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"Please could girls critique my profile. I'm only getting messages from couples and guys. Is there something wrong with the profile or simply the size? Kind regards "
Problems:
1. 18 pics, 16 of them of your cock
2. One of your pics shows a cock cage. That's a very specific fetish which the vast majority of women aren't in.
3. Over explicit profile text.
4. You're an average bloke in his forties.
Given the ratios, I'm not surprise no women contact you. There's nothing you can do about 4, but 1-3 can be changed.
But I suspect the reality is you just want people to tell you how pathetically small your cock is... |
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By *av501TV/TS
over a year ago
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"Please could girls critique my profile. I'm only getting messages from couples and guys. Is there something wrong with the profile or simply the size? Kind regards
Problems:
1. 18 pics, 16 of them of your cock
2. One of your pics shows a cock cage. That's a very specific fetish which the vast majority of women aren't in.
3. Over explicit profile text.
4. You're an average bloke in his forties.
Given the ratios, I'm not surprise no women contact you. There's nothing you can do about 4, but 1-3 can be changed.
But I suspect the reality is you just want people to tell you how pathetically small your cock is... "
I thought you was critiqueing this so well until you got to 4. And then launched a personal attack on the guy at the end!!!!! Why bother putting anything at all ?
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"Please could girls critique my profile. I'm only getting messages from couples and guys. Is there something wrong with the profile or simply the size? Kind regards
Problems:
1. 18 pics, 16 of them of your cock
2. One of your pics shows a cock cage. That's a very specific fetish which the vast majority of women aren't in.
3. Over explicit profile text.
4. You're an average bloke in his forties.
Given the ratios, I'm not surprise no women contact you. There's nothing you can do about 4, but 1-3 can be changed.
But I suspect the reality is you just want people to tell you how pathetically small your cock is...
I thought you was critiqueing this so well until you got to 4. And then launched a personal attack on the guy at the end!!!!! Why bother putting anything at all ?
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It's not a personal attack. He is an average guy in his forties. It says so on his profile. Given the ratio of men to women on here average middle aged guys will find it extremely difficult to meet women.
As I said, there's obviously nothing he can do about that, so he should work on the other points. |
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By *av501TV/TS
over a year ago
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"Please could girls critique my profile. I'm only getting messages from couples and guys. Is there something wrong with the profile or simply the size? Kind regards
Problems:
1. 18 pics, 16 of them of your cock
2. One of your pics shows a cock cage. That's a very specific fetish which the vast majority of women aren't in.
3. Over explicit profile text.
4. You're an average bloke in his forties.
Given the ratios, I'm not surprise no women contact you. There's nothing you can do about 4, but 1-3 can be changed.
But I suspect the reality is you just want people to tell you how pathetically small your cock is...
I thought you was critiqueing this so well until you got to 4. And then launched a personal attack on the guy at the end!!!!! Why bother putting anything at all ?
It's not a personal attack. He is an average guy in his forties. It says so on his profile. Given the ratio of men to women on here average middle aged guys will find it extremely difficult to meet women.
As I said, there's obviously nothing he can do about that, so he should work on the other points. "
But I suspect the reality is you just want people to tell you how pathetically small your cock is.
REALLY ! |
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"Please could girls critique my profile. I'm only getting messages from couples and guys. Is there something wrong with the profile or simply the size? Kind regards
Problems:
1. 18 pics, 16 of them of your cock
2. One of your pics shows a cock cage. That's a very specific fetish which the vast majority of women aren't in.
3. Over explicit profile text.
4. You're an average bloke in his forties.
Given the ratios, I'm not surprise no women contact you. There's nothing you can do about 4, but 1-3 can be changed.
But I suspect the reality is you just want people to tell you how pathetically small your cock is...
I thought you was critiqueing this so well until you got to 4. And then launched a personal attack on the guy at the end!!!!! Why bother putting anything at all ?
It's not a personal attack. He is an average guy in his forties. It says so on his profile. Given the ratio of men to women on here average middle aged guys will find it extremely difficult to meet women.
As I said, there's obviously nothing he can do about that, so he should work on the other points.
But I suspect the reality is you just want people to tell you how pathetically small your cock is.
REALLY !"
That's an inference I draw from his emphasis on how small his cock is and that he only wants critiques from women... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Please could girls critique my profile. I'm only getting messages from couples and guys. Is there something wrong with the profile or simply the size? Kind regards
Problems:
1. 18 pics, 16 of them of your cock
2. One of your pics shows a cock cage. That's a very specific fetish which the vast majority of women aren't in.
3. Over explicit profile text."
This  also, you say you're looking to meet women (you don't mention men in your looking for section or bio) yet most of your displayed veris are from males.
And the bareback photos (regular partner or otherwise) are very off putting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us, too many dick pics and your profile has nothing of interest that sticks out, all men say will fuck you til you scream , cum lots, and all this, its a first impression , do you go out to a bar and see a lady and say “hey my dicks hard, i can fuck for hours, ill give you multiple orgasms til you have had enough” what do they do? Walk away, well same here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really why, I was in a relationship with her, I use protection otherwise. Should I mention this on my profile "
You "was" in a relationship? Are you not anymore? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Done, what do you think. Is it better,
Still pics of your ex?.."
I see two issues with this,
Firstly, why do you still have such pics with your ex? Is it for the purpose of sharing them?
Secondly, and this applies to the first, Consent, did she give permission for you to use intimate pics with her in the way you have?
As she's your ex, I very much doubt it, she possibly has no idea and this shows a great deal of disrespect, its an incredibly seedy thing to do. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Done, what do you think. Is it better,
Still pics of your ex?..
I see two issues with this,
Firstly, why do you still have such pics with your ex? Is it for the purpose of sharing them?
Secondly, and this applies to the first, Consent, did she give permission for you to use intimate pics with her in the way you have?
As she's your ex, I very much doubt it, she possibly has no idea and this shows a great deal of disrespect, its an incredibly seedy thing to do. "
Yes consent is necessary, still don't see the need for them on a single profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see you've hidden your verifications from men now, that wasn't really what I meant. Just list that you meet men in your bio or looking for section.
It's fine to like sex with men, just be honest about it so that any potential female partners can make an informed choice as to whether they want to meet you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not looking to meet men, I'm jus open minded to trying new experiences and I have a very high sex drive"
I mean, your veris say you meet men for sex  I'm just going off of what I read.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really why, I was in a relationship with her, I use protection otherwise. Should I mention this on my profile
Hmm..not sure about photos with your ex "
Indeed. I suspect that she's unaware that there are such pictures of her being posted on a site like this.
You have heard of the recent revenge porn legislation I presume OP? |
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"I see you've hidden your verifications from men now, that wasn't really what I meant. Just list that you meet men in your bio or looking for section.
It's fine to like sex with men, just be honest about it so that any potential female partners can make an informed choice as to whether they want to meet you."
Nothing wrong with having sex with men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Really why, I was in a relationship with her, I use protection otherwise. Should I mention this on my profile
Hmm..not sure about photos with your ex
Indeed. I suspect that she's unaware that there are such pictures of her being posted on a site like this.
You have heard of the recent revenge porn legislation I presume OP?"
An issue I also raised earlier |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone wanna check mine?
Im getting nooooo where
2 weeks? You haven't had a chance to get nowhere yet. Your profile is fine. Above average. But frustrated after 2 weeks??? "
Aww thank you. Ok I'll keep trying hopefully something will happen..
Yes getting very frustrated lol.
Never mind... good things come to those who wait so they say xx |
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