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single guy on ere, its hard !
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im sure im in same boat as countless thousands on here, a typical single guy looking for couples and single females, seems its all about look really as us single guys prob outnumber 5 to 1 maybe more so i can just keep hoping someone likes my ugly mug and drops me a messege ! i live in hope anyway |
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"Im sure im in same boat as countless thousands on here, a typical single guy looking for couples and single females, seems its all about look really as us single guys prob outnumber 5 to 1 maybe more so i can just keep hoping someone likes my ugly mug and drops me a messege ! i live in hope anyway "
It's not particularly to do with looks mate, wit charm and charisma are more important to many. Make sure your profile and messages stand out and are original, bespoke and funny. Don't sit about on your arse waiting for somebody to spot you, as you say we are heavily outnumbered on here so it's all about improving your percentage success rate. (In fact I've just realised that I sort out sex through a mathematical formula, is that sad or bizarre? lol) It's not rocket science, it's just basic probability  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've posted on this subject before thinking honesty,personality,wit etc can go a long way to help improve your chances of success.But it realy doesn't.I've posted what I thought were fun photos only to be slagged off about them, being told that they are just inappropriate!!!Infact the"subjects"in the photos are getting more offers!!!!Socials are important and a great laugh but still not helpful in my quest for fun....more chance of finding the Spear of Destiny!!!!!No formulae will take shallowness into account.....looks are still much more important to a lot of folks.........that will never change.  |
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"Im sure im in same boat as countless thousands on here, a typical single guy looking for couples and single females, seems its all about look really as us single guys prob outnumber 5 to 1 maybe more so i can just keep hoping someone likes my ugly mug and drops me a messege ! i live in hope anyway "
This threads smacks of desperation especially since you have only been on the site 4 weeks....  |
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"I've posted on this subject before thinking honesty,personality,wit etc can go a long way to help improve your chances of success.But it realy doesn't.I've posted what I thought were fun photos only to be slagged off about them, being told that they are just inappropriate!!!Infact the"subjects"in the photos are getting more offers!!!!Socials are important and a great laugh but still not helpful in my quest for fun....more chance of finding the Spear of Destiny!!!!!No formulae will take shallowness into account.....looks are still much more important to a lot of folks.........that will never change. "
Not everyone is shallow, I've Only been active on the site for about a month (I did join earlier but never used it) and I've not had any problems, that's despite the fact that my face is less Kirk Douglas and more Kirk off Coronation street crossed with Alexei Sayle! It's all about randomness and being different, that will catch you a certain percentage of the deeper thinkers |
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"I've posted on this subject before thinking honesty,personality,wit etc can go a long way to help improve your chances of success.But it realy doesn't.I've posted what I thought were fun photos only to be slagged off about them, being told that they are just inappropriate!!!Infact the"subjects"in the photos are getting more offers!!!!Socials are important and a great laugh but still not helpful in my quest for fun....more chance of finding the Spear of Destiny!!!!!No formulae will take shallowness into account.....looks are still much more important to a lot of folks.........that will never change.
Not everyone is shallow, I've Only been active on the site for about a month (I did join earlier but never used it) and I've not had any problems, that's despite the fact that my face is less Kirk Douglas and more Kirk off Coronation street crossed with Alexei Sayle! It's all about randomness and being different, that will catch you a certain percentage of the deeper thinkers"
i want fit as fcuk not deep thinker - unless shes fit as fcuk  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Think its basically comes down to being outnumbered.
Being honest and funny, goes a long way with me, if I feel your genuine and non pushy. Far too many pushy men on here ruining it for the rest of you. The amount of abuse I have had for not meeting someone is unreal.
Its more about who I click with also. Not on here to shagg my way through the site. Prefer selected friends for fun whom I can trust and have better fun with.  |
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"I've posted on this subject before thinking honesty,personality,wit etc can go a long way to help improve your chances of success.But it realy doesn't.I've posted what I thought were fun photos only to be slagged off about them, being told that they are just inappropriate!!!Infact the"subjects"in the photos are getting more offers!!!!Socials are important and a great laugh but still not helpful in my quest for fun....more chance of finding the Spear of Destiny!!!!!No formulae will take shallowness into account.....looks are still much more important to a lot of folks.........that will never change.
Not everyone is shallow, I've Only been active on the site for about a month (I did join earlier but never used it) and I've not had any problems, that's despite the fact that my face is less Kirk Douglas and more Kirk off Coronation street crossed with Alexei Sayle! It's all about randomness and being different, that will catch you a certain percentage of the deeper thinkers
i want fit as fcuk not deep thinker - unless shes fit as fcuk "
Well that's the best bit, a lot of them are! lol |
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"I've posted on this subject before thinking honesty,personality,wit etc can go a long way to help improve your chances of success.But it realy doesn't.I've posted what I thought were fun photos only to be slagged off about them, being told that they are just inappropriate!!!Infact the"subjects"in the photos are getting more offers!!!!Socials are important and a great laugh but still not helpful in my quest for fun....more chance
i want fit as fcuk not deep thinker - unless shes fit as fcuk "
Why did I think that last bit said 'thick as fuck'?
Probarbly as I'm blonde as fuck! |
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"Im sure im in same boat as countless thousands on here, a typical single guy looking for couples and single females, seems its all about look really as us single guys prob outnumber 5 to 1 maybe more so i can just keep hoping someone likes my ugly mug and drops me a messege ! i live in hope anyway "
To increase your chances of a potential meet you should go on the Fab forums and complain you can't get a meet.
Oh wait......... |
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"I've posted on this subject before thinking honesty,personality,wit etc can go a long way to help improve your chances of success.But it realy doesn't.I've posted what I thought were fun photos only to be slagged off about them, being told that they are just inappropriate!!!Infact the"subjects"in the photos are getting more offers!!!!Socials are important and a great laugh but still not helpful in my quest for fun....more chance
i want fit as fcuk not deep thinker - unless shes fit as fcuk
Why did I think that last bit said 'thick as fuck'?
Probarbly as I'm blonde as fuck! "
I did to - but only because that's what I was expecting to read for some reason |
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By (user no longer on site)
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haha done lots of times, i've had the same problem but u get them after a long while, takes time to establish urself and perfect your messages :p
and it did make me think what if would be like with a guy and thats lingered about and become something I may try now |
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