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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey all, we’re new to this and are 100% genuine but we’re struggling to get people to chat to us. What’s the best way to get people to meet/interact with us as a new couple? Is there something we’re doing wrong on our profile that we need to change? Cheers! |
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"Get yourselfs to a social or two for the verification some may worry your a bloke and maybe put a bit more info on your profile.
Mike and Molly
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Agree with all above , plus you are a couple , use it to your advantage taking pictures ,one a model , one a photographer .
Your bio line:
"Plenty of fantasies and ideas" ...share a few, the one you're looking for might like one or two.
There's a thread here on forum , don't remember exactly what was the title , something about best pictures on fab , few couples there with great ones .
Look through for ideas and inspirations.
Good luck , have fun  |
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"Hey all, we’re new to this and are 100% genuine but we’re struggling to get people to chat to us. What’s the best way to get people to meet/interact with us as a new couple? Is there something we’re doing wrong on our profile that we need to change? Cheers!"
You could put up photos which express your sexual character like clothes, toys, people, scenarios or just plain silliness - good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Social & club visits, maybe a cam session to verify...
Your age could be seen as a little young for some on here, but I’m sure you would be very popular at a get together 
Have fun you two & don’t take this place to seriously! |
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Club social nights and organised socials good start. Your looking for not a single F whic are fondly called unicorns, but a couple FF they don't even have a name, maybe gold dust apt, don't think you'll have a rush to be honest. Enjoy building your profile guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey all, we’re new to this and are 100% genuine but we’re struggling to get people to chat to us. What’s the best way to get people to meet/interact with us as a new couple? Is there something we’re doing wrong on our profile that we need to change? Cheers!"
could be a combination of things, your age, your lack of profile information, your two pics look great but a lot is down to the way you message and how good your advert your profile is also you're looking for the most sought after meet on here ' a woman' how should you have that woman before me?   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cheers guys! All really good points haha. Hopefully we’ll be able to sort our profile out a bit more today!"
Tbh we've all seen fake profiles and yours does look fake atm, Attend a social get meet verified as a couple and it'll be plain sailing after that Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Also, if you click on “reply+quote” we’ll know who you’re responding to Mr
Haha my apologies, like I said still getting used to all this haha
Not at all, happy to help!"
We’ll repay the favour sometime haha! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Also, if you click on “reply+quote” we’ll know who you’re responding to Mr
Haha my apologies, like I said still getting used to all this haha
Not at all, happy to help!
We’ll repay the favour sometime haha!"
fab my pics at every opportunity it furthers everyones success here  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Keep posting tasteful arty photos and add more "about you pair" info to your profile.
This site really is a ,what you put in you get out, sort of site x"
We’ll defo look to get some more pics on! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Keep posting tasteful arty photos and add more "about you pair" info to your profile.
This site really is a ,what you put in you get out, sort of site x
We’ll defo look to get some more pics on!"
good and make most of them your lady wink wink |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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From a single female point of view, although you are outwith my age bracket, you need to add a lot more about who you are, what you're looking for & what you have to offer.
As others have already said, you are only looking for single females or FF couples, that means you are competing with thousands of others. You need to make your profile stand out & capture the reader's interest (a lot of people look at profiles before they even bother to open a message). You also need to ensure that your message stands out, read the profile of the person you are messaging & make sure that you match what they are looking for, personalise the message to show you have read & understood their profile.
Definitely add more pictures of you both, together & separately. Too many couples profiles focus solely on the female, if you want a woman to meet you she needs to be attracted to you both.
Getting out to socials and clubs & chatting to people face to face is a good idea. Check the events/meets forum to find things in your area.
Good luck & have fun! |
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"From a single female point of view, although you are outwith my age bracket, you need to add a lot more about who you are, what you're looking for & what you have to offer.
As others have already said, you are only looking for single females or FF couples, that means you are competing with thousands of others. You need to make your profile stand out & capture the reader's interest (a lot of people look at profiles before they even bother to open a message). You also need to ensure that your message stands out, read the profile of the person you are messaging & make sure that you match what they are looking for, personalise the message to show you have read & understood their profile.
Definitely add more pictures of you both, together & separately. Too many couples profiles focus solely on the female, if you want a woman to meet you she needs to be attracted to you both.
Getting out to socials and clubs & chatting to people face to face is a good idea. Check the events/meets forum to find things in your area.
Good luck & have fun! "
Thanks for this! We tend to put a lot of detail and effort into messages but yeah I guess it’s the slim profile side of things. Great to hear from your perspective, we appreciate that massively! |
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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago
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Pop a bit more info on your profile. Your likes, dislikes, what you expect from a meet and what you can offer. Few more photos, get involved in the forum and, like others have said, get along to a club or organised social for a very or two. Good luck
Gem |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Pop a bit more info on your profile. Your likes, dislikes, what you expect from a meet and what you can offer. Few more photos, get involved in the forum and, like others have said, get along to a club or organised social for a very or two. Good luck
Gem"
Great response! Will get that all done! |
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"Keep posting tasteful arty photos and add more "about you pair" info to your profile.
This site really is a ,what you put in you get out, sort of site x
We’ll defo look to get some more pics on!good and make most of them your lady wink wink "
This may be tongue in cheek advice but don’t do that - women will want to see pics of both of you. |
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One other thing that would put me off - she is listed as bi-curious. Without any other information, this always makes me think the woman is only experimenting, and I (and a lot of other women) don’t want to be someone’s experiment. All too often inexperienced bi-curious women expect to lie back and let the more experienced woman do all the work, while she gets nothing out of it herself. As I’m sure you can imagine, that’s not very appealing! So you might want to think about putting some text to cover this. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"One other thing that would put me off - she is listed as bi-curious. Without any other information, this always makes me think the woman is only experimenting, and I (and a lot of other women) don’t want to be someone’s experiment. All too often inexperienced bi-curious women expect to lie back and let the more experienced woman do all the work, while she gets nothing out of it herself. As I’m sure you can imagine, that’s not very appealing! So you might want to think about putting some text to cover this."
Totally see where you’re coming from with that! Thanks for your help! |
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I think you have the trifecta drawback of being new, young and gorgeous. It can ring the 'too good to be true' alarm bells as you could be a fake profile.
As others have said, some veris from social meets or club visits would help |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think you have the trifecta drawback of being new, young and gorgeous. It can ring the 'too good to be true' alarm bells as you could be a fake profile.
As others have said, some veris from social meets or club visits would help "
Haha thanks guys! We’re now trying our best to get these massively desired green ticks! |
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