Hi all! I realise lots of people ask this, but I'm coming at it from a slightly different angle. I'm looking for a woman's perspective on my profile please.
The reason I'm asking is that although I do just fine at clubs and organised socials AND get a few profile views each day, I never get messages (.....and I do mean never), nor virtually any response to respectful messages I send with face photos etc. which leads me to several possibilities :
They just don't find me attractive in my photos, or my profile wording is crap (I have tried!). I've considered whether my messages might not be as good as I think and that maybe I come across better in person, hence what success I do get being pretty damn good.
It's quite hard to self-critique, so maybe I'm missing something, but for whatever reason I get zero interest on Fab, so would appreciate any thoughts please ladies. Xx
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I think your profile is pretty good.
I would take out the pixelated and covered pics of your face, it makes your profile look clumsy as there is need for the to be there.
There are a lot of face pics that are all similar - maybe reduce these, they come across as arrogance or conceitedness.
Why the bum pic? I'm not sure what function it serves. That might put people off. |
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"I think your profile is pretty good.
I would take out the pixelated and covered pics of your face, it makes your profile look clumsy as there is need for the to be there.
There are a lot of face pics that are all similar - maybe reduce these, they come across as arrogance or conceitedness.
Why the bum pic? I'm not sure what function it serves. That might put people off. "
Thank you. I'll take that onboard. The pixellated ones were my earlier ones before I plucked up the courage to show my face.
Think maybe I need some new ones. Showing my face was about openness and honesty, but maybe too many as you say. Ta very much!  x |
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"I think your profile is pretty good.
I would take out the pixelated and covered pics of your face, it makes your profile look clumsy as there is need for the to be there.
There are a lot of face pics that are all similar - maybe reduce these, they come across as arrogance or conceitedness.
Why the bum pic? I'm not sure what function it serves. That might put people off.
Thank you. I'll take that onboard. The pixellated ones were my earlier ones before I plucked up the courage to show my face.
Think maybe I need some new ones. Showing my face was about openness and honesty, but maybe too many as you say. Ta very much! x"
No worries. Good luck x |
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Not read you profile
But your black n white photo put me off. Now nosed at your pics your march 18 one is far better.
Current pic looks like an old man..
Just my opinion
Get up to date photo.. |
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"I think your profile is great. You come across as respectful, intelligent and witty. I think you have better pics that you could use as your profile pic tho.  "
Thank you - which would you suggest please? Appreciate you taking the trouble to respond! |
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"Not read you profile
But your black n white photo put me off. Now nosed at your pics your march 18 one is far better.
Current pic looks like an old man..
Just my opinion
Get up to date photo.. "
I agree. As you have so many face pics to choose from. Choose a nicer one.
You're a good looking guy, your profile Is tidy, readable and you've taken time on it. |
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"Not read you profile
But your black n white photo put me off. Now nosed at your pics your march 18 one is far better.
Thank you! Taken onboard and appreciated!
Current pic looks like an old man..
Just my opinion
Get up to date photo.. "
Thank you! Taken onboard and appreciated! |
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"Not read you profile
But your black n white photo put me off. Now nosed at your pics your march 18 one is far better.
Current pic looks like an old man..
Just my opinion
Get up to date photo..
I agree. As you have so many face pics to choose from. Choose a nicer one.
You're a good looking guy, your profile Is tidy, readable and you've taken time on it. "
Thank you very much! Appreciate your help. X |
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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago
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"I think your profile is great. You come across as respectful, intelligent and witty. I think you have better pics that you could use as your profile pic tho.
Thank you - which would you suggest please? Appreciate you taking the trouble to respond! "
Oooh now you've put me on the spot, haven't you. Um..the 3rd or 4th from the 23rd jan, I think. |
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By *edVelveteenCouple
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"I think your profile is great. You come across as respectful, intelligent and witty. I think you have better pics that you could use as your profile pic tho.
Thank you - which would you suggest please? Appreciate you taking the trouble to respond!
Oooh now you've put me on the spot, haven't you. Um..the 3rd or 4th from the 23rd jan, I think."
Although I would have liked to see the one of you in a tie, unpixelated. |
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"I think your profile is great. You come across as respectful, intelligent and witty. I think you have better pics that you could use as your profile pic tho.
Thank you - which would you suggest please? Appreciate you taking the trouble to respond!
Oooh now you've put me on the spot, haven't you. Um..the 3rd or 4th from the 23rd jan, I think."
OK, thank you - didn't mean to do that! Sorry! X |
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"Too many similar photos and none of them are remotely teasing and could be used for a job interview."
Brill! Thank you! This is why I asked. I'm not good with photos of myself and no clue as to what looks good and what doesn't, unless it's someone else's photos! X |
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"I think your profile is great. You come across as respectful, intelligent and witty. I think you have better pics that you could use as your profile pic tho.
Thank you - which would you suggest please? Appreciate you taking the trouble to respond!
Oooh now you've put me on the spot, haven't you. Um..the 3rd or 4th from the 23rd jan, I think.
Although I would have liked to see the one of you in a tie, unpixelated."
OK, I'll sort that! Thank you! x |
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Your status was the first thing I saw: and if put me off as seemed entitled. Therefore, everything under that didn't ring true to me: it appeared you were just spouting the usual generic terms and phrases: but hey...I could be wrong.
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"Your status was the first thing I saw: and if put me off as seemed entitled. Therefore, everything under that didn't ring true to me: it appeared you were just spouting the usual generic terms and phrases: but hey...I could be wrong.
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Aaaaahhh, yes. The status was about someone specific messing with my head a bit. I can see how it could be seen that way. Ty! |
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