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Anal - do women really like it?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Anal seems to be the ultimate guy’s goal, I’m guessing as it’s still pretty taboo and also to fuel the porn fantasy but how many of you ladies actually really enjoy it?
I’ve met 2 ladies who really loved it but everyone else was either a definite no or tried it out of curiosity and weren’t keen. |
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OMG....I love it. Prefer it over vaginal alot of the time.
I didnt like it before I met MrD. He converted me.
Had an amazing over the end of my bed ass fuck session after he came back to mine after work recently. Yummo.
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I think men need to accept that not many women are going to enjoy it. Porn tells you that it’s a normal part of sex, so you start expecting every sexually liberated woman to be up for it. This expectation can do a hell of a lot of damage when women start feeling they’re not entitled to refuse or less ‘sexual’ than women who do it.
Unpopular opinion, I know. But it’s tiresome when men keep banging on about it like it’s some sort of sexual Holy Grail.
Yet another way that porn fucks people up mentally and physically. If you like it, do it. But try not to obsess about things that are considered taboo. That’s a dark route to take, no pun intended! |
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Dam good advice. My first experience was with my Ex when we were in our teens, she liked it but not too deep. We very rarely did it. I have met one woman since that asked for and she loved it. I think it is a mental thing that makes it more erotic. It is not something I would ask or expect to do. |
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Must say I enjoy it very much I think it's a case of mindset as you really need to relax and have a sense of control xx some guys just want to bang away from the off but there needs to be a little easing in before going full thrust hehe best initiated with a trusted partner I would suggest. I practiced many times before being able to relax properly and really enjoy myself  |
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over a year ago
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As a bi guy I have no choice of hole but luckily I love it! Once the guy has slowly pushed himself inside you and as long as he stays really hard it is incredible. Makes me cum without touching myself |
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"Anal seems to be the ultimate guy’s goal, I’m guessing as it’s still pretty taboo and also to fuel the porn fantasy but how many of you ladies actually really enjoy it?
I’ve met 2 ladies who really loved it but everyone else was either a definite no or tried it out of curiosity and weren’t keen."
I've only met one woman who liked it and she was vanilla.
Most of the women I know don't like it mainly because guys just tend to go straight to their arses and bang away like there's no tomorrow. (It's not porn guys, it's swinging lol). Personally I won't ask a woman if she wants anal but if she asks me I don't mind but give me vagina all day. |
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If it’s viewed as “Anal seems to be the ultimate guy’s goal ...” then it’s unlikely be so enjoyable.
LoudLoutishLover has it right.
Folk enjoy it when it tingles and it feels right. Not to add to their CVs. It’s fun both ways like that.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love it and can cum just from anal but it has to be done right! It’s one of the most pleasurable ways to fuck when it is done slowly, the stretching of my hole is all part of the fun.
If you find a guy who knows what he’s doing, for me, it’s as good or sometimes better than vaginal sex.
I spent a long time exploring my asshole by myself, using different toys, positions and LOTS of lube and I can honestly say it’s one of the best things about sex for me now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The 'do women like anal' question gets asked on here every week without fail on a new thread, sometimes twice a week.
I've browsed them all, I'd say it's 50/50 split between those that enjoy it and those that don't. Neither man or woman can speak for their sex on the subject, it's an individual choice and the reasons for liking or disliking it their own. |
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I am afraid women needs to be careful here. Constant anal sex can cause medical issues such as rectal prolapse, rectal dysplasia. Although can be very satisfying it should be experienced in moderation. Unless you are not worried to be wearing nappies at an young age. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Love it.
Anal and nipple play is enough to drive me wild.
Mmm might have to get some sandpaper. That sounds good.
Even better if a second guy present for me to suck. |
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"I think men need to accept that not many women are going to enjoy it. Porn tells you that it’s a normal part of sex, so you start expecting every sexually liberated woman to be up for it. This expectation can do a hell of a lot of damage when women start feeling they’re not entitled to refuse or less ‘sexual’ than women who do it.
Unpopular opinion, I know. But it’s tiresome when men keep banging on about it like it’s some sort of sexual Holy Grail.
Yet another way that porn fucks people up mentally and physically. If you like it, do it. But try not to obsess about things that are considered taboo. That’s a dark route to take, no pun intended!"
The trick has to be to find the pleasures each unique lady enjoys and then focus on that, then she will show her appreciation.
By all means take the full repertoire of skills to the party and respectfully offer them but only use those which light her eyes on fire ??. It is the lady’s expression of pleasure that fuels my arousal, not trying to copy a porn scene.
Concentrate on the lady and you get your rewards ???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am afraid women needs to be careful here. Constant anal sex can cause medical issues such as rectal prolapse, rectal dysplasia. Although can be very satisfying it should be experienced in moderation. Unless you are not worried to be wearing nappies at an young age."
Looks like another medical expert from the University of Life over here  |
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"Must say I enjoy it very much I think it's a case of mindset as you really need to relax and have a sense of control xx some guys just want to bang away from the off but there needs to be a little easing in before going full thrust hehe best initiated with a trusted partner I would suggest. I practiced many times before being able to relax properly and really enjoy myself "
If you let a woman control it I find you’re both going to enjoy it better  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love anal sex, but like most people very fussy with whom, I need to be lots of build up, foreplay and really turned on to enjoy it not to be rushed and yes it's very good. Guys think they can dive in, kills the mood stone dead.. |
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Its different for everyone so treat each other with respect .dont put too much emphasis on it so when its a no go it's not an issue .I still enjoy it but after 5 years on hormones I can't wait to get my new foo foo .
Not eating for 6 hrs and douching are essential for me though |
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A hesitant yes. Dont do it with Fab meets. I know lots of guys like the idea but often the only experience they have is from porn movies where actors simply ram their cocks in the poor girl. Ouch!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had exes who's hated it, one that would do it now and then and one that loved it and would cum every time without fail from it.
So I'd say yes some women do enjoy it but it's obviously and understand ably not everyone's cup of tea. |
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"I am afraid women needs to be careful here. Constant anal sex can cause medical issues such as rectal prolapse, rectal dysplasia. Although can be very satisfying it should be experienced in moderation. Unless you are not worried to be wearing nappies at an young age."
Only women need to worry? You don't seem so concerned, seeing as anal is listed as one of your interests on your profile? There is limited evidence in the medical literature for anal play causing issues. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It’s good, but never expect a women to offer it. They have to be in the mood. To find this out when they bent over, slide it out the pussy and tap your bellend a few times in their arsehole, they will either push back or move forward  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think men need to accept that not many women are going to enjoy it. Porn tells you that it’s a normal part of sex, so you start expecting every sexually liberated woman to be up for it. This expectation can do a hell of a lot of damage when women start feeling they’re not entitled to refuse or less ‘sexual’ than women who do it.
Unpopular opinion, I know. But it’s tiresome when men keep banging on about it like it’s some sort of sexual Holy Grail.
Yet another way that porn fucks people up mentally and physically. If you like it, do it. But try not to obsess about things that are considered taboo. That’s a dark route to take, no pun intended!"
I'd be quite happy with your blowjobs hun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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love anal ... but sadly so many guys just cant deliver it correctly too much wham bam thank you mam rather than take your time n build up so anal is only for those i know well |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"love anal ... but sadly so many guys just cant deliver it correctly too much wham bam thank you mam rather than take your time n build up so anal is only for those i know well"
Exactly this |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"love anal ... but sadly so many guys just cant deliver it correctly too much wham bam thank you mam rather than take your time n build up so anal is only for those i know well
Exactly this "
Totally |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"love anal ... but sadly so many guys just cant deliver it correctly too much wham bam thank you mam rather than take your time n build up so anal is only for those i know well
Exactly this "
I love it but gentle is the way forward.. Once you are in.. Then have your way with me  |
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"I love it and can cum just from anal but it has to be done right! It’s one of the most pleasurable ways to fuck when it is done slowly, the stretching of my hole is all part of the fun.
If you find a guy who knows what he’s doing, for me, it’s as good or sometimes better than vaginal sex.
I spent a long time exploring my asshole by myself, using different toys, positions and LOTS of lube and I can honestly say it’s one of the best things about sex for me now. "
This is me all over.
Even the act of getting ready for anal (enema) gets me in the mood, I love the feeling of having lube gently fingered into my ass and then once I'm relaxed the feeling of his cock pushing against my hole. The resistance giving way to the head of his cock and all of a sudden feeling full and stretched.
Let me have a minute to get used to it before pushing in to the hilt and then slowly getting into a steady but firm rhythm.
Happiness! |
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"I love it and can cum just from anal but it has to be done right! It’s one of the most pleasurable ways to fuck when it is done slowly, the stretching of my hole is all part of the fun.
If you find a guy who knows what he’s doing, for me, it’s as good or sometimes better than vaginal sex.
I spent a long time exploring my asshole by myself, using different toys, positions and LOTS of lube and I can honestly say it’s one of the best things about sex for me now.
This is me all over.
Even the act of getting ready for anal (enema) gets me in the mood, I love the feeling of having lube gently fingered into my ass and then once I'm relaxed the feeling of his cock pushing against my hole. The resistance giving way to the head of his cock and all of a sudden feeling full and stretched.
Let me have a minute to get used to it before pushing in to the hilt and then slowly getting into a steady but firm rhythm.
Happiness! "
This all day x |
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By *nal-FunMan
over a year ago
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Or what about with someone who's main fetish is anal and is very well versed in all forms of anal play? An experienced anal lover, if you will!
I so often hear that many men don't know how to perform anal properly and scare women off trying again. For me, it's all about mutual pleasure. I want her to enjoy it just as much as me if not more! |
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By *nal-FunMan
over a year ago
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"I enjoy it but it's got to be with an experienced guy who knows what he's doing and you need to trust him enough to relax "
Or what about with someone who's main fetish is anal and is very well versed in all forms of anal play? An experienced anal lover, if you will!
I so often hear that many men don't know how to perform anal properly and scare women off trying again. For me, it's all about mutual pleasure. I want her to enjoy it just as much as me if not more! |
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Nothing anal related to see on our profile at all, we're far too well-behaved for that sort of thing 