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A female friend of 20years separated a year ago from her husband who I regularly talk to as a friend only has chatted about something I’ve wanted to try for a long time
Always wanted to share a shower with someone with a bit of sensual play with the soap application
She has said she would like to do this with me As long as we agree no sex but touch is allowed and even bought some nice lingerie to wear
Will be strange as we’re friends and we are both happy for a sensual not sexual laugh but I’m cautious of ruining a good friendship despite really wanting this , what’s your opinion? |
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"Hmm id say do it so long as your both clear its for fun then why not mutual showers are great 
One of those were we both always wondered and definitely with boundaries should be fun "
Well ive done it with partners and friends in past. Its one thing i miss being single again  |
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over a year ago
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Let's get real...the dynamic will change! This isn't 2 friends just exploring sensual play....she's buying special lingerie for you! This isn't play, its seduction under a "safe" scenario. She wants to see you nude and to be nude with you. She hopes you will get aroused...She wants to see you get aroused...she wants you and she wants you to want her. It will end up with you both fucking...or disaster. Weigh up the likelihood of either outcome....but either way the dynamic changes. Perhaps for the better? Good luck. |
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"Let's get real...the dynamic will change! This isn't 2 friends just exploring sensual play....she's buying special lingerie for you! This isn't play, its seduction under a "safe" scenario. She wants to see you nude and to be nude with you. She hopes you will get aroused...She wants to see you get aroused...she wants you and she wants you to want her. It will end up with you both fucking...or disaster. Weigh up the likelihood of either outcome....but either way the dynamic changes. Perhaps for the better? Good luck."
Well it might change for the better bring you both closer if thats obvs what she wants then wheres the harm your both consenting adults so still do it i say. I have and it didnt result in sex everytime. But if you do makes you friends with benefits which again is no bad thing  |
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"Let's get real...the dynamic will change! This isn't 2 friends just exploring sensual play....she's buying special lingerie for you! This isn't play, its seduction under a "safe" scenario. She wants to see you nude and to be nude with you. She hopes you will get aroused...She wants to see you get aroused...she wants you and she wants you to want her. It will end up with you both fucking...or disaster. Weigh up the likelihood of either outcome....but either way the dynamic changes. Perhaps for the better? Good luck."
We have both discussed this and aware that there will be obvious things happen such as I’m likely to become erect and touching intimate areas will probably lead to orgasm
We both agree it’s as far as we’re happy to go and it’s something to get out our system and for pure fun together
I’m definitely prepared to back out if I feel there would be any chance of ruining the friendship and we’re both aware of that |
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"Let's get real...the dynamic will change! This isn't 2 friends just exploring sensual play....she's buying special lingerie for you! This isn't play, its seduction under a "safe" scenario. She wants to see you nude and to be nude with you. She hopes you will get aroused...She wants to see you get aroused...she wants you and she wants you to want her. It will end up with you both fucking...or disaster. Weigh up the likelihood of either outcome....but either way the dynamic changes. Perhaps for the better? Good luck.
We have both discussed this and aware that there will be obvious things happen such as I’m likely to become erect and touching intimate areas will probably lead to orgasm
We both agree it’s as far as we’re happy to go and it’s something to get out our system and for pure fun together
I’m definitely prepared to back out if I feel there would be any chance of ruining the friendship and we’re both aware of that "
Good then do it you both wont regret it and you have that trust in each other i think its lovely to see good luck with it |
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By *athan 123Man
over a year ago
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"A female friend of 20years separated a year ago from her husband who I regularly talk to as a friend only has chatted about something I’ve wanted to try for a long time
Always wanted to share a shower with someone with a bit of sensual play with the soap application
She has said she would like to do this with me As long as we agree no sex but touch is allowed and even bought some nice lingerie to wear
Will be strange as we’re friends and we are both happy for a sensual not sexual laugh but I’m cautious of ruining a good friendship despite really wanting this , what’s your opinion?"
I bet u end up fucking her |
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"A female friend of 20years separated a year ago from her husband who I regularly talk to as a friend only has chatted about something I’ve wanted to try for a long time
Always wanted to share a shower with someone with a bit of sensual play with the soap application
She has said she would like to do this with me As long as we agree no sex but touch is allowed and even bought some nice lingerie to wear
Will be strange as we’re friends and we are both happy for a sensual not sexual laugh but I’m cautious of ruining a good friendship despite really wanting this , what’s your opinion?
I bet u end up fucking her "
Respect her so no |
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"A female friend of 20years separated a year ago from her husband who I regularly talk to as a friend only has chatted about something I’ve wanted to try for a long time
Always wanted to share a shower with someone with a bit of sensual play with the soap application
She has said she would like to do this with me As long as we agree no sex but touch is allowed and even bought some nice lingerie to wear
Will be strange as we’re friends and we are both happy for a sensual not sexual laugh but I’m cautious of ruining a good friendship despite really wanting this , what’s your opinion?
I bet u end up fucking her
Respect her so no"
Can we start a fab sweepstake on the outcome? |
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"A female friend of 20years separated a year ago from her husband who I regularly talk to as a friend only has chatted about something I’ve wanted to try for a long time
Always wanted to share a shower with someone with a bit of sensual play with the soap application
She has said she would like to do this with me As long as we agree no sex but touch is allowed and even bought some nice lingerie to wear
Will be strange as we’re friends and we are both happy for a sensual not sexual laugh but I’m cautious of ruining a good friendship despite really wanting this , what’s your opinion?
I bet u end up fucking her
Respect her so no
Can we start a fab sweepstake on the outcome?"
will go as we both agree due to huge amount of respect, it’s two friends having a laugh and fun |
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I think if it was 'having a laugh with a friend' then there wouldnt be so much emphasis on sensuality. This is absolutely going to end in feelings. Either you for her or vice verce. It's going to get passionate pretty quickly and it'll stick with you. Absolutely nothing wrong with that but I fear you're being a little naive if you think otherwise.
Have fun! We enjoy soapy shower fun as often as possible |
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I bet u end up fucking her
Respect her so no
So anyone you have had sex with you don't respect ?"
Why answer a stupid question, respect should be a basic life skill you might not have if you feel it should be something to enquire about |
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