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Couples - sex after kid/s
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well me and hubby dont have sex like we did in our twenties.
No more quickies in the daytime and now were too tired at night so when we do then its only quickies that we can be bothered with  |
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First few years were very difficult. We've adapted over the years and found new things to enjoy.
It's nothing like when we were younger but then we consciously make the time where as before it was as and when we wanted it really.
When they go to grandparents is the time to have more fun nights. Either date night, grown up events like concerts/live comedy etc or, if we're lucky, an additional guest to join us at home  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"First few years were very difficult. We've adapted over the years and found new things to enjoy.
It's nothing like when we were younger but then we consciously make the time where as before it was as and when we wanted it really.
When they go to grandparents is the time to have more fun nights. Either date night, grown up events like concerts/live comedy etc or, if we're lucky, an additional guest to join us at home "
Great to hear that - sounds similar to us. |
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We manage OK. For the first year or so after our daughter, things dried up a bit but that was more because of the disability I acquired. Our entire relationship has been with a child in tow - I had my son already when we got together (son was 18 months) and we've always had a very active sex life! Under normal circumstances, with the 3yo asleep and Mr Teenager out with his pals or girlfriend, we have plenty of time for naughtiness. At the moment, being all at home, it's been a bit harder because the eagle-eared lad is in next room  |
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Well not great at the moment  usually we do ok as they go to grandparents at least one night a week so we can have proper sessions and sometimes get a chance if we are both off together when kids are at school. Otherwise it's usually a quickie when we can but that can be quite hot  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We manage OK. For the first year or so after our daughter, things dried up a bit but that was more because of the disability I acquired. Our entire relationship has been with a child in tow - I had my son already when we got together (son was 18 months) and we've always had a very active sex life! Under normal circumstances, with the 3yo asleep and Mr Teenager out with his pals or girlfriend, we have plenty of time for naughtiness. At the moment, being all at home, it's been a bit harder because the eagle-eared lad is in next room "
Yep that must be tough with the teen  Thanks for the input. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing’s changed for us still manage to get down and dirty"
Dipped when they were really young as we were tired all the time but we’re like newly weds these days |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Nothing’s changed for us still manage to get down and dirty
Dipped when they were really young as we were tired all the time but we’re like newly weds these days"
How young we talking?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By the sounds of it, we are similar to most that have posted, in that it dipped when they were younger.
Nights when they are at their grandparents are set aside for adult time (range from full blown sessions to date nights)
Hoping after lockdown we managed to have some fun with another female too....once we find a mutual attraction and build up a connection
Stupid lockdown!  |
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"Well not great at the moment usually we do ok as they go to grandparents at least one night a week so we can have proper sessions and sometimes get a chance if we are both off together when kids are at school. Otherwise it's usually a quickie when we can but that can be quite hot
So we saying once a week is good then  "
No once a week for a good long, dirty, noisy session when we know we won't get interrupted. The other times during the week tend just take the opportunity when we can. Some weeks that may be a lot but sometimes not so much x |
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Great post ,we struggle to find the time to have sex these days it's such a struggle , one works nights other works days have 1 child school age and one pre school age,any advise would be great we try to have sex when possible ,but it's often a quickie , any suggestions would be great we have tried the solo play over txt and stuff but only so many different questions and scenarios you can ask each other before u find yourself on repeat. |
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For us not so much about needing alocl it's just we're both either two tired at the end of the day or we just don't seem to be able to get that spark , don't get me wrong when we do have sex it's great it's just trying to rediscover or learn new ways and things about us as over time things change don't they ,keeping the spark is the essential I think we have kinda miss placed ours lol |
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
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Speaking from experience lol, sex life certainly tails off a bit when they're young, but...
it gets better as they age and then when they fly the nest....well...
....lets just say it explodes into life again 
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Well we have 3 young children 6,8,9 and we are still fairly young, are sex life hasn't changed at all, it can be challenging at times but still find time to have our time together, having a lock on the bedroom door helps , |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When kids young was difficult to have sex whenever you want but as they grew up it got easier. Now ones left home and the other has a boyfriend so up until Covid she was away a lot so could get really dirty again. |
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