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"I've had a few chances try to claim the have met me over the years, I'm sure I've met you tho.. your name seems familiar  "
its driving me crazy lol i know for a fact ive not meet them and i can tell by the message formats that we havent even spoke before. ive had loads resently |
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"never had so many poeple insist when messaging me that they have either meet me or spoken to me before. is anyone experiencing this. "
Yes occasionally.
The last one I received was from a guy who claimed we'd been messaging 6 months previously and I'd promised to meet when I was next local to him, despite the fact he was well outside my preferences! |
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It's occasionally something I've had. With the site supporter messaging, I typically notice their prior contact, or see a summary on their profile.
Some may think it helps them to bypass rigorous checks, if they lie.
I always re-evaluate their suitability as I can be fickle, changing my needs.
If they insist on creating new accounts, I'm not particularly forgiving.
Always take the time that you need and be wary of people who claim something that you don't remember. Perhaps they just weren't a brilliant partner too. |
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"I've had a few chances try to claim the have met me over the years, I'm sure I've met you tho.. your name seems familiar
its driving me crazy lol i know for a fact ive not meet them and i can tell by the message formats that we havent even spoke before. ive had loads resently"
They're just trying their luck I'd say |
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over a year ago
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"never had so many poeple insist when messaging me that they have either meet me or spoken to me before. is anyone experiencing this. "
We have had a few recently,so I spin them some yarn about where n when we supposedly met.
Probably go too far to be honest,because every single one has blocked us  |
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I actually had this in a club. A man was adamant he ‘had me up the arse’ the previous weekend - he was so sure. In fact he told anyone that walked past, despite me being 100% sure I had never seen him before. It took me saying ‘look I know it could never have happened as I have never had anal in my life’ for him to say maybe he was mistaken  |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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I've had a couple of messages like this. Claiming we have chatted before a few weeks/months ago, I think they think it will bypass the chit chat stage and accelerate things. It's one of the reasons I use the private notes thing, anyone I chat to to any extent I always make a note, if there's no note we haven't chatted beyond a couple of messages.
Have had another few where they claim we've chatted on their previous profile, usually with a feeble excuse about why they've had to create a new one.
Generally it's all just bullshit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve had it myself and been called Helen by a few guys.
They say we have chatted before and were planning a meet but they are not my type at all.
Seems odd that I’ve been called Helen by 3 guys though (that’s not my name). |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"never had so many poeple insist when messaging me that they have either meet me or spoken to me before. is anyone experiencing this. "
yes everyone thinks they know me or have worn me    |
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I've had quite a few guys say they met me too in clubs I assure them they haven't since the club's they mention I've never been and top it off I've only ever had sex in 1 club and they've been my playmates already with the very small few literally a few who I hadn't met prior to meeting them in the club.
They swear they met me I look just like her. So I think I have a doppelganger or they just pushing their luck assuming that I go to clubs I wouldn't remember who I've fucked and they could just slide in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had a few... I assume its a way of chatting and to get you to look at their profile...
One guy was adamant he knew me from a bar, in the end i just agreed and said, come over and say hi next time you see me |
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"never had so many poeple insist when messaging me that they have either meet me or spoken to me before. is anyone experiencing this. "
Yes they think my name is xyz or they seen me on dating apps etc |
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"What about the possibility your photos have been stolen, and they thought they were chatting to you ?
Having said that therea a lot of chances out there "
Definitely not stolen and put on dating apps as nudity isn't allowed |
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Im weirdly getting lots of messages from people in a specific region over the last week?? I just changed my location , to see if that makes a difference |
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"Im weirdly getting lots of messages from people in a specific region over the last week?? I just changed my location , to see if that makes a difference "
islington really meet you at the white fox |
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By *elly72Woman
over a year ago
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Had one a few month ago kept saying he knew me and my husband and he was going to tell him I was on here behind his back. Kept blocking him he kept opening new profiles went on and on for age. Was putting me right off luckily he stopped  |
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"Im weirdly getting lots of messages from people in a specific region over the last week?? I just changed my location , to see if that makes a difference "
We change ours all the time, never lived in so many different places |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes. one claimed I was his father's girlfriend
another said they drove past me daily on their way to work (we live opposite ends of a county)
another said i was a carer for their relative
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"Im weirdly getting lots of messages from people in a specific region over the last week?? I just changed my location , to see if that makes a difference
We change ours all the time, never lived in so many different places "
Do you notice a difference in messages?? Mine is currently set to Manchester and there is a directness and intensity to them that makes my eyes pop lol |
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"Im weirdly getting lots of messages from people in a specific region over the last week?? I just changed my location , to see if that makes a difference
islington really meet you at the white fox "
Just around the corner.. What time?? |
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"Im weirdly getting lots of messages from people in a specific region over the last week?? I just changed my location , to see if that makes a difference
islington really meet you at the white fox
Just around the corner.. What time?? "
now get a move on my parking ticket runs out in 12 minutes |
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"Im weirdly getting lots of messages from people in a specific region over the last week?? I just changed my location , to see if that makes a difference
We change ours all the time, never lived in so many different places
Do you notice a difference in messages?? Mine is currently set to Manchester and there is a directness and intensity to them that makes my eyes pop lol "
must be a Manchester thing then |
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