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Why aren't you getting any meets?
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So many people ask why they aren't getting any meets, so let's hear why you think you aren't knee deep in offers of rampant sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh but I am
I choose not to meet.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age is probably the biggest  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks |
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I dont know probably because I'm not conventionally good looking. |
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"Age is probably the biggest "
Possibly true, but as long as you are respectful to others, don't give up hope, I know a few people on here who like the younger man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Low quality pictures
Poorly written profile
And I never send anyone any messages.
Not sure why this isnt working |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
Covid-19 cock blocking me at every opportunity |
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Because I'm fugly and ones interested in 100 miles |
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"Because I'm fugly and ones interested in 100 miles"
no one's
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age stereotyping
Crap profile
Very discerning |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I live in Doncaster |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are looking for a lady to join us, a lot of competition and not that many ladies on here! |
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I completely blame the women on here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thinks it down to a few things my location my hairy body and I know my profile name can put people off but I'm not changing it now lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought about this a lot lately, really sat down & tried to work it out, my conclusion...
It’s clearly them & not me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Got a meet on Friday first in four months.
Was not looking to meet in that time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is usually down to the distance as I am not that keen to travel as most are to far away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can. I just dont want to.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even those who like younger would still take someone older. And you see all the females complaining about being stood up and that grates my nerves. |
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Age, Mrs doesn't like receiving oral, we don't kiss casual partners, we're soft swing, we won't compromise...do I need to go on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can tell you now why most likely dont:
Copy and paste messages
Only 1 picture on profile
Way too many dick pictures
Half arsed profile
Wanting last minute meets
Not wanting a social first
Not reading a profile and respecting what someone wants
All of these are over done on here and get zero response from me.
I got myself on the chat rooms, on forums, spoke to people, went to clubs, made friends.
It is the best way. |
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"I can tell you now why most likely dont:
Copy and paste messages
Only 1 picture on profile
Way too many dick pictures
Half arsed profile
Wanting last minute meets
Not wanting a social first
Not reading a profile and respecting what someone wants
All of these are over done on here and get zero response from me.
I got myself on the chat rooms, on forums, spoke to people, went to clubs, made friends.
It is the best way."
I don't do any of the above and still get nowhere |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can tell you now why most likely dont:
Copy and paste messages
Only 1 picture on profile
Way too many dick pictures
Half arsed profile
Wanting last minute meets
Not wanting a social first
Not reading a profile and respecting what someone wants
All of these are over done on here and get zero response from me.
I got myself on the chat rooms, on forums, spoke to people, went to clubs, made friends.
It is the best way.
I don't do any of the above and still get nowhere "
You have only been on 8 weeks, be patient. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can tell you now why most likely dont:
Copy and paste messages
Only 1 picture on profile
Way too many dick pictures
Half arsed profile
Wanting last minute meets
Not wanting a social first
Not reading a profile and respecting what someone wants
All of these are over done on here and get zero response from me.
I got myself on the chat rooms, on forums, spoke to people, went to clubs, made friends.
It is the best way."
Finally someone who gives out good or should I say any advice. I've lost count of how many people I've respectfully asked for some to be blocked or deleted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because I’m a shit shag |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m just very, very fussy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never really understand the not getting meets thing on here. I have high standards am quite picky and I seem to get meets they are always with women or couples I have been chatting to for a while never had a random message lead to a meet one hour later and I wouldn't want that. I'm compleatly my self never lie can accomadate and just laid back about fab and that leads to meeting some amazing people. Just sending 50 messages to 50 women and pics of your cock will not lead to meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because I'm a bigger guy weight wise (working on it though) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because I’m a shit shag"
You're supposed to tell them you are a sexual tyrannosaurus. If they find at you lied, at least you got one shag! |
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"Because I’m a shit shag"
how would they know that unless they meet you though? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mutual free time and distance is the only reason I havent had more meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I scare people off with my hairy belly |
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"I’m just very, very fussy "
Me too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seems like lots of guys want me, but I’ve not had any offers from the ladies sadly so I’m guessing I must just look a bit gay |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think its because I'm sanitising too much that stuff stinks ya know    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seems like lots of guys want me, but I’ve not had any offers from the ladies sadly so I’m guessing I must just look a bit gay "
You can block them, unless you’re enjoying the attention  |
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On and also I'm too short, tall, fat, thin,old, young, fussy, not fussy enough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never really understand the not getting meets thing on here. I have high standards am quite picky and I seem to get meets they are always with women or couples I have been chatting to for a while never had a random message lead to a meet one hour later and I wouldn't want that. I'm compleatly my self never lie can accomadate and just laid back about fab and that leads to meeting some amazing people. Just sending 50 messages to 50 women and pics of your cock will not lead to meets"
You my friend are 32, accommodate and I'm guessing you drive also. And are single that's literally all the girls want. The younger girls want sugar daddies 75% of the time and older ladies want "maturity". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You could be as ugly as you like, but if you have a 10 inch your gold dust ?? |
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"I can tell you now why most likely dont:
Copy and paste messages
Only 1 picture on profile
Way too many dick pictures
Half arsed profile
Wanting last minute meets
Not wanting a social first
Not reading a profile and respecting what someone wants
All of these are over done on here and get zero response from me.
I got myself on the chat rooms, on forums, spoke to people, went to clubs, made friends.
It is the best way.
I don't do any of the above and still get nowhere
You have only been on 8 weeks, be patient."
I am being patient was just commenting on the post |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're inundated with offers, do we often take them?.... Nope! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're inundated with offers, do we often take them?.... Nope! "
take what? |
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"I thought about this a lot lately, really sat down & tried to work it out, my conclusion...
It’s clearly them & not me "
I’ve drawn the same conclusion  |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
5 offers of meets so far this morning. None even remotely tempting, even if I was actually looking to meet today (which I'm not).
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unicorn .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"5 offers of meets so far this morning. None even remotely tempting, even if I was actually looking to meet today (which I'm not).
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I'll take you for a whiz round the cargate or Nethergate |
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"We're inundated with offers, do we often take them?.... Nope! "
It’s got to be the right offers hasn’t it , right time , right place , right mix of people , it’s like trying to pull together sun , moon AND stars with an orbiting satellite too ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because I’m a shit shag
how would they know that unless they meet you though?"
I publicise it on my profile and the forum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"5 offers of meets so far this morning. None even remotely tempting, even if I was actually looking to meet today (which I'm not).
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FAF?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought about this a lot lately, really sat down & tried to work it out, my conclusion...
It’s clearly them & not me
I’ve drawn the same conclusion "
S’matter with these people  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can tell you now why most likely dont:
Copy and paste messages
Only 1 picture on profile
Way too many dick pictures
Half arsed profile
Wanting last minute meets
Not wanting a social first
Not reading a profile and respecting what someone wants
All of these are over done on here and get zero response from me.
I got myself on the chat rooms, on forums, spoke to people, went to clubs, made friends.
It is the best way."
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Because I've got a dick like a prawn vollivant! |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
I'm fussy, have limited availability and don't find many men in my area attractive enough to want to shag. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Low quality pictures
Poorly written profile
And I never send anyone any messages.
Not sure why this isnt working "
Ditto.
We should form a support group.
x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh but I am
I choose not to meet. "
You're always wanting to meet me? |
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I have never offered to meet anyone on this profile yet. I never get past the first message and actually getting to know someones personality is more beneficial |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Coz I don't want to. Lack of trust in people mixed with insecurity and hormones from hell that turn me into she-hulk every month or so.
Plus not knowing when we will be able to see each other next means that the time we DO get together I don't particularly want to share. That's our time.
If we get a decent chunk of time together then that's different, but that's rarely the case.
So.. I remain a hermit when not at work awaiting the next text or video call like a lonely pupper.
P |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because I’m a shit shag
how would they know that unless they meet you though?
I publicise it on my profile and the forum "
Oh and you know how the jungle drums work around here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You could be as ugly as you like, but if you have a 10 inch your gold dust ?? "
pizza....... really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You could be as ugly as you like, but if you have a 10 inch your gold dust ?? "
totally not true in my opinion. Looks mean a lot to me. I dont want to fuck quasi modo cos hes got a big cock lol.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing slightly tempting |
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Stereotyping and my humour is too contagious |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
"5 offers of meets so far this morning. None even remotely tempting, even if I was actually looking to meet today (which I'm not).
FAF? "
Yeah sure. Get yer kit off! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're inundated with offers, do we often take them?.... Nope!
It’s got to be the right offers hasn’t it , right time , right place , right mix of people , it’s like trying to pull together sun , moon AND stars with an orbiting satellite too ! "
Exactly, and then when you align it all they stand you up or chicken out |
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have a few although i was told that we would get fuck all meets because ive barely any boobs so there ya go. Mainly its because we cant travel too far and im picky |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"5 offers of meets so far this morning. None even remotely tempting, even if I was actually looking to meet today (which I'm not).
FAF?
Yeah sure. Get yer kit off! "
It's off and waiting.x |
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Because so many talk the talk but don't walk the walk.
To be honest, because we are a bit limited to traveling in our local(ish) area it does cut down the numbers available. Our preferences will probably cut down the numbers a fair bit as well but never mind. We are happy to wait for what we want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"have a few although i was told that we would get fuck all meets because ive barely any boobs so there ya go. Mainly its because we cant travel too far and im picky "
they seriously said that to you? |
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"have a few although i was told that we would get fuck all meets because ive barely any boobs so there ya go. Mainly its because we cant travel too far and im picky they seriously said that to you? "
yup. right charmer he was. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have never offered to meet anyone on this profile yet. I never get past the first message and actually getting to know someones personality is more beneficial "
Today like an hour ago someone asked if I was born here. I said no they then deleted and blocked me |
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"We're inundated with offers, do we often take them?.... Nope! "
We've found there is a yawning chasm between those that offer to meet and those that actually do |
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Just people's preferences it's life get on with it no point being a dick about it |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
I think because we are not bisexual enough for most |
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It is like buses, last week was the most meets I've had. If I drank any more coffee I'd be sure my blood type was caffeine. However week before absolutely nothing, not even a reply back. This week is silence.
There is no rhyme nor reason to it. Have to say I did travel though as not much choice where I am |
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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago
local, but not too local |
Time, availability, unwilling to host or travel long distances, not pushy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a skinny, ugly runt with too many dick pics on his profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because I choose not to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't get many offers at all tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cos I'm old, beardy, in an out of the way place and have a tiny cock |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"have a few although i was told that we would get fuck all meets because ive barely any boobs so there ya go. Mainly its because we cant travel too far and im picky they seriously said that to you?
yup. right charmer he was. "
omg. Cheeky fucker |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have previously been told a few things...
1. Age - although I am 36 - I tend to be too old for younger women/couples in their 20s, or not old enough for the older couples who are 40s/50s etc.
2. Hair - I have a shaved head - I have had a lot of women say "Oh, if only you had hair....". Quite offensive but you have to run with it haha. People like what they like.
3. Intimidating physique - I am an amateur bodybuilder and have been told that my physique intimidates people - they like to look at it but felt worse about their own body because I train (this one blows my mind as I just assumed being in good shape would get attention, not the opposite and I actually prefer non-gym fit natural women. I only train to clear my head after work, not for ego etc.
4. My sense of humor doesn't always come across in messages so I sometimes seem like an asshole when In reality I was trying to be funny.
5. I take a really shit picture - I look much better in real life but can never get that far as people don't get past the photographs. |
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Because I've taken this month off meeting new guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can only presume its because im full of witty banter, or because I dont have 15 cock picks and message people saying fancy a shag? I reckon that works from what I've seen haha |
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Well like I say.. If I'm not For you then just cross the road. Its that easy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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........sorry just let me withdraw and I'll be with you in a minute..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And not “gym fit” "
nothing wrong with your body. I prefer a man to look like a man and not a smooth shiny surfboard |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Isay cos idont have a public verication but u need 2 meet or cam to get 1 first lol . |
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Because I need better pictures and possibly more verifications... but haven’t been able to make a localish social yet |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Not many float my boat lately tbh. |
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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago
local, but not too local |
"And not “gym fit” nothing wrong with your body. I prefer a man to look like a man and not a smooth shiny surfboard "
Thanks
Quite a lot local specify thin or gym fit.
I guess the other thing is I’m happy to just let things tick along, which can seem like a lack of interest - it’s not! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Isay cos idont have a public verication but u need 2 meet or cam to get 1 first lol ."
any1 fancy helping get a verifictn on my prof |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because I am too fussy and I'm not looking to meet |
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One of the reasons is because some guys claim they are straight but are verified by tvs and gay men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m a silhouette |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Due to lack of time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have met alot of people through social gatherings only. Made a few friends off fab(1 cpl who are social only buddies) think all in all we have had 4 actual experiences since last january. Maybe we have been too fussy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And not “gym fit” "
I am "gym fit" mate and I've been a few times that it's "nice to look at" but wouldn't meet as intimidating. So, I may just start whacking the doughnuts in haha |
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I have a dad bod so that doesnt help |
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"have a few although i was told that we would get fuck all meets because ive barely any boobs so there ya go. Mainly its because we cant travel too far and im picky they seriously said that to you?
yup. right charmer he was. omg. Cheeky fucker "
I will admit it stung though. Always been self conscious of my chest since my teens so that particular comment was a kicker and we werent long after joining either |
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I found out my problem I am a short white guy in south London. I may as well be a leper |
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Nothing wrong with your chest!! A very nice looking pair!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And not “gym fit” nothing wrong with your body. I prefer a man to look like a man and not a smooth shiny surfboard
Thanks
Quite a lot local specify thin or gym fit.
I guess the other thing is I’m happy to just let things tick along, which can seem like a lack of interest - it’s not!"
I guess we all have our preferences |
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Give me a chance! I've only just come back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"have a few although i was told that we would get fuck all meets because ive barely any boobs so there ya go. Mainly its because we cant travel too far and im picky they seriously said that to you?
yup. right charmer he was. omg. Cheeky fucker
I will admit it stung though. Always been self conscious of my chest since my teens so that particular comment was a kicker and we werent long after joining either "
hope you told him to do one aswell, you look lovely dont let anyone tell you any different. If it helps hun I'm always being told I'm fat haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"have a few although i was told that we would get fuck all meets because ive barely any boobs so there ya go. Mainly its because we cant travel too far and im picky they seriously said that to you?
yup. right charmer he was. omg. Cheeky fucker
I will admit it stung though. Always been self conscious of my chest since my teens so that particular comment was a kicker and we werent long after joining either "
and I'm guessing the messager wasnt exactly an Adonis either how rude and tactless to say such a cruel thing. Maybe he didnt like rejection so played the childish card. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age . Time . Just too fussy |
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For me it's a combination of my abrasive personality, my decidedly off-putting looks and my total lack of grace.
Other than that I'm sound. |
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God know, I mustn’t be attractive enough |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
Because I'm not really looking at present. |
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Also difficult when we are mainly a daytime couple we just don't seem to float most people's boats especially couples x storm x |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
Near Wells |
I get lots of offers, the most common is after after 11 at night.
"Do you fancy coming over and suck my cock, unload my balls, swallow my cum?"
Or other variants of that kind of thing. I tend to ignore them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're picky. |
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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago
local, but not too local |
I don’t understand why folk don’t just think “not for me” and keep scrolling past. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age , location and honesty lol but I don't mind at all I have made some super pals in the forums |
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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago
London |
"So many people ask why they aren't getting any meets, so let's hear why you think you aren't knee deep in offers of rampant sex."
The ones I really want to meet live too far |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am, but finding time to meet is a problem.
Oh and I am a fussy fucker! |
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"have a few although i was told that we would get fuck all meets because ive barely any boobs so there ya go. Mainly its because we cant travel too far and im picky they seriously said that to you?
yup. right charmer he was. omg. Cheeky fucker
I will admit it stung though. Always been self conscious of my chest since my teens so that particular comment was a kicker and we werent long after joining either hope you told him to do one aswell, you look lovely dont let anyone tell you any different. If it helps hun I'm always being told I'm fat haha"
Blocked and deleted. Got called a fat jumped up wh*re as well lmao. I dont take any notice now and i can laugh about it. |
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"have a few although i was told that we would get fuck all meets because ive barely any boobs so there ya go. Mainly its because we cant travel too far and im picky they seriously said that to you?
yup. right charmer he was. omg. Cheeky fucker
I will admit it stung though. Always been self conscious of my chest since my teens so that particular comment was a kicker and we werent long after joining either and I'm guessing the messager wasnt exactly an Adonis either how rude and tactless to say such a cruel thing. Maybe he didnt like rejection so played the childish card. Xx"
Couldnt tell. No pics lol. Thankfully messages like that are few and far between these days xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because they are always miles and miles and miles away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not there cup of coffee |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"have a few although i was told that we would get fuck all meets because ive barely any boobs so there ya go. Mainly its because we cant travel too far and im picky they seriously said that to you?
yup. right charmer he was. omg. Cheeky fucker
I will admit it stung though. Always been self conscious of my chest since my teens so that particular comment was a kicker and we werent long after joining either and I'm guessing the messager wasnt exactly an Adonis either how rude and tactless to say such a cruel thing. Maybe he didnt like rejection so played the childish card. Xx
Couldnt tell. No pics lol. Thankfully messages like that are few and far between these days xx"
Good. I think most of us have had some nasty messages at some point. In one ear out the other lol. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Or maybe it's because you canny see mi face like man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a vicious snarling hound shredding up all mail that may enter my inbox. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do have offers. Many many many offers. So many offers that if I wanted to I could fuck a different guy every day of the week.
But I would trade all of those offers for an awesome connection with just one guy.
Attention don’t mean shit unless you’re getting it off the one you want it from. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because I don't like emptying my bladder on women who like taking the piss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do have offers. Many many many offers. So many offers that if I wanted to I could fuck a different guy every day of the week.
But I would trade all of those offers for an awesome connection with just one guy.
Attention don’t mean shit unless you’re getting it off the one you want it from. "
Told ya...move to Aberdeen! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do have offers. Many many many offers. So many offers that if I wanted to I could fuck a different guy every day of the week.
But I would trade all of those offers for an awesome connection with just one guy.
Attention don’t mean shit unless you’re getting it off the one you want it from.
Told ya...move to Aberdeen! "
I’d never leave Wales. My daughter is fluent welsh so needs a welsh speaking school. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not really active but it's probably my age size and the fact I don't want to meet anyone who's bi or that's met anyone bi but that's me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought about this a lot lately, really sat down & tried to work it out, my conclusion...
It’s clearly them & not me "
Oh yeah it’s definately them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do have offers. Many many many offers. So many offers that if I wanted to I could fuck a different guy every day of the week.
But I would trade all of those offers for an awesome connection with just one guy.
Attention don’t mean shit unless you’re getting it off the one you want it from.
Told ya...move to Aberdeen!
I’d never leave Wales. My daughter is fluent welsh so needs a welsh speaking school. "
Well I dont see an offer to move to Wales... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So many reasons why i don't, two of them being i don't come here often and the second reason i dont message first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm just too good for you all sorry now leave me be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age and lack of experience sucks |
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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago
Currently Faraway |
"So many people ask why they aren't getting any meets, so let's hear why you think you aren't knee deep in offers of rampant sex."
I don't want rampant sex anyway; I just want to find people with whom I can make conversation, share a drink or two, even bloody cook for them, and maybe have civilised adult fun with them... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably lack of height, not hung and not gym fit at the moment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Main reasons is time cuz very limited and looks. Shame cuz we make up for it in the bedroom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a fussy cow. That's why. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because I'm an average Joe and not an "exceptional man" who is fussy and also doesn't go to clubs.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im time limited
But more so im very fussy
Prefer going chameleons |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do have offers. Many many many offers. So many offers that if I wanted to I could fuck a different guy every day of the week.
But I would trade all of those offers for an awesome connection with just one guy.
Attention don’t mean shit unless you’re getting it off the one you want it from.
Told ya...move to Aberdeen!
I’d never leave Wales. My daughter is fluent welsh so needs a welsh speaking school. "
Ardderchog! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am getting plenty of offers... I'm just not taking them |
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I am limited to meeting times by work and not many are able to meet during these....plus quite a lot of couples don't want to meet a Bi male even though I stipulate I never touch without permission and always play safe. Hey ho. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because I prefer sweets, treats and greets x x x |
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"I completely blame the women on here! "
Incel alert |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a miserable, fat, ugly arse with chronic depression, crippling social and performance anxiety and the charm of a socket wrench. |
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My problem always seems to be age related or I send a face pic and suddenly I'm not their type hahaha |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
Sandwich |
Sorry but I get plenty of offers for rampant sex. Not so many can actually deliver though.
Experience has made it easier to them out without actually having to experience the disappointment.
I now have a few fwb’s, so happy days.... I wish all you fabbers could say the same... I too have been there! |
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Found out my profile was also a massive deturant just because of how it was. Its now been completely redone so hopefully my luck begins to change |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of men probably try to meet women as close as possible, which in turn makes most women overwhelmed with the amount of men messaging them from within 3mile radius |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can tell you now why most likely dont:
Copy and paste messages
Only 1 picture on profile
Way too many dick pictures
Half arsed profile
Wanting last minute meets
Not wanting a social first
Not reading a profile and
respecting what someone wants
All of these are over done on here and get zero response from me.
I got myself on the chat rooms, on forums, spoke to people, went to clubs, made friends.
It is the best way."
Also your stunning I think you would be inundated without the effort but you obviously take pride in your profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can tell you now why most likely dont:
Copy and paste messages
Only 1 picture on profile
Way too many dick pictures
Half arsed profile
Wanting last minute meets
Not wanting a social first
Not reading a profile and
respecting what someone wants
All of these are over done on here and get zero response from me.
I got myself on the chat rooms, on forums, spoke to people, went to clubs, made friends.
It is the best way.
Also your stunning I think you would be inundated without the effort but you obviously take pride in your profile"
I get inundated with offers yes, but most are timewasters or live the other side of the country.
Doing what I have has got me some awesome friends who i can go to clubs with, which helps meet the type I want in person. I rarely arrange a meet on here anymore, just post where I will be and when |
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"I think I scare people off with my hairy belly"
Mmmm I Mrs love it |
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It's interesting to see the people that blame it on things they can't change rather than admit to things they could if they wanted to
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"have a few although i was told that we would get fuck all meets because ive barely any boobs so there ya go. Mainly its because we cant travel too far and im picky they seriously said that to you?
yup. right charmer he was. omg. Cheeky fucker
I will admit it stung though. Always been self conscious of my chest since my teens so that particular comment was a kicker and we werent long after joining either "
Next time such a whopper trots out something like that say something along the lines of "Though I don't need them right now, I can always get breast implants if it actually bothers me. Whereas you'll always be a stupid twat, because nearly 40 years on 'The Man with Two Brains' is still make believe."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm fussy for a fugly and actually can't really be bothered shaving my legs! |
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To be honest we rarely meet off Fab.
Find it far less hassle at a club.
Lots of fantasists and dreamers tend to put you off after a while.
That said, we have also met some great people so it’s just sorting the wheat from the Chaff. |
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We struggle to get the spare time to meet at the moment so we’re not actively looking. A lot of people don’t know what to make of our profile either at the moment, we’ve had a few people thinking that it’s a joke profile so the messages that we receive now are few and far between which suits us. We’re happy just to peruse the forums and hopefully plan a club visit in the near future. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lack of time combined with a lack of suitable suitors for us.
At least that's what we tell ourselves, it could just be that people don't fancy us for whatever reason. When it comes down to it, in the absence of any genuine reason, that's what it comes down to for everyone, people aren't meeting you because they don't want to and if they don't want to then you're doing something wrong. |
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"I think I scare people off with my hairy belly"
It's fabulous |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am selective and both my preferences and my availability render my options extremely limited.
And that's before bringing my ugliness into the equation |
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We are very selective on who we meet, but find alot of flakes and time wasters. That seems to be our biggest issue as well as time and logistics due to having young kids xx |
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"Covid-19 cock blocking me at every opportunity "
Serious note. Wonder if meets have decreased because of this? |
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"We are very selective on who we meet, but find alot of flakes and time wasters. That seems to be our biggest issue as well as time and logistics due to having young kids xx"
Ultra fussy as i want the whole package but they seem to miss one or the other. Plus alot of time wasters and ghosters |
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