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Couple having zero luck
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So we are getting very close to saying goodbye to fab and the swinging world as we have had no luck arranging a meet. All we seem to get aproached by are single men who think they are gods gift or men who are way older . Seems that no one reads the profile bios either .
Basically after some advice on what to do. Is it us or is it just the crazy amount of men to single women and couples ratio on here |
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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago
Kidderminster |
"So we are getting very close to saying goodbye to fab and the swinging world as we have had no luck arranging a meet. All we seem to get aproached by are single men who think they are gods gift or men who are way older . Seems that no one reads the profile bios either .
Basically after some advice on what to do. Is it us or is it just the crazy amount of men to single women and couples ratio on here "
Shame your to far away. |
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I suggest you use your mail filters to prevent people from outside your age range from contacting you, that would solve one of your problems. Alternatively block everyone from contacting you then search for the profiles that genuinely interest you and contact them yourself.  |
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we have tried contacting other couples ect and generally either get patched off or the chat goes stale , we have thought of trying mmf so that's not a no and we have travelled a few hours to meets before so distance doesn't deter us . just begging to lose faith in it all . is it because we are too young |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"just begging to lose faith in it all . is it because we are too young "
We'd meet you if you were local to us, a couple of years since we were last in the borders. We find that on here we go through periods where things are crazy and then periods where nothing happens. Are you messaging others or waiting for them to come to you? We've had very little contacts from couples the past few months. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it really hard to believe that the OP is having trouble meeting males as she like hot 
Couples might be more difficult because you are trying to match 4 people’s likes and dislikes.
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Judging by your veris it seems like you're either too busy or too picky. You have quite a lot of people saying they'd love to meet again. Are you not following up or not interested?
Weve had way more club meets than home meets. Play at clubs because it's just easier for us than to plan dates and times with one person /couple that might not work out.
If it's down to pickiness then that's fine. We keep high standards and we're very picky but we accept that it means we will have less meets than others who are less picky. |
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I think that your age will be a barrier for many on herd OP.
However, if you have a more mature outlook you will have more choices in a club.
Its hard to find 4 way attraction, so clubs are a great option for couples. |
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We have tried meeting again hut usualy get ghosted . For example we have cancelled shifts ect plenty of times to then get ignored after organising meetings. The same has happened to us again tonight. |
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"As for everyone that says we must have guys aproaching us . Yes thats true but we are not hardened swingers and dint just sleep woth everyone . We need to find then attractive to an extent "
I think you will find that most people need to be attracted to people they plan to have sex with.
Do you have sex chat with prospective meets?
If so, it may be that is all they were really after, especially guys.
I would maybe look back at those who have cancelled last minute or ghosted and see if you can find a common denominator, that might suggest where you're going wrong.
Best of luck. |
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Well the guy we had arranged to meet this evening tried telling us his car had broken down he sent us a pic and we image searched it like we do with all funny situatioms and it turns out he had taken a picture from google and tried claiming it as his own. This is what we are up against. No wonder why people are leaving in droves |
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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago
Plymouth |
From fab itself we've met 2 couples. The rest have been at parties or repeat meets fro. Said parties if you get me.
It's not an instant thing it takes time. We find round here finding couples that will meet couples is getting harder. Most couples want to meet just me the female (at one point all our messages for weeks were just that!).
We send out winks and mail but rarely get replies. We mostly look for couples like us with a bi female. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's the same for us all, think we've met and played with one female purely off Fab, the rest have been via clubs.
This place is next to useless, we certainly won't be paying any more fivers. |
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