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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So today I had to knock on my next door neighbour to see if they had collected a parcel of mine.
I see the lady and her husband all the time and knew their son lived there too but I'd never seen him.
Anyway I was stunned when I saw him and his voice
 is it too weird that I've found him on Facebook already... Should I send a friend request?
Soooo torn and don't want to be super creepy haha
Any advice would be appreciated  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very briefly he was very nice and polite and just so gorgeous I can't stop being curious about wanting to chat to him properly haha"
Order more parcels  |
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As a guy this would be something that many do fantasies about. Me included. Getting a hello from a sexy stunning lady like yourself. Find an excuse to pop round when you know he’s in.
Flirt with him n send friend req on FB. see where it goes. Enjoy yourself n stay safe. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well the friend request was sent last night.
Not accepted yet, tempted to just message saying hey I'm your neighbour, how are you but wondering if I will seem desperate when I'm not.
Just need something that will get a direct response from him ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Asking for trouble long term, you could end up with neighbours from hell if it turned sour
That said, I lost my virginity to my next door neighbour, just the once and we stayed friends, just a very nice memory |
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over a year ago
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I'd be super careful given hes a neighbor but the attraction is telling me to atleast get a feel for the kind of guy he is before thinking if I should back off.
I'd love it if someone randomely messaged me after handing me a parcel, even just as a little boost.
His expression was similar to mine when he opened the door... Though could have been shock at my neon pink hair lmao.
Whereas I was gawping at thos gorgeous, tattooed god of a man |
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How much is it to move to the other side of you and start ordering parcels to be “left with a neighbour”. Lol.
It’s an erotic scenario. I’m sure you’re sensible enough to gauge the situation.
But if the house next door to you comes up for sake just let me know. Just saying. |
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over a year ago
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"Well he still hasn't read my message so may not use fb much but done a bit more digging and he has a gf so I'll abandon my hope lmao"
Just been wondering - is a fb friend request to a virtual stranger an ok way to proceed? Sincerely curious to know - there have been a couple of local ladies I found on fb that I'd have liked to express an interest in, but didn't in case it was a creepy thing to do... |
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"Well he still hasn't read my message so may not use fb much but done a bit more digging and he has a gf so I'll abandon my hope lmao
Just been wondering - is a fb friend request to a virtual stranger an ok way to proceed? Sincerely curious to know - there have been a couple of local ladies I found on fb that I'd have liked to express an interest in, but didn't in case it was a creepy thing to do..."
I'm really past the point in considering things like this.
If it frightens someone off then I don't imagine they would handle how honest I am in general haha
Its the same as tinder I've decided, if he accepts then he's opened a line of communication if not then I'll leave it be and adore him on my way back from the shops lmao  |
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"Well he still hasn't read my message so may not use fb much but done a bit more digging and he has a gf so I'll abandon my hope lmao
Just been wondering - is a fb friend request to a virtual stranger an ok way to proceed? Sincerely curious to know - there have been a couple of local ladies I found on fb that I'd have liked to express an interest in, but didn't in case it was a creepy thing to do...
I'm really past the point in considering things like this.
If it frightens someone off then I don't imagine they would handle how honest I am in general haha
Its the same as tinder I've decided, if he accepts then he's opened a line of communication if not then I'll leave it be and adore him on my way back from the shops lmao "
If he has a gf us it not best to leave it now? x |
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The FB request is a bit much considering you live next door, i’d be wondering how you found me on FB then suspect what other detective work you’d done on me  |
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"Well he still hasn't read my message so may not use fb much but done a bit more digging and he has a gf so I'll abandon my hope lmao
Just been wondering - is a fb friend request to a virtual stranger an ok way to proceed? Sincerely curious to know - there have been a couple of local ladies I found on fb that I'd have liked to express an interest in, but didn't in case it was a creepy thing to do...
I'm really past the point in considering things like this.
If it frightens someone off then I don't imagine they would handle how honest I am in general haha
Its the same as tinder I've decided, if he accepts then he's opened a line of communication if not then I'll leave it be and adore him on my way back from the shops lmao "
I like that. Makes plenty of sense. Ta x |
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How would you feel if a guy with who the only social interaction you'd had was handing over a parcel.