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Cuckolding, short or long term
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer to meet couples as frequently or infrequently as they wish. I find cuckolding on one meet is OK but you don’t build the spark and also the trust. I have had couples I have met for months if not years, but it got better every time as the trust built |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer to meet couples as frequently or infrequently as they wish. I find cuckolding on one meet is OK but you don’t build the spark and also the trust. I have had couples I have met for months if not years, but it got better every time as the trust built "
 100% agree with this. Have had one off meets that are great but as trust & connection builds over time it gets much better. Boundaries are pushed and the sex gets much better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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from a cucks position regular lovers for Mistress, a regular lover becomes used to issuing orders to me & extends limits of my humiliation, he becomes more comfortable having a cuckold under his control |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"from a cucks position regular lovers for Mistress, a regular lover becomes used to issuing orders to me & extends limits of my humiliation, he becomes more comfortable having a cuckold under his control"
Definitely agree with you there. A regular lover knows exactly what you want  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my experience long term is way more intense and pleasurable.
Gives you a chance to build a real dynamic with the couple and ensures the sessions are waaaaay more intense |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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and also slowly & timely teaches the cuck (me) what to expect in allowance of being able to pleasure my wife, oral, toys etc, what lingerie i should be buying my wife because it must please him to look at sexually, how to prepare before he visits, all is important |
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"and also slowly & timely teaches the cuck (me) what to expect in allowance of being able to pleasure my wife, oral, toys etc, what lingerie i should be buying my wife because it must please him to look at sexually, how to prepare before he visits, all is important"
take the wife shopping for sexy undies and get her to send pic to her lover and he can tell you when to pay for them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree long term is better. As the relationship between all three members develops you understand each others needs more, boundaries become clearer and it becomes much more comfortable. |
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From my experience my wife always enjoys having a regular bull, although not exclusive.
Cuckolding for us is about the wife building a bond with her lover and that can only really come from spending time together and a lot of fucking.
Long term all the time for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh yes a long term regular relationship is great. Having my partner enjoy her times with the bull each week is so horny and also he spends times with me too making me his cuck both at home and out and about. Also not just meeting him but meeting other guys as well depending on Mrs desires. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Long term and regular for me builds confidence and trust and heightens the intensity of meets and enables everyone to get out of it what they want and need. However it goes wrong when people are not open and honest unfortunately. |
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We would be interested in a longer term cuckold dynamic, we have had a couple of guys we’ve met a second time but not had anything long term before and from the replies on here it sounds it adds a whole new layer  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On a couple of occasions over the years we've met guys a few times. However I would not describe myself as a cuckold, we just do cuckold things. Mrs N is not dominant and all the guys have really wanted is to fuck her as they have been rather overcome with lust.
Just one or 2 have understood the mechanics of cuckold though and the need to build a relationship. The last one, a handsome late 20s guy took the time to sit with us and socialise a little and find out the dynamic of our relationship. 3 meets went really well where we explored some scenarios of great eroticism.
Mrs N even said as 1 scenario that she was willing to try was to go to his home. But as per usual it fizzled out, the guy disappeared off the scene and suddenly we were back to square 1.
After the lockdown we will perhaps try again.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"and also slowly & timely teaches the cuck (me) what to expect in allowance of being able to pleasure my wife, oral, toys etc, what lingerie i should be buying my wife because it must please him to look at sexually, how to prepare before he visits, all is important
take the wife shopping for sexy undies and get her to send pic to her lover and he can tell you when to pay for them"
that has been done to me (cuck) in the past |
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By *inups99Couple
over a year ago
manchester |
"From my experience my wife always enjoys having a regular bull, although not exclusive.
Cuckolding for us is about the wife building a bond with her lover and that can only really come from spending time together and a lot of fucking.
Long term all the time for us."
Well said. We have had the experience of a regular friend for a number of years with whom we’ve explored lots of scenarios and found for us it’s definitely the way to go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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More hotwifing than cuck, but probably a combination. For domination there needs to be familiarity and trust, so having 5 or so regular partners for Dom stuff would be good. It could turn in to a long term relationship thing as long as it's sex only.
But aside from that one or two meets and move on is preferred. Looking for quantity as well as quality! Keeping it NSA is vital so it doesn't interfere with our marriage. |
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By *ammy38Man
over a year ago
Hartley Wintney |
From my experience, time needs to be taken to build the relationship, social first and set out what each other is looking for. Having the feeling of being comfortable with a cuck couple and knowing the limits. Definitely takes time and I’ve only met a few couples where it has truly worked for us all. |
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We are new and have onky met 1 guy so far, met him 3 times before the lock down.
For us Jen would prefer 1 long term lover. So she could get to know him and build an intimate relationship with him. |
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As a bull definitely long term, it’s the dynamic that is exciting and fulfilling.
That said in a specific dynamic I tasked the hotwife to have string of one shots but it was in a power / control establishing scenario. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In our opinion, either works if it’s a good connection, although even for one offs it’s good to talk online for a while before any meet. Don’t want to waste anybodies time, theirs or ours. A social beforehand even if it’s the same night is also good. Regular is good to further the cuckolding experience but variety is the spice of life. |
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By *iclassyCouple
over a year ago
Manchester |
We wait patiently for a long time bull who would be committed to meeting mrs regularly. Mrs has a preference for younger guys so inevitably this reduces chances of this being successful in my opinion.. |
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"More hotwifing than cuck, but probably a combination. For domination there needs to be familiarity and trust, so having 5 or so regular partners for Dom stuff would be good. It could turn in to a long term relationship thing as long as it's sex only.
But aside from that one or two meets and move on is preferred. Looking for quantity as well as quality! Keeping it NSA is vital so it doesn't interfere with our marriage."
We have always said we would probably only meet same people a few times |
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As I’ve said previously in this thread we prefer long term, but after all this is over and we can get back to some sort of normality I expect there will be a lot of short term meets for hotwives with bulls.
Us cucks will have a lot of work to do lol |
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By *omis.69Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
It has to be long term for all concerned.
The initial thrill followed by natural progression, boundaries explored and pushed, limits agreed and fantasies scenarios played out over time. Rolls developed and expanded.
Doesn’t happen over night it takes time |
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I don't think I've ever had a one off meet with a cuck and a hotwife.
The long term arrangement can come with unique benefits that are best not written about in open forums.
But the real benefit is the dynamic and change as the bull understands the needs and wants of the couple, us the couples developing trust with the bull.
The long term approach is the best in my mind |
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Long term is better, it allows the 3 way relationship to develop. Finding guys to play with is easy; finding a guy who truly understands the role of the Bull is difficult. We much prefer the intensity of a developed relationship for 3 people rather than a one off. X |
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We would be interested in a regular bull as we think it would be a whole different dynamic to one offs, however one worry we have with something longer term is any potential attachments that might develop for anyone involved which obviously you don’t get with a one off meet. Cuckold is an aspect of play we enjoy, but we aren’t really full time with it and don’t really want a regular bull to become a ‘boyfriend’ if that makes sense x |
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"im always up front with anyone who wants regular its sexual only friends yes anymore than that i will go ice cold and stop with that person ...full stop"
That’s a good way of looking at it. Certainly something we’d like to try after lockdown as it will open up some new ideas and it would be nice to have a reliable bull for when we are looking for meets  |
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"im always up front with anyone who wants regular its sexual only friends yes anymore than that i will go ice cold and stop with that person ...full stop"
Makes perfect sense. Mine is a pretty flexible approach. I openly state that I'm theoretically open to everything from one offs at one end to poly at the other extreme. However how I approach a couple is ultimately determined by their boundaries.
My post Covid-19 "template" is to aim for 2-3 semi regular couples (or single ladies). I think that's a reasonably goal to keep things fun and balanced |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Longer term is so much better
You get to form a connection, find out what everyone wants from the situation (everyone is different so now on size fits all) relax and open up more easily.
Trust and friendship take time so to enjoy this side of things fully longer term is my preference. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
We would like to enter into bi female and male cuck fun, think the dynamic would be stunning for all four parties.
Wonder how a cuck would feel knowing his lady would prefer to be with a woman than someone with a pathetic cock. |
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