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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I doing summert wrong"
Yes your not listening or just attention seeking.
You've been given advice already on multiple threads and on one where your apparently just married. |
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"My pal posted that I can assure u I'm not married I've improved profile just seems I'm no good lmao"
the reason I ask is if you can answer it, it will give you some insight into what might be good words in your profile.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My pal posted that I can assure u I'm not married I've improved profile just seems I'm no good lmao"
No you haven't don't lie. I checked your profile before and gave you some advice.
You still have your tongue out in all your pics and you still have the same crappy badly written profile. |
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"My pal posted that I can assure u I'm not married I've improved profile just seems I'm no good lmao"
you allowed your friend to write a lie attributed to you? You can ask admin to remove the thread if it’s not true.
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"My pal posted that I can assure u I'm not married I've improved profile just seems I'm no good lmao"
Why does your friend have your password?
If you're asking for profile advice I'd say lose the pictures with your tongue out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Trying to be constructive, make a bit of effort into getting some decent quality pictures. Write something tangible about yourself that will make yourself more appealing. When you message someone don't use things like U or LMAO try to spell them properly, it all makes an impression. Try looking at other peoples profiles who do get meets and see how they present themselves.
There is no shortage of men on this site looking to meet, your job is to make yourself look like the best of them if you want any chance of chatting to someone let alone meet them. |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
Weirdsville South Coast Dorset |
May as well change the tongue pics for dick pics as they are both just as grim.
Your first "married" post and your replies on it are written the same as your profile so please don't attempt "my mate wrote it" nonsense.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My pal posted that I can assure u I'm not married I've improved profile just seems I'm no good lmao you allowed your friend to write a lie attributed to you? You can ask admin to remove the thread if it’s not true. "
It wasn't a friend. He had two threads running at the same time and this was pointed out in both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So hard to get a meet.
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/986385
New to this married.
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/986383
They are a few pages back. |
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"My pal posted that I can assure u I'm not married I've improved profile just seems I'm no good lmao"
'My pal wrote that' jesus that reminds me of when people were teenagers and would send messages to girls and it wasnt recieved well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So hard to get a meet.
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/986385
New to this married.
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/986383
They are a few pages back."
Had I realised I wouldn't have bothered trying to help  |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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"Am I doing summert wrong"
Yes, you're repeatedly asking for advice, which you have been given, & then ignoring it.
Your profile is pretty grim & despite people telling you how you could improve it you've not changed it.
Tongue out pics smack of immaturity and are almost as bad as dick pics.
If the quality of messages you send is similar to your profile & forum posts then I'm not surprised you're struggling to get meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I doing summert wrong"
Its not summer yet so get a spring in your step and show a sunny outlook not a wet damp outlook.As no one wants that weather you think they do or not  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My pal posted that I can assure u I'm not married I've improved profile just seems I'm no good lmao
'My pal wrote that' jesus that reminds me of when people were teenagers and would send messages to girls and it wasnt recieved well"
Indeed. On your first thread you indicated that you'd been married for 10 years, that she knew you were on here and even suggested that she could join in.
You do realise that people can actually see what you're posting here, don't you? And that we can also look at other threads you've posted on.
You're doing yourself no favours whatsoever and if anything, I'd suggest that you're actually harming your chances.
You've started 3 different threads in the past 24 hours, all pretty much asking the same thing. You've been given helpful advice but have chosen to ignore it.
Says everything anyone needs to know about you i'm afraid.
So, should we ecpect another similar thread tomorrow?
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By *ild_oatsMan
over a year ago
the land of saints & sinners |
"Am I doing summert wrong"
You are obviously not sending the right message....
You need to say the following.....
“Can I tongue punch you in your fart box...”
No one can resist that.....
That is a sure fire winner.... you will be swamped..... |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
Weirdsville South Coast Dorset |
"Am I doing summert wrong
Yes, you're repeatedly asking for advice, which you have been given, & then ignoring it.
Your profile is pretty grim & despite people telling you how you could improve it you've not changed it.
Tongue out pics smack of immaturity and are almost as bad as dick pics.
If the quality of messages you send is similar to your profile & forum posts then I'm not surprised you're struggling to get meets. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I doing summert wrong
You are obviously not sending the right message....
You need to say the following.....
“Can I tongue punch you in your fart box...”
No one can resist that.....
That is a sure fire winner.... you will be swamped..... "
why have I never tried this before!?
OP, I will have a go at this one too, and let you know the results |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plenty of gay sites around if you want some cock up the arse action. You'll be sure to get a meet then no problems."
That's not necessary!
Whilst the OP is not helping himself there is no need to mock him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plenty of gay sites around if you want some cock up the arse action. You'll be sure to get a meet then no problems.
That's not necessary!
Whilst the OP is not helping himself there is no need to mock him. "
He's done a fine job of that himself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being male is like kinda like a disability online.
You need tits and a minge to guarantee meets.
Otherwise it's always going to be hard.
Maybe try a club? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plenty of gay sites around if you want some cock up the arse action. You'll be sure to get a meet then no problems.
That's not necessary!
Whilst the OP is not helping himself there is no need to mock him.
He's done a fine job of that himself"
Exactly so need to jump on the bandwagon. |
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"My pal posted that I can assure u I'm not married I've improved profile just seems I'm no good lmao
No you haven't don't lie. I checked your profile before and gave you some advice.
You still have your tongue out in all your pics and you still have the same crappy badly written profile."
I argee with my man from down the road change your profile and take better pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plenty of gay sites around if you want some cock up the arse action. You'll be sure to get a meet then no problems.
That's not necessary!
Whilst the OP is not helping himself there is no need to mock him.
He's done a fine job of that himself
Exactly so need to jump on the bandwagon. "
Maybe try reading through the threads. You'll find there is no jumping on the bandwagon as someone who tried to give advice to his original attention seeking posts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plenty of gay sites around if you want some cock up the arse action. You'll be sure to get a meet then no problems.
That's not necessary!
Whilst the OP is not helping himself there is no need to mock him.
He's done a fine job of that himself
Exactly so need to jump on the bandwagon.
Maybe try reading through the threads. You'll find there is no jumping on the bandwagon as someone who tried to give advice to his original attention seeking posts."
If you have read them you would know I have.
All I'm saying is no need to mock anyone! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being male is like kinda like a disability online.
You need tits and a minge to guarantee meets.
Otherwise it's always going to be hard.
Maybe try a club? "
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"My pal posted that I can assure u I'm not married I've improved profile just seems I'm no good lmao"
Your "pal" posted that? Wow, no way I would meet you with that amount of lack of discretion on your part. It would seem that us swingers are just a bit of a joke for you and your "pal", if, indeed he does actually exist. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I doing summert wrong
Can you give an example of the messages you send out to initiate contact? A lot of people go badly wrong here. I'm sure we can give you constructive feedback. "
Yeah, great idea!
Get the guy a spell on the naughty step by encouraging him to break the rules  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I doing summert wrong
Can you give an example of the messages you send out to initiate contact? A lot of people go badly wrong here. I'm sure we can give you constructive feedback.
Yeah, great idea!
Get the guy a spell on the naughty step by encouraging him to break the rules "
You can give an example of the type of messages you send without breaking forum rules |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"Am I doing summert wrong
Can you give an example of the messages you send out to initiate contact? A lot of people go badly wrong here. I'm sure we can give you constructive feedback.
Yeah, great idea!
Get the guy a spell on the naughty step by encouraging him to break the rules "
I think it's only breaking the rules if you share a specific message you've recieved, not an example of one you might send. |
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"Am I doing summert wrong
Can you give an example of the messages you send out to initiate contact? A lot of people go badly wrong here. I'm sure we can give you constructive feedback.
Yeah, great idea!
Get the guy a spell on the naughty step by encouraging him to break the rules
I think it's only breaking the rules if you share a specific message you've recieved, not an example of one you might send. "
Exactly. You're free to quote yourself as far as I know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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 This seems a little fishy to me! Fake profile possibly? As many of you have said, think he or she is looking for attention. If not then why start another post, on the same issue, two days in a row. Plus it seems he hasn’t made any of the suggested changes. |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
"I've updated some piks n changed discription can't do alot more think I've removed all tongue piks"
There is so much more that you could do, & you've had lots of helpful advice on all of your posts, but if you think it's good enough as it is then who are we to argue? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well, from where I'm standing I'd certainly say you're not a single pringle who's looking to mingle....
Unless of course the "homely" "loving" vibe literally written on the walls in your pic is of someone else's house.
Also the Disney princess wallpaper.
Plus the just married on another thread thing that supposedly your mate wrote.
You do the maths.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My pal posted that I can assure u I'm not married I've improved profile just seems I'm no good lmao"
Also did the conclusion that you're no good actually make you laugh your arse off? I mean, did it really?
As if so I suspect that kind of abnormal behaviour may be one of the steer clear signs that you wish to eradicate, to facilitate filling your boots?
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"Am I doing summert wrong"
Probably need to put some effort into writing a more inviting profile biography & using some semblance of punctuation.
I'm not falling over women in my inbox but I think listening to the thread and everyone's input might help somewhat.
Good luck muchacho! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Although now I come to think about it, I let my good friend borrow my phone to browse Fab on my profile and when I came back to it I noticed I had a status saying how much I was looking forward to blowing off an elderly incontinemt chap around the back of Aldi? Pals, eh?
Actually no, none of my pals ever did that. Because they're pals and because I wouldn't be melon enough to give any old twat access to my Fab account.
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
Weirdsville South Coast Dorset |
"I've updated some piks n changed discription can't do alot more think I've removed all tongue piks"
I am kicking myself for missing the original profile having only seen attempt 2 and 3!
Only thing missing from new pics is the actual wedding photo hung on the wall but I can't work out if your in a child's bedroom or just have Disney living room wallpaper? Not to mention the state of the dick pic surroundings  oh lordy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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this is from a bloke, to a bloke.....if your profile reads like it was compiled by a retarded chimp, and your pics back that up......that's how you will be perceived. Lose the txtspk, you're trying to sell yourself....be honest, if you saw a profile like yours, would you want to meet that person? |
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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago
Filthy Desires Upon Trent |
Well.
Using the word “Summert” is an instant turn off.
Unfortunately yet another one of the Hook Up Brigade.
No respect. Thinks it’s a bit of a laugh and only out for himself.
The reason we say this is that we have received endless messages from the OP and none are very pretty. Fact |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well.
Using the word “Summert” is an instant turn off.
Unfortunately yet another one of the Hook Up Brigade.
No respect. Thinks it’s a bit of a laugh and only out for himself.
The reason we say this is that we have received endless messages from the OP and none are very pretty. Fact "
Well this news has truly knocked me for six as never in a million years did I expect it to be the case.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi all I was on here a year ago left as only ever got one meet that was with someone I knew
Rejoined and 're done profile took advice from people even got the person from last time to 're do my veri
But I am struggling to get a convo never mind a meet
Not to sure what I need to improve on so feel free to advise me if you can I understand I am 1 of a thousand single males here and not everybody's cuppa |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all I was on here a year ago left as only ever got one meet that was with someone I knew
Rejoined and 're done profile took advice from people even got the person from last time to 're do my veri
But I am struggling to get a convo never mind a meet
Not to sure what I need to improve on so feel free to advise me if you can I understand I am 1 of a thousand single males here and not everybody's cuppa "
It's considered somewhat poor forum ettiquette to hijack someone elses thread. You should really start your own |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all I was on here a year ago left as only ever got one meet that was with someone I knew
Rejoined and 're done profile took advice from people even got the person from last time to 're do my veri
But I am struggling to get a convo never mind a meet
Not to sure what I need to improve on so feel free to advise me if you can I understand I am 1 of a thousand single males here and not everybody's cuppa
It's considered somewhat poor forum ettiquette to hijack someone elses thread. You should really start your own"
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"Hi all I was on here a year ago left as only ever got one meet that was with someone I knew
Rejoined and 're done profile took advice from people even got the person from last time to 're do my veri
But I am struggling to get a convo never mind a meet
Not to sure what I need to improve on so feel free to advise me if you can I understand I am 1 of a thousand single males here and not everybody's cuppa "
Harsh truth. You're an average middle aged bloke who can't accomodate. That puts you at the very bottom of the fabs pecking order.
The only way round it is to send women messages that make them think you are likely to think being with you would be a fun thing and not just in a sexual way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I knew how I would "
When you're in the forum section you want to start a thread in (i.e. Lounge, Swingers chat etc), at the top there is a button that is labelled 'Post new topic'
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all I was on here a year ago left as only ever got one meet that was with someone I knew
Rejoined and 're done profile took advice from people even got the person from last time to 're do my veri
But I am struggling to get a convo never mind a meet
Not to sure what I need to improve on so feel free to advise me if you can I understand I am 1 of a thousand single males here and not everybody's cuppa
It's considered somewhat poor forum ettiquette to hijack someone elses thread. You should really start your own"
Nah, I think he's onto something? As this way all the "can't get a meet" threads are compacted into the one thread and they can all use each other's identical advice as well as seeking solace amongst compadres.
Also these threads won't take up half the fucking space on Page One. 
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You get out what you put in . Clearly my profile isn't the best either but that's ok I'm in no rush and dont expect anything . My last profile it took years of changing little parts updating pictures and putting some serious thought into what your saying before I was happy with it . Then it was months before I met anyone .It's going to sound strange but have a look around at other men's profile particularly those who have meets on a regular basis and try to think why that is? What's different about them ? Is it purely the physical or are they engaging on a mental level as well ? Yes it's a sex/swinging site but dont expect instant results . 8 weeks isn't a long time on here at all . Try getting to a social or going in chat for a while and get to know people . Most of all be honest about what your looking for and your circumstances. If your married say you are . Sure people will judge others wont that's just the nature of people . Good luck |
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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago
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"Hi all I was on here a year ago left as only ever got one meet that was with someone I knew
Rejoined and 're done profile took advice from people even got the person from last time to 're do my veri
But I am struggling to get a convo never mind a meet
Not to sure what I need to improve on so feel free to advise me if you can I understand I am 1 of a thousand single males here and not everybody's cuppa
It's considered somewhat poor forum ettiquette to hijack someone elses thread. You should really start your own"
Or just search can't get a meet and read the hundreds of threads  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've updated some piks n changed discription can't do alot more think I've removed all tongue piks
I am kicking myself for missing the original profile having only seen attempt 2 and 3!
Only thing missing from new pics is the actual wedding photo hung on the wall but I can't work out if your in a child's bedroom or just have Disney living room wallpaper? Not to mention the state of the dick pic surroundings oh lordy "
Yep, married with a little girl personally VERY disrespectful taking a picture with that background plus blankies elsewhere.
You are failing at fab and a bad liar |
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