It's an interesting question.
For most people, the question actually implies a lot of other related issues.
Most of my female friends (they're not very sexual), if I speak with them about it, feeling satisfied sexually often comes from engagement. The level of her sexual satisfaction relates to how well the man engaged with her in a sort of psychological sense, rather than in a physical sense.
Women's sexuality is much more complex than ours. Ofcourse, many women don't orgasm from vaginal sex. Many women don't orgasm at all. Some women cum and some don't. At the same time, women have the ability to orgasm several times from different types of stimulation, giving a huge amount of potential avenues of pleasure. I guess it makes understanding satisfaction quite difficult.
For male friends, satisfaction seems to have a more literal form. I'm satisfied when she cums, when she makes noise, when she tells me how good it was. I'm satisfied when I cum, when I finally get the release, etc.
For me personally, I'm satisfied when I've achieved whatever it was that I wanted to achieve. Sometimes I just want to lick pussy and I just want the validation I guess; a confirmation that I can please and that I was responsible for her pleasure. Sometimes, I just need to blow my load in order to be satisfied.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me I get satisfied by spoiling her in bed, I'm satisfied only when she is
Do you think it's for an ego boost? "I'm good in bed!" Sort of thing?"
Nah, I think it's for the reason for us guys we cum with shit sex or good sex. So I just think I want to make sure they are getting the same treatment |
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My ultimate pleasure and satisfaction has always come from my partner’s pleasure and enjoyment, except when I was much younger when I enjoyed quick bj’s and fucks in risky situations. Now it’s more complex, especially as I’ve learned I can have orgasms that are far beyond just blowing my load. So deep satisfaction for me comes from all partners enjoying as much pleasure and satisfaction of their needs as possible, in the time available, given the circumstances and constraints. However, in simple terms, I’ll still be satisfied if we all enjoy our time together. |
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By *eliWoman
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It is complex, you're right OP. For me personally, I think my satisfaction comes from a myriad of things - the dreaded "connection" I have with another, how well we both fluidly and effortlessly enjoy what we're doing and how easily I can switch off and get lost in the pleasure of what it is I'm actually doing with another. I can have good sex with a person easily - I orgasm quite frequently and easily when stimulated and know what positions work for me.
But that intensity that really gives me true satisfaction comes from how well I click with another; orgasms do play some part in it for me but I also derive a lot of satisfaction from how much the other is enjoying what I'm doing, my company, their orgasms. I think for true satisfaction I need that real butterflies with someone and after when we're postcoitally basking in the glow I feel like I could carry on having sex with them for a long time. |
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For me I don’t need to ‘engage’ with the other person, if it’s Nsa. Some times I would prefer it if we didn’t, even engage in long drawn out conversations. What I need is, for it to be mutual, to be able to physically please each other and not cross a boundary or feed me BS.
If I’m in a real relationship then that’s totally different x |
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