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By *dquest OP Couple
over a year ago
Peterborough |
We all have preferences and understand that many won't see us as Mr. is hairy and has a short beard. However, we have preferences too. Mrs. Doesn't like bald guys as she's had a couple of turn off experiences with rivers of sweat dripping off their heads.
So, are we too shallow by having preferences in play partners?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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God no, everyone should respect anyone's personal preference when it comes to attraction.
Sometimes it's physical other times mental - it's not up to anyone else what you respond to.
If someone can't handle you not being interested/attracted to them they are most certainly in the wrong place.
I have a big issue with accents, alot of them drive me insane. For me personally I cannot stand a Welsh accent and love Scousers - can't help what my ears like to hear haha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"God no, everyone should respect anyone's personal preference when it comes to attraction.
Sometimes it's physical other times mental - it's not up to anyone else what you respond to.
If someone can't handle you not being interested/attracted to them they are most certainly in the wrong place.
I have a big issue with accents, alot of them drive me insane. For me personally I cannot stand a Welsh accent and love Scousers - can't help what my ears like to hear haha "
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" Mrs. Doesn't like bald guys as she's had a couple of turn off experiences with rivers of sweat dripping off their heads.
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Does your Mrs keep her armpits, legs and pubic region hairy to stop "rivers of sweat" dripping on to her partners ? |
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By *dquest OP Couple
over a year ago
Peterborough |
" Mrs. Doesn't like bald guys as she's had a couple of turn off experiences with rivers of sweat dripping off their heads.
Does your Mrs keep her armpits, legs and pubic region hairy to stop "rivers of sweat" dripping on to her partners ?"
Nope, Mrs keeps trim but hasn't had any complaints so far  We have had a rejection as she was too tall. All cool with us. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"We all have preferences and understand that many won't see us as Mr. is hairy and has a short beard. However, we have preferences too. Mrs. Doesn't like bald guys as she's had a couple of turn off experiences with rivers of sweat dripping off their heads.
So, are we too shallow by having preferences in play partners? "
No way! You don't have to shag anyone you don't want to and it's not shallow. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
" Mrs. Doesn't like bald guys as she's had a couple of turn off experiences with rivers of sweat dripping off their heads.
Does your Mrs keep her armpits, legs and pubic region hairy to stop "rivers of sweat" dripping on to her partners ?"
What on earth? If you have rivers of sweat dripping from your fanny you should go to the doctors  |
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By *dquest OP Couple
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"Yes I'm guilty, I'm shallow as a puddle! "
Ha! We do have couples on here with whom we have a legitimate relationship outside of play time fun. However, most play is based on raw attraction. We would rather be quite choosy and get just what we want. |
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"God no, everyone should respect anyone's personal preference when it comes to attraction.
Sometimes it's physical other times mental - it's not up to anyone else what you respond to.
If someone can't handle you not being interested/attracted to them they are most certainly in the wrong place.
I have a big issue with accents, alot of them drive me insane. For me personally I cannot stand a Welsh accent and love Scousers - can't help what my ears like to hear haha
Tidy butt"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's good having standards and preferences, I'm exactly the same, if anything they're probably way too high But.. I won't settle for less than what I want |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We all have preferences and understand that many won't see us as Mr. is hairy and has a short beard. However, we have preferences too. Mrs. Doesn't like bald guys as she's had a couple of turn off experiences with rivers of sweat dripping off their heads.
So, are we too shallow by having preferences in play partners? "
As a bald man, I have no problem with not being some ladies’ preferences. None of us should be offended. |
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I think the problem regards this website is that many profiles state something along the lines of ‘personality is the most important thing’, and then once a rapport has been established still reject on the basis of ‘not my/our type’.
Fine. Everyone can makes their own choices and nobody should feel obliged to play with anyone they don’t fancy. But it can appear shallow having stated in the profile text that a mental connection was the bigger part of the attraction.
It’s impossible to know what someone’s ‘type’ is before initiating contact. And I suppose insisting upon a type could be considered unimaginative.
This behaviour is common amongst couples and single women and could give the impression of shallowness if seemingly everything else had been going well.
Is that sort of what you meant OP? |
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"We all have preferences and understand that many won't see us as Mr. is hairy and has a short beard. However, we have preferences too. Mrs. Doesn't like bald guys as she's had a couple of turn off experiences with rivers of sweat dripping off their heads.
So, are we too shallow by having preferences in play partners? "
Lmao nobodys asking you to find the loves of your lives...  |
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No issue at all Op, I have an aversion to body hair. I find it a complete turn off, so no matter how attracted I am to someone’s intelligence if she had a very hairy bush and underarm hair or the guy was very hairy, no chance.
It’s only fair to that person or couple as well, you wouldn’t want to meet someone who thinks you’re very unattractive and gross.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My Wife's personal preference is for Caucasian Males - we are NOT Racist.
However, one individual on this site accused us of Racism.
I could not reply to them personally because they blocked us and I do not know who they were because I stupidly deleted there email.
So I posted here, didn't name the individual(s) because I did not know who they were.
The moderators on this site chose to ban us for 2 days - unbelievable and we were the victims |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The moderators on this site chose to ban us for 2 days - unbelievable and we were the victims
Do you realise you can get a ban for posting on the forums about a ban ?"
Their choice to be honest! If they choose to ban the victims of abuse rather than the perpetrators of it then they will lose our revenue! |
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