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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Munch the rug, A bit of spit and ram it home"
Think that's what happened to me, I just had a flash back after receiving a text saying " can't believe you let me cum in your ass" Many years ago...   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looking for advice, best lube and position etc  "
Personally I like to use liquid silk an laid on my back (missionary) however for the first time either doggy or on top because you will have more control.
Also remember lots of foreplay take it slowly and dont forget to relax because if you're tense it'll hurt no matter how much wd40 you use |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Clean it, lube it, shove a butt plug in. Worked for me.
I've only tried it once. He tried to get me to back up onto him to make me more gentle for me, I told him to just stick it in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ok so a previous Fwb helped me learn to enjoy anal. Firstly you need to both feel comfortable and confident. I find on my left side in a spoons position is always most comfortable to start with. Maybe wear a butt plug for a while first but not necessary if don't want to.
Loads of lube, silicone based is best.
Then start really slow. Push your cock up to the entrance and push in a tiny bit. Stay completely still. Then ease in a little more, small amount each time. Or just let her/him push back when ready. When all the way in don't move for a whole let your partner get used to the feeling before starting to slowly move, let your partner control it.
After the start you will probably find your able to change position, apply more lube and be more forceful
A wand on the clit helps too |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"Clean it, lube it, shove a butt plug in. Worked for me.
I've only tried it once. He tried to get me to back up onto him to make me more gentle for me, I told him to just stick it in. "
Blunt and to the point...knew there was a reason I liked you 
The key OP as I said on your other similar thread is to be relaxed and take your time - use lube, lots of lube, and when you think you have enough lube use some more...build up to it with fingers and toys and then get him to go slowly
The feeling of being stretched is incredible - I've found there's a point when I've just been entered where it can feel a little painful but if he holds back at that point and you concentrate on breathing and relaxing it soon passes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Clean it, lube it, shove a butt plug in. Worked for me.
I've only tried it once. He tried to get me to back up onto him to make me more gentle for me, I told him to just stick it in.
Blunt and to the point...knew there was a reason I liked you
The key OP as I said on your other similar thread is to be relaxed and take your time - use lube, lots of lube, and when you think you have enough lube use some more...build up to it with fingers and toys and then get him to go slowly
The feeling of being stretched is incredible - I've found there's a point when I've just been entered where it can feel a little painful but if he holds back at that point and you concentrate on breathing and relaxing it soon passes "
 thank you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For extra sensation, use chilli oil.
amature, seasoned pro's know it's real chillies or go home  
I might just try that "
Start off with ghost chillies they're milder |
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Plenty of liquid silk, let the head of his cock enter you slowly, trust is a big thing with anal, if it hurts it puts you off from ever doing it again.
Slow and easy, loads of lube, spoons is a good position for starters, enjoy |
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"Ok so a previous Fwb helped me learn to enjoy anal. Firstly you need to both feel comfortable and confident. I find on my left side in a spoons position is always most comfortable to start with. Maybe wear a butt plug for a while first but not necessary if don't want to.
Loads of lube, silicone based is best.
Then start really slow. Push your cock up to the entrance and push in a tiny bit. Stay completely still. Then ease in a little more, small amount each time. Or just let her/him push back when ready. When all the way in don't move for a whole let your partner get used to the feeling before starting to slowly move, let your partner control it.
After the start you will probably find your able to change position, apply more lube and be more forceful
A wand on the clit helps too "
100% |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Few glasses of wine, relaxing massage with plenty of oil dribbled over her ring. A cheeky finger during her massage. Lifted her hips and slid my cock over her ring. Inserted the tip, paused and gradually push in deeper. After about 20 minutes I was able to pound her and fill her with cum |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Mrs loves anal but we always start very slowly. Lots of lube and start with a finger. Then doggy position - quite often mrs will push back herself onto my cock till its all the way in. Then after a few slow movements she asks me to fuck her harder. One of our fave things to do together! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok so a previous Fwb helped me learn to enjoy anal. Firstly you need to both feel comfortable and confident. I find on my left side in a spoons position is always most comfortable to start with. Maybe wear a butt plug for a while first but not necessary if don't want to.
Loads of lube, silicone based is best.
Then start really slow. Push your cock up to the entrance and push in a tiny bit. Stay completely still. Then ease in a little more, small amount each time. Or just let her/him push back when ready. When all the way in don't move for a whole let your partner get used to the feeling before starting to slowly move, let your partner control it.
After the start you will probably find your able to change position, apply more lube and be more forceful
A wand on the clit helps too "
Exactly this. Dont rush it, relax your muscles and take your time. |
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"Few glasses of wine, relaxing massage with plenty of oil dribbled over her ring. A cheeky finger during her massage. Lifted her hips and slid my cock over her ring. Inserted the tip, paused and gradually push in deeper. After about 20 minutes I was able to pound her and fill her with cum "
you should write for Mills and Boom! |
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I always wanted to try anal but was too scared.
When my fiance and I got together he really eased me into it.
Make sure everything is clean and the lady is relaxed. Have a long foreplay session and end it with some rimming or just stroking the hole. You're probably going to tense as soon as a finger is there so keep that finger lightly playing until you can relax again.
Plenty of lube! If you think it's enough add some more
We started in the missionary position and honestly, it's probably the most intimate experience I've had.
Now this is just a personal thing that might help. when my guy gos in the first time it seems to hurt and tighten up around an inch in. We've found that if he stays there for a minute then slides fully out, he can slide back in without any issues or pain.
I also find it more pleasurable and less painful if he is slow and gentle going in but then more rough as the session gos on. |
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"Looking for advice, best lube and position etc "
Definitely shave your eyebrows off and draw them on higher than usual, that way you'll look extra surprised when it first slides in and the guy will take it slower for you |
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"Looking for advice, best lube and position etc
Definitely shave your eyebrows off and draw them on higher than usual, that way you'll look extra surprised when it first slides in and the guy will take it slower for you"
Brilliant! |
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"Ok so a previous Fwb helped me learn to enjoy anal. Firstly you need to both feel comfortable and confident. I find on my left side in a spoons position is always most comfortable to start with. Maybe wear a butt plug for a while first but not necessary if don't want to.
Loads of lube, silicone based is best.
Then start really slow. Push your cock up to the entrance and push in a tiny bit. Stay completely still. Then ease in a little more, small amount each time. Or just let her/him push back when ready. When all the way in don't move for a whole let your partner get used to the feeling before starting to slowly move, let your partner control it.
After the start you will probably find your able to change position, apply more lube and be more forceful
A wand on the clit helps too "
This exactly is best way - playing with clit will help massively. |
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