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Oral technique - for the ladies
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That can be quite hard to tell as women like different things and have different preferences.
The most outstanding orgasms I've had from oral, is when a guy fingers me while slightly sucking my clit and flicking his tongue around the clit. I struggle with full on pressure on my clit |
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Even just for me it can be really variable. Mostly someone who listens and doesn't just assume they know what they're doing. Often less is more, gently building with fingers, lips, and tongue. Build, retreat, so I don't get too sensitive.
Combine it with fingering and I'll be the right kind of mess. |
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"That can be quite hard to tell as women like different things and have different preferences.
The most outstanding orgasms I've had from oral, is when a guy fingers me while slightly sucking my clit and flicking his tongue around the clit. I struggle with full on pressure on my clit "
Same for me
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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Wife likes to use an anal hook, the ball up against her g spot.
A vibrator on the hook and a mans tongue holding the hook in place.
Turns the tongue white for awhile and the taste buds take about two hours to recover, so I’ve been told.
Think that is what he said, he was slurring and salivating a lot at the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That can be quite hard to tell as women like different things and have different preferences.
The most outstanding orgasms I've had from oral, is when a guy fingers me while slightly sucking my clit and flicking his tongue around the clit. I struggle with full on pressure on my clit "
This! |
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"That can be quite hard to tell as women like different things and have different preferences.
The most outstanding orgasms I've had from oral, is when a guy fingers me while slightly sucking my clit and flicking his tongue around the clit. I struggle with full on pressure on my clit "
Sounds stupid but gently tracing out the alphabet around the clit usually has great results  |
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I avoid any man who says he’s good at oral. This usually means he will try out all the ‘tricks’ his exes have liked, one after the other, and it’s awful.
Women like VERY different things.
The best men at oral sex are patient, intuitive, and can read what a woman is enjoying. So leave your ego and your ‘experience’ outside the bedroom, be attentive, and take direction. |
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"I avoid any man who says he’s good at oral. This usually means he will try out all the ‘tricks’ his exes have liked, one after the other, and it’s awful.
Women like VERY different things.
The best men at oral sex are patient, intuitive, and can read what a woman is enjoying. So leave your ego and your ‘experience’ outside the bedroom, be attentive, and take direction."
Oh god the ego. I hate it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"That can be quite hard to tell as women like different things and have different preferences.
The most outstanding orgasms I've had from oral, is when a guy fingers me while slightly sucking my clit and flicking his tongue around the clit. I struggle with full on pressure on my clit
Sounds stupid but gently tracing out the alphabet around the clit usually has great results "
Just the ladies on this thread ... Listen and learn! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That can be quite hard to tell as women like different things and have different preferences.
The most outstanding orgasms I've had from oral, is when a guy fingers me while slightly sucking my clit and flicking his tongue around the clit. I struggle with full on pressure on my clit
Sounds stupid but gently tracing out the alphabet around the clit usually has great results "
Totally agree and a good technique if you can get the pressure just right |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That can be quite hard to tell as women like different things and have different preferences.
The most outstanding orgasms I've had from oral, is when a guy fingers me while slightly sucking my clit and flicking his tongue around the clit. I struggle with full on pressure on my clit
Sounds stupid but gently tracing out the alphabet around the clit usually has great results "
That's a lot of concentration! Not one for a 69  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Read her body language and learn what she likes
If she says right there.... DO NOT CHANGE WHAT YOURE DOING ha
They hate that "
This one's just for the ladies ... Listen and learn ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Read her body language and learn what she likes
If she says right there.... DO NOT CHANGE WHAT YOURE DOING ha
They hate that
This one's just for the ladies ... Listen and learn ..."
To be fair he's bang on there! I can be enjoying myself without a goal in sight and then a certain technique will have me declaring "that! Keep doing that!!" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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And patience. I'm very slow to ignite. If you don't enjoy spending time following her bodies queues then just don't bother. Nothing worse than a resentful half arsed attempt exactly the same as being aware a woman isn't enjoying blowing you... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I fall to pieces during a 69 
Yeah, I'm not a very multi skilled person. It ends up being a 6 and then a 9
I prefer to take turns and give/receive full focus "
Me too  |
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