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By *TnTx OP Couple
over a year ago
North West |
Hey all, we are very new to this and want to attend a club.
We’ve discussed in depth and think we’d like to attend a club out of our initial area.
Possibly something in the Lake District. Nice weekend away and a night or two at a club.
Now here are our questions:
What should we expect to see within the club? (Here’s the part where you can tell we are new to this.)
Will it be like a normally pub but people getting it on? I understand that their are play rooms etc.
What should we wear? Again I understand some places have a dress code, towels etc?
I presume the male should wear some nice underwear and the female should wear some nice underwear. Not going to turn up in old bra and knickers that don’t match lol.
When undressed to said attire would your belongings go in a locker?
Are we over thinking this?!
So to review:
Swinging clubs near the Lake District recommendations. (Ideally with a bar.)
We are looking at going middle of March.
What should we wear?
What should we expect to see.
Thanks again
xx
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Go check out a clubs Website and you will see the usual....
Bar area to relax and chill.
Play rooms, lockable private rooms, play rooms, viewing rooms (locked inside but people can look through a window), orgy rooms.
Each club is different but they all have the usual selection of rooms so you will get a rough idea.
Dress as if you're going out, wether it's a nice meal or clubbing.just dress nice.
When you're comfortable your clothes will go in the locker you're provided with. You can wrap in a towel, robe something or you can go all out naked.
Clubs have different dress down rules but on your first time in any club you will get a tour and a run down of all of their rules.
Some clubs are bring your own alcohol so check that.
Your bar bill will be on a tab with your numbered locker key so you pay at the end.
Go to the reviews page on here, clubs are sorted by area. Check out the reviews and their website. I recommend looking for bad reviews, they can tell you a lot.
For example if the only bad thing someone can say about a club is they didn't like the decor then it's going to be a good club.
Also, don't feel stupid asking questions. We were all new at one point. |
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"Hey all, we are very new to this and want to attend a club.
We’ve discussed in depth and think we’d like to attend a club out of our initial area.
Possibly something in the Lake District. Nice weekend away and a night or two at a club.
Now here are our questions:
What should we expect to see within the club? (Here’s the part where you can tell we are new to this.)
Will it be like a normally pub but people getting it on? I understand that their are play rooms etc.
What should we wear? Again I understand some places have a dress code, towels etc?
I presume the male should wear some nice underwear and the female should wear some nice underwear. Not going to turn up in old bra and knickers that don’t match lol.
When undressed to said attire would your belongings go in a locker?
Are we over thinking this?!
So to review:
Swinging clubs near the Lake District recommendations. (Ideally with a bar.)
We are looking at going middle of March.
What should we wear?
What should we expect to see.
Thanks again
xx
"
No such thing as a silly question.
Have a great time exploring. |
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What you will see differs from night to night but expect to see sex! Sounds stupid but we've been going at it and seen a guy having a tour who spotted us, dived away and kept saying no to the hostess. I don't know what he expected but he was clearly uncomfortable.
Expect people of all shapes, sizes and ages. Lots of nudity. some very hot, sexy shows and some not so great sights.
Just remember that this is everyone's place to let go and display their sexuality so try not to judge.
Also, SPEAK UP! Stick up for yourself! If someone does something without permission, tell them or the staff. If someone oversteps, makes you uncomfortable or anything like that don't be shy.
It may seem like there's lots of rules at first but it's just basic manners to be honest. Clubs are very relaxed and friendly over all so just have fun. |
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By *TnTx OP Couple
over a year ago
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"What you will see differs from night to night but expect to see sex! Sounds stupid but we've been going at it and seen a guy having a tour who spotted us, dived away and kept saying no to the hostess. I don't know what he expected but he was clearly uncomfortable.
Expect people of all shapes, sizes and ages. Lots of nudity. some very hot, sexy shows and some not so great sights.
Just remember that this is everyone's place to let go and display their sexuality so try not to judge.
Also, SPEAK UP! Stick up for yourself! If someone does something without permission, tell them or the staff. If someone oversteps, makes you uncomfortable or anything like that don't be shy.
It may seem like there's lots of rules at first but it's just basic manners to be honest. Clubs are very relaxed and friendly over all so just have fun."
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over a year ago
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Munches are social events, usually in a pub where you meet like-minded people first. It's more of a gentle start, but it means you can meet people face to face x |
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"Not silly questions. Good questions. There’s a section on club reviews on here which might be useful.
Can’t seem to find that section could you direct us?
Thanks "
On the home page, next to the forum button is the club reviews button  |
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"Munches are social events, usually in a pub where you meet like-minded people first. It's more of a gentle start, but it means you can meet people face to face x"
I think you mean a social event a munch is more focused on bdsm x |
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"Munches are social events, usually in a pub where you meet like-minded people first. It's more of a gentle start, but it means you can meet people face to face x
I think you mean a social event a munch is more focused on bdsm x "
I guess I just mentioned the munches primarily because of the gentle introductions to others x |
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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago
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Think the Blackpool clubs are the closest clubs to the Lake District, we are away in the Lake District for a few days next month and will probably have a visit to Infusions while we are there  |
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"Hey all, we are very new to this and want to attend a club.
We’ve discussed in depth and think we’d like to attend a club out of our initial area.
Possibly something in the Lake District. Nice weekend away and a night or two at a club.
Now here are our questions:
What should we expect to see within the club? (Here’s the part where you can tell we are new to this.)
Will it be like a normally pub but people getting it on? I understand that their are play rooms etc.
What should we wear? Again I understand some places have a dress code, towels etc?
I presume the male should wear some nice underwear and the female should wear some nice underwear. Not going to turn up in old bra and knickers that don’t match lol.
When undressed to said attire would your belongings go in a locker?
Are we over thinking this?!
So to review:
Swinging clubs near the Lake District recommendations. (Ideally with a bar.)
We are looking at going middle of March.
What should we wear?
What should we expect to see.
Thanks again
xx
"
debauchery and they have lockers and your underwear is unimportant unless its visibly impaired    |
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By *TnTx OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Think the Blackpool clubs are the closest clubs to the Lake District, we are away in the Lake District for a few days next month and will probably have a visit to Infusions while we are there "
Yeah doesn’t look like they have any up that way. We are from Blackpool and wanted to experience out of town for our first time.
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"Think the Blackpool clubs are the closest clubs to the Lake District, we are away in the Lake District for a few days next month and will probably have a visit to Infusions while we are there
Yeah doesn’t look like they have any up that way. We are from Blackpool and wanted to experience out of town for our first time.
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If you fancy a road trip, there are good clubs in Manchester and on the Wirral. The Wirral is very picturesque and has some lovely countryside of you want to mix relaxation with naughtiness. |
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By *TnTx OP Couple
over a year ago
North West |
"Think the Blackpool clubs are the closest clubs to the Lake District, we are away in the Lake District for a few days next month and will probably have a visit to Infusions while we are there
Yeah doesn’t look like they have any up that way. We are from Blackpool and wanted to experience out of town for our first time.
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If you fancy a road trip, there are good clubs in Manchester and on the Wirral. The Wirral is very picturesque and has some lovely countryside of you want to mix relaxation with naughtiness. "
We’ve actually been looking at Cupid’s in Manchester x |
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Before you visit any club just have a read in their websites.. information about dress code, dress down areas and times, facilities etc... each club offers different events on different days of the week too, this information will also be available in the websites x |
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"Hey all, we are very new to this and want to attend a club.
We’ve discussed in depth and think we’d like to attend a club out of our initial area.
Possibly something in the Lake District. Nice weekend away and a night or two at a club.
Now here are our questions:
What should we expect to see within the club? (Here’s the part where you can tell we are new to this.)
Will it be like a normally pub but people getting it on? I understand that their are play rooms etc.
What should we wear? Again I understand some places have a dress code, towels etc?
I presume the male should wear some nice underwear and the female should wear some nice underwear. Not going to turn up in old bra and knickers that don’t match lol.
When undressed to said attire would your belongings go in a locker?
Are we over thinking this?!
So to review:
Swinging clubs near the Lake District recommendations. (Ideally with a bar.)
We are looking at going middle of March.
What should we wear?
What should we expect to see.
Thanks again
xx
"
well as soon as you pay money which is generally at front door, clubs dont like to waste space, they ask you to remove your clothes for a body search, they give you a towel each which is generally £5 deposit and a locker £5 dancing naked on the dance floor is encouraged but only to ' for whom the bell tolls' Metallica after that you stroll around the empty rooms until you find couples engaged in sex at its most pure form if they are quiet move on theyve probably pas#ed out, the dungeon is always a good stopping point strap the Mrs up there for a bit then go for a wander, i like the jacuzzi but you can't be shy with this one you get in flaccid and come out pointing at pole star but always a great place for a chinwag about weather etc best to go back and get wife now, she may or may not have had enough, maybe you're the exhibitionist types if so the large round bed in main socialising area is a must this bed sleeps 20 but no duvets in sight and if you've still got energy left after this theres the dark room whos in there is anybodys guess health and safety is out the window ( no windows obviously turn of phrase) if you survive that then the sauna is nice to cool down, hope this helps |
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