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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't know why this surprises people
If you want to find someone to meet regularly with, I imagine you need to click with them on more than just a sexual level.
How often does that happen in real life, never mind in a smaller pool like here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it so hard in Norfolk to find a regular? Anyone else having this problem?"
Male half of the couple looking for a regular friend as well it's hard work with way to many timewasters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know why this surprises people
If you want to find someone to meet regularly with, I imagine you need to click with them on more than just a sexual level.
How often does that happen in real life, never mind in a smaller pool like here"
This ^^^ though a fb (fuckbuddy) does require sex not so much a friendship lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know why this surprises people
If you want to find someone to meet regularly with, I imagine you need to click with them on more than just a sexual level.
How often does that happen in real life, never mind in a smaller pool like here
This ^^^ though a fb (fuckbuddy) does require sex not so much a friendship lol "
really a fb requires sex omg thats where ive been going wrong...... what a relief    |
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Pretty much echo what everyone else has said.
Too many either don’t bother to show or become arrogant and starting messing about thinking they can do what they want because they have met more than once.
Seems difficult to find a sane, sensible male that is capable of meeting for filthy fun on a regular basis.
Although Mrs is now looking for a regular female for filthy regular fun!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Pretty much echo what everyone else has said.
Too many either don’t bother to show or become arrogant and starting messing about thinking they can do what they want because they have met more than once.
Seems difficult to find a sane, sensible male that is capable of meeting for filthy fun on a regular basis.
Although Mrs is now looking for a regular female for filthy regular fun!
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A lot seem to say they no the lifestyle but actually don’t the seem to think that we on here a desperate for sex but that’s not the case we are looking for that extra spice x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can understand men finding it difficult to get regular FWB/ FB meets as the ratio is about 150 to 1 ...but ladies, you must be inundated with offers. "
Offers of sex but a fb/bwf needs a connection that isn't straight forward to find in any situation, has to be a two way thing plus "most" (generalisation) seem to be only interested in sexual hook ups and nothing more in my experience on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can understand men finding it difficult to get regular FWB/ FB meets as the ratio is about 150 to 1 ...but ladies, you must be inundated with offers.
Offers of sex but a fb/bwf needs a connection that isn't straight forward to find in any situation, has to be a two way thing plus "most" (generalisation) seem to be only interested in sexual hook ups and nothing more in my experience on here "
Sorry, yes I see what you mean...I ment more as in there must be quite a few to choose from. I think the desirable guys that seem the most popular here, don't want to settle down as they have the pick of the women on here as they do in the world outside Fab. Plus I think quite a few of the " single" ones are married or in relationships. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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You need to all come to Nottingham, centre of the FAB universe
We have proper motorways, WiFi and lots of sexy people within 1 hours drive. East is very tough , Bristol is too in our experience, but East and West Midlands, Cambridge and London seem busy |
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"Regulars are a bit like unicorns...."
They are rare and your unicorn would be even rarer. Love your profile and pictures, but you're looking for a guy who is prepared to put in a lot of time, energy, consideration and emotion for.....oh. To be a sort-of boyfriend who gets put in storage whenever it suits. All the investment, half the usual payoff.
Tough call. It may be worth it, but I can't see that being what the majority of people are looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it so hard in Norfolk to find a regular? Anyone else having this problem?
It's hard up here to find any interation at all.
Bet Orkney is impossible  "
Sadly so. Properly active female profiles number in single figures, with well more than 100 males. There are a few more, but ones that have been inactive for months. So of course, unless you're young, hung, single and beard-free, the odds are slim. |
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"Why is it so hard in Norfolk to find a regular? Anyone else having this problem?
It's hard up here to find any interation at all.
Bet Orkney is impossible
Sadly so. Properly active female profiles number in single figures, with well more than 100 males. There are a few more, but ones that have been inactive for months. So of course, unless you're young, hung, single and beard-free, the odds are slim."
And I thought I had it bad  |
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Would it not be a case of perhaps attending clubs, socials or parties and seeing who you click with. Regular faces means active swingers. If you meet the same body a few times in the party social scene you can then extend it away from the party scene to be more personable and regular meet.
Just a thought.... |
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I’ve tried this by regular club outings ... going to regular monthly events at the club I attend ... no success ... the males I’ve met just want to meet for that event and that’s it ... they don’t want a long term thing .... I wouldn’t expect them just to meet me ... but seems it’s impossible  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve tried this by regular club outings ... going to regular monthly events at the club I attend ... no success ... the males I’ve met just want to meet for that event and that’s it ... they don’t want a long term thing .... I wouldn’t expect them just to meet me ... but seems it’s impossible "
I'm surprised tbh. I expected things would be a doddle "down south". Didn't realise.
A long-term partner in crime would be ideal - geography can be a bitch tho |
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"I’ve tried this by regular club outings ... going to regular monthly events at the club I attend ... no success ... the males I’ve met just want to meet for that event and that’s it ... they don’t want a long term thing .... I wouldn’t expect them just to meet me ... but seems it’s impossible
I'm surprised tbh. I expected things would be a doddle "down south". Didn't realise.
A long-term partner in crime would be ideal - geography can be a bitch tho"
I know .... that’s another issue as well location ... you get on communicate etc but they are miles away I shall become a nun ... might adopt a dog that keep me busy ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve tried this by regular club outings ... going to regular monthly events at the club I attend ... no success ... the males I’ve met just want to meet for that event and that’s it ... they don’t want a long term thing .... I wouldn’t expect them just to meet me ... but seems it’s impossible
I'm surprised tbh. I expected things would be a doddle "down south". Didn't realise.
A long-term partner in crime would be ideal - geography can be a bitch tho
I know .... that’s another issue as well location ... you get on communicate etc but they are miles away I shall become a nun ... might adopt a dog that keep me busy ha ha "
Nun might help - let's face it, if any media reports are to be believed, priests get more than most of us lol.
They surely can't *all* just chase altar boys... |
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"I’ve tried this by regular club outings ... going to regular monthly events at the club I attend ... no success ... the males I’ve met just want to meet for that event and that’s it ... they don’t want a long term thing .... I wouldn’t expect them just to meet me ... but seems it’s impossible "
The vast majority of men on this site are here because they want no strings sex and most of them have unknowing wives or girlfriends. Hence the number of men who want a quasi boyfriend relationship is tiny.
Conversely, women are bombarded with offers of no strings sex and thus tend to want something more meaningful.
As ever, it's men wanting just the meeting of genitals and women wanting more.
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"I can understand men finding it difficult to get regular FWB/ FB meets as the ratio is about 150 to 1 ...but ladies, you must be inundated with offers. "
It’s not about the offers, for every 100 messages we get, 5 might have bothered to read our profile, then of those, 2 might have strung a sensible message together and then maybe 1 we might reply to and generally that fizzles out into nothing. |
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We too are finding those 1 or 2 couples we want to trike a friendship and playtime with to have them as regulars.
The search continues and we'll locate them eventually we're sure.
And yes, a read of our profile is a must as a lot of messages pass over our key desires  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looking for a regular friend unfortunately I’m in more then one place. Wiltshire, Berkshire, Surrey and in between but it seem to be out of there age ranges. Or just no comebacks. |
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By *m3232Man
over a year ago
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"I don't like to "tar everyone with the same brush" however, what I've found is, the thrill is in the chase. Once someone has what they want, they lose interest."
It’s not like that for me. You gain so much more fun and enjoyment on both side the more you meet. Where you can’t do that on a single meet. |
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"I don't like to "tar everyone with the same brush" however, what I've found is, the thrill is in the chase. Once someone has what they want, they lose interest.
It’s not like that for me. You gain so much more fun and enjoyment on both side the more you meet. Where you can’t do that on a single meet. "
Exactly! It's so much fun getting to know someone's quirks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am the opposite don’t want anything regular. Get called a ‘timewaster’ on the regular for it.
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You a time waster? ..Lol ..I've been called a fake recently.  |
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By *m3232Man
over a year ago
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"I don't like to "tar everyone with the same brush" however, what I've found is, the thrill is in the chase. Once someone has what they want, they lose interest.
It’s not like that for me. You gain so much more fun and enjoyment on both side the more you meet. Where you can’t do that on a single meet.
Exactly! It's so much fun getting to know someone's quirks."
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By *ogglesMan
over a year ago
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"Why is it so hard in Norfolk to find a regular? Anyone else having this problem?"
I'd happily be a regular and travel to meet you but I'm outside your age range.
It's the same down here in essex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bristol is the same, OP.
100% agree, very frustrating. "
I’m Between Bristol and bath so change my location when I want.
I haven’t found this problem. Had one regular for a year until he turnt into a regular tool and Iv already met another bloke who Iv seen 3 time’s already and wants to continue and only sleep with each other. |
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