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Hi why do people think that if your over 55 your to old to have some sexy fun.
Plenty of tunes played on a old fiddle lol.
Seems like most age limits are 55 and below.if they only knew what they were missing lol xxxxx  |
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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago
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"Hi why do people think that if your over 55 your to old to have some sexy fun.
Plenty of tunes played on a old fiddle lol.
Seems like most age limits are 55 and below.if they only knew what they were missing lol xxxxx "
People who think that think wrongly. There’s lots of couples well into their 60s and beyond and they are sexy as fuck (excuse the pun)  |
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over a year ago
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"Hi why do people think that if your over 55 your to old to have some sexy fun.
Plenty of tunes played on a old fiddle lol.
Seems like most age limits are 55 and below.if they only knew what they were missing lol xxxxx "
Because they've nowhere for us to park our zimmer frames once we get to theirs and not all of their homes have Stannah stairlifts. Perhaps?  |
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By *ee04Man
over a year ago
Essex |
I think this boils down to how old they are.
I remember when I was 18 thinking a girl I got off with was old, she was 23 ??
Now age is just a number and as we get older we realise sexual is just as important now as then. |
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"Hi why do people think that if your over 55 your to old to have some sexy fun.
Plenty of tunes played on a old fiddle lol.
Seems like most age limits are 55 and below.if they only knew what they were missing lol xxxxx "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not true. If I find someone attractive I find them attractive. I prefer ‘older women’ and that is what I use this site for, predominantly.
The reaction I get, often, is ‘why don’t you go for someone your own age?’ Or ‘I’m too old for you’ I often think what you mean is, I’m too young for you, because you’re definitely not too old for me! |
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If they don't want to meet that age group they aren't missing anything. We don't want to meet people in certain age groups it's a choice we've made.
Certainly we've had fewer messages and requests to meet since we've turned 60 but we expected it. Lots of people don't want to meet our age group and we understand that. |
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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago
Plymouth |
We will meet older couples but it's on a case by case basis.
One of the ladies local to us in a couple has a better body then me and shes in her 50s!!
I guess for most it's about attraction. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"Hi why do people think that if your over 55 your to old to have some sexy fun.
Plenty of tunes played on a old fiddle lol.
Seems like most age limits are 55 and below.if they only knew what they were missing lol xxxxx
Because they've nowhere for us to park our zimmer frames once we get to theirs and not all of their homes have Stannah stairlifts. Perhaps? "
Sex on a Stannah stairlift, mmmm that would be novel, you could keep going up and down. |
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We still seem to get plenty of offers and my wife is 61.
A man in a club fancied my wife and wanted to chat with her and meet her again at some other point but completely bottled it when he found out how old she was??? Figure that one out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m 64. Male and very active but because of age no one is interested in a meet. Living in hope"
Good for you mate. Errr... could it be your profile name?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi why do people think that if your over 55 your to old to have some sexy fun.
Plenty of tunes played on a old fiddle lol.
Seems like most age limits are 55 and below.if they only knew what they were missing lol xxxxx "
It’s easy to judge by age alone. But there are people 20 years younger than us that are not in as good shape!
Like others say, in a club, you’re as old as the person you feel! |
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By *eannaTV/TS
over a year ago
Cwmfelifach, nr Newport |
"Hi why do people think that if your over 55 your to old to have some sexy fun.
Plenty of tunes played on a old fiddle lol.
Seems like most age limits are 55 and below.if they only knew what they were missing lol xxxxx
Because they've nowhere for us to park our zimmer frames once we get to theirs and not all of their homes have Stannah stairlifts. Perhaps? "
Awsum brilliant answer |
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Personally becoming more and more a fan of mature people. They do tend to be more open, more relaxed, know what they want and, let's be honest (and I am one), more grateful.
I think part of the problem, outwith sites like this is the number of older people who seem to go off sex big time as they get older. In fact not only off sex, but often become very puritanical.
Just keep on rocking for as long as you want and you can.
xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I much prefer older people and I find them so sexy. The oldest guy I have played with is 61 and oldest woman 68. I am considered old but given the choice I would always go for the older person. |
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"Personally becoming more and more a fan of mature people. They do tend to be more open, more relaxed, know what they want and, let's be honest (and I am one), more grateful.
I think part of the problem, outwith sites like this is the number of older people who seem to go off sex big time as they get older. In fact not only off sex, but often become very puritanical.
Just keep on rocking for as long as you want and you can.
xx"
I'd dispute the more grateful part. |
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"Personally becoming more and more a fan of mature people. They do tend to be more open, more relaxed, know what they want and, let's be honest (and I am one), more grateful.
I think part of the problem, outwith sites like this is the number of older people who seem to go off sex big time as they get older. In fact not only off sex, but often become very puritanical.
Just keep on rocking for as long as you want and you can.
xx
I'd dispute the more grateful part."
Does sound like he's doing em a favour lol. Like when ya read comments about bbws being more grateful like they have something wrong with them for being larger ladies.. No wonder blokes struggle on here. |
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"Personally becoming more and more a fan of mature people. They do tend to be more open, more relaxed, know what they want and, let's be honest (and I am one), more grateful.
I think part of the problem, outwith sites like this is the number of older people who seem to go off sex big time as they get older. In fact not only off sex, but often become very puritanical.
Just keep on rocking for as long as you want and you can.
xx
I'd dispute the more grateful part.
Does sound like he's doing em a favour lol. Like when ya read comments about bbws being more grateful like they have something wrong with them for being larger ladies.. No wonder blokes struggle on here. "
No, I think he meant that older people are more grateful and includes himself in that bracket. I don't think he was being rude or disrespectful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally becoming more and more a fan of mature people. They do tend to be more open, more relaxed, know what they want and, let's be honest (and I am one), more grateful.
I think part of the problem, outwith sites like this is the number of older people who seem to go off sex big time as they get older. In fact not only off sex, but often become very puritanical.
Just keep on rocking for as long as you want and you can.
xx
I'd dispute the more grateful part.
Does sound like he's doing em a favour lol. Like when ya read comments about bbws being more grateful like they have something wrong with them for being larger ladies.. No wonder blokes struggle on here.
No, I think he meant that older people are more grateful and includes himself in that bracket. I don't think he was being rude or disrespectful."
I stand corrected, wasnt looking to cause an argument. Didn't realise fella was 64 as don't really check guys profiles.. |
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"Personally becoming more and more a fan of mature people. They do tend to be more open, more relaxed, know what they want and, let's be honest (and I am one), more grateful.
I think part of the problem, outwith sites like this is the number of older people who seem to go off sex big time as they get older. In fact not only off sex, but often become very puritanical.
Just keep on rocking for as long as you want and you can.
xx
I'd dispute the more grateful part."
I did mention that I'm probably (certainly?) in that category myself. Reading and comprehending seems to be a dying skill. |
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"Personally becoming more and more a fan of mature people. They do tend to be more open, more relaxed, know what they want and, let's be honest (and I am one), more grateful.
I think part of the problem, outwith sites like this is the number of older people who seem to go off sex big time as they get older. In fact not only off sex, but often become very puritanical.
Just keep on rocking for as long as you want and you can.
xx
I'd dispute the more grateful part.
I did mention that I'm probably (certainly?) in that category myself. Reading and comprehending seems to be a dying skill. "
Yes, I know. I have, if you read on defended your comment. I was merely disputing one part of your post, being a 63 year old woman and very firmly established in the older or mature bracket |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally becoming more and more a fan of mature people. They do tend to be more open, more relaxed, know what they want and, let's be honest (and I am one), more grateful.
I think part of the problem, outwith sites like this is the number of older people who seem to go off sex big time as they get older. In fact not only off sex, but often become very puritanical.
Just keep on rocking for as long as you want and you can.
xx
I'd dispute the more grateful part.
I did mention that I'm probably (certainly?) in that category myself. Reading and comprehending seems to be a dying skill. "
No need to be arsey pal I did apologise for my error, no need to question my interlect or reading ability surely! |
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"Personally becoming more and more a fan of mature people. They do tend to be more open, more relaxed, know what they want and, let's be honest (and I am one), more grateful.
I think part of the problem, outwith sites like this is the number of older people who seem to go off sex big time as they get older. In fact not only off sex, but often become very puritanical.
Just keep on rocking for as long as you want and you can.
xx
I'd dispute the more grateful part.
I did mention that I'm probably (certainly?) in that category myself. Reading and comprehending seems to be a dying skill.
No need to be arsey pal I did apologise for my error, no need to question my interlect or reading ability surely! "
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He's responding to me, not you.
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"Hi why do people think that if your over 55 your to old to have some sexy fun.
Plenty of tunes played on a old fiddle lol.
Seems like most age limits are 55 and below.if they only knew what they were missing lol xxxxx "
a nice comment from a youngster |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally becoming more and more a fan of mature people. They do tend to be more open, more relaxed, know what they want and, let's be honest (and I am one), more grateful.
I think part of the problem, outwith sites like this is the number of older people who seem to go off sex big time as they get older. In fact not only off sex, but often become very puritanical.
Just keep on rocking for as long as you want and you can.
xx
I'd dispute the more grateful part.
I did mention that I'm probably (certainly?) in that category myself. Reading and comprehending seems to be a dying skill.
No need to be arsey pal I did apologise for my error, no need to question my interlect or reading ability surely! I
He's responding to me, not you.
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I'm just gonna shut up lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally becoming more and more a fan of mature people. They do tend to be more open, more relaxed, know what they want and, let's be honest (and I am one), more grateful.
I think part of the problem, outwith sites like this is the number of older people who seem to go off sex big time as they get older. In fact not only off sex, but often become very puritanical.
Just keep on rocking for as long as you want and you can.
xx
I'd dispute the more grateful part.
I did mention that I'm probably (certainly?) in that category myself. Reading and comprehending seems to be a dying skill.
No need to be arsey pal I did apologise for my error, no need to question my interlect or reading ability surely! I
He's responding to me, not you.
I'm just gonna shut up lol "
Good idea you were ruining a good thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally becoming more and more a fan of mature people. They do tend to be more open, more relaxed, know what they want and, let's be honest (and I am one), more grateful.
I think part of the problem, outwith sites like this is the number of older people who seem to go off sex big time as they get older. In fact not only off sex, but often become very puritanical.
Just keep on rocking for as long as you want and you can.
xx
I'd dispute the more grateful part.
I did mention that I'm probably (certainly?) in that category myself. Reading and comprehending seems to be a dying skill.
No need to be arsey pal I did apologise for my error, no need to question my interlect or reading ability surely! I
He's responding to me, not you.
I'm just gonna shut up lol
Good idea you were ruining a good thread "
Yeh right... |
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"Hi why do people think that if your over 55 your to old to have some sexy fun.
Plenty of tunes played on a old fiddle lol.
Seems like most age limits are 55 and below.if they only knew what they were missing lol xxxxx "
Im not ageist (as long as its legal) |
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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago
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I wish some swingers over 60 did not do the whole ‘you’re younger than our kids’ thing though. We are not having sex with our parents, are we? We are just seeking civilised erotic fun as adults towards fellow adults. Nobody is being ‘groomed’ and nobody is being predatory x |
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"Hi why do people think that if your over 55 your to old to have some sexy fun.
Plenty of tunes played on a old fiddle lol.
Seems like most age limits are 55 and below.if they only knew what they were missing lol xxxxx
Because they've nowhere for us to park our zimmer frames once we get to theirs and not all of their homes have Stannah stairlifts. Perhaps?
Sex on a Stannah stairlift, mmmm that would be novel, you could keep going up and down."
Albeit very slowly and with feeling |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wish some swingers over 60 did not do the whole ‘you’re younger than our kids’ thing though. We are not having sex with our parents, are we? We are just seeking civilised erotic fun as adults towards fellow adults. Nobody is being ‘groomed’ and nobody is being predatory x"
It isn’t that, from the younger persons perspective, yes there is probably no issue. For people who are parents with children the same age, there can be mental barriers to overcome! Not saying it’s impossible, we had some fun with a couple in a club who were probably in their 20’s and it just happened naturally. |
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"I wish some swingers over 60 did not do the whole ‘you’re younger than our kids’ thing though. We are not having sex with our parents, are we? We are just seeking civilised erotic fun as adults towards fellow adults. Nobody is being ‘groomed’ and nobody is being predatory x"
That isn't why we say it. The harsh truth is that having children of that age means we know what their attitude to older people and sex is and we find that it doesn't sit well with us. Of course we know that not everyone of that age thinks that way but enough do to put us off. |
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"We still seem to get plenty of offers and my wife is 61.
A man in a club fancied my wife and wanted to chat with her and meet her again at some other point but completely bottled it when he found out how old she was??? Figure that one out."
Could have been the whip photo on the other hand it could just be he was totally mad, she looks fantastic.  |
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By *andy2123Couple
over a year ago
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We are mature, and love sexy fun, but to be honest, we are finding it harder to find genuine nice swingers, who just want good fun and great friendship. Seems most people on here just look for models, even when we were younger swingers, we always preferred older people, because there was no airs and graces about them. Xx |
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