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Am I bisexual?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm not torn over this, just curious. I do not fancy guys and I dont like kissing them usually, but I love blowing guys. Just wondered what other fabsters thought?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You are definitely not straight. However, if you want a label, I would say you are orally bi."
Oh cool, thanks Guenevere, I've never heard that before |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not torn over this, just curious. I do not fancy guys and I dont like kissing them usually, but I love blowing guys. Just wondered what other fabsters thought?
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Yepp, you're bi  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You are what you are. Maybe it's because I'm old but I hate that we have to put a label on who we are so we can be put in a box.
We are all individuals and we do what we like and makes us happy so don't worry about it. |
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"You are what you are. Maybe it's because I'm old but I hate that we have to put a label on who we are so we can be put in a box.
We are all individuals and we do what we like and makes us happy so don't worry about it. "
It's a nice idea on the surface but labels are absurdly useful for people to tackle their own thoughts and feelings away from the mainstream. Destroying useful language not necessarily something to aspire to. |
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"I'm not torn over this, just curious. I do not fancy guys and I dont like kissing them usually, but I love blowing guys. Just wondered what other fabsters thought?
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No, you're a man who has sex with other men. Not bi. |
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"I'm not torn over this, just curious. I do not fancy guys and I dont like kissing them usually, but I love blowing guys. Just wondered what other fabsters thought?
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Why label yourself? Just be you. |
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By *adetMan
over a year ago
South of Ipswich |
"I'm not torn over this, just curious. I do not fancy guys and I dont like kissing them usually, but I love blowing guys. Just wondered what other fabsters thought?
Why label yourself? Just be you."
This
Also the 3 main labels of straight, bi or gay can't really describe the whole spectrum of human sexuality |
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I feel the very same, i fancy women but not men in the same way but i love giving bjs and fooling around with men and tvcds, it was only recent enough but once i done it once and liked it there was no turning back |
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You are bi. If you perform a sex act on someone of the same sex, you are not straight. Dosent matter if you want to define it as orally or playfully bi.
Not judging or anything. I just wish people would accept what they are on here, list it properly and enjoy it. Cause less confusion when looking for play mates |
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"I wish people would just be honest with themselves, not a great lover of labels but come on your bi. 
Or is it that you wish people would be what you want to label them? "
No it's just people that need to come to terms with their sexuality and stop hiding behind the term straight. Let's just be honest about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not torn over this, just curious. I do not fancy guys and I dont like kissing them usually, but I love blowing guys. Just wondered what other fabsters thought?
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You're bi hun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not torn over this, just curious. I do not fancy guys and I dont like kissing them usually, but I love blowing guys. Just wondered what other fabsters thought?
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Just enjoy it babe. You don't have to box yourself. Do the things you do like and don't do the things you don't like. It's that simple x |
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"I'm not torn over this, just curious. I do not fancy guys and I dont like kissing them usually, but I love blowing guys. Just wondered what other fabsters thought?
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You appear to have an external locus of evaluation. What I think should not matter an iota to you unless you want me to fancy you. Are yo really worried about the label police?
Mr Icebreaker |
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By *rith47Man
over a year ago
Erith |
"I'm not torn over this, just curious. I do not fancy guys and I dont like kissing them usually, but I love blowing guys. Just wondered what other fabsters thought?
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There are loads and loads of guys who do not fancy men, do not eye them up in the St as they do with women, don't like the thought of kissing or anything else with men....apart from sucking guys off. Yes orally bi is a good term. |
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"You are what you are. Maybe it's because I'm old but I hate that we have to put a label on who we are so we can be put in a box.
We are all individuals and we do what we like and makes us happy so don't worry about it. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Going by your profile and veris the label I’d give you if you needed one is honest as you haven’t put fab straight which for me is a good thing as people have said you are who you are.
If you like cock then great if you like cock and pussy then great if you support West Ham then you can fuck right off.
We are new at this stuff and my wife doesn’t at the moment want to meet bi or bi-curious men but I know with time and a bit of clubbing(not hitting her like a baby seal) this will change but I respect her wishes just like I respect your honesty putting bi-curious on your profile.
Whatever label you fancy enjoy your self, I’m off to start a I like my wife pissing on me thread so does that make me a scuba diver!!!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You are what you are. Maybe it's because I'm old but I hate that we have to put a label on who we are so we can be put in a box.
We are all individuals and we do what we like and makes us happy so don't worry about it. "
This |
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"You are bi. If you perform a sex act on someone of the same sex, you are not straight. Dosent matter if you want to define it as orally or playfully bi.
Not judging or anything. I just wish people would accept what they are on here, list it properly and enjoy it. Cause less confusion when looking for play mates "
I think the problem is all this "it's a label" shit.
It's not a "label", it's a description which is fucking useful when you are looking for people to meet. |
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By *iwynMan
over a year ago
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I would say Bi, a straight guy would not appreciate you touching him let alone sucking him, then some guys love being sucked off by men and women but would not dream of taking a cock in their own mouths. I guess it's like a swing of the pendulum, there are many degrees of travel from one side to the other |
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By *entkevMan
over a year ago
Dover |
Ive never touched another man but i do like to look at cocks, especially if theyre big & impressive, including bbc.
But mainly in porn films when theyre entertaining females.
Ive no attraction to men, however i have accidentally been touched by one in a club room, i thought it was his wife...dont ask. Lol.
And when standing talking to a tv her tv friend who was sitting next to us reached out and grabbed my cock.
I wasnt upset or fazed, i just stepped back.
So what am i.... other than OLD, BALD, SMALL & OVER THE HILL. lol |
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"I'm not torn over this, just curious. I do not fancy guys and I dont like kissing them usually, but I love blowing guys. Just wondered what other fabsters thought?
Just enjoy it babe. You don't have to box yourself. Do the things you do like and don't do the things you don't like. It's that simple x "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not torn over this, just curious. I do not fancy guys and I dont like kissing them usually, but I love blowing guys. Just wondered what other fabsters thought?
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Yes you are bi |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is an common problem I consider myself straight how ever not to long ago I was playing with a couple and while the guys wife was riding me on their sofa the hubby got on his knees and licked my balls and asshole then she lift herself up to let me drop out and into his mouth as I came it was hot as hell and I came loads.
The whole time I couldn't seem him only her and I did jump alittle when he started as it was unexpected but it felt great.
I also dont fancy men I wouldn't suck a cock or kiss a guy but what happened was great but I still think I'm 100% straight.
Some non here may think otherwise |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok it's been well established by several sets of scientific research, that if a man blows another man and
A. They make eye contact
B. They are in any way holding on to each other ..or
C. They swap numbers and go on further dates.
That both men are actually gay.
The only reason this research can be ignored is if both men are in prison at the same time. |
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"I'm not torn over this, just curious. I do not fancy guys and I dont like kissing them usually, but I love blowing guys. Just wondered what other fabsters thought?
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What do you tell them at the sexual health clinic when you go for your check ups? |
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"This is an common problem I consider myself straight how ever not to long ago I was playing with a couple and while the guys wife was riding me on their sofa the hubby got on his knees and licked my balls and asshole then she lift herself up to let me drop out and into his mouth as I came it was hot as hell and I came loads.
The whole time I couldn't seem him only her and I did jump alittle when he started as it was unexpected but it felt great.
I also dont fancy men I wouldn't suck a cock or kiss a guy but what happened was great but I still think I'm 100% straight.
Some non here may think otherwise "
Had they agreed male-to-male contact with you first? Pretty bold move otherwise! (Though sounds very hot to a bi guy like me!) |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
Near Wells |
"I'm not torn over this, just curious. I do not fancy guys and I dont like kissing them usually, but I love blowing guys. Just wondered what other fabsters thought?
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That was me 20 years ago, now a full blown TV, loves kissing guys and would do anything for the right one.
I still fancy regular ladies though. |
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I really get all the "don't label yourself" and I agree that's it's all personal choice and perception. Genuinely don't mind how a person labels themselves.
I like sex with guys and gals so I'm comfortable with bi. And I do get confused by the angst over the bi label. If you like to have sexual contact with both men and women, I reckon that makes you bi. Doesn't mean you have to want a relationship with a guy or fancy them, but I think sucking a guy's cock is pretty intimate!
You can't really be 'curious' once you've already tried something!
No judgement, though - horses for courses! |
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I’m not usually keen on putting labels on people but having accurate descriptive labels for sexuality on a swinging site is i think on balance a good thing. I could claim to be str8 or bi but the fact that I don’t mind who sucks my cock ( as long as they do it well (slow gentle and teasing for me please)), I enjoy reciprocating with a good looking hard member, love a mutual wank (same tastes involved), wouldn’t entertain snogging a bloke, love a strap on but am not up for male on male penetration is (like on my good days) a bit of a mouthful. So I get that labelling myself as orally bi may simplify things. |
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"You are bi. If you perform a sex act on someone of the same sex, you are not straight. Dosent matter if you want to define it as orally or playfully bi.
Not judging or anything. I just wish people would accept what they are on here, list it properly and enjoy it. Cause less confusion when looking for play mates
I think the problem is all this "it's a label" shit.
It's not a "label", it's a description which is fucking useful when you are looking for people to meet."
This exactly |
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"Going by your profile and veris the label I’d give you if you needed one is honest as you haven’t put fab straight which for me is a good thing as people have said you are who you are.
If you like cock then great if you like cock and pussy then great if you support West Ham then you can fuck right off.
We are new at this stuff and my wife doesn’t at the moment want to meet bi or bi-curious men but I know with time and a bit of clubbing(not hitting her like a baby seal) this will change but I respect her wishes just like I respect your honesty putting bi-curious on your profile.
Whatever label you fancy enjoy your self, I’m off to start a I like my wife pissing on me thread so does that make me a scuba diver!!!!!
Tony"
Makes sense , especially the bit about west ham |
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Orally bi / bi playful, if you need a sticker 
exible for this. 
