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Been back on fab a month and not a bite!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So been back on fab for a month, had lots of fun before! But now not getting any meets! Anyone else getting the same ? Is it the weather lol? "
Maybe add some nicer pictures? I’m local to you but no offence to you but over my age limit xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It does take longer on here than normal life and lots more sausage on offer so lots of competition  "
Ok cool I’ll try that x would u still consider me in any case if your local lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whenever I see a profile cock pic I play 'whack a mole' in my head. Thwack !
I know people are into random sex, I know people are into rough sex. I'd personally never put those things together so yeah I'd find that off-putting.
The whole 'ive been here before, know how it works ' - do you ? Are we all the same ? It sound arrogant and manipulative like it's done kind of game. Not how we'd like to be treated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Could be your looks or personality. No in all seriousness. It takes time. The problem a lot of the time that guys aren’t very confident chatting up women in the real world. So they come to a swinging website thinking that it’s just sex with random strangers and no holds barred fun. And the truth is it’s not like that at all. You still have to be able to conduct yourself correctely and if anything it’s harder to pull because the social side of it is so important and a lot of people lack those skills |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Could be your looks or personality. No in all seriousness. It takes time. The problem a lot of the time that guys aren’t very confident chatting up women in the real world. So they come to a swinging website thinking that it’s just sex with random strangers and no holds barred fun. And the truth is it’s not like that at all. You still have to be able to conduct yourself correctely and if anything it’s harder to pull because the social side of it is so important and a lot of people lack those skills"
Oh so very much this, 90% of messages and profiles are an instant decline/ignore. We don't want anyones big load/we don't meet now/We know C has a big bust / we aren't an experience providor/ we aren't here to help you because the wife has gone off sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So been back on fab for a month, had lots of fun before! But now not getting any meets! Anyone else getting the same ? Is it the weather lol? "
You’ve probably, in error, been messaging frigid bitches. Try pinging off a few messages to some cum hungry slags and you’ll soon see the difference  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for comments guys. Some helpful some not.... I like the cake one 
I try to mix it up to be fair, the profile pic! It’s not up to everyone’s taste so you can fuck off if you don’t like it. Lol
Got a meet next week
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Do u like it rough is a total switch off for us. Just be nice and chatty. And be willing to put the leg work in. Supply and demand. Loads of big hard cocks chasing a fewer number of genuine couples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do u like it rough is a total switch off for us. Just be nice and chatty. And be willing to put the leg work in. Supply and demand. Loads of big hard cocks chasing a fewer number of genuine couples. "
Agreed, it says to us ‘you won’t be treated with respect’. |
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"Thanks for comments guys. Some helpful some not.... I like the cake one
I try to mix it up to be fair, the profile pic! It’s not up to everyone’s taste so you can fuck off if you don’t like it. Lol
Got a meet next week
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Wow yes you ask for advice then that's the attitude they get... I'm saying nothing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ah, see what we have here folks is a classic case of the male returning to a place of previous succes with expectations of similar results whilst not being aware of the change in landscape since his last visit.
Or it could just be the personality thing these lot mentioned up there  |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Ah, see what we have here folks is a classic case of the male returning to a place of previous succes with expectations of similar results whilst not being aware of the change in landscape since his last visit.
Or it could just be the personality thing these lot mentioned up there "
Yup. Definately not helping with his attitude on this thread either. Entitled is the word that springs to mind. I would most definitely avoid after reading this. What the OP needs to remember is that word does spread within the swinging community, both good an bad, same as everywhere else.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ah, see what we have here folks is a classic case of the male returning to a place of previous succes with expectations of similar results whilst not being aware of the change in landscape since his last visit.
Or it could just be the personality thing these lot mentioned up there
Yup. Definately not helping with his attitude on this thread either. Entitled is the word that springs to mind. I would most definitely avoid after reading this. What the OP needs to remember is that word does spread within the swinging community, both good an bad, same as everywhere else. "
Yawn  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wonder due to trust issues if more people just tend to meet at clubs and events these days "
I reckon only people who frequent clubs peddle this nonsense, quite easily have trust issues in any walk of life if someone gives you a reason to. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Ah, see what we have here folks is a classic case of the male returning to a place of previous succes with expectations of similar results whilst not being aware of the change in landscape since his last visit.
Or it could just be the personality thing these lot mentioned up there
Yup. Definately not helping with his attitude on this thread either. Entitled is the word that springs to mind. I would most definitely avoid after reading this. What the OP needs to remember is that word does spread within the swinging community, both good an bad, same as everywhere else.
Yawn "
Awww, tired? Maybe have some warm milk and cookies lol. A nice little nap will help. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why are you getting arsey with people?
You're coming across as arrogant and really quite disrespectful.
You can't expect to ask a question and get all the replies as stuff you want to hear.
By being arrogant it gives this impression.... "I don't give a fuck what you think or want"
Imagine that translated into the bedroom.
She says no
He doesn't care.
Your interactions may not be the way you would behave in person, but they do give an impression.
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