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over a year ago
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"Do women have more bi tendancies than men?  "
I think that there are lots of ladies on here who are " BI" as a matter of convenience for there partners.
Unfortunately for me I have met a fair few of them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't believe for a minute all of the females that say they are bi ... Are actually bi.....
It's a fashion to some... Others the hubby wants a it...... |
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"I'm bi out of my choice not my husbands...you can not force someone to be bi."
actually, you can... there are people who are "functionally bi", they have same gender sex, for different reasons, while they attracted emotionally to same sex at all
and such behavior can be forced |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't believe for a minute all of the females that say they are bi ... Are actually bi.....
It's a fashion to some... Others the hubby wants a it......"
Totally agree!
I remember when being gay or bi was a sexuality, not a fashion.
Mrs Artful like sex with other women BUT only women that connect with her and vice versa.
If someone is forced into it then that is wrong in the eyes of the law. |
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"Why is girl on girl so acceptable rather than to two men together, I thought we lived in a sexual liberated society"
Why'd you think that?!!
You only have to read the "shock, horror" reactions in newspaper forums when swinging is mentioned or people with unconventional lives are reported to think for one second our society is sexually liberal.
There are things that turn people's stomachs from two men getting it on, inter-racial coupling, super size and super slim...c'est la vie. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I remember when being gay or bi was a sexuality, not a fashion.
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I don't think anyone should be forced into anything they don't want to do, full stop. However the attitude that some women (or men) are only putting it on is....very frustrating and very off-putting for those of us who are very sure about their sexuality. Maybe some women are, maybe they aren't, but I think it's a bit disrespectful to say that it's a fashion to anyone. It's hard enough to get people to believe you aren't really straight, or purely gay, or that it isn't just a phase without people doubting anyone who uses the bi label. 
I remember when being gay was a cause for bullying, violence, and criminal charges - it wasn't all that long ago. Sexuality is a spectrum and on a sex-focused site is it only natural to see more people exploring it, even if that only means the occasional play in a club.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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every single-and married- lady we have tempted unto a 3some have willingly enjoyed it-so much so that that my wife and I are beginning to thuink that most females are capable of enjoying bi play with females with whom they get on-we were - pleasantly - surprised that the young single girls we met ALL enjoyed bi play-I suppose 2 hairy men playing together will always be less aesthetically appealing than 2 females |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Before we started swinging , we had talked about whether any bi tendencies had arisen . None for me ( male) but a few in the last year of school for her - just a bit of snogging with girls , but a desire for more was still there .
Hence when we started swinging , long lost dreams became reality and she is totally happy in being able to explore further that side of her sexuality .
No pressure whatsoever from me - so the comments suggesting women pretend for their partners is certainly not the case for us !
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we find that once a lady has hit 50 she wants to try another woman out of cuirosity (cant spell ) we met 5 women who wanted to try another woman and they loved it
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And I was one of them, thanks lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I reckon lots of woman (not all ) would love to push the boundaries and see thier man with aguy in a same room environment but would be too scared to say and very many guys would also be tempted but never admit it to thier partner |
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I doubt if women have more bi tendencies than guys but there probably more of them for a couple of reasons.
Women are more tactile for a start and are much more comfortable with touching, hugging, kissing each other, etc. Then there's their clothes, which are deliberately designed to look and feel sexy and women are always commenting on each other's appearance, asking each other about how they look, seeing each other getting dressed and undressed.....and that can very easily lead to sexy feelings. Why should a woman not feel sexually aroused when she's watching another girl put on some nice lingerie with slinky stockings or tights? And from there,it's not a huge step to actually doing something...
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