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How to have the best safe swapping sex?!
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By *F79 OP Couple
over a year ago
Moray |
Looking for some tips on how to practice safe sex and still have great swapping fun.....
So for example..... there’s no point in using condoms for penetration with others if you have bareback oral with them....
So looking for some tips on the use of dental dams and condoms and still being able to swap back n fore between each other. |
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"Looking for some tips on how to practice safe sex and still have great swapping fun.....
So for example..... there’s no point in using condoms for penetration with others if you have bareback oral with them....
So looking for some tips on the use of dental dams and condoms and still being able to swap back n fore between each other. "
I put up a similar thread a few weeks ago....the consensus was to have regular sex screening for STI’s which I’ve sent off my first test to the clinic. |
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By *F79 OP Couple
over a year ago
Moray |
"Use a new condom each time you swap"
Of course, but I’m thinking of the longer sessions where *for example* Both Mrs are being fucked by the other Mr’s, and one Mr pulls out so the other Mrs can give oral to the other Mrs!
It’s the practicalities of using dams and condoms on/off/on/off and still retaining the fun and spontaneity.
Just looking for tips from couples who have been doing this for a long time and are well practiced!!
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By *F79 OP Couple
over a year ago
Moray |
"I put up a similar thread a few weeks ago....the consensus was to have regular sex screening for STI’s which I’ve sent off my first test to the clinic. "
Thank you.... this is something we do anyway |
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"Use a new condom each time you swap
Of course, but I’m thinking of the longer sessions where *for example* Both Mrs are being fucked by the other Mr’s, and one Mr pulls out so the other Mrs can give oral to the other Mrs!
It’s the practicalities of using dams and condoms on/off/on/off and still retaining the fun and spontaneity.
Just looking for tips from couples who have been doing this for a long time and are well practiced!!
Thank you "
I don’t think there is really a ‘safe’ solution to this scenario but I’m watching with interest the comments. |
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By *F79 OP Couple
over a year ago
Moray |
"Use a new condom each time you swap
Of course, but I’m thinking of the longer sessions where *for example* Both Mrs are being fucked by the other Mr’s, and one Mr pulls out so the other Mrs can give oral to the other Mrs!
It’s the practicalities of using dams and condoms on/off/on/off and still retaining the fun and spontaneity.
Just looking for tips from couples who have been doing this for a long time and are well practiced!!
Thank you
I don’t think there is really a ‘safe’ solution to this scenario but I’m watching with interest the comments. "
We are thinking the same..... does somewhat make a mockery of ‘only practicing safe sex’ though.
Give/receive bareback oral, then use a condom for penetration..... only thing you are protecting from then is pregnancy.
If anyone has used dams they’ve found really good can you advise which ones please??!! |
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"Never heard of anyone actually wearing one - is it like a fetish ? Just don’t suck cock with diseases and you’ll be fine "
Do you think we should have sight of the man’s last sex test results before we suck said cock? |
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Plenty of advice covered so many times it's upto you to decide end of the day. Eyes don't get cum in them and gums if bleeding hiv and others can get into bloodstream, same as anal as you can tear, cervix higher risk of cancer due to different sperms as well as obvious. It's about reducing risk, condoms and change between partners and use on toys, obvious no sperm transfer on hands. Oral stomach acid kills std but there's more than hiv for mouth etc. The nurse at our club std testing was very informative. |
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over a year ago
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"Plenty of advice covered so many times it's upto you to decide end of the day. Eyes don't get cum in them and gums if bleeding hiv and others can get into bloodstream, same as anal as you can tear, cervix higher risk of cancer due to different sperms as well as obvious. It's about reducing risk, condoms and change between partners and use on toys, obvious no sperm transfer on hands. Oral stomach acid kills std but there's more than hiv for mouth etc. The nurse at our club std testing was very informative. "
Agree with most of above  |
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"Plenty of advice covered so many times it's upto you to decide end of the day. Eyes don't get cum in them and gums if bleeding hiv and others can get into bloodstream, same as anal as you can tear, cervix higher risk of cancer due to different sperms as well as obvious. It's about reducing risk, condoms and change between partners and use on toys, obvious no sperm transfer on hands. Oral stomach acid kills std but there's more than hiv for mouth etc. The nurse at our club std testing was very informative.
Agree with most of above "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you for all your replies..... it must be the Nurse side of me that makes me think about these things. "
It's not just you (and I'm not a nurse).
I started a thread months ago. And asked about attitudes towards dams and gloves in group situations.
I've not used dams so can't recommend any, but was told you can cut a condom - top off and up one side, and open out. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Never heard of anyone actually wearing one - is it like a fetish ? Just don’t suck cock with diseases and you’ll be fine
Do you think we should have sight of the man’s last sex test results before we suck said cock? "
Not needed - just use good judgment and limit yourself , STI from oral is a very small risk |
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"Plenty of advice covered so many times it's upto you to decide end of the day. Eyes don't get cum in them and gums if bleeding hiv and others can get into bloodstream, same as anal as you can tear, cervix higher risk of cancer due to different sperms as well as obvious. It's about reducing risk, condoms and change between partners and use on toys, obvious no sperm transfer on hands. Oral stomach acid kills std but there's more than hiv for mouth etc. The nurse at our club std testing was very informative. "
Is your cervix up your bum??
Must have had a poor biology teacher!! |
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"Plenty of advice covered so many times it's upto you to decide end of the day. Eyes don't get cum in them and gums if bleeding hiv and others can get into bloodstream, same as anal as you can tear, cervix higher risk of cancer due to different sperms as well as obvious. It's about reducing risk, condoms and change between partners and use on toys, obvious no sperm transfer on hands. Oral stomach acid kills std but there's more than hiv for mouth etc. The nurse at our club std testing was very informative.
Is your cervix up your bum??
Must have had a poor biology teacher!!"
What a strange comment  |
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Sti's are on the increase and new ones are appearing which are antibiotic resistant. You can get sti's from giv8ng or recieving oral and it is not that rare anymore.
If you are single or a swingngcouple then can take more risks and get treated if get an sti. If married / in a relationship and your partner doesnt know about your meets then think carefully about the risks and that you could infect your married partner. Especially as sti's can take 2 weeks to show symptoms. |
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"Get a bottle of Milton and a bottle of Listerine mint.
Mix together.
Pour liberally over all genitalia in the play area.
Commence fun, safe in the knowledge they're all stabilised and minty fresh  "
Sterilized not stabilised   |
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"Use a new condom each time you swap
Of course, but I’m thinking of the longer sessions where *for example* Both Mrs are being fucked by the other Mr’s, and one Mr pulls out so the other Mrs can give oral to the other Mrs!
It’s the practicalities of using dams and condoms on/off/on/off and still retaining the fun and spontaneity.
Just looking for tips from couples who have been doing this for a long time and are well practiced!!
Thank you
I don’t think there is really a ‘safe’ solution to this scenario but I’m watching with interest the comments.
We are thinking the same..... does somewhat make a mockery of ‘only practicing safe sex’ though.
Give/receive bareback oral, then use a condom for penetration..... only thing you are protecting from then is pregnancy.
If anyone has used dams they’ve found really good can you advise which ones please??!!"
Large dams
Affix with one bit of medical tape above area.
Have spares ready to go.
Condoms open on table to reduce changeover time.
Wearer puts condom on (always faster)
Lube handy.
Enjoy.
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