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By *heDon12 OP Man
over a year ago
Halesowen |
So, theres a lady I work with (Primary School) and shes the ultimate flirt.
Ive had the horn form her for over a year, 33, craking body, and the ultimate MILF. Shes a parent of two, and has a husband.
We have flirty chat every day, with sly sexual innuendos.
Today i dropped the "whats your fella getting you for Valentines?" line to which she replied, he wants me to get a nurses outfit, which led to a conversationa bout bedroom attire. This is the fursthest we've ever gone in the flirt department, so i pushed it, and asked, "what would you prefer to wear?" to which she said, "i like the ultimate lingerie set, with stockings the lot, but i take it all off too quick. What do you like?" Luckily im sat down cause at this point i want in.
Shes the ultimate cock tease, but i just know shes dirty. Woudlnt surprise me if she's secrelty on here.
So, getting to you guys. should i go for it and get flirtier and try to get it, or back off, its not worth it.
ALSO, she knows my ex. |
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By *heDon12 OP Man
over a year ago
Halesowen |
"Don’t mix work with sex.
Steve, I like your foot. Check out my thumb  "
Just an addition, the work sex combo doesnt phase me, ive slept with 4 girls from work, who have all left, (hopefully nothing to do with me hahaha) |
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"Don’t mix work with sex.
Steve, I like your foot. Check out my thumb
Just an addition, the work sex combo doesnt phase me, ive slept with 4 girls from work, who have all left, (hopefully nothing to do with me hahaha)"
what about her? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Turn up on Valentines Day dressed as a doctor. She'll know that you want to see her as a nurse. Take along a prescription line for authenticity and make her work a twelve hour shift covered in sick. Then smash her backdoor in. By that I mean her arse. Not her backdoor of house. That's criminal damage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, theres a lady I work with (Primary School) and shes the ultimate flirt.
Ive had the horn form her for over a year, 33, craking body, and the ultimate MILF. Shes a parent of two, and has a husband.
We have flirty chat every day, with sly sexual innuendos.
Today i dropped the "whats your fella getting you for Valentines?" line to which she replied, he wants me to get a nurses outfit, which led to a conversationa bout bedroom attire. This is the fursthest we've ever gone in the flirt department, so i pushed it, and asked, "what would you prefer to wear?" to which she said, "i like the ultimate lingerie set, with stockings the lot, but i take it all off too quick. What do you like?" Luckily im sat down cause at this point i want in.
Shes the ultimate cock tease, but i just know shes dirty. Woudlnt surprise me if she's secrelty on here.
So, getting to you guys. should i go for it and get flirtier and try to get it, or back off, its not worth it.
ALSO, she knows my ex."
Shame you are so far away as I could have distracted you from her  |
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By *heDon12 OP Man
over a year ago
Halesowen |
"Turn up on Valentines Day dressed as a doctor. She'll know that you want to see her as a nurse. Take along a prescription line for authenticity and make her work a twelve hour shift covered in sick. Then smash her backdoor in. By that I mean her arse. Not her backdoor of house. That's criminal damage."
This deserves a round of applause.
Fantastic Idea
Fantastic description
Fantastic Bants
Would advise
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When single my (her) rule was always never mix business and pleasure, my career and reputation within work is too great to risk.
I would rather let the teasing be in the minds of the recipients and not in earshot of colleagues.
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"So, theres a lady I work with (Primary School) and shes the ultimate flirt.
Ive had the horn form her for over a year, 33, craking body, and the ultimate MILF. Shes a parent of two, and has a husband.
We have flirty chat every day, with sly sexual innuendos.
Today i dropped the "whats your fella getting you for Valentines?" line to which she replied, he wants me to get a nurses outfit, which led to a conversationa bout bedroom attire. This is the fursthest we've ever gone in the flirt department, so i pushed it, and asked, "what would you prefer to wear?" to which she said, "i like the ultimate lingerie set, with stockings the lot, but i take it all off too quick. What do you like?" Luckily im sat down cause at this point i want in.
Shes the ultimate cock tease, but i just know shes dirty. Woudlnt surprise me if she's secrelty on here.
So, getting to you guys. should i go for it and get flirtier and try to get it, or back off, its not worth it.
ALSO, she knows my ex."
Depends if you want to be the reason for breaking a family apart or not you need to start thinking with your head than what's between your legs especially in the long term and by the sounds of it her man seems put in the effort for their relationship so what gives you the right to ruin that if she likes playing with fire by all means let her but keep yourself clear for your own good |
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By *heDon12 OP Man
over a year ago
Halesowen |
"So, theres a lady I work with (Primary School) and shes the ultimate flirt.
Ive had the horn form her for over a year, 33, craking body, and the ultimate MILF. Shes a parent of two, and has a husband.
We have flirty chat every day, with sly sexual innuendos.
Today i dropped the "whats your fella getting you for Valentines?" line to which she replied, he wants me to get a nurses outfit, which led to a conversationa bout bedroom attire. This is the fursthest we've ever gone in the flirt department, so i pushed it, and asked, "what would you prefer to wear?" to which she said, "i like the ultimate lingerie set, with stockings the lot, but i take it all off too quick. What do you like?" Luckily im sat down cause at this point i want in.
Shes the ultimate cock tease, but i just know shes dirty. Woudlnt surprise me if she's secrelty on here.
So, getting to you guys. should i go for it and get flirtier and try to get it, or back off, its not worth it.
ALSO, she knows my ex.
Depends if you want to be the reason for breaking a family apart or not you need to start thinking with your head than what's between your legs especially in the long term and by the sounds of it her man seems put in the effort for their relationship so what gives you the right to ruin that if she likes playing with fire by all means let her but keep yourself clear for your own good "
Great advice tbf.
Makes sense.
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"they were all single, similar age
very much jsut in my sleep around phase of life, single clubbing lads lads lads and so were they.
shes different"
Different how? Because she is married? Because she has kids? They may have a happy home life & it could just be harmless flirting. I would leave well alone tbh |
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"they were all single, similar age
very much jsut in my sleep around phase of life, single clubbing lads lads lads and so were they.
shes different
Different how? Because she is married? Because she has kids? They may have a happy home life & it could just be harmless flirting. I would leave well alone tbh "
You just made my point do much simpler lol |
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By *heDon12 OP Man
over a year ago
Halesowen |
"they were all single, similar age
very much jsut in my sleep around phase of life, single clubbing lads lads lads and so were they.
shes different
Different how? Because she is married? Because she has kids? They may have a happy home life & it could just be harmless flirting. I would leave well alone tbh "
Different as in shes got personality and character and humour. Like i have feelings for her.
Shes forver moaning (like most couples do) about her fella, and the way she is with me makes me think shes not that interested, is what i meant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chase your dreams.. "
Carry on with the flirting and leave it at that, don’t take it any further..
Why risk a bit of harmless fun for something that could go very wrong? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chase your dreams..
This was my thinking. I dont really have anything to lose. "
I know someone else who was in the same situation. He thought he was in and started sending her sexual texts and even a cock pic.
It didn't go well at all. |
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"Leave her alone is my advice. But you will continue thinking with your dick.
If i as thinking with my dick i would have already have dicked her..."
*facepalm* just because she flirts doesn't mean she actually wants your dick which from your post you are quite clearly thinking with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't listen to other folk. She's clearly gagging for it. Go into the staffroom tomorrow and cum all over the seat she normally sits on. Makes your intentions clear. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Leave her alone is my advice. But you will continue thinking with your dick.
If i as thinking with my dick i would have already have dicked her..."
Really? You would of all ready slept with her.
How do you work that out lol. |
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Having spent time as a volunteer in a Primary School, I was told I needed to sign a number of declarations about school policy. One was to prevent any inappropriate behaviour or speech between m_mbers of staff. Did you not have to sign something similar? |
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"Don't listen to other folk. She's clearly gagging for it. Go into the staffroom tomorrow and cum all over the seat she normally sits on. Makes your intentions clear."
Howling! This is the best advice so far!  |
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"Having spent time as a volunteer in a Primary School, I was told I needed to sign a number of declarations about school policy. One was to prevent any inappropriate behaviour or speech between m_mbers of staff. Did you not have to sign something similar?"
Yes, a primary school of all places seems like a way for a very bad idea to become an outrageously stupid idea. |
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over a year ago
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"Having spent time as a volunteer in a Primary School, I was told I needed to sign a number of declarations about school policy. One was to prevent any inappropriate behaviour or speech between m_mbers of staff. Did you not have to sign something similar?"
He ain’t bothered about the husband so what’s a bit of paper to the stud  |
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By *heDon12 OP Man
over a year ago
Halesowen |
"Having spent time as a volunteer in a Primary School, I was told I needed to sign a number of declarations about school policy. One was to prevent any inappropriate behaviour or speech between m_mbers of staff. Did you not have to sign something similar?"
No, what school was that?! |
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By *heDon12 OP Man
over a year ago
Halesowen |
Im finding this hilarious that everyones thinking im a 'stud' and home wrecker. All ive said is should i carry on flirting hahaha, some people on here are jokes.
Ive just found out she likes sexy lingerie not pegged her husband! |
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By *heDon12 OP Man
over a year ago
Halesowen |
"Having spent time as a volunteer in a Primary School, I was told I needed to sign a number of declarations about school policy. One was to prevent any inappropriate behaviour or speech between m_mbers of staff. Did you not have to sign something similar?
Yes, a primary school of all places seems like a way for a very bad idea to become an outrageously stupid idea."
I wasnt planning on shagging her in the PE shed?! |
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"Having spent time as a volunteer in a Primary School, I was told I needed to sign a number of declarations about school policy. One was to prevent any inappropriate behaviour or speech between m_mbers of staff. Did you not have to sign something similar?
No, what school was that?!"
Every school, as far as I am aware. What you are doing would lead to a disciplinary situation at the very least. |
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"they were all single, similar age
very much jsut in my sleep around phase of life, single clubbing lads lads lads and so were they.
shes different
Different how? Because she is married? Because she has kids? They may have a happy home life & it could just be harmless flirting. I would leave well alone tbh
Different as in shes got personality and character and humour. Like i have feelings for her.
Shes forver moaning (like most couples do) about her fella, and the way she is with me makes me think shes not that interested, is what i meant."
That's part of being together it's normal for couples to have disagreements but that doesn't mean the solution is 5 mins of fun with someone else |
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By *heDon12 OP Man
over a year ago
Halesowen |
"Don’t mix work with sex.
We're buggered then. We work together. And sometimes mixing work with sex is jolly good fun "
Yeah good on you two! Spend more time with colleagues at work then you do with partners and loved ones. makes sense! |
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By *heDon12 OP Man
over a year ago
Halesowen |
"Having spent time as a volunteer in a Primary School, I was told I needed to sign a number of declarations about school policy. One was to prevent any inappropriate behaviour or speech between m_mbers of staff. Did you not have to sign something similar?
No, what school was that?!
Every school, as far as I am aware. What you are doing would lead to a disciplinary situation at the very least."
Soz boss.
Load of bollocks mate, three partnerships in my setting were met and formed at work. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Im finding this hilarious that everyones thinking im a 'stud' and home wrecker. All ive said is should i carry on flirting hahaha, some people on here are jokes.
Ive just found out she likes sexy lingerie not pegged her husband!"
You didn't say you should just carry on flirting, you said should you try to 'get it'.
It's a terrible idea, have respect for yourself, her, her husband and kids and keep your dick to yourself in regards to colleagues. |
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Noone worth losing a job over. Plus do you know she has a consenting husband? She's probably flirting just for an ego boost etc The panel of judges warn you NO so up to you how you gamble your fate... Good luck |
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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"Turn up on Valentines Day dressed as a doctor. She'll know that you want to see her as a nurse. Take along a prescription line for authenticity and make her work a twelve hour shift covered in sick. Then smash her backdoor in. By that I mean her arse. Not her backdoor of house. That's criminal damage."
You legend  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chase your dreams..
This was my thinking. I dont really have anything to lose. "
Except, perhaps, your job.
And in any case, you may think that you have nothing to lose but the same can not be said for her. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Chase your dreams..
This was my thinking. I dont really have anything to lose. "
You don't. She does, so does her husband. And their kids. Have you no morals? Shocked that you even have to ask on here tbh.  |
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Be wary of flirtatious women in the work place with husbands. You can sometimes end up looking foolish when your advances are rejected.
Having said that she's as responsible as you are for the situation you're in now so she might be up for it.
If you're sure she's as keen as you are, go ahead. You're not the first (as you say yourself) to have a workplace affair and you won't be the last. You will be no more responsible for the fall out (if there is any, there often as isn't) than she is.
As an aside I wouldn't be saying the type of establishment I work in, people can be very odd. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just...
Don't
Think it through, what if it gets messy, you both work there.
Stop flirting and see what happens, just be friendly but no flirting at ALL.
YOU might be looking for harmless NSA sex, she might SEEM to but actually doesn't.
Be good, you can ignore it. Find someone else. |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
"So, theres a lady I work with (Primary School) and shes the ultimate flirt.
Ive had the horn form her for over a year, 33, craking body, and the ultimate MILF. Shes a parent of two, and has a husband.
We have flirty chat every day, with sly sexual innuendos.
Today i dropped the "whats your fella getting you for Valentines?" line to which she replied, he wants me to get a nurses outfit, which led to a conversationa bout bedroom attire. This is the fursthest we've ever gone in the flirt department, so i pushed it, and asked, "what would you prefer to wear?" to which she said, "i like the ultimate lingerie set, with stockings the lot, but i take it all off too quick. What do you like?" Luckily im sat down cause at this point i want in.
Shes the ultimate cock tease, but i just know shes dirty. Woudlnt surprise me if she's secrelty on here.
So, getting to you guys. should i go for it and get flirtier and try to get it, or back off, its not worth it.
ALSO, she knows my ex."
Do you work together? If you do, back off. Pronto.
My husband indulged in this “harmless” office banter and it cost him a disciplinary investigation that went on for nearly a year, almost a divorce and the loss of his job.
Not worth it AT ALL. |
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"So, theres a lady I work with (Primary School) and shes the ultimate flirt.
Ive had the horn form her for over a year, 33, craking body, and the ultimate MILF. Shes a parent of two, and has a husband.
We have flirty chat every day, with sly sexual innuendos.
Today i dropped the "whats your fella getting you for Valentines?" line to which she replied, he wants me to get a nurses outfit, which led to a conversationa bout bedroom attire. This is the fursthest we've ever gone in the flirt department, so i pushed it, and asked, "what would you prefer to wear?" to which she said, "i like the ultimate lingerie set, with stockings the lot, but i take it all off too quick. What do you like?" Luckily im sat down cause at this point i want in.
Shes the ultimate cock tease, but i just know shes dirty. Woudlnt surprise me if she's secrelty on here.
So, getting to you guys. should i go for it and get flirtier and try to get it, or back off, its not worth it.
ALSO, she knows my ex."
Nope it will cause problems. Plenty more ladies about for you OP...... |
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over a year ago
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"So, theres a lady I work with (Primary School) and shes the ultimate flirt.
Ive had the horn form her for over a year, 33, craking body, and the ultimate MILF. Shes a parent of two, and has a husband.
We have flirty chat every day, with sly sexual innuendos.
Today i dropped the "whats your fella getting you for Valentines?" line to which she replied, he wants me to get a nurses outfit, which led to a conversationa bout bedroom attire. This is the fursthest we've ever gone in the flirt department, so i pushed it, and asked, "what would you prefer to wear?" to which she said, "i like the ultimate lingerie set, with stockings the lot, but i take it all off too quick. What do you like?" Luckily im sat down cause at this point i want in.
Shes the ultimate cock tease, but i just know shes dirty. Woudlnt surprise me if she's secrelty on here.
So, getting to you guys. should i go for it and get flirtier and try to get it, or back off, its not worth it.
ALSO, she knows my ex."
No
Your thinking with your little brain and not your big brain |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I’d say I’d love to see you in said lingerie I’m sure you’d look stunning with that body......it then tests if she’s receptive or just a tease and you never know......just don’t go breaking up a marriage |
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Sure she could be doing this to make a laugh at you when she goes home back to her man they could be almost pissing themselves with the amusement and you will have no clue then you try get it as you say then be floored by the husband and you still end up with nothing except a nice shiner for your troubles |
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By *lan157Man
over a year ago
a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex |
Go ahead if you want to responsible for the breakup of her marriage and family. It happens all the time in work places .You think you are being discreet but your work colleagues will work it out before long then it's a slippery slope . |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Go ahead if you want to responsible for the breakup of her marriage and family. It happens all the time in work places .You think you are being discreet but your work colleagues will work it out before long then it's a slippery slope . "
Yes I've seen it, children ended up in a broken marriage and one worker was moved... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She's married mate and her husband is clearly giving her the attention she needs with her new outfit . I would just keep to flirting and leave it at that . There's plenty single people in this world without trying to ruin someone else's life. I've been that husband that had his heart broken by my ex wife and I would never want to put someone through that. |
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"Personally I’d say I’d love to see you in said lingerie I’m sure you’d look stunning with that body......it then tests if she’s receptive or just a tease and you never know......just don’t go breaking up a marriage"
..and end up in a disciplinary for sexual harassment.
Rules concerning sexual harassment in the workplace aren't a new thing. They've been around for years. I find it absolutely gob smacking that anyone still thinks that they can get away with such behaviour or even that they think it's acceptable or even harmless. |
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"Personally I’d say I’d love to see you in said lingerie I’m sure you’d look stunning with that body......it then tests if she’s receptive or just a tease and you never know......just don’t go breaking up a marriage
..and end up in a disciplinary for sexual harassment.
Rules concerning sexual harassment in the workplace aren't a new thing. They've been around for years. I find it absolutely gob smacking that anyone still thinks that they can get away with such behaviour or even that they think it's acceptable or even harmless. "
The fact this is happening in a primary school is crazy like if the husband was to find out what he's upto comes in clocks him one traumatising any child present all because this guy wants 5 mins of fun schools just don't tolerate that kind of behaviour but please correct me if I'm wrong lol |
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"Personally I’d say I’d love to see you in said lingerie I’m sure you’d look stunning with that body......it then tests if she’s receptive or just a tease and you never know......just don’t go breaking up a marriage
..and end up in a disciplinary for sexual harassment.
Rules concerning sexual harassment in the workplace aren't a new thing. They've been around for years. I find it absolutely gob smacking that anyone still thinks that they can get away with such behaviour or even that they think it's acceptable or even harmless. "
She's happily told him that she's getting a nurses outfit but would prefer lingerie. |
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over a year ago
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"She's married mate and her husband is clearly giving her the attention she needs with her new outfit . I would just keep to flirting and leave it at that . There's plenty single people in this world without trying to ruin someone else's life. I've been that husband that had his heart broken by my ex wife and I would never want to put someone through that. "
Definitely not worth it.
(It will actually end up fucking you up too.)
There are much better ways to get laid. |
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"Personally I’d say I’d love to see you in said lingerie I’m sure you’d look stunning with that body......it then tests if she’s receptive or just a tease and you never know......just don’t go breaking up a marriage
..and end up in a disciplinary for sexual harassment.
Rules concerning sexual harassment in the workplace aren't a new thing. They've been around for years. I find it absolutely gob smacking that anyone still thinks that they can get away with such behaviour or even that they think it's acceptable or even harmless.
The fact this is happening in a primary school is crazy like if the husband was to find out what he's upto comes in clocks him one traumatising any child present all because this guy wants 5 mins of fun schools just don't tolerate that kind of behaviour but please correct me if I'm wrong lol"
Schools don't tolerate adults hitting each other for sure. It's a giant leap from flirting to fisticuffs though |
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"So, theres a lady I work with (Primary School) and shes the ultimate flirt.
Ive had the horn form her for over a year, 33, craking body, and the ultimate MILF. Shes a parent of two, and has a husband.
We have flirty chat every day, with sly sexual innuendos.
Today i dropped the "whats your fella getting you for Valentines?" line to which she replied, he wants me to get a nurses outfit, which led to a conversationa bout bedroom attire. This is the fursthest we've ever gone in the flirt department, so i pushed it, and asked, "what would you prefer to wear?" to which she said, "i like the ultimate lingerie set, with stockings the lot, but i take it all off too quick. What do you like?" Luckily im sat down cause at this point i want in.
Shes the ultimate cock tease, but i just know shes dirty. Woudlnt surprise me if she's secrelty on here.
So, getting to you guys. should i go for it and get flirtier and try to get it, or back off, its not worth it.
ALSO, she knows my ex."
Best advice I can give you is
Take your face pics down. You work in a school! |
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"Personally I’d say I’d love to see you in said lingerie I’m sure you’d look stunning with that body......it then tests if she’s receptive or just a tease and you never know......just don’t go breaking up a marriage
..and end up in a disciplinary for sexual harassment.
Rules concerning sexual harassment in the workplace aren't a new thing. They've been around for years. I find it absolutely gob smacking that anyone still thinks that they can get away with such behaviour or even that they think it's acceptable or even harmless.
The fact this is happening in a primary school is crazy like if the husband was to find out what he's upto comes in clocks him one traumatising any child present all because this guy wants 5 mins of fun schools just don't tolerate that kind of behaviour but please correct me if I'm wrong lol
Schools don't tolerate adults hitting each other for sure. It's a giant leap from flirting to fisticuffs though "
It is but the school would find out what it's over and I presume disciplinary actions would follow is it really worth tarnishing a hard worked career |
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"Personally I’d say I’d love to see you in said lingerie I’m sure you’d look stunning with that body......it then tests if she’s receptive or just a tease and you never know......just don’t go breaking up a marriage
..and end up in a disciplinary for sexual harassment.
Rules concerning sexual harassment in the workplace aren't a new thing. They've been around for years. I find it absolutely gob smacking that anyone still thinks that they can get away with such behaviour or even that they think it's acceptable or even harmless.
The fact this is happening in a primary school is crazy like if the husband was to find out what he's upto comes in clocks him one traumatising any child present all because this guy wants 5 mins of fun schools just don't tolerate that kind of behaviour but please correct me if I'm wrong lol
Schools don't tolerate adults hitting each other for sure. It's a giant leap from flirting to fisticuffs though
It is but the school would find out what it's over and I presume disciplinary actions would follow is it really worth tarnishing a hard worked career "
What you describe is one possible outcome. There are many others including her just being a natural flirt with no intention of doing anything more. |
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"Personally I’d say I’d love to see you in said lingerie I’m sure you’d look stunning with that body......it then tests if she’s receptive or just a tease and you never know......just don’t go breaking up a marriage
..and end up in a disciplinary for sexual harassment.
Rules concerning sexual harassment in the workplace aren't a new thing. They've been around for years. I find it absolutely gob smacking that anyone still thinks that they can get away with such behaviour or even that they think it's acceptable or even harmless.
The fact this is happening in a primary school is crazy like if the husband was to find out what he's upto comes in clocks him one traumatising any child present all because this guy wants 5 mins of fun schools just don't tolerate that kind of behaviour but please correct me if I'm wrong lol
Schools don't tolerate adults hitting each other for sure. It's a giant leap from flirting to fisticuffs though
It is but the school would find out what it's over and I presume disciplinary actions would follow is it really worth tarnishing a hard worked career
What you describe is one possible outcome. There are many others including her just being a natural flirt with no intention of doing anything more."
Of course this could be normal behaviour for her and she sees no harm in it which is perfectly fine but by the sound of this guy the thing dangling between his legs seems to be doing all the thinking lol |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
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"So, theres a lady I work with (Primary School) and shes the ultimate flirt.
Ive had the horn form her for over a year, 33, craking body, and the ultimate MILF. Shes a parent of two, and has a husband.
We have flirty chat every day, with sly sexual innuendos.
Today i dropped the "whats your fella getting you for Valentines?" line to which she replied, he wants me to get a nurses outfit, which led to a conversationa bout bedroom attire. This is the fursthest we've ever gone in the flirt department, so i pushed it, and asked, "what would you prefer to wear?" to which she said, "i like the ultimate lingerie set, with stockings the lot, but i take it all off too quick. What do you like?" Luckily im sat down cause at this point i want in.
Shes the ultimate cock tease, but i just know shes dirty. Woudlnt surprise me if she's secrelty on here.
So, getting to you guys. should i go for it and get flirtier and try to get it, or back off, its not worth it.
ALSO, she knows my ex."
Yeah go for it ask her if she and her partner would like you to join them for a 3 sum this valentines. She might say yes or most probably she might report you to HR but hey you only live once |
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By *heDon12 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Sure she could be doing this to make a laugh at you when she goes home back to her man they could be almost pissing themselves with the amusement and you will have no clue then you try get it as you say then be floored by the husband and you still end up with nothing except a nice shiner for your troubles "
Get a load of this guy |
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By *heDon12 OP Man
over a year ago
Halesowen |
So the conclusion is this.
Lots of you clearly never have worked in a school, and also make a lot of rubbish up.
Secondly, shouts to the guys that actually made sense and not tried to call people out.
The thread was titled, advice. Not “Am i dick?”
With said advice, from a few, you have swayed me to keep my nut down and crack on.
To those who think schools are different work places to others because kids are there... we have things called staff rooms. We also are adults. We all also have genitals. Im glad your podiums of superiority are still shining bright.
Good day ????
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I’d stay clear. She might flirt a lot but you could find it quickly changes if you try to take it further and it will be super awkward.
Make sure at the very least that you don’t do anything that leaves a paper trail aka sending nudes or dirty texts. Could get you in trouble with work if she wants you gone after because she feels awkward.
I worked in a restaurant years ago and a man at a work party was accused of sexual assault because he had sex with a married woman in the toilets, but it all came out that she just didn’t want her husband to think she’d willingly cheated.
Be careful mate as it can go really wrong really easy. Stay safe! |
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"Cheers dude!
Gonna stay away, but nothing stops a harmless flirt and a glance now and again  "
Bet she loves it I think she has probably thought about you when she shouldn't have if you find out they are on here then why not ... you are all adults |
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"Personally I’d say I’d love to see you in said lingerie I’m sure you’d look stunning with that body......it then tests if she’s receptive or just a tease and you never know......just don’t go breaking up a marriage
..and end up in a disciplinary for sexual harassment.
Rules concerning sexual harassment in the workplace aren't a new thing. They've been around for years. I find it absolutely gob smacking that anyone still thinks that they can get away with such behaviour or even that they think it's acceptable or even harmless.
The fact this is happening in a primary school is crazy like if the husband was to find out what he's upto comes in clocks him one traumatising any child present all because this guy wants 5 mins of fun schools just don't tolerate that kind of behaviour but please correct me if I'm wrong lol
Schools don't tolerate adults hitting each other for sure. It's a giant leap from flirting to fisticuffs though
It is but the school would find out what it's over and I presume disciplinary actions would follow is it really worth tarnishing a hard worked career
What you describe is one possible outcome. There are many others including her just being a natural flirt with no intention of doing anything more.
Of course this could be normal behaviour for her and she sees no harm in it which is perfectly fine but by the sound of this guy the thing dangling between his legs seems to be doing all the thinking lol"
in my opinion it isn't perfectly fine for a woman to behave like that unless she makes it clear that she's just flirting. If she has no intention of taking things further she should shut the conversation down |
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"So the conclusion is this.
Lots of you clearly never have worked in a school, and also make a lot of rubbish up.
Secondly, shouts to the guys that actually made sense and not tried to call people out.
The thread was titled, advice. Not “Am i dick?”
With said advice, from a few, you have swayed me to keep my nut down and crack on.
To those who think schools are different work places to others because kids are there... we have things called staff rooms. We also are adults. We all also have genitals. Im glad your podiums of superiority are still shining bright.
Good day ????
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schools are different because there are kids there. That's why I and another poster suggested that you reconsider advertising the fact that you work in one |
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By *heDon12 OP Man
over a year ago
Halesowen |
"So the conclusion is this.
Lots of you clearly never have worked in a school, and also make a lot of rubbish up.
Secondly, shouts to the guys that actually made sense and not tried to call people out.
The thread was titled, advice. Not “Am i dick?”
With said advice, from a few, you have swayed me to keep my nut down and crack on.
To those who think schools are different work places to others because kids are there... we have things called staff rooms. We also are adults. We all also have genitals. Im glad your podiums of superiority are still shining bright.
Good day ????
schools are different because there are kids there. That's why I and another poster suggested that you reconsider advertising the fact that you work in one "
Dont rem_mber saying which specific school or where?
So teachers cant have relationships and sex? |
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By *heDon12 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Cheers dude!
Gonna stay away, but nothing stops a harmless flirt and a glance now and again
Bet she loves it I think she has probably thought about you when she shouldn't have if you find out they are on here then why not ... you are all adults "
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
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Flirty banter is one thing, a sexual liaison is something entirely different. Only you know the path that this is on OP.
What I will say is that schools are generally a hot bed of affairs and encounters. It rarely ends well, I'd stay away if it were me.
This happened in a school I work in, the husband came in and chinned the other bloke in reception.
I work on the basis that I don't want my actions to be responsible for making someone feel sad. So she sounds like she's happily married (we all whine) so I'd step away. |
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"So the conclusion is this.
Lots of you clearly never have worked in a school, and also make a lot of rubbish up.
Secondly, shouts to the guys that actually made sense and not tried to call people out.
The thread was titled, advice. Not “Am i dick?”
With said advice, from a few, you have swayed me to keep my nut down and crack on.
To those who think schools are different work places to others because kids are there... we have things called staff rooms. We also are adults. We all also have genitals. Im glad your podiums of superiority are still shining bright.
Good day ????
schools are different because there are kids there. That's why I and another poster suggested that you reconsider advertising the fact that you work in one
Dont rem_mber saying which specific school or where?
So teachers cant have relationships and sex?"
I haven't said that.
People get very odd about who is around their children, they require different standards from education professionals than they do even from themselves. A disgruntled, hypocritical parent could make a teacher's position very difficult.
However you must do as you think fit but as you're at the start of your career the precaution of hiding your face and any identifying features would seem sensible to me.
In the interests of research google Lydia Ferguson |
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By *heDon12 OP Man
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I think a few people have missed the part where i said sexual interactions and relationships, do and have happened in schools. If you think they don't, and havent at maybe yours or your child's school then think again.
The lectures about my profession and standards ect have nothing to do with the issue.
Its getting a bit boring. |
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"I think a few people have missed the part where i said sexual interactions and relationships, do and have happened in schools. If you think they don't, and havent at maybe yours or your child's school then think again.
The lectures about my profession and standards ect have nothing to do with the issue.
Its getting a bit boring."
Trust me both of us are well aware of what goes on in education.
Best wishes whatever you decide
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"Don’t mix work with sex.
Steve, I like your foot. Check out my thumb
Just an addition, the work sex combo doesnt phase me, ive slept with 4 girls from work, who have all left, (hopefully nothing to do with me hahaha)"
This comes across as prolific!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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hey its your life and people flirt that is life but shes married with kids and shes your colleague, if you've been flirting for a year shes obviously not going to take it further shes just enjoying your attention, its like being here for many women lots of attention and the choice is always theirs, the potential of a negative ending is too high just go for someone single and keep her as a friend |
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