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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Can you help me get more interest please as I’m really struggling getting replies and hardly any messages.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because like all women on this site, you're either a fake or a lesbian

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By *ed-monkeyCouple  over a year ago

Hailsham


"Because like all women on this site, you're either a fake or a lesbian "

Or a fake lesbian

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Easy, get your tits ou... oh...

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By *uciyassMan  over a year ago

sheffield

Really. I find that very hard to believe Come on cluster you know you got the boys interest. Roll the dice and see what else is out there. A guy in a dress still has the equipment as does an 18 year old with serious mummy fantasies

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By *uciyassMan  over a year ago

sheffield


"Easy, get your tits ou... oh..."

This

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan  over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Put the arctic roll pic back or, grab muffin & take a new pic

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By * Sophie xTV/TS  over a year ago

Derby

There must be something wrong at your end as messages are sending, there is still one unread in my list.

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS  over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

A close-up lips-spread-wide muff shot should do the trick

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By *partharmonyCouple  over a year ago

Ruislip

Are you honestly telling us that you'd shag a 45-year-old?

(Hoping you would.)

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"There must be something wrong at your end as messages are sending, there is still one unread in my list."

I currently have 1,329 unread messages. Unless I get it when I’m online and it’s at the top it will just get lost.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There must be something wrong at your end as messages are sending, there is still one unread in my list.

I currently have 1,329 unread messages. Unless I get it when I’m online and it’s at the top it will just get lost. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I wouldn’t say interest is the issue here. Not your profile.

It’s more the bombardment of messages you receive over shadowing potential people.

Maybe mass delete, take a look at some profiles and if it says they’ve messaged you, take a look and message them first instead

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By *uciyassMan  over a year ago

sheffield


"There must be something wrong at your end as messages are sending, there is still one unread in my list.

I currently have 1,329 unread messages. Unless I get it when I’m online and it’s at the top it will just get lost. "

Quick every one message cluster. Nows our time to strike

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There must be something wrong at your end as messages are sending, there is still one unread in my list.

I currently have 1,329 unread messages. Unless I get it when I’m online and it’s at the top it will just get lost.

Quick every one message cluster. Nows our time to strike "

For the hoard!

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By *affeine DuskMan  over a year ago

Caerphilly


"There must be something wrong at your end as messages are sending, there is still one unread in my list.

I currently have 1,329 unread messages. Unless I get it when I’m online and it’s at the top it will just get lost.

Quick every one message cluster. Nows our time to strike

For the hoard! "

#10kbytheendofday

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can you help me get more interest please as I’m really struggling getting replies and hardly any messages. "

Hmmm...maybe you need to be a bit more specific about what you want. It’s very vague, so guys may think you’re fake.

Obviously fake pics- no tattoo on two of them- come on now! If you’re going to steal pics, use the same woman! No one will believe that you’ve had a tattoo done since too of them, way too obvious an excuse.

Can’t help re the replies, it could just be that you’re not what they want. Try not to take it to heart. Men are bombarded with messages by women. Accept it and move on.

Feel free to ask me any questions for more advice xx

Good luck, takes times, maybe look at other profiles, more successful ones, get some pointers? Lol xx

xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can you help me get more interest please as I’m really struggling getting replies and hardly any messages.

Hmmm...maybe you need to be a bit more specific about what you want. It’s very vague, so guys may think you’re fake.

Obviously fake pics- no tattoo on two of them- come on now! If you’re going to steal pics, use the same woman! No one will believe that you’ve had a tattoo done since too of them, way too obvious an excuse.

Can’t help re the replies, it could just be that you’re not what they want. Try not to take it to heart. Men are bombarded with messages by women. Accept it and move on.

Feel free to ask me any questions for more advice xx

Good luck, takes times, maybe look at other profiles, more successful ones, get some pointers? Lol xx

xx"

Two, not too! Ah! xx

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By * Sophie xTV/TS  over a year ago

Derby


"There must be something wrong at your end as messages are sending, there is still one unread in my list.

I currently have 1,329 unread messages. Unless I get it when I’m online and it’s at the top it will just get lost. "

Jesus! I dont even want to think what half of those are, males are blocked for that very reason.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Also, block single males for a period of time while you catch up and filter through some of the messages you have.

That will stop it blowing up too much while you have a chance to filter.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A close-up lips-spread-wide muff shot should do the trick "

That’s great advice! I think that could be what I’m also doing wrong tbh. Off to see if can find a mirror to practice my poses xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You need to add that bit about Sydney University, only genuine Fabbers have that, obviously

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You need to add that bit about Sydney University, only genuine Fabbers have that, obviously "

Again something I didn’t think of, I’m glad I stopped by this thread, as I’m learning stuff too! Thanks for y he great advice xx

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By *andyBlax_XLMan  over a year ago

Mansfield


"Can you help me get more interest please as I’m really struggling getting replies and hardly any messages.

Hmmm...maybe you need to be a bit more specific about what you want. It’s very vague, so guys may think you’re fake.

Obviously fake pics- no tattoo on two of them- come on now! If you’re going to steal pics, use the same woman! No one will believe that you’ve had a tattoo done since too of them, way too obvious an excuse.

Can’t help re the replies, it could just be that you’re not what they want. Try not to take it to heart. Men are bombarded with messages by women. Accept it and move on.

Feel free to ask me any questions for more advice xx

Good luck, takes times, maybe look at other profiles, more successful ones, get some pointers? Lol xx

xx"

True sweet and accurate

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By *iddlesticksMan  over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"There must be something wrong at your end as messages are sending, there is still one unread in my list.

I currently have 1,329 unread messages. Unless I get it when I’m online and it’s at the top it will just get lost. "

I have 1 and I sent it to myself to see if the system was broken.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan  over a year ago

Okehampton

Too much text. Not enough clunge

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS  over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

You have to remember that there are 50 women for every man on here so men are in massive demand and get 100s of messages per day. You need to make your profile stand out from the crowd.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Can you help me get more interest please as I’m really struggling getting replies and hardly any messages.

Hmmm...maybe you need to be a bit more specific about what you want. It’s very vague, so guys may think you’re fake.

Obviously fake pics- no tattoo on two of them- come on now! If you’re going to steal pics, use the same woman! No one will believe that you’ve had a tattoo done since too of them, way too obvious an excuse.

"

Re the tattoos. I actually have had two new tattoos in the last 8 weeks, 1 at the beginning of December, the one under my boobs was the 23rd of December.

Look a bit closer and you’ll notice that the rose tattoo on my collarbone is consistently there as I’ve had that for over 10 years.

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS  over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port


"A close-up lips-spread-wide muff shot should do the trick

That’s great advice! I think that could be what I’m also doing wrong tbh. Off to see if can find a mirror to practice my poses xx"

Yep the wider the better in my experience. Then take 50 pictures of it all from slightly different angles and post them all

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By *enn68Man  over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Can you help me get more interest please as I’m really struggling getting replies and hardly any messages. "

You have no cake pictures!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can you help me get more interest please as I’m really struggling getting replies and hardly any messages.

Hmmm...maybe you need to be a bit more specific about what you want. It’s very vague, so guys may think you’re fake.

Obviously fake pics- no tattoo on two of them- come on now! If you’re going to steal pics, use the same woman! No one will believe that you’ve had a tattoo done since too of them, way too obvious an excuse.

Re the tattoos. I actually have had two new tattoos in the last 8 weeks, 1 at the beginning of December, the one under my boobs was the 23rd of December.

Look a bit closer and you’ll notice that the rose tattoo on my collarbone is consistently there as I’ve had that for over 10 years. "

Lol, I’m well aware hon, I’m a tattoo addict, my response is in jest, as there’s no way you’re struggling to get messages etc. You know exactly what you want and don’t compromise, never a bad thing! xx

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By *hilloutMan  over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"There must be something wrong at your end as messages are sending, there is still one unread in my list.

I currently have 1,329 unread messages. Unless I get it when I’m online and it’s at the top it will just get lost. "

The joys of being a page 1 woman on fab. You know you love it

Block all men from messaging you and do some proactive hunting. Problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A close-up lips-spread-wide muff shot should do the trick

That’s great advice! I think that could be what I’m also doing wrong tbh. Off to see if can find a mirror to practice my poses xx

Yep the wider the better in my experience. Then take 50 pictures of it all from slightly different angles and post them all "

Interesting! Should I wait until I’ve grown some hair down there? Shave half off, so then I appeal to twice as many people? Best of both worlds- hairy and smooth! Lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Can you help me get more interest please as I’m really struggling getting replies and hardly any messages.

Hmmm...maybe you need to be a bit more specific about what you want. It’s very vague, so guys may think you’re fake.

Obviously fake pics- no tattoo on two of them- come on now! If you’re going to steal pics, use the same woman! No one will believe that you’ve had a tattoo done since too of them, way too obvious an excuse.

Re the tattoos. I actually have had two new tattoos in the last 8 weeks, 1 at the beginning of December, the one under my boobs was the 23rd of December.

Look a bit closer and you’ll notice that the rose tattoo on my collarbone is consistently there as I’ve had that for over 10 years.

Lol, I’m well aware hon, I’m a tattoo addict, my response is in jest, as there’s no way you’re struggling to get messages etc. You know exactly what you want and don’t compromise, never a bad thing! xx"

I know but some actually do say that about the tattoos that’s why I need to get anything older than 8 weeks off really.

Right confirmation pic next with all current tattoos, I’ll pick a theme that’s currently trending in the news. Corona virus. Watch. This. Space.

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Can you help me get more interest please as I’m really struggling getting replies and hardly any messages.

Hmmm...maybe you need to be a bit more specific about what you want. It’s very vague, so guys may think you’re fake.

Obviously fake pics- no tattoo on two of them- come on now! If you’re going to steal pics, use the same woman! No one will believe that you’ve had a tattoo done since too of them, way too obvious an excuse.

Re the tattoos. I actually have had two new tattoos in the last 8 weeks, 1 at the beginning of December, the one under my boobs was the 23rd of December.

Look a bit closer and you’ll notice that the rose tattoo on my collarbone is consistently there as I’ve had that for over 10 years.

Lol, I’m well aware hon, I’m a tattoo addict, my response is in jest, as there’s no way you’re struggling to get messages etc. You know exactly what you want and don’t compromise, never a bad thing! xx

I know but some actually do say that about the tattoos that’s why I need to get anything older than 8 weeks off really.

Right confirmation pic next with all current tattoos, I’ll pick a theme that’s currently trending in the news. Corona virus. Watch. This. Space. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A close-up lips-spread-wide muff shot should do the trick

That’s great advice! I think that could be what I’m also doing wrong tbh. Off to see if can find a mirror to practice my poses xx

Yep the wider the better in my experience. Then take 50 pictures of it all from slightly different angles and post them all

Interesting! Should I wait until I’ve grown some hair down there? Shave half off, so then I appeal to twice as many people? Best of both worlds- hairy and smooth! Lol xx"

Sorry for hijacking post, but this could benefit everyone. Your post could be the one that saves all women from empty message boxes and lack of profile interest, lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can you help me get more interest please as I’m really struggling getting replies and hardly any messages.

Hmmm...maybe you need to be a bit more specific about what you want. It’s very vague, so guys may think you’re fake.

Obviously fake pics- no tattoo on two of them- come on now! If you’re going to steal pics, use the same woman! No one will believe that you’ve had a tattoo done since too of them, way too obvious an excuse.

Re the tattoos. I actually have had two new tattoos in the last 8 weeks, 1 at the beginning of December, the one under my boobs was the 23rd of December.

Look a bit closer and you’ll notice that the rose tattoo on my collarbone is consistently there as I’ve had that for over 10 years.

Lol, I’m well aware hon, I’m a tattoo addict, my response is in jest, as there’s no way you’re struggling to get messages etc. You know exactly what you want and don’t compromise, never a bad thing! xx

I know but some actually do say that about the tattoos that’s why I need to get anything older than 8 weeks off really.

Right confirmation pic next with all current tattoos, I’ll pick a theme that’s currently trending in the news. Corona virus. Watch. This. Space. "

That will be from the guys with pics years out of date and probably a rebuttal as you’re not interested in them!

Ooo! You going to be making Haz masks look sexy? xx

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By *antric ecstasyMan  over a year ago

Co Durham

I'm too old and too far away...

Your interests are quite niche though I can't see many men objecting - or sleeping through it! C'mon guys, drop CF a line!

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan  over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...


"There must be something wrong at your end as messages are sending, there is still one unread in my list.

I currently have 1,329 unread messages. Unless I get it when I’m online and it’s at the top it will just get lost.

I have 1 and I sent it to myself to see if the system was broken. "

Don't open this message , probably a dick pic .

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Your profile lacks evidence of your head scarf and scrubbing brush. A pic of a nice steaming cup of tea would create a stampede to your box.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Seriously OP?

You've got to be kidding me!

You're hot as fuck!

Have you checked your filters? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I’m just joking. Seriously, don’t send messages. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You need to get some dick pics in your profile ... hard, angry, bright red penis's...they will come flocking...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 07/02/20 12:30:21]

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I’m just joking. Seriously, don’t send messages. Thanks. "

. You know most guys don't read.

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By *asmeenTV/TS  over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Can you help me get more interest please as I’m really struggling getting replies and hardly any messages. "

No

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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Get a photo of you cooking a roast up (full works no skimping). That should do it.

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Get a photo of you cooking a roast up (full works no skimping). That should do it."

To be fair - even a pot noodle would probably work.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

That profile pic is brilliant

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land

Love the new profile pic

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yep!! Looking hot!! xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Just fucking about I am. Will take it off soon.

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By *on a MangerMan  over a year ago

somerset/Bristol


"Can you help me get more interest please as I’m really struggling getting replies and hardly any messages. "

I think you are quite bonkers... if 1329 messages isnt a lot of interest or messages...what were you hoping for?

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan  over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

First time we get to see your eyes .

I read many of your post and he'll they put a smile on my face almost every day .

Have said this the last time on the "bio change thread"

And this time get it into you head

Woman !!

You have so much humour in you and waste lines of profile on advice for man that can be found on the forum

Where are the lines like "was used to having sex on tap" from original profile ha?

Fuck the extended advice , extend the about me part with your cheeky self

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan  over a year ago

Northampton

You know I likes you

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By *andyBlax_XLMan  over a year ago

Mansfield


"Just fucking about I am. Will take it off soon. "
brilliant profile pic

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Just fucking about I am. Will take it off soon. brilliant profile pic

"

Thanks

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By *oiluvfunMan  over a year ago

Penrith


"Can you help me get more interest please as I’m really struggling getting replies and hardly any messages. "

3 meets in 6 months is doing far better than the vast majority in here

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