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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We had a meet with a couple in a pub, things were going well and we went back to theirs, we were quite relaxed and happy to play, only soft swap altogether, there was no intercourse between anyone, afterwards however the woman of the couple kept asking me (the male) if I'd entered her and she was worried that I had, I definitely didnt, had no intention to and have absolutely no reason to lie. I'm average to slightly big so I would of thought a woman can tell the difference between a cock and fingers, no one was particularly d*unk. It's really spoilt swinging as I feel like I'm almost accused of r.a.pe
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The fact she kept asking you the same thing is quite strange especially asking you afterwards and not during play? There’s not much you can really do tbh. You’ve reassured her as best you can. If I was the male in this scenario though ngl I’d like to make sure I’d covered my back on this as you don’t really know this lady. I’d send a message and make sure that she understands that no penetration had happened just so I had it in writing. I hope it doesn’t put you off the lifestyle though as with the right people you can have amazing times x |
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We've been in rooms full of people and things cross, hands stray but it's as easy as "did you just...."
and then it's either delt with or done with depending on if they did something.
That's it though, ask once. If you're uncomfortable, move away or stop. The fact she kept asking is strange.
Your post seems to read as if you fingered her and maybe that's what she was asking?
Either way don't let it out you off. The more people you add the more clumsy and awkward things get when it comes to swinging. Meets don't always go smoothly. It's just part of the scene to have hiccups. |
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I have to be honest OP I think that’s a horrible situation to put you in
That could cause all sorts of issues between a swinging couple when they have set their play boundaries.
I’m baffled why/how she wouldn’t know the difference and even if she asked you once shy she would persist in asking ?
Quite bizarre  |
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Perhaps she was just being overly cautious to the point of worry. Not intentionally accusing but more confirming to herself she hasn’t been stupid and had any kind of unprotected play. If I wa you and you all got on like you day. I’d message them again today and say thanks for last night and see if it’s all calmed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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She’ll be calling you to tell you she’s pregnant in a few weeks 
Jokes aside, this does sound like a nightmare especially if as apparent, you do have a conscious, like the OP.
All you can do is reassure her nothing happened & beca bit more careful about who you meet in future because i’m not gonna lie mate, she sounds like a bit of a mad one for being unsure of this, as you’ve described. |
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