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Ok, like other people, it's quite common for people not to be available at a drop of a hat. But I tried to explain to someone I am literally only available on this particular date but he wouldn't accept it, saying why am I being difficult. No it's my life, I don't have to explain to him my lifestyle commitments that I am not available with legs spread 24/7. Hence why I don't do dating sites as I litterly don't have time for relationships etc. Random casual sex is all I want... Does this infuriate anyone else and how do you deal with it apart from block option?  |
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over a year ago
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"Ok, like other people, it's quite common for people not to be available at a drop of a hat. But I tried to explain to someone I am literally only available on this particular date but he wouldn't accept it, saying why am I being difficult. No it's my life, I don't have to explain to him my lifestyle commitments that I am not available with legs spread 24/7. Hence why I don't do dating sites as I litterly don't have time for relationships etc. Random casual sex is all I want... Does this infuriate anyone else and how do you deal with it apart from block option? "
Story of my life! I just don’t reply to people like this lol
Haven’t got the time to explain myself over and over! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I absolutely refuse to be treated like an unpaid prostitute! Attitudes and expectations can sometimes be terrible on here ... I just politely ask them to reread my profile  |
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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago
London St Helier Trier |
"I absolutely refuse to be treated like an unpaid prostitute! Attitudes and expectations can sometimes be terrible on here ... I just politely ask them to reread my profile "
Good on you.
Swinging is fun for both, respect, decency.... |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
You don't have to justify your free time to anyone op
You did right blocking,if they can't be respectful here they wouldn't be in real life
Meets should be a 2 way thing when you're both free rather than when someone pushes you to meet. |
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"Ok, like other people, it's quite common for people not to be available at a drop of a hat. But I tried to explain to someone I am literally only available on this particular date but he wouldn't accept it, saying why am I being difficult. No it's my life, I don't have to explain to him my lifestyle commitments that I am not available with legs spread 24/7. Hence why I don't do dating sites as I litterly don't have time for relationships etc. Random casual sex is all I want... Does this infuriate anyone else and how do you deal with it apart from block option? "
Don't need to explain the why part or anyone--either you're available or not. It's no one's business!
I think the only time an explanation (and a damn good one) is needed is if you have had to miss a planned meeting. |
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I’m sick to death of the attitude Of some guys ... I have a life outside of here and I can’t just meet when they decide they want a shag ... some can’t take no for an answer and push and push .... so I block block block  |
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"Ok, like other people, it's quite common for people not to be available at a drop of a hat. But I tried to explain to someone I am literally only available on this particular date but he wouldn't accept it, saying why am I being difficult. No it's my life, I don't have to explain to him my lifestyle commitments that I am not available with legs spread 24/7. Hence why I don't do dating sites as I litterly don't have time for relationships etc. Random casual sex is all I want... Does this infuriate anyone else and how do you deal with it apart from block option? "
Just tell them it’s your only time unsupervised that you can escape from the asylum unnoticed. They’ll block you. Sorted. Fire. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Delete and block OP. You owe nobody any explanation. If you've stated your availability and he won't accept it, that's where the conversation ends. Delete and block him |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
I state clearly on my profile that I have a busy life and limited time for meets, almost daily I get men & couples who attempt to persuade me that I ought to fit them in to my busy life. Often they take offence when I refuse to meet them and I've been accused of being fake because I won't meet at short notice, despite the fact I state clearly that I won't.
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"I state clearly on my profile that I have a busy life and limited time for meets, almost daily I get men & couples who attempt to persuade me that I ought to fit them in to my busy life. Often they take offence when I refuse to meet them and I've been accused of being fake because I won't meet at short notice, despite the fact I state clearly that I won't.
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I like the guys who say 'take the afternoon off and I will come over to yours'
Mmm really. Mmmm think not |
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"I state clearly on my profile that I have a busy life and limited time for meets, almost daily I get men & couples who attempt to persuade me that I ought to fit them in to my busy life. Often they take offence when I refuse to meet them and I've been accused of being fake because I won't meet at short notice, despite the fact I state clearly that I won't.
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Biggest problem with that we find is many men regardless of single or part of couples just don't read and think they the best thing since sliced butter and expect you to jump on his cock at every opportunity and then has an ego meltdown when they rejected 
Thankfully its more of a minority and we have met some lovely people that justifies sifting through the children  |
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"Ok, like other people, it's quite common for people not to be available at a drop of a hat. But I tried to explain to someone I am literally only available on this particular date but he wouldn't accept it, saying why am I being difficult. No it's my life, I don't have to explain to him my lifestyle commitments that I am not available with legs spread 24/7. Hence why I don't do dating sites as I litterly don't have time for relationships etc. Random casual sex is all I want... Does this infuriate anyone else and how do you deal with it apart from block option? "
What a strange reaction! As if you are obliged to shag him! ??
We get that sometimes too. Kids, two jobs, one of which involves shifts, but sure we'll drop it all to whack you off! |
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"I state clearly on my profile that I have a busy life and limited time for meets, almost daily I get men & couples who attempt to persuade me that I ought to fit them in to my busy life. Often they take offence when I refuse to meet them and I've been accused of being fake because I won't meet at short notice, despite the fact I state clearly that I won't.
Biggest problem with that we find is many men regardless of single or part of couples just don't read and think they the best thing since sliced butter and expect you to jump on his cock at every opportunity and then has an ego meltdown when they rejected
Thankfully its more of a minority and we have met some lovely people that justifies sifting through the children "
Hit the nail on the head: child mentality. Thinking I'm not that interested or just playing games. No i litterly this month only have one evening off to meet a fab member... Or I go out with friends for a drink. Think the latter is more appealing, less stress and more reliable  |
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"I state clearly on my profile that I have a busy life and limited time for meets, almost daily I get men & couples who attempt to persuade me that I ought to fit them in to my busy life. Often they take offence when I refuse to meet them and I've been accused of being fake because I won't meet at short notice, despite the fact I state clearly that I won't.
Biggest problem with that we find is many men regardless of single or part of couples just don't read and think they the best thing since sliced butter and expect you to jump on his cock at every opportunity and then has an ego meltdown when they rejected
Thankfully its more of a minority and we have met some lovely people that justifies sifting through the children
Hit the nail on the head: child mentality. Thinking I'm not that interested or just playing games. No i litterly this month only have one evening off to meet a fab member... Or I go out with friends for a drink. Think the latter is more appealing, less stress and more reliable "
It's not just men do it, couples do this a lot as well. You express some interest, give nice compliments then , wanna come fuck? Really?? Sometimes I am at work or just busy then they get pissed off when u say you can't. |
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"I state clearly on my profile that I have a busy life and limited time for meets, almost daily I get men & couples who attempt to persuade me that I ought to fit them in to my busy life. Often they take offence when I refuse to meet them and I've been accused of being fake because I won't meet at short notice, despite the fact I state clearly that I won't.
Biggest problem with that we find is many men regardless of single or part of couples just don't read and think they the best thing since sliced butter and expect you to jump on his cock at every opportunity and then has an ego meltdown when they rejected
Thankfully its more of a minority and we have met some lovely people that justifies sifting through the children
Hit the nail on the head: child mentality. Thinking I'm not that interested or just playing games. No i litterly this month only have one evening off to meet a fab member... Or I go out with friends for a drink. Think the latter is more appealing, less stress and more reliable
It's not just men do it, couples do this a lot as well. You express some interest, give nice compliments then , wanna come fuck? Really?? Sometimes I am at work or just busy then they get pissed off when u say you can't. "
Not to say that isn't the case. Or women aren't capable of acting as such. But gut feeling usually points to the male part of the couple reacting in that manner. At least that's what it seems like. |
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