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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey everyone!
This is my first forum post, go me! Hahaha
Just got a question about something I read in a thread, do people generally assume as a guy if you can't accom you are cheating on your partner?
Thanks
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey everyone!
This is my first forum post, go me! Hahaha
Just got a question about something I read in a thread, do people generally assume as a guy if you can't accom you are cheating on your partner?
Thanks
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yep thats the assumption always explain why  |
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We prefer guys to be honest about whether they can accommodate. It’s frustrating getting to the point of arranging a meet only for them to admit they can’t actually accommodate after all, or they can but we’d have to stay downstairs and be quiet as their wife and kids are upstairs asleep  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We prefer guys to be honest about whether they can accommodate. It’s frustrating getting to the point of arranging a meet only for them to admit they can’t actually accommodate after all, or they can but we’d have to stay downstairs and be quiet as their wife and kids are upstairs asleep "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive been accused of cheating as im on as a single man and im married...untill they find out that she is also on here as a single lady. We are just enjoying playing alone for a while. |
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"Hey everyone!
This is my first forum post, go me! Hahaha
Just got a question about something I read in a thread, do people generally assume as a guy if you can't accom you are cheating on your partner?
Thanks
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Not at all, but we do assume that most married men can't accommodate so not meeting men that can't gets rid of most of them. It's a numbers game. |
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As a single parent to young kids it was hard to accommodate (made more difficult when most of the women I'd start to talk to were also single parents). I'm sure I've missed opportunities because of my family situation. Women on fab are very naturally cynical when it comes to a single man who can not always accommodate at his own home. Those who have invest the energy to dig deeper and talk to me have got to understand my personal home situation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It seems like people are pretty quick to jump to assumptions on here
You have been here 2weeks we been here years lol and a lot of men are cheating on here  "
and women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not just men.
I have been accused of lying about being single because I can't accommodate but the real reason is I have my son at home. "
Snap, and people assume you're not telling the truth. |
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"Hey everyone!
This is my first forum post, go me! Hahaha
Just got a question about something I read in a thread, do people generally assume as a guy if you can't accom you are cheating on your partner?
Thanks
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Yes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey everyone!
This is my first forum post, go me! Hahaha
Just got a question about something I read in a thread, do people generally assume as a guy if you can't accom you are cheating on your partner?
Thanks
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Yes, that's the assumption a lot of the time. I genuinely couldn't accommodate for a while and I was outright accused of cheating by people I'd never even messaged before  |
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"It's annoying that haha, can't accom because I live with a mate haha"
So you and your mate have an agreement not to have sex while you’re living together? I’ve been to a number of shared houses and flats, the either arrange for the other to go out for the night, or just keep out of the way. I honestly don’t see the problem. Unless your mate is also your partner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is it different if a woman says she can't accommodate?
I think the cheating thing is assumed to be a man thing so if a woman says she can't it's probably the last thing a guy would think was the reason why she couldn't |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"It's annoying that haha, can't accom because I live with a mate haha
Why would living with a mate stop you from accommodating? "
Maybe his mate doesn't want strangers trooping in and out frequently? It's about respect for the people you live with really, it's their house too. |
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