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Whos ever wanted to be the 3rd/4th cog in a relationship?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We've always thought it would be fun to have a male or female or even a couple to bring into a relationship. Not anything serious as in move in lol just a little something extra  |
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"We've always thought it would be fun to have a male or female or even a couple to bring into a relationship. Not anything serious as in move in lol just a little something extra "
mmm sounds fun, had a few 3sum an 4sum in the past, allways so much fun  |
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over a year ago
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We had a third guy. Bit of poly relationship as we discovered..
All went out. She went to his. Stayed at his. He stayed at ours etc was fun. Till he called it off after a year.. As we really did have to be discreet. Which was hard. |
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"We had a third guy. Bit of poly relationship as we discovered..
All went out. She went to his. Stayed at his. He stayed at ours etc was fun. Till he called it off after a year.. As we really did have to be discreet. Which was hard. "
Sounds a lot of fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been the third wheel with a couple for a short time, we discussed a full on poly etc and although it was great fun in fantasy land the dynamic is almost impossible to have without having underlying emotions and it was just massively stressful as it ended up like a tug of war for her affections and eventually we all couldn’t cope with the fact I loved his wife which is a huge ask I know  very sad and lost good friends so won’t do it again |
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"I have been the third wheel with a couple for a short time, we discussed a full on poly etc and although it was great fun in fantasy land the dynamic is almost impossible to have without having underlying emotions and it was just massively stressful as it ended up like a tug of war for her affections and eventually we all couldn’t cope with the fact I loved his wife which is a huge ask I know very sad and lost good friends so won’t do it again "
Well first rule is make the rules. Plus we have a little one so cant be that complicated to start with |
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We were constantly evolving discussing rules and trying to find ways to make things work and keep everyone happy we did communicate constantly but it’s just too complex in my opinion but that’s just my experience, don’t get me wrong I made lots of mistakes and was very demanding and selfish at times so didn’t help matters at all  |
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