I know that alot of people put this posts up and I also know people will say just be patient but I just decided that I need to reach out to the fab community and see what the disconnect is with me at the moment. If you look at my profile what do you think? |
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"I know that alot of people put this posts up and I also know people will say just be patient but I just decided that I need to reach out to the fab community and see what the disconnect is with me at the moment. If you look at my profile what do you think? "
its maybe the married bit and the fact your quite young and in your wedding outfit in your pic also that you can't accom because your married    |
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"Ok will adjust profile to suit. I have a baby face so it's hard to look older. My wife uses our joint profile and searches for her own meets."
In that case, I would reference the couple profile in yours. I do in mine. |
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"Ok will adjust profile to suit. I have a baby face so it's hard to look older. My wife uses our joint profile and searches for her own meets.
In that case, I would reference the couple profile in yours. I do in mine."
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"8 weeks and 3 verifications, I'd say you're not doing anything wrong at that  "
Very misleading 2 verifications are from the same person. 1 was a social meet and the other was a play meet. The third is a verification from a couple I played with as a couple who is now a friend. |
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"8 weeks and 3 verifications, I'd say you're not doing anything wrong at that
Very misleading 2 verifications are from the same person. 1 was a social meet and the other was a play meet. The third is a verification from a couple I played with as a couple who is now a friend. "
Even so, single guys usually wait around 6 months to a year to get their first meet. The fact that you've met 2 different people in only 8 weeks is not to be sniffed at |
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I think you’ve followed advice given and done all the right things OP.
Your profile looks fine to me. It’s straightforward and you’ve been open about your situation.
Good luck 
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"8 weeks and 3 verifications, I'd say you're not doing anything wrong at that
Very misleading 2 verifications are from the same person. 1 was a social meet and the other was a play meet. The third is a verification from a couple I played with as a couple who is now a friend.
Even so, single guys usually wait around 6 months to a year to get their first meet. The fact that you've met 2 different people in only 8 weeks is not to be sniffed at"
Neither of those meets came from this account. They both came from my couples account. With this account I cant get a reply at all. |
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Profile looks ok to me, but I can see from above that you’ve made some amendments already.
The fact you’re married may put some women off, a lot won’t play with a married man unless the Mrs is there too. And I’m sure you’ve heard it a million times, but there’s so much competition on here for single guys you just have to be patient. |
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"Profile looks ok to me, but I can see from above that you’ve made some amendments already.
The fact you’re married may put some women off, a lot won’t play with a married man unless the Mrs is there too. And I’m sure you’ve heard it a million times, but there’s so much competition on here for single guys you just have to be patient. "
Thanks, I know I have to be patient just want to make sure that my profile is the best it can be as first impressions are key. Anything that I can change to help is a huge benefit. |
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"Profile looks ok to me, but I can see from above that you’ve made some amendments already.
The fact you’re married may put some women off, a lot won’t play with a married man unless the Mrs is there too. And I’m sure you’ve heard it a million times, but there’s so much competition on here for single guys you just have to be patient.
Thanks, I know I have to be patient just want to make sure that my profile is the best it can be as first impressions are key. Anything that I can change to help is a huge benefit."
I think it reads and looks a bit like a dating profile. There’s a lot about you as a person but little about what you’d bring to a meet. And your pics are clearly not taken with sex in mind. Maybe rethink your approach.
Have a look through some of the male profiles, there are some great ones to get inspiration from. |
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"Profile looks ok to me, but I can see from above that you’ve made some amendments already.
The fact you’re married may put some women off, a lot won’t play with a married man unless the Mrs is there too. And I’m sure you’ve heard it a million times, but there’s so much competition on here for single guys you just have to be patient.
Thanks, I know I have to be patient just want to make sure that my profile is the best it can be as first impressions are key. Anything that I can change to help is a huge benefit.
I think it reads and looks a bit like a dating profile. There’s a lot about you as a person but little about what you’d bring to a meet. And your pics are clearly not taken with sex in mind. Maybe rethink your approach.
Have a look through some of the male profiles, there are some great ones to get inspiration from. "
Ok I will re-think it shortly. Not sure the best way to go about it. |
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"I love funny love the banter, You say you are funny and like banter but i don't get that from your profile but that's just me."
Fair enough I have a very dry sense of humour. It's hard to put across in a profile but I will try to put that over more In my profile |
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"I don't think there's anything wrong with it but it doesn't grab me.
Maybe arty photos and saying what you can offer would improve it."
Made some minor tweaks and will try and take some better pictures |
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