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So as a bigger build guy, I have been wondering for ages about where to find women who appreciate a fuller figured guy let's say! Not had any luck so far so wondered if anyone has any suggestions.
And if anyone has anything nice to say about larger guys that could be good - appreciate some people love a gym bunny but it takes all sorts and would be nice to hear from those that like a chubby guy! |
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"Thanks very much. Not many people on here yet but hope they get the message!
Made me smile anyway. Thanks x"
Do you approach women with similar build to your own? And they're not interested? It's 10 to 1 for women. We have alot of choice so you need to stand out of the crowd. I never reply to shallow messages where they clearly haven't read my profile and just want a quick screw with anyone who says yes |
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"Thanks very much. Not many people on here yet but hope they get the message!
Made me smile anyway. Thanks x
Do you approach women with similar build to your own? And they're not interested? It's 10 to 1 for women. We have alot of choice so you need to stand out of the crowd. I never reply to shallow messages where they clearly haven't read my profile and just want a quick screw with anyone who says yes"
Yeah I do approach women with a similar build as well as others, but to be honest I need to get better at approaching them in general. Quite a lot of profiles seem that they would never be interested and maybe even a bit intimidating. I just think id never have a chance and then don't bother. But yeah I know it's important to stand out - working on that too! |
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"Tall, chunky men are definitely my preference x"
Well that's good to hear! I'm 6"2 and would definitely say I'm chunky. I've lost a lot of weight this past year and still working on it but I'm a big build guy and think I will always be on the chunkier end! |
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over a year ago
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Stay strong dude there are a few ladies who like chubby chaps like ourselves. But like it's been said earlier you need to show them ya not another quick fumble chasing cockwomble like 80 percent of the guys on here |
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"Absolutely love dad bods and chubby guys.
Nice. You're not too far away as well! Love the sound of your profile. Absolutely love the idea of a game of cards against humanity as an icebreaker!
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It's the best icebreaker. Can't be shy after a game of CAH |
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"Absolutely love dad bods and chubby guys.
Nice. You're not too far away as well! Love the sound of your profile. Absolutely love the idea of a game of cards against humanity as an icebreaker!
It's the best icebreaker. Can't be shy after a game of CAH"
Yeah I've played a card game with a couple as an icebreaker at a meet which was a lot of fun but definitely think CAH would be a lot better! |
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"I get told I look like momoa . The did keep hitting my shins with a stick while I was petting their dog but I'm counting it as a win.  "
Oh sounds like the same person as said that to me. They were so lovely. They did nearly trip me up with that stick. The dog looked so good in that little jacket as well. |
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Morning all. Its been really encouraging reading the positive things on here so just wanted to spread some more love this Friday morning and see if there are any more women who like a fuller figured man?! (especially in the North!!) |
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It's a shame so many big men, label themselves as 'average' on their profile. I presume they do this because they think that saying they are large will put women off, when in reality it means that they are missing their target audience. |
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"Thanks very much. Not many people on here yet but hope they get the message!
Made me smile anyway. Thanks x
Do you approach women with similar build to your own? And they're not interested? It's 10 to 1 for women. We have alot of choice so you need to stand out of the crowd. I never reply to shallow messages where they clearly haven't read my profile and just want a quick screw with anyone who says yes"
When I messaged you with a polite "Hello we're close if you're interested I'd love to go for a mtb ride" the message was just deleted. Yes you're correct the men outnumber the woman on here and I can only imagine the bombardment of messages from illiterate idiots (I get my fair share of one liners from guys) but I'm fed up with most women's attitude if they're not interested the delete button is an easier option than a simple reply back saying not interested. I'd even feel less offended by "fuck off, you're not my type".
I read every profile I find interesting (on couples profiles if they state 'not interested in single guys' I bypass them) before I look at the photos then re read before I consider sending a message. I really think most single women join here love the fact they get lots of attention and it inflates their egos. If anyone knows any other 'discreet' sites that don't want all your personal details and a credit/debit card payment where women are looking for real discreetful casual reliable one off or regular meets please let me know. |
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For us it seems that a lot are interested in Rhiannon but not in me. Big girls get lots of attention but us big guys seem to be a turn off. We get invited to chat or for socials then people go quiet and make excuses. We understand if your not interested but it's nicer to say than keep someone hanging. And those who do continue to chat are "willing to take one for the team" to get to rhi. It's quite deflating for both of us. Ok I'm big but I don't think I'm that bad looking and from our verifications people seem to like our personalities combined so we don't understand. |
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"It's a shame so many big men, label themselves as 'average' on their profile. I presume they do this because they think that saying they are large will put women off, when in reality it means that they are missing their target audience."
well i'm proud to class myself as large . |
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"So as a bigger build guy, I have been wondering for ages about where to find women who appreciate a fuller figured guy let's say! Not had any luck so far so wondered if anyone has any suggestions.
And if anyone has anything nice to say about larger guys that could be good - appreciate some people love a gym bunny but it takes all sorts and would be nice to hear from those that like a chubby guy! "
Personally this kind of man is far more alluring to me , so sexy x
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"Morning all. Its been really encouraging reading the positive things on here so just wanted to spread some more love this Friday morning and see if there are any more women who like a fuller figured man?! (especially in the North!!) "
Hold on there big fella, before I looked at your profile I was expecting dainty golightly's brother. Your normal, average, no problem. If you were in our age range and closer, we'd meet you.
F&J x |
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By *amseMan
over a year ago
birmingham |
I also fund it very hard to meet women. I’m well built and I don’t do well on pictures at all. However the few times I have meet the impression can be different and clear that I’m also a strong man. So any tips to take good pictures? |
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over a year ago
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"Big guys with a big belly are my favourite "
That's me! I have very lean arms and legs but big belly - drives me mad lol.
BUT - have lost 6kg in 2 months and soon it'll be gone forever  |
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By *BW.EvaWoman
over a year ago
Carrington, Manchester |
I have been a BBW all my adult life, and am afraid of skinny guys. I am drawn to the rugby player build. Also drawn to taller guys. Like a guy to be taller than me when I am in heels.
Also love hairy guys, facial hair, body hair - makes me weak at the knees.
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I've never found my robust build to be a barrier on the scene to be honest. Taste is subjective of course and my built is not everyones cup of tea (and likewise men of other builds will say the same). But never found my build or size to be unusually off putting or undesirable.
It's hard on here for all guys. Often I think guys tend to incorrectly triaging the causes of their woes on here when they blame their bodies. |
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
Maidstone |
"I have been a BBW all my adult life, and am afraid of skinny guys. I am drawn to the rugby player build. Also drawn to taller guys. Like a guy to be taller than me when I am in heels.
Also love hairy guys, facial hair, body hair - makes me weak at the knees.
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Please form an orderly queue madam!
I'm so with you babes... I recently had a handsome hung guy but he was slim... Nay, skinny!
When I hauled my big thighs and ass over his hips to ride him... I was convinced his bones will just snap and crumble ... |
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