, maybe it's just me and my lockdown emotions running a little high

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don’t think it’s meant in a hurtful way, we are all pent up with frustration

Me too, trust me! But implying someone is gonna have to call an ambulance after you fuck them is past sexual frustration and into scary territory imo

It's probably just a poorly worded attempt at boasting how great they are at the sex.

Actually I read it and assume that they are going to be completely selfish! "

It's not really gross though

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By *aughty_nymphWoman over a year ago

Cheltenham

Perhaps they feel sorry for them because they know it will be over quick

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It make you laugh how sexually frustrated people get after a couple of weeks, but they don't think of the people who haven't had in a few years

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Perhaps they feel sorry for them because they know it will be over quick

LOL!!! Brilliant, hadn't thought of that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It make you laugh how sexually frustrated people get after a couple of weeks, but they don't think of the people who haven't had in a few years "

I bet half these people haven't had sex in yonks anyway and are just making it seem like it's lockdown affecting their sex lives when in reality they're just morons

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Perhaps they feel sorry for them because they know it will be over quick

Yep, the first meet I have will be more foreplay than penetration. Things are likley to get very sticky, very quickly, and for that I will apologise whilst i recover for round 2.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It make you laugh how sexually frustrated people get after a couple of weeks, but they don't think of the people who haven't had in a few years

I bet half these people haven't had sex in yonks anyway and are just making it seem like it's lockdown affecting their sex lives when in reality they're just morons

I totally agree with you there!!

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By *erdyWoman over a year ago

wiltshire

Think you are being a tad over sensitive OP. No harm intended by anyone

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By *h86Man over a year ago

Nearby

Wishful thinking by sexually frustrated men?! No harm being done to anyone but themselves though, just ignore them!

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It's unoriginal, but it doesn't really bother me, they're just expressing their sexual frustration poorly. I wouldn't bother reporting as it's not breaking any rules.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple over a year ago

Newcastle

I think they are just trying to get people's attention like most status updates. I wouldn't read too much into it x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just a sign of immaturity or basically being thick as mince

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm more fed up of seeing statuses about covid. It's always one of the following:

- Pasting the same status about someone asking them to meet every day (I doubt anyone has actually asked them recently).

- Being bored. Does no one have work to do, or at least hobbies?

- Being so horny or frustrated to the point where it's unbearable. Erm, why not masturbate?

I might sound stuck up but I've learnt who the sex addicts with no life outside fab are in the past few weeks

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm more fed up of seeing statuses about covid. It's always one of the following:

- Pasting the same status about someone asking them to meet every day (I doubt anyone has actually asked them recently).

- Being bored. Does no one have work to do, or at least hobbies?

- Being so horny or frustrated to the point where it's unbearable. Erm, why not masturbate?

I might sound stuck up but I've learnt who the sex addicts with no life outside fab are in the past few weeks

Trust me if their inboxes are anything like mine I totally believe that people are still asking to meet every day. Also seen numerous statuses saying things like "can accommodate tonight" even with the fuckoff massive warning fab has added to the update status page about not advertising meets. You have to wonder how some people are able to walk around and breathe at the same time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I quite agree and the first thing I will be doing after seeing family is having a beer in my local when it opens

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

These are the kinds guys who won't be getting any after lock down.

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By *sm265Woman over a year ago

Shangri-la

It's getting very tedious to be honest. I'm just using these types of updates as a filter, the really gross ones I block, the others I put a private note on the profile so that if they attempt to message me in the future I know not to engage with them.

It's not just males, seen a few similar updates from females and couples

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By *d4fun73Man over a year ago

Shipley

On the other side some women's profiles aren't that different, also quite a lot advertising dirty knickers for sale!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah, those kind of statuses are a huge put off.

However they likely didn’t mean it to sound bad, but it does.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're not being sensitive, gross.

I know the guys probably mean it tounge-in-cheek, but even so.

Do guys really think that statuses like that are going to help them pull on here?! "

This. I find the majority of men incredibly disrespectful to women on here. There are some genuine, authentic men in amongst the idiots though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You're not being sensitive, gross.

I know the guys probably mean it tounge-in-cheek, but even so.

Do guys really think that statuses like that are going to help them pull on here?!

This. I find the majority of men incredibly disrespectful to women on here. There are some genuine, authentic men in amongst the idiots though. "

I actually asked someone who sent me a dirty message the other day whether he would approach someone in a bar and say that. He replied that no, he would try his best to be charming and respectful. His reasoning for being disrespectful to me was because it was 3am and he was on fab, as if that just immediately justifies it.

And this is why there are so many men struggling to get meets tbh. They don't understand that we are not just free prostitutes; we still want to be spoken to the same way we would by men in real life.

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By *sm265Woman over a year ago

Shangri-la

"You're not being sensitive, gross.

I know the guys probably mean it tounge-in-cheek, but even so.

Do guys really think that statuses like that are going to help them pull on here?!

This. I find the majority of men incredibly disrespectful to women on here. There are some genuine, authentic men in amongst the idiots though.

Exactly. There are many people who think that because it's a swingers site that the normal rules just don't apply & they are somehow entitled to treat people with less respect

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

I just see it as a jokey way of saying they are sexually frustrated. It's hardly reportable.

Also, all the nasty comments about people putting those statuses up are abit shitty to be honest. You're all allowed to make fun of and slag off people putting statuses you don't like up, yet you get offended over a jokey status.

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