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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I’ve seen a lady on here who’s kids go to school with mine, do I let her know or keep it under wraps ?? "
I’d let her know and see what comes from it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I first joined fab I had a face pic as my profile pic I was recognized at the school gates one day and it made me feel very awkward I'd personally leave it be |
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As a school mum, I would hate to think anyone had recognised me on here, even if I was single. I would rather if they did, they just didn't say anything. If it was the other way around I certainly wouldn't mention it x |
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"When I first joined fab I had a face pic as my profile pic I was recognized at the school gates one day and it made me feel very awkward I'd personally leave it be"
This 
It’s your KID’S school, and hers! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I came across a lady I knew, she had just joined I gave her some warning about face pictures because there’s a lot more people on here than you first think and she hid them. Was never awkward after that and after a while we some fun together but it’s not always going to work out so well. |
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Somebody joined a few months back and immediately messaged me saying he knew me because he recognised something in a photo I’ve since hidden. He even got my name right. He seemed to think he could bully me into meeting him because of it. I lied and said he had the wrong person, and made it very clear I wouldn’t meet him. I also kept screenshots of everything in case he tried to go real life with it. By the next morning he’d deleted his profile, thankfully, but if he hadn’t I would have blocked him.
All of which is a long-winded way of saying leave it. She isn’t likely to fall into your arms in delight, and is actually much more likely to be freaked out and even scared, especially if she’s playing away. The best you’ll probably get is blocked. |
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I had this with someone from school. After constant requests to 'catch up', I gave him an unequivocal 'no'. This led to him saying all the things my bullies said to me throughout school, most of which I'd blocked out. Upset me terribly, which is why I left Fab.
TLDR: There's no such thing as an 'in' with a woman, here, just because you know who she is. Rarely ends well. |
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Take it as a fluke that you found out who she is, rather than luck.
It's wise to generally assume that people will only disclose their intimate details to those who they choose to, at their own pace. Anything else is totally wrong, especially where there are extra vulnerabilities, such as heir children.
Many would find it frightening to have someone knew where they and their kids are.
I think it's worth considering reporting yourself to admin, with her profile name, so that you can bave disclosure of the power imbalance.
It's worth blocking her profile too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dont mention a thing, it's none of your business what she does in her private time. Just because you recognise her does not give you the right to approach her in real life, and at the school gates for God's sake, what's wrong with you! Respect peoples privacy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No please don’t approach and be cautious. If you get chatting on fab then take it from there but personally I would avoid however hot she is so go home after school run happens again next year and knock one or two out haha   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Say nothing. Her private life is none of your business, and if you only know who she is because of your children going to the same school you probably don’t know her well enough to try and discuss anything she does away from there.
Turn it the other way around, how would you feel if someone approached you and said they recognised you from a swinging site, would you feel it was an invasion of your privacy?
I had to block someone on another site as he recognised me and started commenting on my images- uncomfortable comments about me and Inked. Prior to commenting on that site he had started messaging me, asking me to shoot images to a higher level than I do in the public domain, trying to constantly refer to my lingerie etc, he is my friends ex and I’d actually done many fully clothed shoots with him. I wasn’t sure why he was trying to push my levels until he messaged complaining I’d blocked him on that site- now I will never shoot with him again.
He didn’t respect my rights to privacy in my personal life, I see him as a creep now- don’t be that man where this lady is concerned.
Have more respect for her, and yourself, but if you want to risk it, go ahead- but I can guarantee she won’t appreciate it.
Viv x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ignore everybody on here. They don't know how life really works. You should definitely approach her, giving her the Joey "so how you doing?" eyebrow thing, and you'll be guaranteed to get laid. Women love that stuff. Come back here and let us know how it goes. I would say good luck, but you really won't need it. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Ignore everybody on here. They don't know how life really works. You should definitely approach her, giving her the Joey "so how you doing?" eyebrow thing, and you'll be guaranteed to get laid. Women love that stuff. Come back here and let us know how it goes. I would say good luck, but you really won't need it. "
Oil you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ignore everybody on here. They don't know how life really works. You should definitely approach her, giving her the Joey "so how you doing?" eyebrow thing, and you'll be guaranteed to get laid. Women love that stuff. Come back here and let us know how it goes. I would say good luck, but you really won't need it. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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this is just a website, life does not change because you come here, it perhaps shouldn't have been mentioned here thats where you've been imprudent, this place is a meeting point but life is a meeting point to whatever happened to chatting a woman up in the street i certainly have not lost that ability, just use your noddle next time   |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"this is just a website, life does not change because you come here, it perhaps shouldn't have been mentioned here thats where you've been imprudent, this place is a meeting point but life is a meeting point to whatever happened to chatting a woman up in the street i certainly have not lost that ability, just use your noddle next time
What's noodle?a chinese dish of tastless stringy pasta like stuff
Is it nice nope tasteless rubbish...... pot noodle....... not my thing at all...... use your noddle "
You can take me out for some after this all ends
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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Say absolutely nothing. Swinging rule number 1, respect others right to privacy and never acknowledge in public. If you want to talk to her do it via fab and respectfully accept whatever comes your way which will be likely the block button. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Say absolutely nothing. Swinging rule number 1, respect others right to privacy and never acknowledge in public. If you want to talk to her do it via fab and respectfully accept whatever comes your way which will be likely the block button."
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