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Looked to see who had looked at me just now, mostly men 90%, and of those 70% straight. Assuming they really are straight, why on earth would they look at me? Why do you look at profiles that are not what you’re looking for? |
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over a year ago
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People do. I look at women and TVs all the time. Some of their pics are beautiful and creative. I appreciate nice pics. Doesn’t mean I wanna get down and dirty with them  |
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over a year ago
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"People do. I look at women and TVs all the time. Some of their pics are beautiful and creative. I appreciate nice pics. Doesn’t mean I wanna get down and dirty with them "
Exactly. Can be for a whole number of reasons. Checking out the competition, looking for ideas to improve a profile.
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"Looked to see who had looked at me just now, mostly men 90%, and of those 70% straight. Assuming they really are straight, why on earth would they look at me? Why do you look at profiles that are not what you’re looking for? "
For myself it's usually to peek at the veri's from ladies that I fancy and the guys they've then met with to get an idea of who they tend to go for.
Sometimes to look at the composition of other people's profiles, things like that.
Certainly wouldn't linger Haha!
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This is why I look at people in stealth mode.
Too many people assume if you look at their profile you want them. I look at lots of people just out of curiosity and to find out more about them. It doesn't mean I am looking for a meet with them. |
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"This is why I look at people in stealth mode.
Too many people assume if you look at their profile you want them. I look at lots of people just out of curiosity and to find out more about them. It doesn't mean I am looking for a meet with them. "
my point is, why would straight men want to find out more about me? I’m not their target audience, I’m not their competition nor can they learn anything from me. It doesn’t make logical sense. |
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"Looked to see who had looked at me just now, mostly men 90%, and of those 70% straight. Assuming they really are straight, why on earth would they look at me? Why do you look at profiles that are not what you’re looking for? "
Males look at my profile all the time, does not necessarily mean that they are interested in you, maybe more just curious to see who else is on the site and how they present themselves to others in their profiles.
Some may like your profile and experiences and just seeking a bit of advice to help achieve a better time on this site.
I always say better someone looks than no one.
Friends can be made that lead to socials and that which you are Looking for. |
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"Looked to see who had looked at me just now, mostly men 90%, and of those 70% straight. Assuming they really are straight, why on earth would they look at me? Why do you look at profiles that are not what you’re looking for? "
You have 44 veris. My guess is blokes end up visiting you based on your meets and veris you have given others. Blokes wanna know if the woman they like will meet someone like them and check who they have been with to see who measures up |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Looked to see who had looked at me just now, mostly men 90%, and of those 70% straight. Assuming they really are straight, why on earth would they look at me? Why do you look at profiles that are not what you’re looking for? "
Perhaps they're looking at your profile for ideas or inspiration? Most of my profile views are from men. I'll assume i'm stealth perved by hundreds of ladies a day ...(right!   ) |
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Could be a multitude of reasons OP.
To be fair I just looked to see if you were premium or not. Either way of you set your mail filters to not include men it should remove them from your "who has looked at me" list. |
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"Looked to see who had looked at me just now, mostly men 90%, and of those 70% straight. Assuming they really are straight, why on earth would they look at me? Why do you look at profiles that are not what you’re looking for? "
Recently,on another thread you mentioned that you used to be straight and became bi, is it not possible that the straight guys looking at you are curious like you once were?
Why does it bother you? |
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"Looked to see who had looked at me just now, mostly men 90%, and of those 70% straight. Assuming they really are straight, why on earth would they look at me? Why do you look at profiles that are not what you’re looking for? "
I haven’t looked op, so no problem... |
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"Looked to see who had looked at me just now, mostly men 90%, and of those 70% straight. Assuming they really are straight, why on earth would they look at me? Why do you look at profiles that are not what you’re looking for?
Recently,on another thread you mentioned that you used to be straight and became bi, is it not possible that the straight guys looking at you are curious like you once were?
Why does it bother you? "
Maybe. I was curious to know. It doesn’t bother me. I was interested in finding out some reasons. |
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"Looked to see who had looked at me just now, mostly men 90%, and of those 70% straight. Assuming they really are straight, why on earth would they look at me? Why do you look at profiles that are not what you’re looking for?
Recently,on another thread you mentioned that you used to be straight and became bi, is it not possible that the straight guys looking at you are curious like you once were?
Why does it bother you? Maybe. I was curious to know. It doesn’t bother me. I was interested in finding out some reasons. "
Can I suggest you mail all the straight guys who look at your profile and ask them...horses mouth so to speak. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is why I look at people in stealth mode.
Too many people assume if you look at their profile you want them. I look at lots of people just out of curiosity and to find out more about them. It doesn't mean I am looking for a meet with them. my point is, why would straight men want to find out more about me? I’m not their target audience, I’m not their competition nor can they learn anything from me. It doesn’t make logical sense. "
There's nothing illogical about it
I look at loads of folks profiles when I'm dotting about the forum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There you go OP. I just clicked on your profile so now I'll show up as having looked at you, just to freak you out.
You do realise that you can't catch the ghey from men lookimg at you
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It could be that they are finding you via verification trails or because of something you've said in the forums. Or it could be that they just aren't straight "
Verification trails are the main one. I sometimes get tons of guys looking at me because they are interested in someone I've met. It's territorial I'd guess. |
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over a year ago
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"Looked to see who had looked at me just now, mostly men 90%, and of those 70% straight. Assuming they really are straight, why on earth would they look at me? Why do you look at profiles that are not what you’re looking for?
For myself it's usually to peek at the veri's from ladies that I fancy and the guys they've then met with to get an idea of who they tend to go for.
Sometimes to look at the composition of other people's profiles, things like that.
Certainly wouldn't linger Haha!
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Exactly this. Can save a lot of time wasting if I see a female profile that I like, if she's been meeting 6ft+ man mountains with washboard abs that ain't me so I'll not bother adding to her mail box. |
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"Looked to see who had looked at me just now, mostly men 90%, and of those 70% straight. Assuming they really are straight, why on earth would they look at me? Why do you look at profiles that are not what you’re looking for? "
well you blocked me a female so i guess you dont like me?
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
Preston |
To check veri chains
Because they want to see what you're like after you post on the forum
To get ideas for profiles
To get ideas for photos
Because they're part of a couple and looking for a bloke
Because they're bored
Because they're gay
Because they're bi
Because their mate has said "check this guy out for me and let me know if you think he's OK"
Because a million other things.
I don't understand why men get bothered about this. I don't care if every woman on Fab looks at my profile. What does it matter? |
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"Looked to see who had looked at me just now, mostly men 90%, and of those 70% straight. Assuming they really are straight, why on earth would they look at me? Why do you look at profiles that are not what you’re looking for? "
You've set their gaydar off  |
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"To check veri chains
Because they want to see what you're like after you post on the forum
To get ideas for profiles
To get ideas for photos
Because they're part of a couple and looking for a bloke
Because they're bored
Because they're gay
Because they're bi
Because their mate has said "check this guy out for me and let me know if you think he's OK"
Because a million other things.
I don't understand why men get bothered about this. I don't care if every woman on Fab looks at my profile. What does it matter?"
I actually quite like the attention 
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
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"To check veri chains
Because they want to see what you're like after you post on the forum
To get ideas for profiles
To get ideas for photos
Because they're part of a couple and looking for a bloke
Because they're bored
Because they're gay
Because they're bi
Because their mate has said "check this guy out for me and let me know if you think he's OK"
Because a million other things.
I don't understand why men get bothered about this. I don't care if every woman on Fab looks at my profile. What does it matter?
I actually quite like the attention
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That's no bad thing. I feel that if a straight woman tells me I'm attractive then she has no ulteria motive. Same with a straight man looking at a man.
Bask in the attention whilst you can.
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"Looked to see who had looked at me just now, mostly men 90%, and of those 70% straight. Assuming they really are straight, why on earth would they look at me? Why do you look at profiles that are not what you’re looking for? "
I looked due to forums only do your safe lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also, most guys I know had no idea you could hide on "who's looked at me". Most couple's and single fems I know hide themselves from showing. Maybe that's why so many men show up? |
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"Looked to see who had looked at me just now, mostly men 90%, and of those 70% straight. Assuming they really are straight, why on earth would they look at me? Why do you look at profiles that are not what you’re looking for? "
Because we're nosey! |
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"This is why I look at people in stealth mode.
Too many people assume if you look at their profile you want them. I look at lots of people just out of curiosity and to find out more about them. It doesn't mean I am looking for a meet with them. my point is, why would straight men want to find out more about me? I’m not their target audience, I’m not their competition nor can they learn anything from me. It doesn’t make logical sense. "
Come on since when has logic got anything to do with Fab.  |
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Soon as I opened the thread I wanted to view it because your current profile photo is super colourful and looks like an interesting photo.
I’m not ‘fab straight’ (what does that even mean?) Literally no sexual interest other men.
Not sure if that helps. |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
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When I first joined Fabs I wanted to improve the text in my profile.I felt the best way was to check out successful guys profiles.I will also read their verifications to see how they conduct themselves. I also get guys that message me some have become friends , others wanting advice and sorry to say some wanting something of a sexual nature once I tell them sorry I am straight best of luck with your search the messages tend to stop. |
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