So I have been to BGHS a few times now... and still don’t know the etiquette, it’s a naturist club and everyone is chilling naked. Again today I sparked up conversation with a beautiful woman, now my dilemma is... I don’t want to be creepy or inappropriate so I don’t say anything and just let the conversation flow.
I thought she was absolutely gorgeous! So my question fellow fabbers would you say wow you look amazing or beautiful or sexy? I kind of feel like there are in said rules that I don’t know LOL.... am I just a big pussy ? |
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If we're complementing someone on their looks, we find it's best to follow it up quickly with a separate point that they can respond to without feeling trapped or awkward.
If you just stand there and say "wow you're sexy!" it can force them into a potentially uncomfortable situation where they need to respond or deflect in some way. If you follow it up with a neutral question or statement such as "wow you look sexy! Isn't this place great? Have you been here before?" then it leaves them with the option to return the compliment or just answer your follow ups. |
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"If we're complementing someone on their looks, we find it's best to follow it up quickly with a separate point that they can respond to without feeling trapped or awkward.
If you just stand there and say "wow you're sexy!" it can force them into a potentially uncomfortable situation where they need to respond or deflect in some way. If you follow it up with a neutral question or statement such as "wow you look sexy! Isn't this place great? Have you been here before?" then it leaves them with the option to return the compliment or just answer your follow ups. "
Good psychology there....like it !!! |
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Ps. Your pictures are amazing 
