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I like black ladies but find it hard to meet
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Lol I agree, I can go out clubbing locally and find one but on fabs nah. Most seem to like white men so it is what it is suppose. But I know here are events that cater for this hopefully when the storm passes I'll find myself there |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lol I agree, I can go out clubbing locally and find one but on fabs nah. Most seem to like white men so it is what it is suppose. But I know here are events that cater for this hopefully when the storm passes I'll find myself there "
I thought you would find it easier x
Do you find it easier to meet white girls |
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"Lol I agree, I can go out clubbing locally and find one but on fabs nah. Most seem to like white men so it is what it is suppose. But I know here are events that cater for this hopefully when the storm passes I'll find myself there
I thought you would find it easier x
Do you find it easier to meet white girls "
Yeah it is, I think everyone does lol their the majority |
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"Lol I agree, I can go out clubbing locally and find one but on fabs nah. Most seem to like white men so it is what it is suppose. But I know here are events that cater for this hopefully when the storm passes I'll find myself there
I thought you would find it easier x
Do you find it easier to meet white girls
Yeah it is, I think everyone does lol their the majority "
read the profiles? i’ve checked out a fair few black lady profiles and some do state the types of men they prefer.... as suggested above try attending multi racial events. |
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"Lol I agree, I can go out clubbing locally and find one but on fabs nah. Most seem to like white men so it is what it is suppose. But I know here are events that cater for this hopefully when the storm passes I'll find myself there
I thought you would find it easier x
Do you find it easier to meet white girls
Yeah it is, I think everyone does lol their the majority
read the profiles? i’ve checked out a fair few black lady profiles and some do state the types of men they prefer.... as suggested above try attending multi racial events. "
Are you okay ? You're basically repeating what I said. |
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By *69_maleMan
over a year ago
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There are few and far between black ladies within 70 to 100 miles, where ever you live. I have fancied black ladies since i was in my teens. I have messaged many a gorgeous black lady without a reply.
There are genuine white males amongst us that really fancy black ladies and hope that they can see that in our messages compared to those that just fancy their chances. |
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"Most of the black ladies profiles who I saw were looking for black men only  "
I've just done a search of black women looking men, I only looked at the first ten and of those who stated a racial preference it was for Caucasian men! |
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"Most of the black ladies profiles who I saw were looking for black men only
I've just done a search of black women looking men, I only looked at the first ten and of those who stated a racial preference it was for Caucasian men!"
That's what I found as well. And they ones that were into black men, weren't into me so it is what it is. |
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I've been lucky enough to enjoy the company of black ladies and it has been wonderful. However, just had a quick look - in my area/parameters there are TWO within 40 miles who have been online in the past month.
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Your problem will be a woman will not want to be with you just because you have a face about the colour of their skin try just takking to them these women ame not saying oh your black thats a turn on for me!!! Make then feel you fancy them not their colour |
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I would love to meet a black lady. Any lady really, from any culture with any ethnic background. She doesn't have to be a lady, in fact perhaps not having lady like attributes would be a benefit. Just to be two meters away from a lady would be amazing right now. Skinny one, plumper one, older one even one rejected by Jeremy Kyle for being too, you know. Just to have the attention and conversation with a lady would be amazing. Never again will I undervalue even the most mundane interactions with a lady. I will make the most of them. A bosom really does make the best pillow. I miss all of you ladies. 
What was the conversation again??? |
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By *antrelWoman
over a year ago
Birmingham/Cardiff |
"Your problem will be a woman will not want to be with you just because you have a face about the colour of their skin try just takking to them these women ame not saying oh your black thats a turn on for me!!! Make then feel you fancy them not their colour "
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By *pandjMan
over a year ago
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"I’ve not thought about this as a ‘thing’ before, but realise now that I’ve only ever known Caucasian ladies! Have I been missing out.........?  "
Due to where I’ve lived I’ve never had the opportunity to do anything with a black woman. I had an encounter with a Polynesian woman loved her coffee coloured skin next to mine.
I also spent 6 weeks in Kenya with work. There were some stunners out there and they were attacked to is white guys. We were told that one in six people in the area had HIV so I stayed away. |
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Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)
I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness |
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"Your problem will be a woman will not want to be with you just because you have a face about the colour of their skin try just takking to them these women ame not saying oh your black thats a turn on for me!!! Make then feel you fancy them not their colour
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This ^^^ |
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"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)
I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness"
See it seems to be fine if a white woman says she loves black men or is only looking for black men.
But when a white men says it, its a fetish thing.
Maybe what some men mean when they say that they "love black women" is they're more attracted to black women than white women in general.
Just like the white ladies who are only seeking black men. |
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"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)
I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness
See it seems to be fine if a white woman says she loves black men or is only looking for black men.
But when a white men says it, its a fetish thing.
Maybe what some men mean when they say that they "love black women" is they're more attracted to black women than white women in general.
Just like the white ladies who are only seeking black men. "
No I think it's just as much of a fetish with white women and BBC. I think it's a horrible way to describe someone...by the colour of their genitals.
Again each to their own
When I get messages saying 'ooh I've never been with a black woman" I always reply in the same vein..you are not practising on me. |
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"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)
I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness"
I completely agree and it's not limited to gender! Saying that you like someone just because of their ethnicity is wrong and in my opinion, positive discrimination. Like me for me, not because of the colour of my skin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your problem will be a woman will not want to be with you just because you have a face about the colour of their skin try just takking to them these women ame not saying oh your black thats a turn on for me!!! Make then feel you fancy them not their colour "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)
I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness
See it seems to be fine if a white woman says she loves black men or is only looking for black men.
But when a white men says it, its a fetish thing.
Maybe what some men mean when they say that they "love black women" is they're more attracted to black women than white women in general.
Just like the white ladies who are only seeking black men. "
No one has said its "fine" when it's the other way around. And you being dismissive of the way such terminology makes black women feel may just be the reason why you're struggling to meet one. |
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"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)
I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness
See it seems to be fine if a white woman says she loves black men or is only looking for black men.
But when a white men says it, its a fetish thing.
Maybe what some men mean when they say that they "love black women" is they're more attracted to black women than white women in general.
Just like the white ladies who are only seeking black men.
No one has said its "fine" when it's the other way around. And you being dismissive of the way such terminology makes black women feel may just be the reason why you're struggling to meet one."
Tell dem sis!! |
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"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)
I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness
See it seems to be fine if a white woman says she loves black men or is only looking for black men.
But when a white men says it, its a fetish thing.
Maybe what some men mean when they say that they "love black women" is they're more attracted to black women than white women in general.
Just like the white ladies who are only seeking black men.
No one has said its "fine" when it's the other way around. And you being dismissive of the way such terminology makes black women feel may just be the reason why you're struggling to meet one.
Tell dem sis!!"
Honestly, any guy who messages me talking about race gets blocked straight away |
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By *nique_78Woman
over a year ago
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"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)
I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness"
I'd also like to add, for me I detest being placed in the 'any hole will do' category. I'm picky who I spend time with...just maybe there are other women on this site who feel the same regardless of colour.
Crazy way of thinking but there you go ?? |
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"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)
I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness"
Love this, it’s a turn off and usually a straight block x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Honestly, any guy who messages me talking about race gets blocked straight away
I'll second that one too!"
I don't do that. Unless it comes up in chat or in the forum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies...when have guys ever been so quiet on fab lol
I asked earlier if I’ve been missing out, and all the ladies have been quiet......? "
We weren't quiet. We just didn't answer you personally |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ladies...when have guys ever been so quiet on fab lol
I asked earlier if I’ve been missing out, and all the ladies have been quiet......?
We weren't quiet. We just didn't answer you personally"
He is missing out though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"years ago I lived in the west midlands & had sex with a few black prostitutes I really enjoyed it "
Good for you. I'd imagine you're going to have to pay for it every time after that comment.
And you guys wonder why you are struggling |
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"years ago I lived in the west midlands & had sex with a few black prostitutes I really enjoyed it
Good for you. I'd imagine you're going to have to pay for it every time after that comment.
And you guys wonder why you are struggling "
But hey...
Top profile halfway too |
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"Ladies...when have guys ever been so quiet on fab lol
I asked earlier if I’ve been missing out, and all the ladies have been quiet......?
We weren't quiet. We just didn't answer you personally"
Exactly!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"years ago I lived in the west midlands & had sex with a few black prostitutes I really enjoyed it
Good for you. I'd imagine you're going to have to pay for it every time after that comment.
And you guys wonder why you are struggling
But hey...
Top profile halfway too"
Thanks x |
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Think everyone has their own opinion on this, I totally get labeling people BBC etc, We absolutely love interracial meets/fun not just black guys/girls but every culture in the world, Most of us on here have a preferred type like size age hair colour etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ladies...when have guys ever been so quiet on fab lol
I asked earlier if I’ve been missing out, and all the ladies have been quiet......?
We weren't quiet. We just didn't answer you personally
He is missing out though "
No-one is missing out as ethnicity has no bearing on sexual ability. All women have the same bits just as men have the same bits regardless of colour. Its how you use what you have that counts. |
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"years ago I lived in the west midlands & had sex with a few black prostitutes I really enjoyed it
Good for you. I'd imagine you're going to have to pay for it every time after that comment.
And you guys wonder why you are struggling
But hey...
Top profile halfway too
Thanks x"
gotta say i loved your pics and turning up at my house like that, thats a thought worth savouring especially if my dad answers door  |
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"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)
I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness
See it seems to be fine if a white woman says she loves black men or is only looking for black men.
But when a white men says it, its a fetish thing.
Maybe what some men mean when they say that they "love black women" is they're more attracted to black women than white women in general.
Just like the white ladies who are only seeking black men. "
It's a fetish same way for most |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)
I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness
See it seems to be fine if a white woman says she loves black men or is only looking for black men.
But when a white men says it, its a fetish thing.
Maybe what some men mean when they say that they "love black women" is they're more attracted to black women than white women in general.
Just like the white ladies who are only seeking black men.
It's a fetish same way for most"
So feeling attracted to someone is a fetish. Hmm okay. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I don’t see it as a colour of some one at all
There is only two race’s on this planet and that is human and huwomen in my eyes x
I just really like a lady that is all women and a lady with a darker skin pigment is what I really like x and I would love to chat and meet more of my preferences |
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"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)
I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness
See it seems to be fine if a white woman says she loves black men or is only looking for black men.
But when a white men says it, its a fetish thing.
Maybe what some men mean when they say that they "love black women" is they're more attracted to black women than white women in general.
Just like the white ladies who are only seeking black men.
It's a fetish same way for most
So feeling attracted to someone is a fetish. Hmm okay. "
I think the fetish is about being attracted to someone purely because of their skin colour, where their personal qualities are secondary or unimportant. |
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"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)
I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness
See it seems to be fine if a white woman says she loves black men or is only looking for black men.
But when a white men says it, its a fetish thing.
Maybe what some men mean when they say that they "love black women" is they're more attracted to black women than white women in general.
Just like the white ladies who are only seeking black men.
It's a fetish same way for most
So feeling attracted to someone is a fetish. Hmm okay.
I think the fetish is about being attracted to someone purely because of their skin colour, where their personal qualities are secondary or unimportant."
Well that's not the case with me. |
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"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)
I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness
See it seems to be fine if a white woman says she loves black men or is only looking for black men.
But when a white men says it, its a fetish thing.
Maybe what some men mean when they say that they "love black women" is they're more attracted to black women than white women in general.
Just like the white ladies who are only seeking black men.
It's a fetish same way for most
So feeling attracted to someone is a fetish. Hmm okay.
I think the fetish is about being attracted to someone purely because of their skin colour, where their personal qualities are secondary or unimportant.
Well that's not the case with me. "
That's fine, I wasn't suggesting it was |
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"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)
I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness
See it seems to be fine if a white woman says she loves black men or is only looking for black men.
But when a white men says it, its a fetish thing.
Maybe what some men mean when they say that they "love black women" is they're more attracted to black women than white women in general.
Just like the white ladies who are only seeking black men.
It's a fetish same way for most
So feeling attracted to someone is a fetish. Hmm okay.
I think the fetish is about being attracted to someone purely because of their skin colour, where their personal qualities are secondary or unimportant.
Well that's not the case with me.
That's fine, I wasn't suggesting it was "
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"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)
I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness"
Very true, I agree with your statement. |
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"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)
I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness
See it seems to be fine if a white woman says she loves black men or is only looking for black men.
But when a white men says it, its a fetish thing.
Maybe what some men mean when they say that they "love black women" is they're more attracted to black women than white women in general.
Just like the white ladies who are only seeking black men.
It's a fetish same way for most
So feeling attracted to someone is a fetish. Hmm okay. "
Would you like to point out where anyone said that?
What is it that you love about black women that applies to all black women? Because if it's a skin colour issue, that's fetishist.
Out of interest, how many black women do you know well? Have you had relationships with any? Is it a purely sexual desire?
Indulge me please lol |
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"years ago I lived in the west midlands & had sex with a few black prostitutes I really enjoyed it
Good for you. I'd imagine you're going to have to pay for it every time after that comment.
And you guys wonder why you are struggling
But hey...
Top profile halfway too
Thanks xgotta say i loved your pics and turning up at my house like that, thats a thought worth savouring especially if my dad answers door "
Haha dont worry it's not gonna happen x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t see it as a colour of some one at all
There is only two race’s on this planet and that is human and huwomen in my eyes x
I just really like a lady that is all women and a lady with a darker skin pigment is what I really like x and I would love to chat and meet more of my preferences "
Well why are you commenting about having preferences of a particular hue over another. If you dont see colour (which is just the most ridiculous comment to make unless you are colourblind) how can you tell us apart lol. Come on sunshine
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"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)
I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness
See it seems to be fine if a white woman says she loves black men or is only looking for black men.
But when a white men says it, its a fetish thing.
Maybe what some men mean when they say that they "love black women" is they're more attracted to black women than white women in general.
Just like the white ladies who are only seeking black men.
It's a fetish same way for most
So feeling attracted to someone is a fetish. Hmm okay.
Would you like to point out where anyone said that?
What is it that you love about black women that applies to all black women? Because if it's a skin colour issue, that's fetishist.
Out of interest, how many black women do you know well? Have you had relationships with any? Is it a purely sexual desire?
Indulge me please lol"
That was my vibe
I can't explain what I like about black women. I don't like everyone, I just know what I like when I see it.
I know one black woman well. I haven't had relationships with any. There are not many at all where I live. It's not just a sexual thing for me but damn it's a turn on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This is a very interesting topic.....
I’ll give you my experience visiting the UK....
All my cousins are second generation Jamaican Brits.... All 20 of the have children with non spouses.... It doesn’t bother me at all but comparing that with my family in the USA and Canada only about 20% have children with non black people....
Now if you read most of the black women profiles on Fab ... most are looking for white men....
Op I’m not sure where you’re looking for black women but Fab should be a goldmine for you.... |
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"years ago I lived in the west midlands & had sex with a few black prostitutes I really enjoyed it
Good for you. I'd imagine you're going to have to pay for it every time after that comment.
And you guys wonder why you are struggling
But hey...
Top profile halfway too
Thanks xgotta say i loved your pics and turning up at my house like that, thats a thought worth savouring especially if my dad answers door
Haha dont worry it's not gonna happen x"
awwww i was so looking forward to it |
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As a black lady on here i get messages from white guys telling me how they've never been with black lady before, to me that's the worst thing you can say, as I'm not a novelty and it's an instant turn off. Pretty much the same when i get massages of black guys asking if i fuck black men. Just for the record, i like all men, well those over 5'11 lol |
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"As a black lady on here i get messages from white guys telling me how they've never been with black lady before, to me that's the worst thing you can say, as I'm not a novelty and it's an instant turn off. Pretty much the same when i get massages of black guys asking if i fuck black men. Just for the record, i like all men, well those over 5'11 lol"
5ft9 but could always buy some heels ???? |
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"As a black lady on here i get messages from white guys telling me how they've never been with black lady before, to me that's the worst thing you can say, as I'm not a novelty and it's an instant turn off. Pretty much the same when i get massages of black guys asking if i fuck black men. Just for the record, i like all men, well those over 5'11 lol"
lol yes and i agree entirely with what you are saying a womans a woman and a mans a man you're either attracted or not |
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I've also always fancied black ladies since I was young. I grew up with a black lady who is absolutely beautiful, nothing ever happened between us as we where good friends.
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"As a black lady on here i get messages from white guys telling me how they've never been with black lady before, to me that's the worst thing you can say, as I'm not a novelty and it's an instant turn off. Pretty much the same when i get massages of black guys asking if i fuck black men. Just for the record, i like all men, well those over 5'11 lol"
Phew I just made it  |
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My last 3 exs were mixed black. I love the contrast of skin colour. Spunk on their skin is sexy as hell too for some reason.
My one ex and her new partner are on here somewhere I recently saw. Wasn't expecting that |
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"Your problem will be a woman will not want to be with you just because you have a face about the colour of their skin try just takking to them these women ame not saying oh your black thats a turn on for me!!! Make then feel you fancy them not their colour
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Dont get me wrong I do find the colour of the skin very sexy myself but I wouldnt want to sleep with a black woman just because she is black I would still have to be attached to her and she to me
I think all women are beautiful in their own way no matter colour of skin short or tall fat or slim |
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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago
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This whole thread makes me despair. Think whatever you want, but if a man actively told me he had a "thing" for black women and then followed it up by talking about his spunk on my skin, I'd have zero interest. Keep it to yourself and charm her into bed as you would with a regular woman.
Because she's a regular woman. |
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"This whole thread makes me despair. Think whatever you want, but if a man actively told me he had a "thing" for black women and then followed it up by talking about his spunk on my skin, I'd have zero interest. Keep it to yourself and charm her into bed as you would with a regular woman.
Because she's a regular woman. "
Totally agree with you a woman is a woman no matter the colour of her ski |
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"This whole thread makes me despair. Think whatever you want, but if a man actively told me he had a "thing" for black women and then followed it up by talking about his spunk on my skin, I'd have zero interest. Keep it to yourself and charm her into bed as you would with a regular woman.
Because she's a regular woman. "
Hallelujah! |
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"This whole thread makes me despair. Think whatever you want, but if a man actively told me he had a "thing" for black women and then followed it up by talking about his spunk on my skin, I'd have zero interest. Keep it to yourself and charm her into bed as you would with a regular woman.
Because she's a regular woman.
Totally agree with you a woman is a woman no matter the colour of her ski"
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"This whole thread makes me despair. Think whatever you want, but if a man actively told me he had a "thing" for black women and then followed it up by talking about his spunk on my skin, I'd have zero interest. Keep it to yourself and charm her into bed as you would with a regular woman.
Because she's a regular woman. "
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"As a black lady on here i get messages from white guys telling me how they've never been with black lady before, to me that's the worst thing you can say, as I'm not a novelty and it's an instant turn off. Pretty much the same when i get massages of black guys asking if i fuck black men. Just for the record, i like all men, well those over 5'11 lol
Phew I just made it "
Hahaha, have you now |
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"This whole thread makes me despair. Think whatever you want, but if a man actively told me he had a "thing" for black women and then followed it up by talking about his spunk on my skin, I'd have zero interest. Keep it to yourself and charm her into bed as you would with a regular woman.
Because she's a regular woman. "
agree with this. |
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"I really like black ladies but find it so hard to meet and chat up a lady of my preference do any other guys find the same problem or is it just me x"
Get yourselves to the islands when all this is over, plenty of hot girls who like their white chocolate |
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"This whole thread makes me despair. Think whatever you want, but if a man actively told me he had a "thing" for black women and then followed it up by talking about his spunk on my skin, I'd have zero interest. Keep it to yourself and charm her into bed as you would with a regular woman.
Because she's a regular woman. "
Agreed but having a preference is fine, the spunk comment is just gross |
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"As a black lady on here i get messages from white guys telling me how they've never been with black lady before, to me that's the worst thing you can say, as I'm not a novelty and it's an instant turn off. Pretty much the same when i get massages of black guys asking if i fuck black men. Just for the record, i like all men, well those over 5'11 lol
Phew I just made it
Hahaha, have you now"
6 footer here. So your telling me there's a chance. |
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"I really like black ladies but find it so hard to meet and chat up a lady of my preference do any other guys find the same problem or is it just me x
Get yourselves to the islands when all this is over, plenty of hot girls who like their white chocolate "
Sounds like a great holiday |
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"This whole thread makes me despair. Think whatever you want, but if a man actively told me he had a "thing" for black women and then followed it up by talking about his spunk on my skin, I'd have zero interest. Keep it to yourself and charm her into bed as you would with a regular woman.
Because she's a regular woman. "
All fine and dandy having a preference or type as they say, but the whole fetishising of a persons skin colour is all very distasteful.
Just treat people as people. |
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"I really like black ladies but find it so hard to meet and chat up a lady of my preference do any other guys find the same problem or is it just me x
Get yourselves to the islands when all this is over, plenty of hot girls who like their white chocolate "
Now this ladie is a beautiful woman  |
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"This whole thread makes me despair. Think whatever you want, but if a man actively told me he had a "thing" for black women and then followed it up by talking about his spunk on my skin, I'd have zero interest. Keep it to yourself and charm her into bed as you would with a regular woman.
Because she's a regular woman. "
Yes Queen! |
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"My last 3 exs were mixed black. I love the contrast of skin colour. Spunk on their skin is sexy as hell too for some reason.
So what they had between their ears didn't do much for you?! "
OMG I dont keep up with this chat for a couple of days and this happens. Who said this? Where has he gone? And what is 'mixed black'? So many questions for him. SMH |
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"This whole thread makes me despair. Think whatever you want, but if a man actively told me he had a "thing" for black women and then followed it up by talking about his spunk on my skin, I'd have zero interest. Keep it to yourself and charm her into bed as you would with a regular woman.
Because she's a regular woman. "
I agree with you.
I also personally don’t like being described as a “chocolate woman” or being told the “contrast” of my skin against their lighter one is “sexy” or a “turn on”.
We all have preference be it race, size, age but I think there’s a fine line. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Yes I totally agree with you ladies and if I have offended you with anything I have said I apologise x
I just asked a question about how hard I find it to meet and chat up a lady of my preference x
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"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)
I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness"
I think this is the key difference.
Black women want to be for asked the person they are now what they are where as quite a few black men are happy to be seen as an fetish object (bbc) if it means they can get meets.
Ofcourse not all black guys are a bbc and not all want to be seen as one either. |
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"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)
I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness
I think this is the key difference.
Black women want to be for asked the person they are now what they are where as quite a few black men are happy to be seen as an fetish object (bbc) if it means they can get meets.
Ofcourse not all black guys are a bbc and not all want to be seen as one either."
I’ve just seen a thread that begs to differ xx |
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"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)
I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness
See it seems to be fine if a white woman says she loves black men or is only looking for black men.
But when a white men says it, its a fetish thing.
Maybe what some men mean when they say that they "love black women" is they're more attracted to black women than white women in general.
Just like the white ladies who are only seeking black men.
No I think it's just as much of a fetish with white women and BBC. I think it's a horrible way to describe someone...by the colour of their genitals.
Again each to their own
When I get messages saying 'ooh I've never been with a black woman" I always reply in the same vein..you are not practising on me. "
I have the same cheeky response. Ooh i never been with a Blackman before. Funny enough, neither have i. Next |
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By *nique_78Woman
over a year ago
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"Hmm as a black woman I find it really strange when a man of any race says I love black women. You cant love us all lol. If someone approaches me in that manner, ie "I love black women" it's a straight no as it feels very fetishist (is that even a word?)
I'd much rather someone read my profile and was interested in me for me as opposed to my blackness"
100% agree with your opinion |
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"I run a social chat group for black ladies who are into white guys . Looking for more members. DM me for details "
Can’t DM you as you’ve blocked males from messaging you. |
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