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What is it about my profile
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By *eusch OP Man
over a year ago
peterborough |
Can people have a look at my profile please, I get loads of messages from guys (wish I got as many from the ladies!!) just wondering what is it about my profile that makes single guys want to contact me for fun? What am I missing please? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The fact that you say you’re open to most things, and that you could play bi with the right couple will be interpreted by some men as “might meet a guy”, even though that’s not what you said. |
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"The fact that you say you’re open to most things, and that you could play bi with the right couple will be interpreted by some men as “might meet a guy”, even though that’s not what you said. "
I second this your profile is confusing you have you are straight then say you will play bi and lots of close up pics of your ass ... yup I can see what the attraction is to the guys ... its a turn off for me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can people have a look at my profile please, I get loads of messages from guys (wish I got as many from the ladies!!) just wondering what is it about my profile that makes single guys want to contact me for fun? What am I missing please?"
I'm guessing its all the pics of your arse    |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
Weirdsville South Coast Dorset |
"Can people have a look at my profile please, I get loads of messages from guys (wish I got as many from the ladies!!) just wondering what is it about my profile that makes single guys want to contact me for fun? What am I missing please?"
As already said, men like pics of cocks and arses! Plus you do come across as "fab straight" |
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Fab straight is when someone puts on their profile they’re straight but actually do play with the same sex. Mainly Men as some women and couples don’t meet bi guys.
Profile;
Try suited and booted photos they do appeal to women and couples.
If you put bi in your profile text but straight in your bio, that’ll be seen as potentially deceptive so maybe change that.
Good luck Op
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Other straight and curious guys may feel you understand them well, otherwise there are lots of bi guys here.
You could block all men from contacting you or see if they could arrange 3 ways etc, as many couples also have separate profiles as single m and f.
You could possibly be very specific about what bi fun you might consider or instead, go to bi club nights and meet others and explore. Some bi curious guys meet someone like myself, as an option that's a stepping stone.
Most men here get way more messages from men, due to the sheer factor of there being so many more of them here. Take it as a compliment and explore, ignore or block. Profiles that are very specific do help others narrow down who they are best compatible with. Potentially look at the forum posts asking for help, including profile help.
Good luck!  |
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By *eusch OP Man
over a year ago
peterborough |
"Two photos of you face down, arse up. Trust me, we interpret that as a "come fuck me" pose.
May I ask, your oldest photo, what's going on there??? "
I was trying to show off my tattoos without being completely naked, so am covered up with a towel |
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