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"I'd suggest anyone who would consider meeting you or anyone else right now probably isn't someone worth meeting. "
I didn't mean now Haha I ment in general. But this virus does come from bats so maybe I'll turn into bat man  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't be the only one finding it hard to get a meet. I've had some long and great times messaging people over weeks but then poof I get ghosted. A tone else have this problem"
socials are happening all the time go to one and get many or go on cam easy    |
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Anyone even considering looking for meets now of all times is definitely someone to avoid once this pandemic is over. Can't believe people still posting for meets on our local updates. I know some egos demand "fab my pics/check my profile/message me with what you want to do to me and you just may be the one I pick" but surely even the most deluded know this is a serious situation we are in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone even considering looking for meets now of all times is definitely someone to avoid once this pandemic is over. Can't believe people still posting for meets on our local updates. I know some egos demand "fab my pics/check my profile/message me with what you want to do to me and you just may be the one I pick" but surely even the most deluded know this is a serious situation we are in."
you're on that bandwagon too are you lol hey you know this virus is with us forever dont you, you hiding forever?  |
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"Anyone even considering looking for meets now of all times is definitely someone to avoid once this pandemic is over. Can't believe people still posting for meets on our local updates. I know some egos demand "fab my pics/check my profile/message me with what you want to do to me and you just may be the one I pick" but surely even the most deluded know this is a serious situation we are in.you're on that bandwagon too are you lol hey you know this virus is with us forever dont you, you hiding forever? "
No but the least we can all try to do to help this situation is follow the advice given-but hey you do your thing and we will do what we believe is best for us and our family. |
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"Anyone even considering looking for meets now of all times is definitely someone to avoid once this pandemic is over. Can't believe people still posting for meets on our local updates. I know some egos demand "fab my pics/check my profile/message me with what you want to do to me and you just may be the one I pick" but surely even the most deluded know this is a serious situation we are in.you're on that bandwagon too are you lol hey you know this virus is with us forever dont you, you hiding forever? "
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"Anyone even considering looking for meets now of all times is definitely someone to avoid once this pandemic is over. Can't believe people still posting for meets on our local updates. I know some egos demand "fab my pics/check my profile/message me with what you want to do to me and you just may be the one I pick" but surely even the most deluded know this is a serious situation we are in.you're on that bandwagon too are you lol hey you know this virus is with us forever dont you, you hiding forever?
No but the least we can all try to do to help this situation is follow the advice given-but hey you do your thing and we will do what we believe is best for us and our family."
Stupid doesn’t deserve such a measured response in my opinion. Selfish arseholes calling a global pandemic bandwagons are beyond contempt. I totally agree anyone going out of the house right now is causally directly insulting all front line workers. I totally ageee with you. |
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"Anyone even considering looking for meets now of all times is definitely someone to avoid once this pandemic is over. Can't believe people still posting for meets on our local updates. I know some egos demand "fab my pics/check my profile/message me with what you want to do to me and you just may be the one I pick" but surely even the most deluded know this is a serious situation we are in.you're on that bandwagon too are you lol hey you know this virus is with us forever dont you, you hiding forever?
No but the least we can all try to do to help this situation is follow the advice given-but hey you do your thing and we will do what we believe is best for us and our family.my thing is no work no money no food no holiday and no refund but hope your happy seeing it from yours and the governments perspective "
Then we need to isolate to stop the spread...... then the people that manage these critical thing won’t get ill. It’s not difficult ... there is currently no problem with the food supply chain but people hoarding. Pretending it’s not there and ‘not hiding’ will make all your fears happen. I’m sure you can do without a holiday - people are dying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"socials are happening all the time go to one and get many
Where are they happening ?well this week and next may be difficult but according to Boris the week afters ok "
12 weeks before hugging and a kissing can happen |
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"getting a verification was the easiest thing ever. Just attend a social when they start up again. Anyone that was on here pre-corona that isn't verified just couldn't be bothered."
Or they’re married or cheating |
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It's not just about having a verification, as you have to be perceived as attractive and more desirable to meet than the other single men they are comparing you to. There are tons of posts here from men who ask for and get lots of help, with how to make their profile a turn on, not a turn pff, pick photos that are attractive, instead of cock pics and a lot more. Read that advice and see which bits could relate to you. As there are so many men here, those who make the effort and the most of using their profile to sell them, well will typically do much better than trying to flog the same dead horse. Or cock. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah, I’m not here long and I can see it being a problem for me too. It’s kind of a catch 22, people need to be cautious but at the same time you have to gain thirst trust, that’s if you can get their attention in the first place! It will be a hard slog, if we last! |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
Plymouth |
"Yeah, I’m not here long and I can see it being a problem for me too. It’s kind of a catch 22, people need to be cautious but at the same time you have to gain thirst trust, that’s if you can get their attention in the first place! It will be a hard slog, if we last! "
I would suggest you change your profile update something more positive ..and get to a social even if it means visiting England.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah, I’m not here long and I can see it being a problem for me too. It’s kind of a catch 22, people need to be cautious but at the same time you have to gain thirst trust, that’s if you can get their attention in the first place! It will be a hard slog, if we last!
I would suggest you change your profile update something more positive ..and get to a social even if it means visiting England.."
Noted, many thanks. |
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"Go to a social, travel if necessary I guarantee if your a normal decent bloke you'll get a bunch of nice verris...and make a bunch of friends..save months of pointless messaging on fab.."
OP, this is very good advice.
You can also pop your webcam on and chat in the chatroom to get verified. |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
Plymouth |
"While we are at it, any other advise for the profile, the pictures are crisp I know, but generally does it come across ok? "
The words are ok , maybe put a nice headline summarising you in a nice way and break the text into paragraphs...the pics are out of focus and as a young guy I would imagine a nice pic of a fit torso would look nice...I'm an older gent...play to your strengths...
Your desperate plea for a friend would make me think you need to call the samaritans. Put something positive up...I would suggest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As you haven't asked for profile advice, I'm not allowed to give you any, but I'd suggest that your profile would be the place to start. It's not doing you any favours I'm afraid |
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"As you haven't asked for profile advice, I'm not allowed to give you any, but I'd suggest that your profile would be the place to start. It's not doing you any favours I'm afraid"
Not strictly true mate.
Forum rules are clear: "Unless someone specifically asks for their profile to be critiqued or if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success, please don't critique their profile or be mean about it"
The key part being: "if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success". This thread clearly falls into that category.
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Hi OP,
One of the main reasons why people don't have success is because they aren't very good at self publicising. Your profile is the key area to do this and most women will look at a profile even before they have read your message.
You could drop the first line, it's too negative. Who wants to meet with someone negative?
Check your spelling too. It sounds minor but it can turn some people off you.
You could do with being a little more honest on your profile, do you really want to shag people in their nineties?
A little bit more thought about your pictures would probably help. Believe it or not most women don't want to stare at cock pics. Some body shots, or clothed pics would be better, and don't forget that a face pic is what everyone wants to see.
Once you have uploaded better pics, make one of them your profile pic. Once again, it might shock you to learn that women don't generally want to meet with a silhouette.
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
Plymouth |
"Hi OP,
One of the main reasons why people don't have success is because they aren't very good at self publicising. Your profile is the key area to do this and most women will look at a profile even before they have read your message.
You could drop the first line, it's too negative. Who wants to meet with someone negative?
Check your spelling too. It sounds minor but it can turn some people off you.
You could do with being a little more honest on your profile, do you really want to shag people in their nineties?
A little bit more thought about your pictures would probably help. Believe it or not most women don't want to stare at cock pics. Some body shots, or clothed pics would be better, and don't forget that a face pic is what everyone wants to see.
Once you have uploaded better pics, make one of them your profile pic. Once again, it might shock you to learn that women don't generally want to meet with a silhouette.
Good luck "
It's not rocket science
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By *jb773Man
over a year ago
Bishops Stortford |
"While we are at it, any other advise for the profile, the pictures are crisp I know, but generally does it come across ok?
The words are ok , maybe put a nice headline summarising you in a nice way and break the text into paragraphs...the pics are out of focus and as a young guy I would imagine a nice pic of a fit torso would look nice...I'm an older gent...play to your strengths...
Your desperate plea for a friend would make me think you need to call the samaritans. Put something positive up...I would suggest."
Could you check my profile out too,i have verifications but only with men.
I have never had any luck with women on here |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
Plymouth |
"While we are at it, any other advise for the profile, the pictures are crisp I know, but generally does it come across ok?
The words are ok , maybe put a nice headline summarising you in a nice way and break the text into paragraphs...the pics are out of focus and as a young guy I would imagine a nice pic of a fit torso would look nice...I'm an older gent...play to your strengths...
Your desperate plea for a friend would make me think you need to call the samaritans. Put something positive up...I would suggest.
Could you check my profile out too,i have verifications but only with men.
I have never had any luck with women on here"
Just write something normal..not you want someone to give you a good seeing to...and go to a social..
Search social on the forums and one will pop up at some point that you can attend...
Otherwise find a local venue frequented my middle aged divorced ladies on a night out and chat them up...
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"I can't be the only one finding it hard to get a meet. I've had some long and great times messaging people over weeks but then poof I get ghosted. A tone else have this problem"
For me it's very important what a guy writes about himself on his profile. It tells the ladies who you are and what makes you stand out from all the other single guys on this site. Articulating and punctuation are very attractive features. Be yourself, be funny be respectful. Best of luck x |
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