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Is it possible to be a “Greedy Girl” while being super fussy about who you’re willing to fuck? I love the idea of a gangbang and hope that one day I’ll be able to have one, but I’m really fussy and would want total control over who was invited - the guys would basically have to be handpicked. Lots of people have recommended Greedy Girl nights at clubs, but to me that sounds like too much of a free-for-all and I don’t think it would work for me. Anyone else fussy but loves gangbangs? How do you make it work? |
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"Is it possible to be a “Greedy Girl” while being super fussy about who you’re willing to fuck? I love the idea of a gangbang and hope that one day I’ll be able to have one, but I’m really fussy and would want total control over who was invited - the guys would basically have to be handpicked. Lots of people have recommended Greedy Girl nights at clubs, but to me that sounds like too much of a free-for-all and I don’t think it would work for me. Anyone else fussy but loves gangbangs? How do you make it work?"
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"Is it possible to be a “Greedy Girl” while being super fussy about who you’re willing to fuck? I love the idea of a gangbang and hope that one day I’ll be able to have one, but I’m really fussy and would want total control over who was invited - the guys would basically have to be handpicked. Lots of people have recommended Greedy Girl nights at clubs, but to me that sounds like too much of a free-for-all and I don’t think it would work for me. Anyone else fussy but loves gangbangs? How do you make it work?"
Oh yes I am the same. 
It's not about being fussy it's about knowing what you want and how.
You have to have an attraction to the person or persons involved. Because if you don't how are you gonna get your rocks off.
I believe the mind is a much more powerful tool then anything. |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"Is it possible to be a “Greedy Girl” while being super fussy about who you’re willing to fuck? I love the idea of a gangbang and hope that one day I’ll be able to have one, but I’m really fussy and would want total control over who was invited - the guys would basically have to be handpicked. Lots of people have recommended Greedy Girl nights at clubs, but to me that sounds like too much of a free-for-all and I don’t think it would work for me. Anyone else fussy but loves gangbangs? How do you make it work?"
Speak to Cali aka _ittlemisscali, as this is something she really enjoys.
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By *aznlouCouple
over a year ago
co durham |
See this is my problem. I am well aware I am not most peoples cuppa tea etc but I am fussy too. Ive seen some where it is just a free for all or appears that way & it’s older gentleman who I might not always be attracted to either so I don’t join them
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"Is it possible to be a “Greedy Girl” while being super fussy about who you’re willing to fuck? I love the idea of a gangbang and hope that one day I’ll be able to have one, but I’m really fussy and would want total control over who was invited - the guys would basically have to be handpicked. Lots of people have recommended Greedy Girl nights at clubs, but to me that sounds like too much of a free-for-all and I don’t think it would work for me. Anyone else fussy but loves gangbangs? How do you make it work?"
. There is nothing wrong with been fussy you are looking for a specific type of gang bang with a certain type of guy that is your right.Greedy girl nights may not work for you but perhaps when Coronavirus and lockdown clears up maybe see if you can set up a hotel event with say a maximum of 6 handpicked guys any more than that you may arouse suspicion from the hotel and get thrown out.
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
Plymouth |
"I am exactly the same and it’s why I haven’t managed to do it yet! Mrs "
If you go to Chameleons on a Friday night there is normally a wide range of guys to suit all tastes I think, numerous fit young guys (not me) to choose from.. when this lock down ends and normality returns.. I have a lady friend that wants to visit and she would like to pick a group of guys for her first gangbang and I'll help make sure it all runs smoothly...and she enjoys herself.... |
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"It's possible.
It'd be a headache to organise, though
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Good thing I organise stuff for a living! Though I can see it could be a problem in that I always find the more you put into organising something the harder it is to enjoy it. |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
Plymouth |
"It's possible.
It'd be a headache to organise, though
Good thing I organise stuff for a living! Though I can see it could be a problem in that I always find the more you put into organising something the harder it is to enjoy it."
I organise a big social in Birmingham (with help). I spend the evening checking the guest list, dealing with any issues and worrying if people are enjoying them selves ...its exhausting.... |
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"Is it possible to be a “Greedy Girl” while being super fussy about who you’re willing to fuck? I love the idea of a gangbang and hope that one day I’ll be able to have one, but I’m really fussy and would want total control over who was invited - the guys would basically have to be handpicked. Lots of people have recommended Greedy Girl nights at clubs, but to me that sounds like too much of a free-for-all and I don’t think it would work for me. Anyone else fussy but loves gangbangs? How do you make it work?
Oh yes I am the same.
It's not about being fussy it's about knowing what you want and how.
You have to have an attraction to the person or persons involved. Because if you don't how are you gonna get your rocks off.
I believe the mind is a much more powerful tool then anything. "
That’s exactly it, the attraction. I don’t need everyone to be young or gym fit or massively hung, that’s not always attractive to me anyway, I just need guys that I’m happy to look at during the act! And just to complicate it a bit further, I’d want to know them at least a bit beforehand - complete strangers would stress me out too much. |
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over a year ago
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"Is it possible to be a “Greedy Girl” while being super fussy about who you’re willing to fuck? I love the idea of a gangbang and hope that one day I’ll be able to have one, but I’m really fussy and would want total control over who was invited - the guys would basically have to be handpicked. Lots of people have recommended Greedy Girl nights at clubs, but to me that sounds like too much of a free-for-all and I don’t think it would work for me. Anyone else fussy but loves gangbangs? How do you make it work?
Oh yes I am the same.
It's not about being fussy it's about knowing what you want and how.
You have to have an attraction to the person or persons involved. Because if you don't how are you gonna get your rocks off.
I believe the mind is a much more powerful tool then anything.
That’s exactly it, the attraction. I don’t need everyone to be young or gym fit or massively hung, that’s not always attractive to me anyway, I just need guys that I’m happy to look at during the act! And just to complicate it a bit further, I’d want to know them at least a bit beforehand - complete strangers would stress me out too much."
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I have built up a few friends that i see regularly at clubs and eventtl Socially (obviously not at min)
If your at the same event and you want to do a greedy girl fantasy do it. Grab them and have fun.
Ive done a roman style orgy awhile back with friends and there friends, it was completely spontaneous and great fun.
Or you could arrange with a friend or host that you trust to tie and blindfolded you. They are in charge and watch over you. you agree your limits before hand to enhance trust and safety, hopefully be ravished
Having the best time off your life.
(that's on my bucket list)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My wife is a incredibly fussy woman hence no fun apart from socials on fab thus far but we both know that in say a club situation she would just be so so greedy and fussy would go out of the window and all and anything would be on the table.
And then the lockdown hit!!!
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"I have built up a few friends that i see regularly at clubs and eventtl Socially (obviously not at min)
If your at the same event and you want to do a greedy girl fantasy do it. Grab them and have fun.
Ive done a roman style orgy awhile back with friends and there friends, it was completely spontaneous and great fun.
Or you could arrange with a friend or host that you trust to tie and blindfolded you. They are in charge and watch over you. you agree your limits before hand to enhance trust and safety, hopefully be ravished
Having the best time off your life.
(that's on my bucket list)
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Funnily enough being tied and blindfolded for it doesn’t appeal to me at all, in spite of my submissive nature. I want to be a fully hands on participant! I want to be able to look up and see all the men surrounding me, and be able to touch them. I do have someone I can trust to look after me, but I just would get more of a thrill being fully involved if that makes sense. |
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"Is it possible to be a “Greedy Girl” while being super fussy about who you’re willing to fuck? I love the idea of a gangbang and hope that one day I’ll be able to have one, but I’m really fussy and would want total control over who was invited - the guys would basically have to be handpicked. Lots of people have recommended Greedy Girl nights at clubs, but to me that sounds like too much of a free-for-all and I don’t think it would work for me. Anyone else fussy but loves gangbangs? How do you make it work?"
nope its not possible sorry it just isn't   |
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over a year ago
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I'm also fussy, but I just couldn't take part in a free for all or random ppl. Might make me crap swinger, but it what's right for me. And if you have a select few male friends it is more then possible x |
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"Is it possible to be a “Greedy Girl” while being super fussy about who you’re willing to fuck? I love the idea of a gangbang and hope that one day I’ll be able to have one, but I’m really fussy and would want total control over who was invited - the guys would basically have to be handpicked. Lots of people have recommended Greedy Girl nights at clubs, but to me that sounds like too much of a free-for-all and I don’t think it would work for me. Anyone else fussy but loves gangbangs? How do you make it work?"
Definitely don’t do a greedy girl night just hand pick the guys you like x |
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"Is it possible to be a “Greedy Girl” while being super fussy about who you’re willing to fuck? I love the idea of a gangbang and hope that one day I’ll be able to have one, but I’m really fussy and would want total control over who was invited - the guys would basically have to be handpicked. Lots of people have recommended Greedy Girl nights at clubs, but to me that sounds like too much of a free-for-all and I don’t think it would work for me. Anyone else fussy but loves gangbangs? How do you make it work?"
I'd be greedy with you |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
Plymouth |
"Is it possible to be a “Greedy Girl” while being super fussy about who you’re willing to fuck? I love the idea of a gangbang and hope that one day I’ll be able to have one, but I’m really fussy and would want total control over who was invited - the guys would basically have to be handpicked. Lots of people have recommended Greedy Girl nights at clubs, but to me that sounds like too much of a free-for-all and I don’t think it would work for me. Anyone else fussy but loves gangbangs? How do you make it work?
Definitely don’t do a greedy girl night just hand pick the guys you like x"
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Mecand a few friends set up a small froup for gangbangs and it was impossible to arrange meets.
Our first meet we all turned up at the hotel and the couple didnt.
With other meets the point raised by the OP was the trouble... Say out of 12 guys she only fancied 4 and of those 4 only one was available at the time.
In the end it became too much hard work and not worth the hassle.
If you want to do a gangbang select how many guys you want... Double that number as half will blow out and book a hotel.
Be upfront and honest about the hotel costs... Either swallow the cost (especially if you are staying the night) or say the room is xx and we have invited yy number of guys so that will be so much each.
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"I have built up a few friends that i see regularly at clubs and eventtl Socially (obviously not at min)
If your at the same event and you want to do a greedy girl fantasy do it. Grab them and have fun.
Ive done a roman style orgy awhile back with friends and there friends, it was completely spontaneous and great fun.
Or you could arrange with a friend or host that you trust to tie and blindfolded you. They are in charge and watch over you. you agree your limits before hand to enhance trust and safety, hopefully be ravished
Having the best time off your life.
(that's on my bucket list)
Funnily enough being tied and blindfolded for it doesn’t appeal to me at all, in spite of my submissive nature. I want to be a fully hands on participant! I want to be able to look up and see all the men surrounding me, and be able to touch them. I do have someone I can trust to look after me, but I just would get more of a thrill being fully involved if that makes sense."
Makes perfect sense. Maybe your FWB could help you in arranging something. Perhaps both go to a Club once they are open again and see whether enough guys there are of interest? It kind of depends on numbers as well. Happy hunting |
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"Is it possible to be a “Greedy Girl” while being super fussy about who you’re willing to fuck? I love the idea of a gangbang and hope that one day I’ll be able to have one, but I’m really fussy and would want total control over who was invited - the guys would basically have to be handpicked. Lots of people have recommended Greedy Girl nights at clubs, but to me that sounds like too much of a free-for-all and I don’t think it would work for me. Anyone else fussy but loves gangbangs? How do you make it work?"
yes it is.. I have 3 modes when being a greedy girl... and mode 1 is fussy as feck. I invite a group of guys I want and take it from there. The other guys are always okay just watching x
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"Is it possible to be a “Greedy Girl” while being super fussy about who you’re willing to fuck? I love the idea of a gangbang and hope that one day I’ll be able to have one, but I’m really fussy and would want total control over who was invited - the guys would basically have to be handpicked. Lots of people have recommended Greedy Girl nights at clubs, but to me that sounds like too much of a free-for-all and I don’t think it would work for me. Anyone else fussy but loves gangbangs? How do you make it work?"
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"Is it possible to be a “Greedy Girl” while being super fussy about who you’re willing to fuck? I love the idea of a gangbang and hope that one day I’ll be able to have one, but I’m really fussy and would want total control over who was invited - the guys would basically have to be handpicked. Lots of people have recommended Greedy Girl nights at clubs, but to me that sounds like too much of a free-for-all and I don’t think it would work for me. Anyone else fussy but loves gangbangs? How do you make it work?
nope its not possible sorry it just isn't "
Are you a greedy girl? No? Then off you pop thanks - you obviously don’t have anything useful to contribute. |
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"I'm also fussy, but I just couldn't take part in a free for all or random ppl. Might make me crap swinger, but it what's right for me. And if you have a select few male friends it is more then possible x"
One of the issues for me is that doing something like that at a club sounds quite dangerous to me, as you seem to have very little control over who can come in, and I expect there are more than a few guys who wouldn’t worry about a little thing like consent in a situation like that. I’d be far too worried about putting myself at risk to do something like that with strangers, and I don’t think that makes me or you a bad swinger. I think a controlled, closed situation with people you trust is much safer. |
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"Mecand a few friends set up a small froup for gangbangs and it was impossible to arrange meets.
Our first meet we all turned up at the hotel and the couple didnt.
With other meets the point raised by the OP was the trouble... Say out of 12 guys she only fancied 4 and of those 4 only one was available at the time.
In the end it became too much hard work and not worth the hassle.
If you want to do a gangbang select how many guys you want... Double that number as half will blow out and book a hotel.
Be upfront and honest about the hotel costs... Either swallow the cost (especially if you are staying the night) or say the room is xx and we have invited yy number of guys so that will be so much each.
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But I wouldn’t want to invite large numbers of random men, that’s the whole point. I’m also well aware that men like to jump on these threads asking to be invited, but most of them have no experience of GBs and will get cold feet and not show up. Part of the reason for wanting to handpick guys is so that I can get to know them a bit and try and make sure they’re reliable first. |
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By *inups99Couple
over a year ago
manchester |
You’re absolutely spot on. You should always be choosing who you want to play with whether single or group. No question about it.
"Is it possible to be a “Greedy Girl” while being super fussy about who you’re willing to fuck? I love the idea of a gangbang and hope that one day I’ll be able to have one, but I’m really fussy and would want total control over who was invited - the guys would basically have to be handpicked. Lots of people have recommended Greedy Girl nights at clubs, but to me that sounds like too much of a free-for-all and I don’t think it would work for me. Anyone else fussy but loves gangbangs? How do you make it work?"
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"Is it possible to be a “Greedy Girl” while being super fussy about who you’re willing to fuck? I love the idea of a gangbang and hope that one day I’ll be able to have one, but I’m really fussy and would want total control over who was invited - the guys would basically have to be handpicked. Lots of people have recommended Greedy Girl nights at clubs, but to me that sounds like too much of a free-for-all and I don’t think it would work for me. Anyone else fussy but loves gangbangs? How do you make it work?
yes it is.. I have 3 modes when being a greedy girl... and mode 1 is fussy as feck. I invite a group of guys I want and take it from there. The other guys are always okay just watching x "
That’s really good to know, thank you - I’m glad it’s actually possible and I’m not barking up the wrong tree! It’s such a huge fantasy of mine that I want to try and make sure that when it happens, it’s the way I want it to be and is an amazing experience, not something I regret, you know? I learned the hard way - I’d always wanted an MMF, took the first chance that offered, regretted it immediately because it was a total disappointment. You don’t get a second chance at a first time. |
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That’s really good to know, thank you - I’m glad it’s actually possible and I’m not barking up the wrong tree! It’s such a huge fantasy of mine that I want to try and make sure that when it happens, it’s the way I want it to be and is an amazing experience, not something I regret, you know? I learned the hard way - I’d always wanted an MMF, took the first chance that offered, regretted it immediately because it was a total disappointment. You don’t get a second chance at a first time."
I've helped on many occasions as like you say.. first time matters... I love to see a lady have a positive first experience of group fun.
Remember that it's all about what you want in that situation. Make sure you have people to watch and help make it go smoothly as then you can just sit back and enjoy
I had a greedy girls session at the beginning of the year that I spent over half the evening watching and helping newbies get what they wanted from the evening x |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
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"I'm also fussy, but I just couldn't take part in a free for all or random ppl. Might make me crap swinger, but it what's right for me. And if you have a select few male friends it is more then possible x
One of the issues for me is that doing something like that at a club sounds quite dangerous to me, as you seem to have very little control over who can come in, and I expect there are more than a few guys who wouldn’t worry about a little thing like consent in a situation like that. I’d be far too worried about putting myself at risk to do something like that with strangers, and I don’t think that makes me or you a bad swinger. I think a controlled, closed situation with people you trust is much safer."
. If you choose to do it at a club then as a single lady take 1-2 reliable males with you as no doubt you will want to make sure the guys are using condoms which is something one of your reliable males can do and the other one can make sure that no one try’s to join in that you haven’t hand picked |
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I've helped on many occasions as like you say.. first time matters... I love to see a lady have a positive first experience of group fun.
Remember that it's all about what you want in that situation. Make sure you have people to watch and help make it go smoothly as then you can just sit back and enjoy
I had a greedy girls session at the beginning of the year that I spent over half the evening watching and helping newbies get what they wanted from the evening x "
I did dip my toe in last year by attending a gangbang as a fluffer, and I absolutely loved it, it made me even more determined to do it myself one day. |
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"Is it possible to be a “Greedy Girl” while being super fussy about who you’re willing to fuck? I love the idea of a gangbang and hope that one day I’ll be able to have one, but I’m really fussy and would want total control over who was invited - the guys would basically have to be handpicked. Lots of people have recommended Greedy Girl nights at clubs, but to me that sounds like too much of a free-for-all and I don’t think it would work for me. Anyone else fussy but loves gangbangs? How do you make it work?"
I’m exactly the same and don’t believe it will ever happen  |
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"Is it possible to be a “Greedy Girl” while being super fussy about who you’re willing to fuck? I love the idea of a gangbang and hope that one day I’ll be able to have one, but I’m really fussy and would want total control over who was invited - the guys would basically have to be handpicked. Lots of people have recommended Greedy Girl nights at clubs, but to me that sounds like too much of a free-for-all and I don’t think it would work for me. Anyone else fussy but loves gangbangs? How do you make it work?"
Female porn stars are the same. And it's not fussy wanting other people to be clean and presentable - after all it's your gangbang |
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"Is it possible to be a “Greedy Girl” while being super fussy about who you’re willing to fuck? I love the idea of a gangbang and hope that one day I’ll be able to have one, but I’m really fussy and would want total control over who was invited - the guys would basically have to be handpicked. Lots of people have recommended Greedy Girl nights at clubs, but to me that sounds like too much of a free-for-all and I don’t think it would work for me. Anyone else fussy but loves gangbangs? How do you make it work?"
Even on a greedy girl night you can still pick who you want to fuck! At least the guys will have turned up! |
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"I am greedy but fussy also.
I am usually the one who is saying the No to one half of a couple. Doesnt mean we havent had fun....we do.
I am a bit precious about who I let fuck me....thats all 
MsD"
Yeah that’s definitely me! And on the occasions when I’ve not really been into the guy but met him anyway, it’s never been fun, so I’ve promised myself I won’t do that anymore. |
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Let me try to explain how hard it is to organize a gangbang from a guys point of view....
A single female wants 5 gym fit guys all with 9 inch cocks at 9 pm Friday night for a gangbang..
No problem.....
I send out a mass text to my team “ Who is available at 9 pm Friday night for single female gangbang “
The responses are
“ How many guys are gonna be there “
“ Is it bareback “
“ I’m not available Friday, can you do it on Saturday “
“ I can’t make it at 9 pm ...Can I come at , 11pm , 12am or 1 am “
Ok so after spending 2 days of non stop texting, I get 5 guys that the single female approves of and myself as the stand by......
Friday arrives , I send a group text with the location and ask everyone to confirm.....
Then the responses are as follows.....
“ Sorry can’t make it , got called into work “
“ Ohh it’s this Friday, I thought it was next week “
“ Hey , my dog/cat got sick I have to bring them to the vet “
“ My car broke down “
So now it’s 7 pm and I’m down to 2 guys plus myself ... Now I have to reach out to guys I originally told no , to see if they are available......
By a miracle I get 3 guys that can make it at 9...
I’m feeling great , all my hard work has paid off...
Gangbang happens , Everything went great...
Next day I get a text from the girl.....
“ Hey had a great time... I would love to do it again, but next time don’t invite these 3 guys... Get the guys I asked for “
Moral of the story if you’re fussy and want a gangbang...... Do all the organizing yourself....
It’s not as easy as people think...
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"Is it possible to be a “Greedy Girl” while being super fussy about who you’re willing to fuck? I love the idea of a gangbang and hope that one day I’ll be able to have one, but I’m really fussy and would want total control over who was invited - the guys would basically have to be handpicked. Lots of people have recommended Greedy Girl nights at clubs, but to me that sounds like too much of a free-for-all and I don’t think it would work for me. Anyone else fussy but loves gangbangs? How do you make it work?
Definitely don’t do a greedy girl night just hand pick the guys you like x"
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I have been looking for a couple of guys now to come to mine before my husband comes home from work so I can surprise him as He walks in but it’s so hard to find guys that I like and are up for this sort of thing  |
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"Let me try to explain how hard it is to organize a gangbang from a guys point of view....
A single female wants 5 gym fit guys all with 9 inch cocks at 9 pm Friday night for a gangbang..
No problem.....
I send out a mass text to my team “ Who is available at 9 pm Friday night for single female gangbang “
The responses are
“ How many guys are gonna be there “
“ Is it bareback “
“ I’m not available Friday, can you do it on Saturday “
“ I can’t make it at 9 pm ...Can I come at , 11pm , 12am or 1 am “
Ok so after spending 2 days of non stop texting, I get 5 guys that the single female approves of and myself as the stand by......
Friday arrives , I send a group text with the location and ask everyone to confirm.....
Then the responses are as follows.....
“ Sorry can’t make it , got called into work “
“ Ohh it’s this Friday, I thought it was next week “
“ Hey , my dog/cat got sick I have to bring them to the vet “
“ My car broke down “
So now it’s 7 pm and I’m down to 2 guys plus myself ... Now I have to reach out to guys I originally told no , to see if they are available......
By a miracle I get 3 guys that can make it at 9...
I’m feeling great , all my hard work has paid off...
Gangbang happens , Everything went great...
Next day I get a text from the girl.....
“ Hey had a great time... I would love to do it again, but next time don’t invite these 3 guys... Get the guys I asked for “
Moral of the story if you’re fussy and want a gangbang...... Do all the organizing yourself....
It’s not as easy as people think...
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"Let me try to explain how hard it is to organize a gangbang from a guys point of view....
A single female wants 5 gym fit guys all with 9 inch cocks at 9 pm Friday night for a gangbang..
No problem.....
I send out a mass text to my team “ Who is available at 9 pm Friday night for single female gangbang “
The responses are
“ How many guys are gonna be there “
“ Is it bareback “
“ I’m not available Friday, can you do it on Saturday “
“ I can’t make it at 9 pm ...Can I come at , 11pm , 12am or 1 am “
Ok so after spending 2 days of non stop texting, I get 5 guys that the single female approves of and myself as the stand by......
Friday arrives , I send a group text with the location and ask everyone to confirm.....
Then the responses are as follows.....
“ Sorry can’t make it , got called into work “
“ Ohh it’s this Friday, I thought it was next week “
“ Hey , my dog/cat got sick I have to bring them to the vet “
“ My car broke down “
So now it’s 7 pm and I’m down to 2 guys plus myself ... Now I have to reach out to guys I originally told no , to see if they are available......
By a miracle I get 3 guys that can make it at 9...
I’m feeling great , all my hard work has paid off...
Gangbang happens , Everything went great...
Next day I get a text from the girl.....
“ Hey had a great time... I would love to do it again, but next time don’t invite these 3 guys... Get the guys I asked for “
Moral of the story if you’re fussy and want a gangbang...... Do all the organizing yourself....
It’s not as easy as people think...
Did I ask you to organise it?"
No you didn’t..... I just wanted to present the other side of the coin..... just to give you a different perspective to think about... |
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over a year ago
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If you gonna find a spare place for me I'll lovely help with your naughty dream. For me it's gonna be also something new but wish to try that too at least once in my life because we have just one life and I like to experience... |
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"I have been looking for a couple of guys now to come to mine before my husband comes home from work so I can surprise him as He walks in but it’s so hard to find guys that I like and are up for this sort of thing "
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Nothing wrong with being fussy, I think it's a good thing.
From what I've read online it looks like it's very difficult to arrange because some men are all talk and when it comes down to it many drop out.
But I've seen mens profiles on here who arrange gangangs and the veris looked good. |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
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"Let me try to explain how hard it is to organize a gangbang from a guys point of view....
A single female wants 5 gym fit guys all with 9 inch cocks at 9 pm Friday night for a gangbang..
No problem.....
I send out a mass text to my team “ Who is available at 9 pm Friday night for single female gangbang “
The responses are
“ How many guys are gonna be there “
“ Is it bareback “
“ I’m not available Friday, can you do it on Saturday “
“ I can’t make it at 9 pm ...Can I come at , 11pm , 12am or 1 am “
Ok so after spending 2 days of non stop texting, I get 5 guys that the single female approves of and myself as the stand by......
Friday arrives , I send a group text with the location and ask everyone to confirm.....
Then the responses are as follows.....
“ Sorry can’t make it , got called into work “
“ Ohh it’s this Friday, I thought it was next week “
“ Hey , my dog/cat got sick I have to bring them to the vet “
“ My car broke down “
So now it’s 7 pm and I’m down to 2 guys plus myself ... Now I have to reach out to guys I originally told no , to see if they are available......
By a miracle I get 3 guys that can make it at 9...
I’m feeling great , all my hard work has paid off...
Gangbang happens , Everything went great...
Next day I get a text from the girl.....
“ Hey had a great time... I would love to do it again, but next time don’t invite these 3 guys... Get the guys I asked for “
Moral of the story if you’re fussy and want a gangbang...... Do all the organizing yourself....
It’s not as easy as people think...
Did I ask you to organise it?"
Do you need to be so rude... |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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Feels like you need to be in control in an area where you don’t want to.
Conflict.
Go to a club, pick the people then just let go for it.
You will not find out unless you take your head out of the equation.
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"I'm also fussy, but I just couldn't take part in a free for all or random ppl. Might make me crap swinger, but it what's right for me. And if you have a select few male friends it is more then possible x
One of the issues for me is that doing something like that at a club sounds quite dangerous to me, as you seem to have very little control over who can come in, and I expect there are more than a few guys who wouldn’t worry about a little thing like consent in a situation like that. I’d be far too worried about putting myself at risk to do something like that with strangers, and I don’t think that makes me or you a bad swinger. I think a controlled, closed situation with people you trust is much safer.. If you choose to do it at a club then as a single lady take 1-2 reliable males with you as no doubt you will want to make sure the guys are using condoms which is something one of your reliable males can do and the other one can make sure that no one try’s to join in that you haven’t hand picked"
no take a reliable female friend. Guys get way to lost in the moment and also may not have a womans eye for guys that will be spot on |
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Did I ask you to organise it?
No you didn’t..... I just wanted to present the other side of the coin..... just to give you a different perspective to think about..."
I’m perfectly capable of organising things myself, and I have someone I trust who can help me. I’m not looking for someone with a group of friends I don’t know at all to do it for me, and I’d never put that much trust in a stranger. My fussiness isn’t just about looks, it’s about my safety. |
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"Nothing wrong with being fussy, I think it's a good thing.
From what I've read online it looks like it's very difficult to arrange because some men are all talk and when it comes down to it many drop out.
But I've seen mens profiles on here who arrange gangangs and the veris looked good. "
I know of men who organise gangbangs, but I don’t know most of them or trust the one I know. That’s why I’d be looking to pick the men myself. |
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"Is it possible to be a “Greedy Girl” while being super fussy about who you’re willing to fuck? I love the idea of a gangbang and hope that one day I’ll be able to have one, but I’m really fussy and would want total control over who was invited - the guys would basically have to be handpicked. Lots of people have recommended Greedy Girl nights at clubs, but to me that sounds like too much of a free-for-all and I don’t think it would work for me. Anyone else fussy but loves gangbangs? How do you make it work?"
I'm a tad greedy to, but also fussy who I pick, have been to greedy girl club night, only found 1 guy that i liked rest were not for me lol. Plenty there but I'm fussy hahah |
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Did I ask you to organise it?
Do you need to be so rude..."
I wasn’t asking for a man’s perspective on organising gangbangs, I was asking for other women’s thoughts on my original question. I’m fully aware that these things aren’t easy to arrange, that’s why I would be looking to select reliable, experienced men. I’ve had some great responses from other women who feel the same as me, and from women who’ve made it work for them. I’ve also had far too many responses from men, both here and privately, wanting to join in or offering to organise it, or offering opinions they’re not qualified to give, or going off at tangents like this poster. Nothing in that post was relevant to my original question, and he himself was rather rude by ending with the “if you want to be fussy, organise it yourself” comment. |
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"Feels like you need to be in control in an area where you don’t want to.
Conflict.
Go to a club, pick the people then just let go for it.
You will not find out unless you take your head out of the equation.
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What conflict? I don’t know what you mean by “Feels like you need to be in control in an area where you don’t want to” or “take your head out of the equation”, care to elaborate? |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
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When we are allowed ..myself and a lady friend are going to Chams on Friday evening, we are booking a room. We will get a drink and sit down and spot the single guys ..she likes the look of..I'll pop and ask them if they would be interested in popping over for a chat..as we are thinking about organising a group session later on...if she likes them I'll add them to the list as it were ..and say well find them later...when we have the right nos plus a few extra...I'll find them and say the time and the place...(our room or maybe the cinema) and I'll make sure the lady is happy (first time) , I take it dead seriously..check all condoms on , listen to her and keep my eye out ...I've only done it once before for a lady...she was not fussy, but I made sure all rubbers on, and made sure I talked to her so she knew I was there and checking it was all ok...
Just sharing what I did..and hope to do on this subject...
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
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"I'm also fussy, but I just couldn't take part in a free for all or random ppl. Might make me crap swinger, but it what's right for me. And if you have a select few male friends it is more then possible x
One of the issues for me is that doing something like that at a club sounds quite dangerous to me, as you seem to have very little control over who can come in, and I expect there are more than a few guys who wouldn’t worry about a little thing like consent in a situation like that. I’d be far too worried about putting myself at risk to do something like that with strangers, and I don’t think that makes me or you a bad swinger. I think a controlled, closed situation with people you trust is much safer.. If you choose to do it at a club then as a single lady take 1-2 reliable males with you as no doubt you will want to make sure the guys are using condoms which is something one of your reliable males can do and the other one can make sure that no one try’s to join in that you haven’t hand picked no take a reliable female friend. Guys get way to lost in the moment and also may not have a womans eye for guys that will be spot on "
. If you can’t find a reliable guy then there is nothing wrong in taking a reliable female friend. |
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Did I ask you to organise it?
Do you need to be so rude...
I wasn’t asking for a man’s perspective on organising gangbangs, I was asking for other women’s thoughts on my original question. I’m fully aware that these things aren’t easy to arrange, that’s why I would be looking to select reliable, experienced men. I’ve had some great responses from other women who feel the same as me, and from women who’ve made it work for them. I’ve also had far too many responses from men, both here and privately, wanting to join in or offering to organise it, or offering opinions they’re not qualified to give, or going off at tangents like this poster. Nothing in that post was relevant to my original question, and he himself was rather rude by ending with the “if you want to be fussy, organise it yourself” comment."
I’m sorry for ruining your thread.... Good luck |
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"Is it possible to be a “Greedy Girl” while being super fussy about who you’re willing to fuck? I love the idea of a gangbang and hope that one day I’ll be able to have one, but I’m really fussy and would want total control over who was invited - the guys would basically have to be handpicked. Lots of people have recommended Greedy Girl nights at clubs, but to me that sounds like too much of a free-for-all and I don’t think it would work for me. Anyone else fussy but loves gangbangs? How do you make it work?"
Your main problem is coordination firstly finding 4 or 5 guys you want then getting them all together at the same time place.
Also on the fussy side finding guys you fancy that fancy you aswell.
The main idea of a gang bang is for you to not be in control and let others use your body.
Obviously you would have one guy or woman with you to ensure any rules and your safety are kept |
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Think you get a certain group of men that go to those sort of greedy girl meets, probably not the sort of guys you are after.
I'd rather have a wank and wack fifa on for a few hours |
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We love gangbangs but the thought of a free for all greedy girl type event doesnt appeal.
It is not that we are looking for only male model types but people who look like the same species would be good. |
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The ones I organise, the lady establishes how many guys she would enjoy and age ranges etc
I message to see who is interested has attended before etc.
she then chooses from that list
you still get a load of no shows though |
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I was quite lucky with my first gang bang as all the guys (seven) were presentable and were easy on the eye. Particularly the first one, he really put me in the mood. There was one guy who perhaps wouldn’t have been my choice, I turned over, let him fuck me from behind, gripped him hard and he came within about a minute ! Secretly I had a smile on my face and I found the whole thing very empowering. |
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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago
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"I was quite lucky with my first gang bang as all the guys (seven) were presentable and were easy on the eye. Particularly the first one, he really put me in the mood. There was one guy who perhaps wouldn’t have been my choice, I turned over, let him fuck me from behind, gripped him hard and he came within about a minute ! Secretly I had a smile on my face and I found the whole thing very empowering. "
the most powerful point of a bukkake or a gangbang is that the woman is very much the focus and remains in charge ... unless a submission narrative is agreed beforehand.
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"Is it possible to be a “Greedy Girl” while being super fussy about who you’re willing to fuck? I love the idea of a gangbang and hope that one day I’ll be able to have one, but I’m really fussy and would want total control over who was invited - the guys would basically have to be handpicked. Lots of people have recommended Greedy Girl nights at clubs, but to me that sounds like too much of a free-for-all and I don’t think it would work for me. Anyone else fussy but loves gangbangs? How do you make it work?"
I’ve been to clubs where a lady has cherry picked the gents she wanted and whisked us all up to a room |
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"We love gangbangs but the thought of a free for all greedy girl type event doesnt appeal.
It is not that we are looking for only male model types but people who look like the same species would be good."
I once asked a club host how a greedy girl event worked, and she told me I probably wouldn’t enjoy it, as the bulk of ladies who go were (in her words) “below par”. Her saying that was enough for me to choose not to go to one |
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It's a fantasy I have buy for many reasons I don't think it will become a reality.
I'm fussy.
I don't like not being in control.
I'd want to feel spoilt and not used |
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"I have been looking for a couple of guys now to come to mine before my husband comes home from work so I can surprise him as He walks in but it’s so hard to find guys that I like and are up for this sort of thing "
Sounds like an invitation for being chased off with a shotgun with trousers around the ankles lol. |
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"It's a fantasy I have buy for many reasons I don't think it will become a reality.
I'm fussy.
I don't like not being in control.
I'd want to feel spoilt and not used "
That’s exactly how I feel, wanting to feel spoilt not used. That’s partly why it’s essential for me to fancy the men, because if I don’t fancy them I won’t be able to get turned on, and then I’ll just feel used and shitty. I also wouldn’t want them lined up to fuck me and leave, I’d want them to touch and tease me as well. I know, I sound like hard work, but I think it would be much more erotic that way.
The control part for me would come from picking the guys I want and setting the rules in advance, once that was done and I had at least one other person in the room to keep an eye on things, I think I’d be ok with giving up control and just enjoying it. |
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You absolutely should choose if that's what you want.
Why on earth should you lower your standards because you want multiple guys?
If it ever happens it will just take longer to bring your tastes together.
The diaries of the beautiful people are notoriously busy. The fuglies, less so. It appears. |
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"It's a fantasy I have buy for many reasons I don't think it will become a reality.
I'm fussy.
I don't like not being in control.
I'd want to feel spoilt and not used
That’s exactly how I feel, wanting to feel spoilt not used. That’s partly why it’s essential for me to fancy the men, because if I don’t fancy them I won’t be able to get turned on, and then I’ll just feel used and shitty. I also wouldn’t want them lined up to fuck me and leave, I’d want them to touch and tease me as well. I know, I sound like hard work, but I think it would be much more erotic that way.
The control part for me would come from picking the guys I want and setting the rules in advance, once that was done and I had at least one other person in the room to keep an eye on things, I think I’d be ok with giving up control and just enjoying it."
How possible do you think all that will be?
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"It's a fantasy I have buy for many reasons I don't think it will become a reality.
I'm fussy.
I don't like not being in control.
I'd want to feel spoilt and not used
That’s exactly how I feel, wanting to feel spoilt not used. That’s partly why it’s essential for me to fancy the men, because if I don’t fancy them I won’t be able to get turned on, and then I’ll just feel used and shitty. I also wouldn’t want them lined up to fuck me and leave, I’d want them to touch and tease me as well. I know, I sound like hard work, but I think it would be much more erotic that way.
The control part for me would come from picking the guys I want and setting the rules in advance, once that was done and I had at least one other person in the room to keep an eye on things, I think I’d be ok with giving up control and just enjoying it.
How possible do you think all that will be?
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"It's a fantasy I have buy for many reasons I don't think it will become a reality.
I'm fussy.
I don't like not being in control.
I'd want to feel spoilt and not used
That’s exactly how I feel, wanting to feel spoilt not used. That’s partly why it’s essential for me to fancy the men, because if I don’t fancy them I won’t be able to get turned on, and then I’ll just feel used and shitty. I also wouldn’t want them lined up to fuck me and leave, I’d want them to touch and tease me as well. I know, I sound like hard work, but I think it would be much more erotic that way.
The control part for me would come from picking the guys I want and setting the rules in advance, once that was done and I had at least one other person in the room to keep an eye on things, I think I’d be ok with giving up control and just enjoying it.
How possible do you think all that will be?
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I don’t know, that’s why I posted here looking for input and advice from more experienced ladies. Frankly, I think the hardest part will be finding the men and getting them all together. Having rules about what is and is not allowed is a perfectly normal part of a gangbang so I don’t see why that would be an issue. And I don’t think many guys would have a problem with being asked to touch me! I would have thought that for most men, a fully involved, hands-on experience would be more fun for them as well. |
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If your at the same event and you want to do a greedy girl fantasy do it. Grab them and have fun.
Ive done a roman style orgy awhile back with friends and there friends, it was completely spontaneous and great fun.
Or you could arrange with a friend or host that you trust to tie and blindfolded you. They are in charge and watch over you. you agree your limits before hand to enhance trust and safety, hopefully be ravished
Having the best time off your life.
(that's on my bucket list)
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I love the thought of encouraging a lady to do it and helping with making it a reality for her. But I don't think it is something I could do.
I havent been around men in that type of situation before so I don't know if I would feel comfortable enough to have sex and enjoy it.
From what I've heard this is a common fantasy for a lot of women and it remains a fantasy for the most.
I think it's a big challenge to get it all right, but I hope it all works out for you OP.  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"It's a fantasy I have buy for many reasons I don't think it will become a reality.
I'm fussy.
I don't like not being in control.
I'd want to feel spoilt and not used
That’s exactly how I feel, wanting to feel spoilt not used. That’s partly why it’s essential for me to fancy the men, because if I don’t fancy them I won’t be able to get turned on, and then I’ll just feel used and shitty. I also wouldn’t want them lined up to fuck me and leave, I’d want them to touch and tease me as well. I know, I sound like hard work, but I think it would be much more erotic that way.
The control part for me would come from picking the guys I want and setting the rules in advance, once that was done and I had at least one other person in the room to keep an eye on things, I think I’d be ok with giving up control and just enjoying it.
How possible do you think all that will be?
I don’t know, that’s why I posted here looking for input and advice from more experienced ladies. Frankly, I think the hardest part will be finding the men and getting them all together. Having rules about what is and is not allowed is a perfectly normal part of a gangbang so I don’t see why that would be an issue. And I don’t think many guys would have a problem with being asked to touch me! I would have thought that for most men, a fully involved, hands-on experience would be more fun for them as well."
Finding one person or a couple proves tricky for many. Finding several guys that meet your critetia of what you find attractive, are comfortable in group (specifically all male bar one female participant) situations, are all available at a specific time on a specific date.........
Yep. That's your biggest hurdle.
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