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"I would want to know " Yeah I agree, I’ve been cheated on before so I know how it feels on the other end and would definitely want to know. But then it also begs the question would it be right to tell the partner if you were able to? Because swinging is supposed to be nsa | |||
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"I would want to know Yeah I agree, I’ve been cheated on before so I know how it feels on the other end and would definitely want to know. But then it also begs the question would it be right to tell the partner if you were able to? Because swinging is supposed to be nsa " Cheating isn't swinging though. Swinging is an agreed thing grounded in respect, trust and consent.  | |||
"Unfortunatly it goes on way to much. And it would open so many cans of worms if we started to snitch, would only make the person who tells part of yhe couple whats going on. You need to ask yourself? Is it worth it? Do you need the drama? I know someone who has 7 kids that his wife don't know about. But... i ain't the one telling her. I just cut my ties with both of them. Didn't enter this world for other peoples issues. " Yeah I understand where you’re coming from. I think the conflict for me comes from the fact that I’ve had a guy contact me twice, once in November and once recently and his girlfriend is none the wiser | |||
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"Unfortunatly it goes on way to much. And it would open so many cans of worms if we started to snitch, would only make the person who tells part of yhe couple whats going on. You need to ask yourself? Is it worth it? Do you need the drama? I know someone who has 7 kids that his wife don't know about. But... i ain't the one telling her. I just cut my ties with both of them. Didn't enter this world for other peoples issues. Yeah I understand where you’re coming from. I think the conflict for me comes from the fact that I’ve had a guy contact me twice, once in November and once recently and his girlfriend is none the wiser " Another guy i know who i worked with was on here when single. Had meets on here and met someone outside of swinging..carried on here as well as seeing her and even married her. Its fking wrong in my eyes but its his life. I just feel sorry for her and hope to god he didn't pass any nasty disease's to her. Many cheat. Hence why i stayed single and have 4 cats  | |||
"Another guy i know who i worked with was on here when single. Had meets on here and met someone outside of swinging..carried on here as well as seeing her and even married her. Its fking wrong in my eyes but its his life. I just feel sorry for her and hope to god he didn't pass any nasty disease's to her. Many cheat. Hence why i stayed single and have 4 cats "Single life and cats is the way forward! | |||
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"It depends sometimes you can tell someone you are with what you like e.g swinging and lose that person some people don’t understand our fetish. Cheating is wrong but what we enjoy isn’t for everyone " That is true. I know this myself but it doesn't mean one can feel entitled to betray and deceive their loved one. If the sacrifice of not swinging is too great then there is a choice to be made albeit a difficult one. Its called having a spine! | |||
"It depends sometimes you can tell someone you are with what you like e.g swinging and lose that person some people don’t understand our fetish. Cheating is wrong but what we enjoy isn’t for everyone That is true. I know this myself but it doesn't mean one can feel entitled to betray and deceive their loved one. If the sacrifice of not swinging is too great then there is a choice to be made albeit a difficult one. Its called having a spine! " I agree 100% but the swing always calls | |||
" I agree 100% but the swing always calls " Admittedly I wouldn’t want to give up swinging if I met someone I wanted to be in a relationship with but I also wouldn’t do it in secret behind their back | |||
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"It depends sometimes you can tell someone you are with what you like e.g swinging and lose that person some people don’t understand our fetish. Cheating is wrong but what we enjoy isn’t for everyone That is true. I know this myself but it doesn't mean one can feel entitled to betray and deceive their loved one. If the sacrifice of not swinging is too great then there is a choice to be made albeit a difficult one. Its called having a spine! I agree 100% but the swing always calls " Then end the relationship | |||
"My bi ex cheated on me whilst we were swinging together . With a guy ffs!!!" That I don't get at all. | |||
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"For me to be in a relationship we’d both have to enjoy swinging otherwise it’s pointless " Then you’d just choose a relationship based on that criteria then? #simples | |||
"For me swinging has always had the rule that it has no place for hurt. There’s a stack of cheats, even within swinging couples who will play outside of their established rules. I’m not sure if ‘informing’ is a great solution, it’s rare people will thank you for bringing their pain into reality. Perhaps jut sleep easy in the fact you don’t do it and perhaps more importantly engage with those who do. X" Very wise words | |||
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"For me swinging has always had the rule that it has no place for hurt. There’s a stack of cheats, even within swinging couples who will play outside of their established rules. I’m not sure if ‘informing’ is a great solution, it’s rare people will thank you for bringing their pain into reality. Perhaps jut sleep easy in the fact you don’t do it and perhaps more importantly engage with those who do. X Very wise words " Aye... these wrinkles came from wisdom 
Joking aside I’ve been on scene for 27 years it still amazes me the level of cheating that goes on within the hobby. | |||
 . She would have been about 6 months pregnant when we started fucking.
Years go by, I’m back here on a new profile, turns out so is he as I get a message from him (he obviously didn’t recognise that it was me). I decided to do a little facestalk again and it turned out he’d split with his kid’s mum, and now got himself a very young looking girlfriend who he was living with, and they had twins  . Only this time he’s on here as bi and looking to meet men and women.
What a dick. | |||
"Quite a few years ago on an old profile on here I met a guy who lived a few miles away. He was hot, hung, single and we met up quite a few times before it fizzled out. Then not long after, he came up as a suggested friend on fb (his number was in my phone). Only his name wasn’t what he told me it was, and when I had a bit of a stalk it turned out he had a very new baby and was very much in a relationship with the baby’s mother . She would have been about 6 months pregnant when we started fucking.
Years go by, I’m back here on a new profile, turns out so is he as I get a message from him (he obviously didn’t recognise that it was me). I decided to do a little facestalk again and it turned out he’d split with his kid’s mum, and now got himself a very young looking girlfriend who he was living with, and they had twins . Only this time he’s on here as bi and looking to meet men and women.
What a dick. "That’s fkn priceless x | |||
"Quite a few years ago on an old profile on here I met a guy who lived a few miles away. He was hot, hung, single and we met up quite a few times before it fizzled out. Then not long after, he came up as a suggested friend on fb (his number was in my phone). Only his name wasn’t what he told me it was, and when I had a bit of a stalk it turned out he had a very new baby and was very much in a relationship with the baby’s mother . She would have been about 6 months pregnant when we started fucking.
Years go by, I’m back here on a new profile, turns out so is he as I get a message from him (he obviously didn’t recognise that it was me). I decided to do a little facestalk again and it turned out he’d split with his kid’s mum, and now got himself a very young looking girlfriend who he was living with, and they had twins . Only this time he’s on here as bi and looking to meet men and women.
What a dick.
That’s fkn priceless x"I know...what a Prince among men. I think I put the shitters up him though by replying to his ‘hi fancy a fuck’ type message by asking how his girlfriend (naming her by name) and the twins were  .
He wrote back saying ‘who is this’ and then hid his profile . Twat. | |||
"My bi ex cheated on me whilst we were swinging together . With a guy ffs!!!" Sorry that happened but what does him being bi have to do with anything? | |||
"Cheating is wrong in any form " I used to think this. I know think it is *incredibly* naive and short-sighted. | |||
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"We are both too flawed to sit and judge why someone elses relationship doesnt meet our standards. Swinging as a functioning liberal ideology is actually pretty rare, and not many ever use real names on here so calling out cheating is a "glass-house" activity. Then there is the state of the marriage Is 'dont ask dont tell' cheating? Is genuine imbalances in sexual needs cheating? Is staying around for the kids cheating? Arranged marriage? Being married or with a SO is their concern and theirs alone, and the phrase NSA is exactly that. The only issue you have to have with cheating is self preservation - their dramas are not yours and the biggie - if they lie to people they love, what do they say to the people they don't. .. " ‘Don’t ask, don’t tell’ us most definitely cheating. If I was in a monogamous relationships I would never ever think I would have to ask my partner if they were cheating. It would just be expected that they were | |||
"I had an affair with a married man from this site for just over a year. In the end I only saw him one a week or 2. I dont want to be number 2 and it's not right or fair to her so I ended it. Hes got charm by the bucket loads. Goodluck to the next lady in his sights. Glad I'm out. Never again" Always difficult playing second fiddle, guys and girls use this site to cheat for whatever good reason, what I like about swinging is you can be yourself be who you are and be honest about things, I've had a few vanilla gfs and I tell them about what I do, if it's not for them fare enough but wouldn't cheat, likewise I wouldn't snitch on someone cheating as wouldn't want to be involved in the fall out x | |||
"I’ve recently come across a few people on fab/ kik/ various group chats who are cheating on their partners whom they’re in ‘monogamous’ relationships with. What’s everyone’s views on people who are cheating on their partners? Do their partners have a right to know what’s happening behind their back? " We think cheating is disrespectful, dishonest and disgusting. And some of the excuses are SO funny!! Cheatingis certainly nothing to do with swinging. | |||
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"I’ve recently come across a few people on fab/ kik/ various group chats who are cheating on their partners whom they’re in ‘monogamous’ relationships with. What’s everyone’s views on people who are cheating on their partners? Do their partners have a right to know what’s happening behind their back? " the words swinging and cheating don't belong in the same sentence..... swinging is about trust and honesty... cheating is the exact opposite.... would i tell the 3rd person... my position is that i wouldn't initiate that conversation, but i certainly would not lie about it if i was asked! | |||
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"We are both too flawed to sit and judge why someone elses relationship doesnt meet our standards. Swinging as a functioning liberal ideology is actually pretty rare, and not many ever use real names on here so calling out cheating is a "glass-house" activity. Then there is the state of the marriage Is 'dont ask dont tell' cheating? Is genuine imbalances in sexual needs cheating? Is staying around for the kids cheating? Arranged marriage? Being married or with a SO is their concern and theirs alone, and the phrase NSA is exactly that. The only issue you have to have with cheating is self preservation - their dramas are not yours and the biggie - if they lie to people they love, what do they say to the people they don't. .. ‘Don’t ask, don’t tell’ us most definitely cheating. If I was in a monogamous relationships I would never ever think I would have to ask my partner if they were cheating. It would just be expected that they were " Were or were not?
I posed the question and you added the monogamous relationship, which means it *must* be cheating. I was considering more the not-uncommon
'Dont ask dont tell' where both parties 'know' but the non player does not want to be drawn in to it or know any detail at all - or particularly - for anyone else to know.
There are shades of "knowing" | |||
"I’ve recently come across a few people on fab/ kik/ various group chats who are cheating on their partners whom they’re in ‘monogamous’ relationships with. What’s everyone’s views on people who are cheating on their partners? Do their partners have a right to know what’s happening behind their back? the words swinging and cheating don't belong in the same sentence..... swinging is about trust and honesty... cheating is the exact opposite.... would i tell the 3rd person... my position is that i wouldn't initiate that conversation, but i certainly would not lie about it if i was asked!" 100% | |||
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"I met a guy off here said he was single but then found out he was wife and two kids so went no further than social. He still meets singles and couples even if their profile states they won't meet married men because he takes his wedding ring off " We've met men socially who've removed their wedding ring. Don't the realise it leaves a dent? | |||
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"My bi ex cheated on me whilst we were swinging together . With a guy ffs!!! Sorry that happened but what does him being bi have to do with anything? " . because he not only cheated but he cheated on me with a guy...so I suppose it's all irrelevant that bit but kind of hurt more I guess | |||
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"We would not play with someone who is cheating. If we were to find out later they were cheating their consent would of been obtained by fraud which would make it sexual assault in our eyes. At which point I (mr) am likely to remove both your arms and beat you to death with them. Dont care about why your doing it, we just dont want to be involved." Well said. | |||
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"I’ve recently come across a few people on fab/ kik/ various group chats who are cheating on their partners whom they’re in ‘monogamous’ relationships with. What’s everyone’s views on people who are cheating on their partners? Do their partners have a right to know what’s happening behind their back? " I don't know why you think it's any of your business OP. You don't approve that's fine, just don't meet up with someone who's in relationship. | |||
"We would not play with someone who is cheating. If we were to find out later they were cheating their consent would of been obtained by fraud which would make it sexual assault in our eyes. At which point I (mr) am likely to remove both your arms and beat you to death with them. Dont care about why your doing it, we just dont want to be involved." The fact you compare it to "sexual assault" is laughable and a insult to real victims of sexual assault !!! | |||
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"We would not play with someone who is cheating. If we were to find out later they were cheating their consent would of been obtained by fraud which would make it sexual assault in our eyes. At which point I (mr) am likely to remove both your arms and beat you to death with them. Dont care about why your doing it, we just dont want to be involved.The fact you compare it to "sexual assault" is laughable and a insult to real victims of sexual assault !!! " How so? I'm not talking about little white lies about what you earn or how many people you have slept with. Obtaining consent by fraud by it's very definition means informed consent could not be given. Finding out you were tricked into having sex that you wouldn't have had can be very emotionally damaging. I'm not directly comparing it to the R word at all but I think should be classed as a form of sexual assault. What else do you call sex without informed consent? | |||
"No need for it If you’re in a sexless relationship or you want to swing be brave enough and tell your partner.. It may end your relationship but Atleast you’re not living a lie Speaking from experience btw" Well said that man | |||
"I’ve recently come across a few people on fab/ kik/ various group chats who are cheating on their partners whom they’re in ‘monogamous’ relationships with. What’s everyone’s views on people who are cheating on their partners? Do their partners have a right to know what’s happening behind their back? I don't know why you think it's any of your business OP. You don't approve that's fine, just don't meet up with someone who's in relationship. " Fair point . Stick to genuine swingers OP, not cheats. | |||
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"I’ve recently come across a few people on fab/ kik/ various group chats who are cheating on their partners whom they’re in ‘monogamous’ relationships with. What’s everyone’s views on people who are cheating on their partners? Do their partners have a right to know what’s happening behind their back? " i think its universally unacceptable but having said that we are all adults and can make adult decisions, we are not aparty to their problems having said that it doesn't say an awful lot for their characters especially if they have been doing it a long time, as a single person it doesn't affect me i base what i do on the personality and look of the person concerned, some obviously don't let on    | |||
"We would not play with someone who is cheating. If we were to find out later they were cheating their consent would of been obtained by fraud which would make it sexual assault in our eyes. At which point I (mr) am likely to remove both your arms and beat you to death with them. Dont care about why your doing it, we just dont want to be involved.The fact you compare it to "sexual assault" is laughable and a insult to real victims of sexual assault !!! How so? I'm not talking about little white lies about what you earn or how many people you have slept with. Obtaining consent by fraud by it's very definition means informed consent could not be given. Finding out you were tricked into having sex that you wouldn't have had can be very emotionally damaging. I'm not directly comparing it to the R word at all but I think should be classed as a form of sexual assault. What else do you call sex without informed consent?" Very interesting point this. We have just Googled "is obtaining sex by deception assault" and it makes interesting reading. You could have a very valid point about this poster! ! | |||
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"We would not play with someone who is cheating. If we were to find out later they were cheating their consent would of been obtained by fraud which would make it sexual assault in our eyes. At which point I (mr) am likely to remove both your arms and beat you to death with them. Dont care about why your doing it, we just dont want to be involved.The fact you compare it to "sexual assault" is laughable and a insult to real victims of sexual assault !!! How so? I'm not talking about little white lies about what you earn or how many people you have slept with. Obtaining consent by fraud by it's very definition means informed consent could not be given. Finding out you were tricked into having sex that you wouldn't have had can be very emotionally damaging. I'm not directly comparing it to the R word at all but I think should be classed as a form of sexual assault. What else do you call sex without informed consent?" A bit naive to calm it sexual assault , if you dont take the time to get to know someone before sleeping with someone then you know there is always a chance they may be cheating , or not the millionaire they said they were , or lied about what job they do etc etc . | |||
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"We would not play with someone who is cheating. If we were to find out later they were cheating their consent would of been obtained by fraud which would make it sexual assault in our eyes. At which point I (mr) am likely to remove both your arms and beat you to death with them. Dont care about why your doing it, we just dont want to be involved.The fact you compare it to "sexual assault" is laughable and a insult to real victims of sexual assault !!! How so? I'm not talking about little white lies about what you earn or how many people you have slept with. Obtaining consent by fraud by it's very definition means informed consent could not be given. Finding out you were tricked into having sex that you wouldn't have had can be very emotionally damaging. I'm not directly comparing it to the R word at all but I think should be classed as a form of sexual assault. What else do you call sex without informed consent?" If you can't see the difference between a serious crime like sexual assault and having sex with someone who's married, but fails to inform you they're married, you have my sympathy. | |||
"We would not play with someone who is cheating. If we were to find out later they were cheating their consent would of been obtained by fraud which would make it sexual assault in our eyes. At which point I (mr) am likely to remove both your arms and beat you to death with them. Dont care about why your doing it, we just dont want to be involved.The fact you compare it to "sexual assault" is laughable and a insult to real victims of sexual assault !!! How so? I'm not talking about little white lies about what you earn or how many people you have slept with. Obtaining consent by fraud by it's very definition means informed consent could not be given. Finding out you were tricked into having sex that you wouldn't have had can be very emotionally damaging. I'm not directly comparing it to the R word at all but I think should be classed as a form of sexual assault. What else do you call sex without informed consent?If you can't see the difference between a serious crime like sexual assault and having sex with someone who's married, but fails to inform you they're married, you have my sympathy." Fair point. We agree, no comparison. But look up obtaining sex by deception. It makes interesting reading. | |||
" If I was in a monogamous relationships I would never ever think I would have to ask my partner if they were cheating. It would just be expected that they were " So your just going to assume your partner is cheating all the time? My ex told me when i first met her she never cheated but had been cheated on. Her child was conceived whilst separated from her husband (was still married when i met her but sepersted). I found out later when i accidently found out about her cheating on me that she cheated on her husband too with this same guy who was the child's father. In my experience women are just as bad as men at cheating if not moreso as any woman will tell you its much easier for them to get a date/meet. | |||
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"Couples who play together stay together .. "not always | |||
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"I cheated. Thought I could keep the 2 separate. Didn't think I was doing any harm. Was married and had a fb on the side it was win win for me. Very selfish. He found out. Broke his heart. Broke mine. Its now I see the damage iv done and can't undo all the hurt and pain iv caused. Fb is long gone. It was just nsa sex But iv ruined everything " It's never easy when 2 world's collide hope you get through the grief. | |||
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"Met a few married guys and tbh we prefer them because like us they just want to fuck n go. You don't get all the hassle of them getting clingy." that understood but put the shoe on the other foot and think how you would feel if it was your husband doing it behind your back ( sorry not a rant just a view point) | |||
"Met a few married guys and tbh we prefer them because like us they just want to fuck n go. You don't get all the hassle of them getting clingy. that understood but put the shoe on the other foot and think how you would feel if it was your husband doing it behind your back ( sorry not a rant just a view point)" Well we look at it like we didn't marry them, so if they want to cheat its up to them. At least the ones who tell you they are married are honest and upfront. 90% of those who say the aren't usually are lol. | |||
"I cheated. Thought I could keep the 2 separate. Didn't think I was doing any harm. Was married and had a fb on the side it was win win for me. Very selfish. He found out. Broke his heart. Broke mine. Its now I see the damage iv done and can't undo all the hurt and pain iv caused. Fb is long gone. It was just nsa sex But iv ruined everything " awww hey we all make bad decisions in life, i know i have | |||
"Met a few married guys and tbh we prefer them because like us they just want to fuck n go. You don't get all the hassle of them getting clingy. that understood but put the shoe on the other foot and think how you would feel if it was your husband doing it behind your back ( sorry not a rant just a view point) Well we look at it like we didn't marry them, so if they want to cheat its up to them. At least the ones who tell you they are married are honest and upfront. 90% of those who say the aren't usually are lol." Very true i suppose. Its easy to out married guys on fab but guess you dont know what your getting in a club | |||
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"Not my circus, not my monkey. I wouldn't get involved. " Same, we’re not interested so none if our business | |||
"I cheated. Thought I could keep the 2 separate. Didn't think I was doing any harm. Was married and had a fb on the side it was win win for me. Very selfish. He found out. Broke his heart. Broke mine. Its now I see the damage iv done and can't undo all the hurt and pain iv caused. Fb is long gone. It was just nsa sex But iv ruined everything " You're a brave lady saying this on here. Hats off to you. Time will heal your pain. No good beating yourself up. Keep moving forwards in life. Things will all be ok in the end, we are sure. | |||
"Met a few married guys and tbh we prefer them because like us they just want to fuck n go. You don't get all the hassle of them getting clingy. that understood but put the shoe on the other foot and think how you would feel if it was your husband doing it behind your back ( sorry not a rant just a view point) Well we look at it like we didn't marry them, so if they want to cheat its up to them. At least the ones who tell you they are married are honest and upfront. 90% of those who say the aren't usually are lol. Very true i suppose. Its easy to out married guys on fab but guess you dont know what your getting in a club "The amount of guys you see in clubs with a ring indentation | |||
"Met a few married guys and tbh we prefer them because like us they just want to fuck n go. You don't get all the hassle of them getting clingy. that understood but put the shoe on the other foot and think how you would feel if it was your husband doing it behind your back ( sorry not a rant just a view point) Well we look at it like we didn't marry them, so if they want to cheat its up to them. At least the ones who tell you they are married are honest and upfront. 90% of those who say the aren't usually are lol. Very true i suppose. Its easy to out married guys on fab but guess you dont know what your getting in a club "Exactly. Yet many couples who are adamant they wont play with cheats, go to clubs, where there is no way of knowing. Do they leave their 'no cheats' rule at the door on their way in? | |||
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"We would not play with someone who is cheating. If we were to find out later they were cheating their consent would of been obtained by fraud which would make it sexual assault in our eyes. At which point I (mr) am likely to remove both your arms and beat you to death with them. Dont care about why your doing it, we just dont want to be involved.The fact you compare it to "sexual assault" is laughable and a insult to real victims of sexual assault !!! How so? I'm not talking about little white lies about what you earn or how many people you have slept with. Obtaining consent by fraud by it's very definition means informed consent could not be given. Finding out you were tricked into having sex that you wouldn't have had can be very emotionally damaging. I'm not directly comparing it to the R word at all but I think should be classed as a form of sexual assault. What else do you call sex without informed consent? A bit naive to calm it sexual assault , if you dont take the time to get to know someone before sleeping with someone then you know there is always a chance they may be cheating , or not the millionaire they said they were , or lied about what job they do etc etc . " Not naive at all, by your same argument you couldn't claim sexual assault for a grope as it would insult more serious victims, but to just dismiss it is wrong. We all have autonomy over our bodies and the right to only do things with our informed consent. If you make it clear to a person that you wouldn't consent to sex if they were with someone else and they lie then to me that is sex without informed consent. Now if a single person was just to say to another person that they are a millionaire and the other person sleeps with them and it turns out to be a lie that's not assault as the no one has said " I only sleep with millionaires" etc. Strange example I know. | |||
"We would not play with someone who is cheating. If we were to find out later they were cheating their consent would of been obtained by fraud which would make it sexual assault in our eyes. At which point I (mr) am likely to remove both your arms and beat you to death with them. Dont care about why your doing it, we just dont want to be involved.The fact you compare it to "sexual assault" is laughable and a insult to real victims of sexual assault !!! How so? I'm not talking about little white lies about what you earn or how many people you have slept with. Obtaining consent by fraud by it's very definition means informed consent could not be given. Finding out you were tricked into having sex that you wouldn't have had can be very emotionally damaging. I'm not directly comparing it to the R word at all but I think should be classed as a form of sexual assault. What else do you call sex without informed consent? A bit naive to calm it sexual assault , if you dont take the time to get to know someone before sleeping with someone then you know there is always a chance they may be cheating , or not the millionaire they said they were , or lied about what job they do etc etc . Not naive at all, by your same argument you couldn't claim sexual assault for a grope as it would insult more serious victims, but to just dismiss it is wrong. We all have autonomy over our bodies and the right to only do things with our informed consent. If you make it clear to a person that you wouldn't consent to sex if they were with someone else and they lie then to me that is sex without informed consent. Now if a single person was just to say to another person that they are a millionaire and the other person sleeps with them and it turns out to be a lie that's not assault as the no one has said " I only sleep with millionaires" etc. Strange example I know. " You are entitled to your opinion of course , but it doesn’t come under the definition of sexual assault , some people will always lie , never going to change that . | |||
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"Yes. Cheating is not swinging" This | |||
"I’ve recently come across a few people on fab/ kik/ various group chats who are cheating on their partners whom they’re in ‘monogamous’ relationships with. What’s everyone’s views on people who are cheating on their partners? Do their partners have a right to know what’s happening behind their back? " It's a no brainer really. If you are a man for example and you have another womans cunt slime on your cock and then you put that inside your unsuspecting partner then that isnt right is it | |||
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"At least the ones who tell you they are married are honest and upfront. 90% of those who say the aren't usually are lol." | |||
"Wasn't swinging when with ex, he was cheating, didn't bother me when found out (he's an ex for other reasons). I swing with my present husband. If he went off and had sex with someone without telling me - I'd say good for him. I don't own him, he doesn't need to report to me. Maybe I'm wired wrong, but sex is just sex. Where the heart is what counts." I think your wired perfectly , exactly the same as me and more true to the natural world . | |||
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"Maybe I'm wired wrong, but sex is just sex. Where the heart is what counts." Completely agree. If they so wished, anyone here could go out and buy sex; that’s how commoditised it is. You can’t buy the things that make a long-term relationship or marriage work. | |||
"I’ve recently come across a few people on fab/ kik/ various group chats who are cheating on their partners whom they’re in ‘monogamous’ relationships with. What’s everyone’s views on people who are cheating on their partners? Do their partners have a right to know what’s happening behind their back? " My view on this is that they clearly arent happy, probably getting no sex whatsoever, and have been in a relationship that long they dont want to just jump ship and leave without knowing they will be ok and secure. Its understandable really if you look at it like that. Like fair enough if they want to experiment a bit without their partner knowing, and if they like it they will leave and if they dont they will stay, plus there is no saying that their partners arent up to no good. We dont know whats happening back at home for them so in a way im ok with it because everything happens for a reason | |||
"I’ve recently come across a few people on fab/ kik/ various group chats who are cheating on their partners whom they’re in ‘monogamous’ relationships with. What’s everyone’s views on people who are cheating on their partners? Do their partners have a right to know what’s happening behind their back? My view on this is that they clearly arent happy, probably getting no sex whatsoever, and have been in a relationship that long they dont want to just jump ship and leave without knowing they will be ok and secure. Its understandable really if you look at it like that. Like fair enough if they want to experiment a bit without their partner knowing, and if they like it they will leave and if they dont they will stay, plus there is no saying that their partners arent up to no good. We dont know whats happening back at home for them so in a way im ok with it because everything happens for a reason" Our view is respect and honesty is key. If the relationship is so damaged that someone has to cheat on their partner, then walk. | |||
"I’ve recently come across a few people on fab/ kik/ various group chats who are cheating on their partners whom they’re in ‘monogamous’ relationships with. What’s everyone’s views on people who are cheating on their partners? Do their partners have a right to know what’s happening behind their back? My view on this is that they clearly arent happy, probably getting no sex whatsoever, and have been in a relationship that long they dont want to just jump ship and leave without knowing they will be ok and secure. Its understandable really if you look at it like that. Like fair enough if they want to experiment a bit without their partner knowing, and if they like it they will leave and if they dont they will stay, plus there is no saying that their partners arent up to no good. We dont know whats happening back at home for them so in a way im ok with it because everything happens for a reason Our view is respect and honesty is key. If the relationship is so damaged that someone has to cheat on their partner, then walk. " But its not as easy as that for some, humans are a very strange species they are all so different in the way they handle things. Sometimes you have to accept theres no future in being honest | |||
"Wasn't swinging when with ex, he was cheating, didn't bother me when found out (he's an ex for other reasons). I swing with my present husband. If he went off and had sex with someone without telling me - I'd say good for him. I don't own him, he doesn't need to report to me. Maybe I'm wired wrong, but sex is just sex. Where the heart is what counts." Presumably your husband knows you feel that way though, and feels the same. Cheating on a partner when you know that it would cause them hurt if they found out, is a completely different thing. | |||
"I’ve recently come across a few people on fab/ kik/ various group chats who are cheating on their partners whom they’re in ‘monogamous’ relationships with. What’s everyone’s views on people who are cheating on their partners? Do their partners have a right to know what’s happening behind their back? My view on this is that they clearly arent happy, probably getting no sex whatsoever, and have been in a relationship that long they dont want to just jump ship and leave without knowing they will be ok and secure. Its understandable really if you look at it like that. Like fair enough if they want to experiment a bit without their partner knowing, and if they like it they will leave and if they dont they will stay, plus there is no saying that their partners arent up to no good. We dont know whats happening back at home for them so in a way im ok with it because everything happens for a reason Our view is respect and honesty is key. If the relationship is so damaged that someone has to cheat on their partner, then walk. " Surely it would be better to talk, rather than just to walk. Brutally honest communication is key. | |||
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"Wasn't swinging when with ex, he was cheating, didn't bother me when found out (he's an ex for other reasons). I swing with my present husband. If he went off and had sex with someone without telling me - I'd say good for him. I don't own him, he doesn't need to report to me. Maybe I'm wired wrong, but sex is just sex. Where the heart is what counts." I'm the same but what I hate is lies. Cheating is lying. It's one thing having sex but if the person lied about it then that's what would be the problem not the sex part. If your husband was out having sex but didn't use condom and lied to you said he did but you found out he hadn't. Would you be angry he lied to you? Would you be angry he risked both your health? It's not about the sex it's their actions surrounding it. | |||
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"Quite a few years ago on an old profile on here I met a guy who lived a few miles away. He was hot, hung, single and we met up quite a few times before it fizzled out. Then not long after, he came up as a suggested friend on fb (his number was in my phone). Only his name wasn’t what he told me it was, and when I had a bit of a stalk it turned out he had a very new baby and was very much in a relationship with the baby’s mother . She would have been about 6 months pregnant when we started fucking.
Years go by, I’m back here on a new profile, turns out so is he as I get a message from him (he obviously didn’t recognise that it was me). I decided to do a little facestalk again and it turned out he’d split with his kid’s mum, and now got himself a very young looking girlfriend who he was living with, and they had twins . Only this time he’s on here as bi and looking to meet men and women.
What a dick. "Jesus Christ! | |||
"Wasn't swinging when with ex, he was cheating, didn't bother me when found out (he's an ex for other reasons). I swing with my present husband. If he went off and had sex with someone without telling me - I'd say good for him. I don't own him, he doesn't need to report to me. Maybe I'm wired wrong, but sex is just sex. Where the heart is what counts. Presumably your husband knows you feel that way though, and feels the same. Cheating on a partner when you know that it would cause them hurt if they found out, is a completely different thing. " Of course he knows. We discuss regularly our views and how we feel about things. | |||
"Wasn't swinging when with ex, he was cheating, didn't bother me when found out (he's an ex for other reasons). I swing with my present husband. If he went off and had sex with someone without telling me - I'd say good for him. I don't own him, he doesn't need to report to me. Maybe I'm wired wrong, but sex is just sex. Where the heart is what counts. I'm the same but what I hate is lies. Cheating is lying. It's one thing having sex but if the person lied about it then that's what would be the problem not the sex part. If your husband was out having sex but didn't use condom and lied to you said he did but you found out he hadn't. Would you be angry he lied to you? Would you be angry he risked both your health? It's not about the sex it's their actions surrounding it." I don't see cheating and lying as the same thing. If someone had a fag, but told you they hadn't - it's a lie, not cheating. | |||
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"Some people that are religious in the eyes of god would say swinging is also cheating! " It's breaking a traditional wedding vow, yes. But cheating, we don't think so. | |||
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"I’ve recently come across a few people on fab/ kik/ various group chats who are cheating on their partners whom they’re in ‘monogamous’ relationships with. What’s everyone’s views on people who are cheating on their partners? Do their partners have a right to know what’s happening behind their back? My view on this is that they clearly arent happy, probably getting no sex whatsoever, and have been in a relationship that long they dont want to just jump ship and leave without knowing they will be ok and secure. Its understandable really if you look at it like that. Like fair enough if they want to experiment a bit without their partner knowing, and if they like it they will leave and if they dont they will stay, plus there is no saying that their partners arent up to no good. We dont know whats happening back at home for them so in a way im ok with it because everything happens for a reason Our view is respect and honesty is key. If the relationship is so damaged that someone has to cheat on their partner, then walk. But its not as easy as that for some, humans are a very strange species they are all so different in the way they handle things. Sometimes you have to accept theres no future in being honest " There is no future in being honest? ? Are you serious? | |||
"I’ve recently come across a few people on fab/ kik/ various group chats who are cheating on their partners whom they’re in ‘monogamous’ relationships with. What’s everyone’s views on people who are cheating on their partners? Do their partners have a right to know what’s happening behind their back? My view on this is that they clearly arent happy, probably getting no sex whatsoever, and have been in a relationship that long they dont want to just jump ship and leave without knowing they will be ok and secure. Its understandable really if you look at it like that. Like fair enough if they want to experiment a bit without their partner knowing, and if they like it they will leave and if they dont they will stay, plus there is no saying that their partners arent up to no good. We dont know whats happening back at home for them so in a way im ok with it because everything happens for a reason Our view is respect and honesty is key. If the relationship is so damaged that someone has to cheat on their partner, then walk. Surely it would be better to talk, rather than just to walk. Brutally honest communication is key." Talking is fine, not cheating. Cheating means you haven't got the guts to talk. | |||
"I’ve recently come across a few people on fab/ kik/ various group chats who are cheating on their partners whom they’re in ‘monogamous’ relationships with. What’s everyone’s views on people who are cheating on their partners? Do their partners have a right to know what’s happening behind their back? My view on this is that they clearly arent happy, probably getting no sex whatsoever, and have been in a relationship that long they dont want to just jump ship and leave without knowing they will be ok and secure. Its understandable really if you look at it like that. Like fair enough if they want to experiment a bit without their partner knowing, and if they like it they will leave and if they dont they will stay, plus there is no saying that their partners arent up to no good. We dont know whats happening back at home for them so in a way im ok with it because everything happens for a reason Our view is respect and honesty is key. If the relationship is so damaged that someone has to cheat on their partner, then walk. But its not as easy as that for some, humans are a very strange species they are all so different in the way they handle things. Sometimes you have to accept theres no future in being honest There is no future in being honest? ? Are you serious? " You ever heard of “being too honest for your own good”??? | |||
"I’ve recently come across a few people on fab/ kik/ various group chats who are cheating on their partners whom they’re in ‘monogamous’ relationships with. What’s everyone’s views on people who are cheating on their partners? Do their partners have a right to know what’s happening behind their back? My view on this is that they clearly arent happy, probably getting no sex whatsoever, and have been in a relationship that long they dont want to just jump ship and leave without knowing they will be ok and secure. Its understandable really if you look at it like that. Like fair enough if they want to experiment a bit without their partner knowing, and if they like it they will leave and if they dont they will stay, plus there is no saying that their partners arent up to no good. We dont know whats happening back at home for them so in a way im ok with it because everything happens for a reason Our view is respect and honesty is key. If the relationship is so damaged that someone has to cheat on their partner, then walk. But its not as easy as that for some, humans are a very strange species they are all so different in the way they handle things. Sometimes you have to accept theres no future in being honest There is no future in being honest? ? Are you serious? You ever heard of “being too honest for your own good”??? " You ever heard of "honesty is the best policy?" | |||
"I’ve recently come across a few people on fab/ kik/ various group chats who are cheating on their partners whom they’re in ‘monogamous’ relationships with. What’s everyone’s views on people who are cheating on their partners? Do their partners have a right to know what’s happening behind their back? My view on this is that they clearly arent happy, probably getting no sex whatsoever, and have been in a relationship that long they dont want to just jump ship and leave without knowing they will be ok and secure. Its understandable really if you look at it like that. Like fair enough if they want to experiment a bit without their partner knowing, and if they like it they will leave and if they dont they will stay, plus there is no saying that their partners arent up to no good. We dont know whats happening back at home for them so in a way im ok with it because everything happens for a reason Our view is respect and honesty is key. If the relationship is so damaged that someone has to cheat on their partner, then walk. But its not as easy as that for some, humans are a very strange species they are all so different in the way they handle things. Sometimes you have to accept theres no future in being honest There is no future in being honest? ? Are you serious? You ever heard of “being too honest for your own good”??? " We understand that. It would mean a cheat being honest to their unsuspecting partner. But cheating is a choice. No-one is forced to do it. Having made that choice, what gives that cheat the right to decide that their unsuspecting partner doesn't deserve the right to make their choice?? Being too honest for your own good? Maybe. But what about the good of the partner?? | |||
"I’ve recently come across a few people on fab/ kik/ various group chats who are cheating on their partners whom they’re in ‘monogamous’ relationships with. What’s everyone’s views on people who are cheating on their partners? Do their partners have a right to know what’s happening behind their back? My view on this is that they clearly arent happy, probably getting no sex whatsoever, and have been in a relationship that long they dont want to just jump ship and leave without knowing they will be ok and secure. Its understandable really if you look at it like that. Like fair enough if they want to experiment a bit without their partner knowing, and if they like it they will leave and if they dont they will stay, plus there is no saying that their partners arent up to no good. We dont know whats happening back at home for them so in a way im ok with it because everything happens for a reason Our view is respect and honesty is key. If the relationship is so damaged that someone has to cheat on their partner, then walk. But its not as easy as that for some, humans are a very strange species they are all so different in the way they handle things. Sometimes you have to accept theres no future in being honest There is no future in being honest? ? Are you serious? You ever heard of “being too honest for your own good”??? You ever heard of "honesty is the best policy?" " Yes to an extent, but come on you have to tell a white lie to get by. Like these job interviews and stuff you have talk a bit of bullshit to get to where you want in life. Like say if im out somwhere and a married woman tells me she hasnt got a husband and we end up fucking then thats her telling me a lie in order to get what she wants, and to be honest i would be lying if i say i cared, i only know what she is telling me so fair play. In the long run if shes happy doing that then yes she should tell him but not if only testing the water, im an understanding man see | |||
"I’ve recently come across a few people on fab/ kik/ various group chats who are cheating on their partners whom they’re in ‘monogamous’ relationships with. What’s everyone’s views on people who are cheating on their partners? Do their partners have a right to know what’s happening behind their back? My view on this is that they clearly arent happy, probably getting no sex whatsoever, and have been in a relationship that long they dont want to just jump ship and leave without knowing they will be ok and secure. Its understandable really if you look at it like that. Like fair enough if they want to experiment a bit without their partner knowing, and if they like it they will leave and if they dont they will stay, plus there is no saying that their partners arent up to no good. We dont know whats happening back at home for them so in a way im ok with it because everything happens for a reason Our view is respect and honesty is key. If the relationship is so damaged that someone has to cheat on their partner, then walk. But its not as easy as that for some, humans are a very strange species they are all so different in the way they handle things. Sometimes you have to accept theres no future in being honest There is no future in being honest? ? Are you serious? You ever heard of “being too honest for your own good”??? We understand that. It would mean a cheat being honest to their unsuspecting partner. But cheating is a choice. No-one is forced to do it. Having made that choice, what gives that cheat the right to decide that their unsuspecting partner doesn't deserve the right to make their choice?? Being too honest for your own good? Maybe. But what about the good of the partner??" Too honest for YOUR own good is such a selfish way to excuse cheating. As the poster above stated what about your partner? | |||
"I’ve recently come across a few people on fab/ kik/ various group chats who are cheating on their partners whom they’re in ‘monogamous’ relationships with. What’s everyone’s views on people who are cheating on their partners? Do their partners have a right to know what’s happening behind their back? My view on this is that they clearly arent happy, probably getting no sex whatsoever, and have been in a relationship that long they dont want to just jump ship and leave without knowing they will be ok and secure. Its understandable really if you look at it like that. Like fair enough if they want to experiment a bit without their partner knowing, and if they like it they will leave and if they dont they will stay, plus there is no saying that their partners arent up to no good. We dont know whats happening back at home for them so in a way im ok with it because everything happens for a reason Our view is respect and honesty is key. If the relationship is so damaged that someone has to cheat on their partner, then walk. But its not as easy as that for some, humans are a very strange species they are all so different in the way they handle things. Sometimes you have to accept theres no future in being honest There is no future in being honest? ? Are you serious? You ever heard of “being too honest for your own good”??? We understand that. It would mean a cheat being honest to their unsuspecting partner. But cheating is a choice. No-one is forced to do it. Having made that choice, what gives that cheat the right to decide that their unsuspecting partner doesn't deserve the right to make their choice?? Being too honest for your own good? Maybe. But what about the good of the partner?? Too honest for YOUR own good is such a selfish way to excuse cheating. As the poster above stated what about your partner? " Well opinions are like arse holes, everyone has got one | |||
"I’ve recently come across a few people on fab/ kik/ various group chats who are cheating on their partners whom they’re in ‘monogamous’ relationships with. What’s everyone’s views on people who are cheating on their partners? Do their partners have a right to know what’s happening behind their back? My view on this is that they clearly arent happy, probably getting no sex whatsoever, and have been in a relationship that long they dont want to just jump ship and leave without knowing they will be ok and secure. Its understandable really if you look at it like that. Like fair enough if they want to experiment a bit without their partner knowing, and if they like it they will leave and if they dont they will stay, plus there is no saying that their partners arent up to no good. We dont know whats happening back at home for them so in a way im ok with it because everything happens for a reason Our view is respect and honesty is key. If the relationship is so damaged that someone has to cheat on their partner, then walk. But its not as easy as that for some, humans are a very strange species they are all so different in the way they handle things. Sometimes you have to accept theres no future in being honest There is no future in being honest? ? Are you serious? You ever heard of “being too honest for your own good”??? We understand that. It would mean a cheat being honest to their unsuspecting partner. But cheating is a choice. No-one is forced to do it. Having made that choice, what gives that cheat the right to decide that their unsuspecting partner doesn't deserve the right to make their choice?? Being too honest for your own good? Maybe. But what about the good of the partner?? Too honest for YOUR own good is such a selfish way to excuse cheating. As the poster above stated what about your partner? Well opinions are like arse holes, everyone has got one "So, do you not agree in honesty? | |||
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"I’ve recently come across a few people on fab/ kik/ various group chats who are cheating on their partners whom they’re in ‘monogamous’ relationships with. What’s everyone’s views on people who are cheating on their partners? Do their partners have a right to know what’s happening behind their back? My view on this is that they clearly arent happy, probably getting no sex whatsoever, and have been in a relationship that long they dont want to just jump ship and leave without knowing they will be ok and secure. Its understandable really if you look at it like that. Like fair enough if they want to experiment a bit without their partner knowing, and if they like it they will leave and if they dont they will stay, plus there is no saying that their partners arent up to no good. We dont know whats happening back at home for them so in a way im ok with it because everything happens for a reason Our view is respect and honesty is key. If the relationship is so damaged that someone has to cheat on their partner, then walk. But its not as easy as that for some, humans are a very strange species they are all so different in the way they handle things. Sometimes you have to accept theres no future in being honest There is no future in being honest? ? Are you serious? You ever heard of “being too honest for your own good”??? We understand that. It would mean a cheat being honest to their unsuspecting partner. But cheating is a choice. No-one is forced to do it. Having made that choice, what gives that cheat the right to decide that their unsuspecting partner doesn't deserve the right to make their choice?? Being too honest for your own good? Maybe. But what about the good of the partner?? Too honest for YOUR own good is such a selfish way to excuse cheating. As the poster above stated what about your partner? Well opinions are like arse holes, everyone has got one
So, do you not agree in honesty? "Of course i agree in honesty, but i love a naughty women, dont give a monkeys if she cheats on her husband thats her choice and her issue, no one elses | |||
"We have agreed total honesty is the only way to survive in swinging ...so Stag and I talk a lot about dos and donts As to our partners my preference would be that they were being open with their partners if they have one .. but i wont make a moral judgement when i dont know someones story ... I wouldnt want to be any part of hurting anyone else but at the end pf the day im only responsible for my moral choices not anyone elses Vixen " Absolutley, well said | |||
"I’ve recently come across a few people on fab/ kik/ various group chats who are cheating on their partners whom they’re in ‘monogamous’ relationships with. What’s everyone’s views on people who are cheating on their partners? Do their partners have a right to know what’s happening behind their back? My view on this is that they clearly arent happy, probably getting no sex whatsoever, and have been in a relationship that long they dont want to just jump ship and leave without knowing they will be ok and secure. Its understandable really if you look at it like that. Like fair enough if they want to experiment a bit without their partner knowing, and if they like it they will leave and if they dont they will stay, plus there is no saying that their partners arent up to no good. We dont know whats happening back at home for them so in a way im ok with it because everything happens for a reason Our view is respect and honesty is key. If the relationship is so damaged that someone has to cheat on their partner, then walk. But its not as easy as that for some, humans are a very strange species they are all so different in the way they handle things. Sometimes you have to accept theres no future in being honest There is no future in being honest? ? Are you serious? You ever heard of “being too honest for your own good”??? We understand that. It would mean a cheat being honest to their unsuspecting partner. But cheating is a choice. No-one is forced to do it. Having made that choice, what gives that cheat the right to decide that their unsuspecting partner doesn't deserve the right to make their choice?? Being too honest for your own good? Maybe. But what about the good of the partner?? Too honest for YOUR own good is such a selfish way to excuse cheating. As the poster above stated what about your partner? Well opinions are like arse holes, everyone has got one
So, do you not agree in honesty?
Of course i agree in honesty, but i love a naughty women, dont give a monkeys if she cheats on her husband thats her choice and her issue, no one elses"Well said | |||
"I’ve recently come across a few people on fab/ kik/ various group chats who are cheating on their partners whom they’re in ‘monogamous’ relationships with. What’s everyone’s views on people who are cheating on their partners? Do their partners have a right to know what’s happening behind their back? My view on this is that they clearly arent happy, probably getting no sex whatsoever, and have been in a relationship that long they dont want to just jump ship and leave without knowing they will be ok and secure. Its understandable really if you look at it like that. Like fair enough if they want to experiment a bit without their partner knowing, and if they like it they will leave and if they dont they will stay, plus there is no saying that their partners arent up to no good. We dont know whats happening back at home for them so in a way im ok with it because everything happens for a reason Our view is respect and honesty is key. If the relationship is so damaged that someone has to cheat on their partner, then walk. But its not as easy as that for some, humans are a very strange species they are all so different in the way they handle things. Sometimes you have to accept theres no future in being honest There is no future in being honest? ? Are you serious? You ever heard of “being too honest for your own good”??? We understand that. It would mean a cheat being honest to their unsuspecting partner. But cheating is a choice. No-one is forced to do it. Having made that choice, what gives that cheat the right to decide that their unsuspecting partner doesn't deserve the right to make their choice?? Being too honest for your own good? Maybe. But what about the good of the partner?? Too honest for YOUR own good is such a selfish way to excuse cheating. As the poster above stated what about your partner? Well opinions are like arse holes, everyone has got one
So, do you not agree in honesty?
Of course i agree in honesty, but i love a naughty women, dont give a monkeys if she cheats on her husband thats her choice and her issue, no one elsesWell said "Thanks | |||
"I’ve recently come across a few people on fab/ kik/ various group chats who are cheating on their partners whom they’re in ‘monogamous’ relationships with. What’s everyone’s views on people who are cheating on their partners? Do their partners have a right to know what’s happening behind their back? My view on this is that they clearly arent happy, probably getting no sex whatsoever, and have been in a relationship that long they dont want to just jump ship and leave without knowing they will be ok and secure. Its understandable really if you look at it like that. Like fair enough if they want to experiment a bit without their partner knowing, and if they like it they will leave and if they dont they will stay, plus there is no saying that their partners arent up to no good. We dont know whats happening back at home for them so in a way im ok with it because everything happens for a reason Our view is respect and honesty is key. If the relationship is so damaged that someone has to cheat on their partner, then walk. But its not as easy as that for some, humans are a very strange species they are all so different in the way they handle things. Sometimes you have to accept theres no future in being honest There is no future in being honest? ? Are you serious? You ever heard of “being too honest for your own good”??? We understand that. It would mean a cheat being honest to their unsuspecting partner. But cheating is a choice. No-one is forced to do it. Having made that choice, what gives that cheat the right to decide that their unsuspecting partner doesn't deserve the right to make their choice?? Being too honest for your own good? Maybe. But what about the good of the partner?? Too honest for YOUR own good is such a selfish way to excuse cheating. As the poster above stated what about your partner? Well opinions are like arse holes, everyone has got one "Yeah you're definitely right on that one | |||
"I’ve recently come across a few people on fab/ kik/ various group chats who are cheating on their partners whom they’re in ‘monogamous’ relationships with. What’s everyone’s views on people who are cheating on their partners? Do their partners have a right to know what’s happening behind their back? My view on this is that they clearly arent happy, probably getting no sex whatsoever, and have been in a relationship that long they dont want to just jump ship and leave without knowing they will be ok and secure. Its understandable really if you look at it like that. Like fair enough if they want to experiment a bit without their partner knowing, and if they like it they will leave and if they dont they will stay, plus there is no saying that their partners arent up to no good. We dont know whats happening back at home for them so in a way im ok with it because everything happens for a reason Our view is respect and honesty is key. If the relationship is so damaged that someone has to cheat on their partner, then walk. But its not as easy as that for some, humans are a very strange species they are all so different in the way they handle things. Sometimes you have to accept theres no future in being honest There is no future in being honest? ? Are you serious? You ever heard of “being too honest for your own good”??? We understand that. It would mean a cheat being honest to their unsuspecting partner. But cheating is a choice. No-one is forced to do it. Having made that choice, what gives that cheat the right to decide that their unsuspecting partner doesn't deserve the right to make their choice?? Being too honest for your own good? Maybe. But what about the good of the partner?? Too honest for YOUR own good is such a selfish way to excuse cheating. As the poster above stated what about your partner? Well opinions are like arse holes, everyone has got one
So, do you not agree in honesty?
Of course i agree in honesty, but i love a naughty women, dont give a monkeys if she cheats on her husband thats her choice and her issue, no one elses"Great view. | |||
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"I’ve recently come across a few people on fab/ kik/ various group chats who are cheating on their partners whom they’re in ‘monogamous’ relationships with. What’s everyone’s views on people who are cheating on their partners? Do their partners have a right to know what’s happening behind their back? It's a no brainer really. If you are a man for example and you have another womans cunt slime on your cock and then you put that inside your unsuspecting partner then that isnt right is it" Cant say I've ever had "cunt slime" on my cock. | |||
"Being cheated on hurts. There have been lots of posts in the forums of guys bragging how they’ve fucked a wife behind the husbands back. I only hope it happens to them some day so they feel the pain of it too. " This happened to a guy we know in real life. Come to us crying like a baby. We rolled about with laughter... Found himself a new wife and started all over again. The clock is ticking. | |||
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"Being cheated on hurts. There have been lots of posts in the forums of guys bragging how they’ve fucked a wife behind the husbands back. I only hope it happens to them some day so they feel the pain of it too. " I dont believe that its something to brag about. Its all about being respecfull and discreet | |||
"Being cheated on hurts. There have been lots of posts in the forums of guys bragging how they’ve fucked a wife behind the husbands back. I only hope it happens to them some day so they feel the pain of it too. I dont believe that its something to brag about. Its all about being respecfull and discreet" Doesn't being respectful mean that you don't cheat? | |||
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"We met a guy who was playing away from his gf. Poor guy felt a bit guilty after he came, bless him. Anyways, honestly couldn't care less. It's not for me to judge your relationship or the reasons you might be doing something. That's especially true if you're in a sexless marriage and you're financially dependent on each other so you can't comfortably or safely leave. " | |||
"Love having my wicked way with a married man..... or lady " | |||
"I’ve recently come across a few people on fab/ kik/ various group chats who are cheating on their partners whom they’re in ‘monogamous’ relationships with. What’s everyone’s views on people who are cheating on their partners? Do their partners have a right to know what’s happening behind their back? " I'd say it's none of your business and not for you to judge others. I have gotten to know quite a few married men and have a few GFs who are married and play behind their spouses' backs. Each has unique circumstances I don't judge them and have no desire to "inform" the spouse. | |||
"Being cheated on hurts. There have been lots of posts in the forums of guys bragging how they’ve fucked a wife behind the husbands back. I only hope it happens to them some day so they feel the pain of it too. I dont believe that its something to brag about. Its all about being respecfull and discreet Doesn't being respectful mean that you don't cheat?" | |||
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Long story short don’t judge as you don’t know an individual’s reasons for what they do | |||
"Everyone looking down on cheating but the whole site is commiting adultery
Long story short don’t judge as you don’t know an individual’s reasons for what they do "Adultery is a monogamous notion. Swinging is a type of polyamory Cheating can happen in any relationship with lies and deceit. Ethical non-monogamy isn't adultery. It takes being open and honest and remaining in the boundaries set in a relationship. More people are non-monogamous than they care to realise. Humans weren't meant to be monogamous it is religious and social control. Where by those with power deem having more than 1 relationship is wrong yet they have mistresses, hareems, multiple wives and so on. You're told it's wrong from a young age, that you have to wait for marriage before sex, that it wrong to have sex with anyone other than your spouse. If that was the case humans being monogamous creatures divorce rates wouldn't be so high due to infidelity. Problem is people struggle to tell the truth human habit of self preservation. They fear loss when in most cases loss could be avoided by being truthful. If only people were more honest and break the social control people would be happier. | |||
"Everyone looking down on cheating but the whole site is commiting adultery
Long story short don’t judge as you don’t know an individual’s reasons for what they do
Adultery is a monogamous notion.
Swinging is a type of polyamory
Cheating can happen in any relationship with lies and deceit. Ethical non-monogamy isn't adultery.
It takes being open and honest and remaining in the boundaries set in a relationship.
More people are non-monogamous than they care to realise. Humans weren't meant to be monogamous it is religious and social control. Where by those with power deem having more than 1 relationship is wrong yet they have mistresses, hareems, multiple wives and so on. You're told it's wrong from a young age, that you have to wait for marriage before sex, that it wrong to have sex with anyone other than your spouse. If that was the case humans being monogamous creatures divorce rates wouldn't be so high due to infidelity.
Problem is people struggle to tell the truth human habit of self preservation. They fear loss when in most cases loss could be avoided by being truthful. If only people were more honest and break the social control people would be happier."Very well put, my thoughts exactly x | |||
"Everyone looking down on cheating but the whole site is commiting adultery
Long story short don’t judge as you don’t know an individual’s reasons for what they do "Not everyone is committing adultery, or at least not knowingly. Adultery is sex between someone who is married and someone who isn’t their wife/husband. Many on here are single & may well meet single people. That’s just casual sex for the most part. Everyone judges every single day, both consciously and unconsciously, it can’t be helped. I don’t like cheating, I won’t knowingly meet cheats and I’ll express as such because I don’t agree with it at all regardless of reasons. What I won’t do is abuse someone for it, because there is no need. | |||
