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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No one has ever made me cumulative by just sucking me off. Nicky has made every bloke we have met cum or they have had to get her to stop. only way i cum in a woman's mouth is by banking.off or fucking then pulling out.
is this normal or am i just hard work? |
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"No one has ever made me cumulative by just sucking me off. Nicky has made every bloke we have met cum or they have had to get her to stop. only way i cum in a woman's mouth is by banking.off or fucking then pulling out.
is this normal or am i just hard work?"
I think much of it is in the mind. I have to direct all my thoughts to cumming - or it just ain't happening.
Shame I have to think about *not* cumming otherwise... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No one has ever made me cumulative by just sucking me off. Nicky has made every bloke we have met cum or they have had to get her to stop. only way i cum in a woman's mouth is by banking.off or fucking then pulling out.
is this normal or am i just hard work?"
Welcome to the hard work club  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No one has ever made me cumulative by just sucking me off. Nicky has made every bloke we have met cum or they have had to get her to stop. only way i cum in a woman's mouth is by banking.off or fucking then pulling out.
is this normal or am i just hard work?"
Cumulative?
Is that the posh word for it??
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By (user no longer on site)
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Same here bud . Wish i could offer advice but yeah i take it you enjoy oral but just can quite get there ? I always reach the same point and then just kind of stay there its frustrating and can sometimes be like that for sex too . Sounds great right ? lasting for hours , its not its really annoying at times . yYour def not alone on this one bud .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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same for me.
doesnt matter how lovely she is and the great sex we have she can suck and play with my cock till the cows come home.
just dont cum from a bj.
but i dont let it bother me, i really enjoy them and she knows that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've heard there are special gels and rubs you can get to help you its meant to make it so intense you can't stop yourself x
I have come across quite a few men with this problem I've cracked a few but some men just can't with oral x   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've heard there are special gels and rubs you can get to help you its meant to make it so intense you can't stop yourself x
I have come across quite a few men with this problem I've cracked a few but some men just can't with oral x "
gels and rubs eh? fascinating. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've heard there are special gels and rubs you can get to help you its meant to make it so intense you can't stop yourself x
I have come across quite a few men with this problem I've cracked a few but some men just can't with oral x
gels and rubs eh? fascinating."
Yeah its meant to have warming sensations I dunno all I know is I have one similar and its amazing x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Me too, except once, and that was explosive! I actually started wondering if I just didn't like it. Also, some women do it for about 30 seconds then stop.
So I asked one once, Is it clean? I'd just showered and she said it was, so can only assume she just didn't like doing it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Me too, except once, and that was explosive! I actually started wondering if I just didn't like it. Also, some women do it for about 30 seconds then stop.
So I asked one once, Is it clean? I'd just showered and she said it was, so can only assume she just didn't like doing it. "
Crazy woman bjs are amazing x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've heard there are special gels and rubs you can get to help you its meant to make it so intense you can't stop yourself x
I have come across quite a few men with this problem I've cracked a few but some men just can't with oral x
gels and rubs eh? fascinating.
Yeah its meant to have warming sensations I dunno all I know is I have one similar and its amazing x "
i will have to speak to you about this and see if it works  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've heard there are special gels and rubs you can get to help you its meant to make it so intense you can't stop yourself x
I have come across quite a few men with this problem I've cracked a few but some men just can't with oral x
gels and rubs eh? fascinating.
Yeah its meant to have warming sensations I dunno all I know is I have one similar and its amazing x
i will have to speak to you about this and see if it works "
That's fine with me xx |
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thank goodness its not just me.....30 years of bj's by a variety of ladies....and i never came.......until very recently....and it took ages and wow...so there was only one reasonable course of action.........i married her !!!!!!! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've heard there are special gels and rubs you can get to help you its meant to make it so intense you can't stop yourself x
I have come across quite a few men with this problem I've cracked a few but some men just can't with oral x
gels and rubs eh? fascinating.
Yeah its meant to have warming sensations I dunno all I know is I have one similar and its amazing x
i will have to speak to you about this and see if it works
That's fine with me xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"thank goodness its not just me.....30 years of bj's by a variety of ladies....and i never came.......until very recently....and it took ages and wow...so there was only one reasonable course of action.........i married her !!!!!!! x "
Good work fella  |
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I've never cum purely from a BJ either, but that doesn't make them less enjoyable - generally some other form of teasing has to be involved. Except once! We were playing and we had this girl exactly where we wanted her lol, we were both going down on her, then F switched, shuffled herself around and started giving me the most awesome slowwwww bj.
Well F and our friend had already orgasmed over n over through various different play styles, and I knew the BJ wasn't going to send me over so there'd me much more pl....WHEEP!! Mind blowing orgasm!! What the hell! I think I was stunned as much as I was cumming, certainly finished with a not very manly noise before collapsing... and asking how the hell F managed that.
Unfortunately the answer was, "I don't know... we'll try again later" and we never did find out
So I can't say never, but once in my entire sexual life. There's definately a trigger or something in your mind that has to get pulled before I can go that far. I think years of conditioning yourself not to cum quickly, to last hours, kind of defeats us in this situation 
Cumming with a BJ and wanking is common. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Depends on the person giving it. During the 10 years with my ex it used to take ages to cum from a bj, and usually she'd just give up and wank me off instead.
With ladies I've played with since the split, I've lasted about 30 seconds, tops |
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By *uttyMan
over a year ago
Local to you maybe |
Only 2 woman have managed to make me cum from a blow job, very nearly drowned the last one 
It's down to technique with me, some have it some don't, although they give a great blow job it never finishes with the desired result |
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"Ooooh I like a challenge
I have heard this lots and lots. and still nothing lol women saying they need stop as they have jaw ache lol"
Not me. I spent hours sucking a guys cock the othe night as he watched a film lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No one has ever made me cumulative by just sucking me off. Nicky has made every bloke we have met cum or they have had to get her to stop. only way i cum in a woman's mouth is by banking.off or fucking then pulling out.
is this normal or am i just hard work?"
Neither. You're just used to Nikkis technique and you automatically control your ejaculation. I've only ever cum twice just from a BJ and most of it was not down to just plain sucking harder - more to do with the eroticism of the moment etc. Does happen, but pretty rare I think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ooooh I like a challenge
I have heard this lots and lots. and still nothing lol women saying they need stop as they have jaw ache lol
Not me. I spent hours sucking a guys cock the othe night as he watched a film lol "
oh you.come here! |
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