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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think Fab is a really great site but does anyone know of a 'soft swing only' site? I know we have that option on our interest list but often people seem to have that on their profile but actually want more and wont meet just for that!
I dont think im alone in just wanting soft swing fun...am i? so it would be good to have a section on here where 'everyone' knows thats whats on offer and nothing else.
Maybe if you register in the 'soft' section you cant register in the full swing section so it really is full of just soft swingers  just an idea....lights touch paper and stands well back...lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I think Fab is a really great site but does anyone know of a 'soft swing only' site? I know we have that option on our interest list but often people seem to have that on their profile but actually want more and wont meet just for that!
I dont think im alone in just wanting soft swing fun...am i? so it would be good to have a section on here where 'everyone' knows thats whats on offer and nothing else.
Maybe if you register in the 'soft' section you cant register in the full swing section so it really is full of just soft swingers just an idea....lights touch paper and stands well back...lol "
or you could talk to others and find out if they share your interests before jumpin into bed with them..... 
try reading the profiles, they also tend to be informative!  |
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We set our filters to 'soft swing' only when browsing. However this has not stopped us meeting couples who state 'full swap'.
If everyone gets on then boundaries are respected and fun still can be had.
We think having two registration sections would be a waste of time and you are also segregating yourself from chatting and meeting some lovely people  |
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we are soft swingers only, and seem to have an herrendous time meeting people that are interested in only this.
even had people message saying we should do full with them as we will enjoy it, and we are only soft FOR NOW and to be in touch when we want to do it properly lol.
we would also like to meet single guys, every now and then, in the UK also (midlands) but again, im convinced that no bloke will turn up and be happy with having purely oral play and not getting a fuck out of the play.
at least playing with another couple, they can fuck each other.
im waiting to be proven wrong. |
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"we are soft swingers only, and seem to have an herrendous time meeting people that are interested in only this.
even had people message saying we should do full with them as we will enjoy it, and we are only soft FOR NOW and to be in touch when we want to do it properly lol.
we would also like to meet single guys, every now and then, in the UK also (midlands) but again, im convinced that no bloke will turn up and be happy with having purely oral play and not getting a fuck out of the play.
at least playing with another couple, they can fuck each other.
im waiting to be proven wrong."
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"we are soft swingers only, and seem to have an herrendous time meeting people that are interested in only this.
even had people message saying we should do full with them as we will enjoy it, and we are only soft FOR NOW and to be in touch when we want to do it properly lol.
we would also like to meet single guys, every now and then, in the UK also (midlands) but again, im convinced that no bloke will turn up and be happy with having purely oral play and not getting a fuck out of the play.
at least playing with another couple, they can fuck each other.
im waiting to be proven wrong.
Yes you are wrong "
only according to the OP.
if YOU were interested in meeting someone and not getting a fuck out of it, you would have it on your interests. |
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"we are soft swingers only, and seem to have an herrendous time meeting people that are interested in only this.
even had people message saying we should do full with them as we will enjoy it, and we are only soft FOR NOW and to be in touch when we want to do it properly lol.
we would also like to meet single guys, every now and then, in the UK also (midlands) but again, im convinced that no bloke will turn up and be happy with having purely oral play and not getting a fuck out of the play.
at least playing with another couple, they can fuck each other.
im waiting to be proven wrong.
Yes you are wrong
only according to the OP.
if YOU were interested in meeting someone and not getting a fuck out of it, you would have it on your interests."
No because as has already been said it's something you discuss with people beforehand - I have met a few new or inexperienced couples who were dipping their toes and not yet ready to try full on sex I'm sure there must be other guys out there to |
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we used to be soft swap or f2f only for years and we got lots of meets on a few different sites and clubs and talking to ppl at socials ,we met a few single men to for soft play all was discussed before hand ,theres cpls who look just for single girls thats harder than soft play . |
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Yes you are wrong
only according to the OP.
if YOU were interested in meeting someone and not getting a fuck out of it, you would have it on your interests."
I would have replied privately but you have blocked single guys. But anyone reading the interest on your profile would not think you were only into soft swing, I do realise that it's in your profile text, but possibly that's where the confusion arises and people try to persuade you otherwise |
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Yes you are wrong
only according to the OP.
if YOU were interested in meeting someone and not getting a fuck out of it, you would have it on your interests.
I would have replied privately but you have blocked single guys. But anyone reading the interest on your profile would not think you were only into soft swing, I do realise that it's in your profile text, but possibly that's where the confusion arises and people try to persuade you otherwise "
hmm, interesting, and probably jsut reinforces the fact people dont read profiles.
profile title AND the first 2 words state the fact, so i doubt there can be any ambiguity.
and yes, we have blocked single blokes until we are happy to try again.
we also use the filters when looking, so unless its on your interests, your profile wouldnt be flagged up to us anyway. |
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and yes, we have blocked single blokes until we are happy to try again.
we also use the filters when looking, so unless its on your interests, your profile wouldnt be flagged up to us anyway. "
Probably like most people I set my interest up whe I first joined and didnt even know what soft swing was at that time But unlike many profiles where people just tick every box I did give some thought to what I included. I have been asked why I don't have toys on there to, but again these things usualy some out when you are chatting to people. To be honest I didnt even realise you could search down to that level of choice |
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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago
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"we are soft swingers only, and seem to have an herrendous time meeting people that are interested in only this.
even had people message saying we should do full with them as we will enjoy it, and we are only soft FOR NOW and to be in touch when we want to do it properly lol.
we would also like to meet single guys, every now and then, in the UK also (midlands) but again, im convinced that no bloke will turn up and be happy with having purely oral play and not getting a fuck out of the play.
at least playing with another couple, they can fuck each other.
im waiting to be proven wrong."
Have totally agree with your comments
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Honestly I think if you ask, a lot of people are more into than you think, but think that it's 'not quite all..'. We're looking for soft swing couples, same room with our own partners only, just a sexy night using what we have on who we have to build confidence and trust. Maybe some oral, maybe not, depends on the other couple, but as of yet - no offers.
Saying that, have we asked yet? Nope... That comes next, once Fi's work pattern is all scheduled up again :D |
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I ALWAYS read the profile of anyone i contact, it just get a bit annoying when they have soft swing on their list but when asked your told 'we want full sex' Well why have you got soft swing on your profile then?
Which is why i thought maybe a soft section (pardon the pun) might be good. Anyone in there or looking in there would know its soft only with no fear of someone putting even slight pressure on for more than that.
Of course i understand...you cant please all the peeps all the time but just thought it might help. It might help bring more new people in to if they knew it was a gentle place to start from. |
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"I ALWAYS read the profile of anyone i contact, it just get a bit annoying when they have soft swing on their list but when asked your told 'we want full sex' Well why have you got soft swing on your profile then?
Which is why i thought maybe a soft section (pardon the pun) might be good. Anyone in there or looking in there would know its soft only with no fear of someone putting even slight pressure on for more than that.
Of course i understand...you cant please all the peeps all the time but just thought it might help. It might help bring more new people in to if they knew it was a gentle place to start from. "
so, further segregation isnt the answer.
we have had the same, where they have both on their interests, and we firmly believe, given the choice, couples will stand softers up for fullers everytime.
we have had it before and certain will have it again.
whats the answer?
unless you want to go against what you want then there is no answer. just suck it up, but there are pure softers out there, they are just outnumbered by the fullers by a long way lol. |
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i think the thing that doesnt help also, is that people see soft swing as just touching.
it seems to have a stigma attached to it, whereas the ONLY thing we dont do with others is fuck.
think soft swing applies to such a huge spectrum of activity it is easy to dismiss it at the smaller end of it as its easier to see it as just touching, rather than everything short of intercourse. |
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"Think i agree with you lovedup
BTY great profile damn shame your so far away as we seem to be on the same wave length too
Keep flying the flag "
ah sure, you never know your luck (check out lovedup2's profile. ;o)) |
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"Think i agree with you lovedup
BTY great profile damn shame your so far away as we seem to be on the same wave length too
Keep flying the flag
ah sure, you never know your luck (check out lovedup2's profile. ;o))"
can you message me as I cant message you |
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