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Can't attract any women....critique my profile?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No photos, no info. No idea what you’re like as a person. It’s a profile that sadly, we’d simply skip past.
Add some photos, not of your cock no one wants to see that. Add more about yourself. I know you’re looking for NSA, but us personally we don’t sleep with strangers. Regardless of how many strings are attached or detached. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also, to add to what others have, change the age range for your target audience, would you really meet someone in thier 90s??
Your profile comes across as lazy and can't be arsed, if you can't pay proper attention to setting up a half decent profile, it won't inspire those you hope to meet. |
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" Your profile comes across as lazy and can't be arsed.... "
and I would add entitled also...
11 months on FAB! No excuse not to develop your profile, build a photo gallery. Build a social network through visiting local events, clubs and socials...
Poor show...
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You're an "average" middle aged bloke which puts you right at the bottom of the fabs food chain I am afraid . Add to that one not very good pic and no information about you in your profile means that every woman you message is likely to delete your message and move on to the next one.
As others have said you need to add some more tasteful pics showing your physique and say something about yourself that makes you seem interesting and not a sex pest (not saying you are but that's out lots of guys come across on here).
I'd also drop the status update. Asking for a woman to come to your hotel room will turn off 99%. It sounds like you want a free prostitute. |
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Here’s some guff...
“No man is an island entire of itself;
every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main;
if a clod be washed away by the sea,
Europe is the less, as well as if a promontory were, as well as any manner of thy friends or of thine
own were; any man's death diminishes me,
because I am involved in mankind.
And therefore never send to know for whom
the bell tolls; it tolls for thee....”
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi
So, my pc is downloading a game update ...soooo slowly... Fab forum it is.
You asked for advice 3 days ago but I don't think you've taken any on board. I noted something nobody else has mentioned that might be putting those not inclined ( a large amount of people ) OFF. That _ ts. It can often stand for trans sexual . Yes, I know, there's no indication in pics or your profile that you are but you really do have SECONDS to make an impression. People skim read, they may see the TS and skip by.
As for your profile, the only attractive skimpy thing on fab is underwear...you need to make loads more effort but you know that really don't you. Feather your nest !!
Good luck |
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"Hi
Im struggling to attract any women for nsa fun so I wondered if you could critique my profile and offer any suggestions for improvements?
But if you like it come and talk!"
Profile no different from the masses of male profiles on the site.
You are a male sardine in a tin crammed full of other male sardines.
You need to be a halibut on the fish counter. Not a sardine.
(Hey, got bored, with the usual lines, so mixed the metaphors up a little, sue me!!   ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be aware of the green arrow is my advice your many meet now forum posts and current update will be off putting to most it can come across desperate and disrespectful
Also highlights your assumptions this is an easy sex site when the reality indicates the opposite
Don’t play the numbers game use the site to find socials and put the effort in to actually speak face to face with people the sex will follow unless you’re a complete creep  |
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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago
Fairy Land |
First thing anyone sees is the user name, the ‘ts’ could lead people to make assumptions.
The photo is uninspiring, it only takes a little effort to take some good selfies (avoid a catalogue of dick pics)
The age range is unrealistic.
The bio is unremarkable.
If you are too lazy to make the effort to present yourself in an enticing manner, how much effort would you be arsed to put into a meet?
Something about the whole profile and forum history leads me to think you’re married or attached. Can’t quite put my finger on what. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi
Im struggling to attract any women for nsa fun so I wondered if you could critique my profile and offer any suggestions for improvements?
But if you like it come and talk!"
not an awful lot there to see only one pic and no info about you, your profile is your advert and it needs to be the best it can be   |
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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago
North of Okehampton, South of Bideford |
Just a pair of blue pants and not really a lot going on on your bio.
For us as you are verified, why not at least show your summary?
Is it by meeting or by webcam |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same here pick points with mine if you will been on here 3 years or more on and off mostly on divorced single fit healthy considered handsome but to no avail |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just try a new approach...there are 1000's of horny sex starved men on here all looking for sexual gratification. Start of slow with say ...mutal masturbation and see how it goes. Then maybe a blow job or 2 ... just remember it's only gay if you kiss or make eye contact. Good luck  |
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I'm in a couple, but have met a few women from here one on one.
I'd say the secret is to engage women in a non sexual way. So, chat in the forum and send pms to women you appear to getting on with. Be alert to signals that indicate where she might want to take things and don't be pushy.
I'd say that whilst women want a basic level of physical attractiveness, what generally attracts them is men who can maintain a good conversation and who seem interested in them rather than just seeing them as a generic vagina holder. |
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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago
London |
"I'm in a couple, but have met a few women from here one on one.
I'd say the secret is to engage women in a non sexual way. So, chat in the forum and send pms to women you appear to getting on with. Be alert to signals that indicate where she might want to take things and don't be pushy.
I'd say that whilst women want a basic level of physical attractiveness, what generally attracts them is men who can maintain a good conversation and who seem interested in them rather than just seeing them as a generic vagina holder. "
Lmfao @ vagina holder  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi
Im struggling to attract any women for nsa fun so I wondered if you could critique my profile and offer any suggestions for improvements?
But if you like it come and talk!"
Wtf are those pants? I'm straight but that's not a good look  |
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I wish majority of fab profiles could read these advices... My life and others be in such a better place. So many blocks, deletes, no thanks I have to do because of under developed profiles, gets so discouraging. |
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"All guys have this issue including myself and even with a decent profile it’s still hard work and a numbers game really . "
Your saying this after reading the thread and you cant see what's wrong ?? |
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By *niper oneMan
over a year ago
DERBY/Notts border |
"Hi
Im struggling to attract any women for nsa fun so I wondered if you could critique my profile and offer any suggestions for improvements?
But if you like it come and talk!"
Mate its easier on POF and the end products the same if not better you could have the best profile in the world and it dont mean jack.Even women you wouldnt look at twice in town on a saturday night get 1000s of messages a week on here if you want fun POF is the way and most on here are on there. |
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"Hi
Im struggling to attract any women for nsa fun so I wondered if you could critique my profile and offer any suggestions for improvements?
But if you like it come and talk!Mate its easier on POF and the end products the same if not better you could have the best profile in the world and it dont mean jack.Even women you wouldnt look at twice in town on a saturday night get 1000s of messages a week on here if you want fun POF is the way and most on here are on there."
must be so frustrating for straight men on here , well I'm told that so often anyway |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"Hi
Im struggling to attract any women for nsa fun so I wondered if you could critique my profile and offer any suggestions for improvements?
But if you like it come and talk!"
. It can be hard for a single middle aged guy on this site but not impossible if you make some changes.You need to add more pictures and perhaps be a bit brave and have face picture.In your profile you need add some of your interests perhaps a bit more of what you are looking for and what you have to offer.You should consider attending socials and clubs and give out verification and in return you should get some back that should help people see you are a friendly , social guy. |
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"Hi
So, my pc is downloading a game update ...soooo slowly... Fab forum it is.
You asked for advice 3 days ago but I don't think you've taken any on board. I noted something nobody else has mentioned that might be putting those not inclined ( a large amount of people ) OFF. That _ ts. It can often stand for trans sexual . Yes, I know, there's no indication in pics or your profile that you are but you really do have SECONDS to make an impression. People skim read, they may see the TS and skip by.
As for your profile, the only attractive skimpy thing on fab is underwear...you need to make loads more effort but you know that really don't you. Feather your nest !!
Good luck"
I saw the TS and was wondering.
It may be his initials but it's ambiguous unless he explains.
But the rest is middle of the road, non offensive, but nothing that stands out.
It's more colourful than some profiles but it's still beige. |
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"Hi
Im struggling to attract any women for nsa fun so I wondered if you could critique my profile and offer any suggestions for improvements?
But if you like it come and talk!Mate its easier on POF and the end products the same if not better you could have the best profile in the world and it dont mean jack.Even women you wouldnt look at twice in town on a saturday night get 1000s of messages a week on here if you want fun POF is the way and most on here are on there."
I used to be on pof and no way i would sleep with anyone on there unless I was 100% sure they wanted a relationship not just sex that sites supposed to be for ppl looking for love you men make it so hard with your lies |
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"Hi
Im struggling to attract any women for nsa fun so I wondered if you could critique my profile and offer any suggestions for improvements?
But if you like it come and talk!Mate its easier on POF and the end products the same if not better you could have the best profile in the world and it dont mean jack.Even women you wouldnt look at twice in town on a saturday night get 1000s of messages a week on here if you want fun POF is the way and most on here are on there."
They get as much interest on pof. Its a terrible site for men as too many fake profiles on there. So I wouldn't really promote it. Maybe dating sites like tinder where you both have to be matched with to chat to each other |
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By *niper oneMan
over a year ago
DERBY/Notts border |
"Hi
Im struggling to attract any women for nsa fun so I wondered if you could critique my profile and offer any suggestions for improvements?
But if you like it come and talk!"
Mate its easier on POF and the end products the same if not better you could have the best profile in the world and it dont mean jack.Even women you wouldnt look at twice in town on a saturday night get 1000s of messages a week on here if you want fun POF is the way and most on here are on there. |
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I’ve not been able to attract a woman on here, to be honest. But the ladies have the absolute pick of the place (there are fewer of them, after all) and, I say, all power to them!
Thankfully, being bisexual means I still get to have fun (even if i, ultimately, swing more towards women), but if 5’ 11”, athletic build, full head of hair and a nice-looking dick (if I do say do myself) doesn’t cut it, thems the breaks.
And, frankly, having seen some of the double-hung Adonises on here - with veris that would make Casanova green with envy - it’s no bad thing to realise one’s standing. I mean, they score better than me for a very good reason, hahaha. Just have to accept this is how things stand, or work double hard to woo. |
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"Hi
Im struggling to attract any women for nsa fun so I wondered if you could critique my profile and offer any suggestions for improvements?
But if you like it come and talk!"
You asked the same thing 37 weeks ago. Green arrow  |
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"I’ve not been able to attract a woman on here, to be honest. But the ladies have the absolute pick of the place (there are fewer of them, after all) and, I say, all power to them!
Thankfully, being bisexual means I still get to have fun (even if i, ultimately, swing more towards women), but if 5’ 11”, athletic build, full head of hair and a nice-looking dick (if I do say do myself) doesn’t cut it, thems the breaks.
And, frankly, having seen some of the double-hung Adonises on here - with veris that would make Casanova green with envy - it’s no bad thing to realise one’s standing. I mean, they score better than me for a very good reason, hahaha. Just have to accept this is how things stand, or work double hard to woo. "
this made looooool so much |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Meet women up to age 99 really.. Shows us ladies your not fussy
No really attention to detail
1 photo.
To me.. Lacks interest or effort.
Remember it's fab not instant sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try this on your profile instead
Since I came to be alive the world's first test tube baby was born, scientists discovered a hole in the ozone layer, DNA was used to convict criminals, the Berlin Wall was torn down, South Africa overturned apartheid laws, a sheep was cloned, the World Wide Web developed and the human genome sequence was deciphered.
All I want is for someone to touch my cock. |
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"Try this on your profile instead
Since I came to be alive the world's first test tube baby was born, scientists discovered a hole in the ozone layer, DNA was used to convict criminals, the Berlin Wall was torn down, South Africa overturned apartheid laws, a sheep was cloned, the World Wide Web developed and the human genome sequence was deciphered.
All I want is for someone to touch my cock."
and it's a leap year so make the women do the work of chasing and stop giving off desperate undertones , it's not attractive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your profile is short with only 1 photo. To us it lacks any effort spells laziness, which then leads us onto thinking they would also be lazy in bed. A little effort goes a long way."
i dont get that comparison lazy writing a profile lazy in bed but so many say it, it has no foundation some people don't have the imagination or inclination to write words about themselves, some see it as arrogant and self absorbing but i certainly don't get the comparison lazy in bed lol |
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"Lack of pics, not much information. "
That is not always the answer as my profile has pictures in nice locations. I have also been to four socials and I have not had any luck also. Just giving my profile as example. I have also written plenty about myself and what I am looking for as well. I don’t know what makes a profile that attracts women or couples. |
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"We struggle to find genuine people .. or are we expecting too much "
What struggle to find single men?. I would jump at the chance to hopefully go on a few dates with a couple and would be reliable. I would also not expect sex just a kiss if the lady didn’t mind? |
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"Lack of pics, not much information.
That is not always the answer as my profile has pictures in nice locations. I have also been to four socials and I have not had any luck also. Just giving my profile as example. I have also written plenty about myself and what I am looking for as well. I don’t know what makes a profile that attracts women or couples. "
There also has to be attraction and we read profile to see if you are what we are looking for and if we cant find it in your profile we move on no way am I going to ask as most men put on their profile to get dragged into a convo to find im not intersted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You need to be a halibut on the fish counter. Not a sardine.
(Hey, got bored, with the usual lines, so mixed the metaphors up a little, sue me!! )"
What a fantastic metaphor |
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By *inky pixieWoman
over a year ago
sourh midlands worcestershire |
"Hi
Im struggling to attract any women for nsa fun so I wondered if you could critique my profile and offer any suggestions for improvements?
But if you like it come and talk!"
Shame you have taken the advice of others! (Swipe left) |
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