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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just used as an ego boost??
The reason i ask is, i got 3 winks earlier, (woohoo, lucky me, lol), but when i sent a msg to the gals who winked at me to thank them and (hopefully) start up a conversation, they were deleted!!
So, my question is, why send winks in the first place when they have no intention of chatting? Anyone else had this done?
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By *icboyMan
over a year ago
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Have to say never had that many winks...so well done.
As for deletions...it happens...
I was talking to a couple over the last few days...put them on my hotlist so I could keep in contact...seen that they were on line...went to send a message and I am blocked, nevermind deleted...wtf...made me laugh...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps it was meant as a passing compliment...u know kinda saying nice etc.... But theres some reason a meet wud not happen....distance or summat... maybe ya shud be flattered |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Perhaps it was meant as a passing compliment...u know kinda saying nice etc.... But theres some reason a meet wud not happen....distance or summat... maybe ya shud be flattered"
I was flattered, lol, and i didn't exactly ask for meet with my first msg to them! But hey ho, each to their own eh! Lol.  |
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"Just used as an ego boost??
The reason i ask is, i got 3 winks earlier, (woohoo, lucky me, lol), but when i sent a msg to the gals who winked at me to thank them and (hopefully) start up a conversation, they were deleted!!
So, my question is, why send winks in the first place when they have no intention of chatting? Anyone else had this done?
Confused.com "
yes, we get couples wink us but our message is rarely replied to |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Perhaps it was meant as a passing compliment...u know kinda saying nice etc.... But theres some reason a meet wud not happen....distance or summat... maybe ya shud be flattered
I was flattered, lol, and i didn't exactly ask for meet with my first msg to them! But hey ho, each to their own eh! Lol. "
May well mean your getting it nearly right lol...no accounting 4 taste huh x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just thanked them for the wink, how they are today and if they fancied a chat sometime to see if we got on! I wasn't cheeky or too pushy or nothing! Lol, |
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we send winks to show we are interested, or find your profile atractive.
if you wink in kind we will start messageing, thats how we would expect others to do it.
if not then fine, we dont lose any sleep over it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Perhaps it was meant as a passing compliment...u know kinda saying nice etc.... But theres some reason a meet wud not happen....distance or summat... maybe ya shud be flattered
I was flattered, lol, and i didn't exactly ask for meet with my first msg to them! But hey ho, each to their own eh! Lol.
May well mean your getting it nearly right lol...no accounting 4 taste huh x "
erm, theirs or mine? Lol, |
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By *occosboysCouple (MM)
over a year ago
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Winks can sometimes lead to a meet although more often than not they are just a method fakers use to drum up some action on here. Same as Meets Today from people with no verifications.
However when the profile looks genuine it's worth a detailed reply... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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sometimes i wink beacuse too lazy/not feeling inspired enough to write an interesting email
sometimes i wink because i like their profile but not sure if they would be interested in me
sometimes i wink bacause I really liked their profile even though I now we arent compatible |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think a lot of people just bulk delete winks without looking at them - I certainly do
People use the tools on here indifferent ways which can cause confusion lol
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