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So been new to the game what's the first steps in a meet? Eg what should be said or talked about?
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so got a couple of meets after this crazy stops some at the people's houses when I meet what should I talked about when we first meet eg whats steps should be taken would like some pointers or questions i wouldn't think of that you people might know ?? |
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Our first couple of meets we were so nervous we barely spoke a word just pretty much got straight on with sex we have relaxed much more now and really enjoy the social side of it just be yourself and maybe meet somewhere neutral for a quick drink |
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Confirm the hard limits beforehand so you’re not having to check halfway through.
I guess the obvious ones that some people don’t allow are kissing, anal and unsafe sex.
Ask what they do like, so you can focus on that initially.
Then understand they may be just as nervous as you, so just be yourself and go with the flow.
We find background music helps too! |
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